Attracting a lot of Caps lately...

I've been smitten with this Cap for 7 months now, it started off as something just sexual, I developed feelings for him, I tried to fight it because there was no use I was moving from the east coast to the west coast. So when I was getting ready to leave I just said goodbye and pushed him away, he let it happen but I couldn't get him off of my mind, we had amazing sex, and we got a long just fine. Before I started my cross country drive I admitted my feelings for him, to my surprise he took it very well, but as time went on he started showing signs of selfishness and I grew impatient and stopped talking to him, (this was after I had moved) after about two weeks he sent me sexual things on snap, I texted him and said I wasn't interested in him sexually anymore and I could tell that fucked with him a little. A few days afterwards he text me telling me he still looks and beats off to my pictures. Then proceeds to try to win me over again, and even admits to liking me back. My only question is how do I know it's for real?

Posted by Capri-sun
How do you know what is for real?

How do I know he is serious? Because we don't even live on the same coast anymore, why not just leave the space between us?

Posted by ParisianCappy
imo i think it's kind of over

Elaborate please

Posted by ScorpioTruth
It sounds like he likes fucking you, but I wouldn't necessarily read too much further into it. He hasn't made any declarations of feelings, he just said he's beating off to your pictures which is pretty typical of men behavior.

He admitted to liking me, I'm not trying to read too much into it, that's part of the reason why I posted. I kinda just wanted people from the outside looking in to kinda reassure what I was already feeling, of course this is the short version of all of this. Just wouldn't understand why go through the trouble ya know?

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Posted by Capri-sun
How do you know what is for real?

How do I know he is serious? Because we don't even live on the same coast anymore, why not just leave the space between us?

That's why I'm curious why you're questioning this. Realistically you 2 live on opposite coasts how is a relationship feasible? So the follow-up question to that is why does it matter if he is serious or not? What will it change?

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Oh I know a relationship is unrealistic at this point, it's not like I'm trying to trap him into a long distance relationship. And all of that is my same point if I know that a relationship is unrealistic and he knows it as well why keep bothering with me? That's what I am trying to figure out. Because saying the man has pussy thrown at him everyday would be an understatement. He has no problem getting women. Why continue to talk to me when we don't even live on the same coast anymore?

You said you're not interested in him sexually anymore, so I guess you're not too smitten with him at this point? Is this an ego thing for you? You want him to still want you even though the relationship is dead in the water?

Or do you want us to tell you that he has serious feelings for you now and distance shouldn't matter?

I don't think you want the relationship to be over. I think you want to believe that he's more than just getting his residual attraction to you out of his system before he moves on.

In my opinion, he's just having a little fun with you. Maybe dude doesn't get as much pussy as you think.

your title said attracting "a lot of caps" but it seems like you only have one? 😕

When guys fvk, and ejaculate often, they can lose feelings quickly...the sex is an addiction, and sooner or later they lose interest...because they lose the most precious parts of their being....but feelings can develop and your minds may be compatible...

Oh and Caps have Pluto lighting their fire right now....which house is cap in your chart?

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Posted by bricklemark
When guys fvk, and ejaculate often, they can lose feelings quickly...the sex is an addiction, and sooner or later they lose interest...because they lose the most precious parts of their being....but feelings can develop and your minds may be compatible...

Oh and Caps have Pluto lighting their fire right now....which house is cap in your chart?

What does this mean

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Pluto's in cap....18 deg specifically

Posted by Bricks195
You said you're not interested in him sexually anymore, so I guess you're not too smitten with him at this point? Is this an ego thing for you? You want him to still want you even though the relationship is dead in the water?

Or do you want us to tell you that he has serious feelings for you now and distance shouldn't matter?

I don't think you want the relationship to be over. I think you want to believe that he's more than just getting his residual attraction to you out of his system before he moves on.

In my opinion, he's just having a little fun with you. Maybe dude doesn't get as much pussy as you think.

We were never in a relationship, I wasn't sexually attracted to him anymore because I was the one who caught feelings that I wasn't supposed to have first and that's when I first put distance between us cause I didn't want to be that girl.

Again we were never in a relationship nor talking about getting into one, it was supposed to be sexual that was all, that's why I am confused to as why he even said the things he has said now if it was just supposed to be sexual.

Posted by whatisthisallabout
your title said attracting "a lot of caps" but it seems like you only have one? 😕

Nope theres another that is wwwwaaaayyyy more into me then I am into him and it's because he is really bad in bed and I'm not the teacher type in that category, I know I have to teach a guy what I like but not how to have sex period. I know my strengths and weaknesses I know that sounds shallow but it's the truth.

Posted by bricklemark
When guys fvk, and ejaculate often, they can lose feelings quickly...the sex is an addiction, and sooner or later they lose interest...because they lose the most precious parts of their being....but feelings can develop and your minds may be compatible...

Oh and Caps have Pluto lighting their fire right now....which house is cap in your chart?

Cap is in my 6th house

Posted by whatisthisallabout
your title said attracting "a lot of caps" but it seems like you only have one? 😕

And before that there was another one that I just stopped talking to because I was just uninterested, he was boring, as I have found most caps are except for the one in the first post and the one with the bad sex, those two are the most fun, really bubbly personalities like to play and joke a lot but still know how to just accept the silence when there is silence.

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Posted by whatisthisallabout
your title said attracting "a lot of caps" but it seems like you only have one? 😕

Nope theres another that is wwwwaaaayyyy more into me then I am into him and it's because he is really bad in bed and I'm not the teacher type in that category, I know I have to teach a guy what I like but not how to have sex period. I know my strengths and weaknesses I know that sounds shallow but it's the truth.

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I see. I know cap men take a lot of pride in being good in bed. A cap I was invovled with told me he used to be bad when he was in his 20s, but he did some kind of trianing with a guru and got really good at it.

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Posted by whatisthisallabout
your title said attracting "a lot of caps" but it seems like you only have one? 😕

And before that there was another one that I just stopped talking to because I was just uninterested, he was boring, as I have found most caps are except for the one in the first post and the one with the bad sex, those two are the most fun, really bubbly personalities like to play and joke a lot but still know how to just accept the silence when there is silence.

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most cap men I know are boring as well....

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Posted by bricklemark
When guys fvk, and ejaculate often, they can lose feelings quickly...the sex is an addiction, and sooner or later they lose interest...because they lose the most precious parts of their being....but feelings can develop and your minds may be compatible...

Oh and Caps have Pluto lighting their fire right now....which house is cap in your chart?

Cap is in my 6th house

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Maybe it's close enough to your 7th house that it concerns your relationships...or it's more of a collegue thing...

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Posted by KingPinky


We were never in a relationship, I wasn't sexually attracted to him anymore because I was the one who caught feelings that I wasn't supposed to have first and that's when I first put distance between us cause I didn't want to be that girl.

Again we were never in a relationship nor talking about getting into one, it was supposed to be sexual that was all, that's why I am confused to as why he even said the things he has said now if it was just supposed to be sexual.

Because you brought it up.

Posted by KingPinky
I've been smitten with this Cap for 7 months now, it started off as something just sexual, I developed feelings for him, I tried to fight it because there was no use I was moving from the east coast to the west coast. So when I was getting ready to leave I just said goodbye and pushed him away, he let it happen but I couldn't get him off of my mind, we had amazing sex, and we got a long just fine. Before I started my cross country drive I admitted my feelings for him, to my surprise he took it very well, but as time went on he started showing signs of selfishness and I grew impatient and stopped talking to him, (this was after I had moved) after about two weeks he sent me sexual things on snap, I texted him and said I wasn't interested in him sexually anymore and I could tell that fucked with him a little. A few days afterwards he text me telling me he still looks and beats off to my pictures. Then proceeds to try to win me over again, and even admits to liking me back. My only question is how do I know it's for real?

How about stop playing games?

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I didn't bring it up he came at me with it after not speaking for a few weeks, that's when I told him that.

I'm not playing any games I told him how I felt first and still continue to do so. But I'm not going to be hounding him when he told me he likes me but isn't ready for a relationship number 1 and number 2 there's too much distance. If he knew all of this way before admitting he liked me back, when we weren't speaking why not just let it be? Why keep adding fuel to the fire?

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Posted by bricklemark
When guys fvk, and ejaculate often, they can lose feelings quickly...the sex is an addiction, and sooner or later they lose interest...because they lose the most precious parts of their being....but feelings can develop and your minds may be compatible...

Oh and Caps have Pluto lighting their fire right now....which house is cap in your chart?

Cap is in my 6th house

Maybe it's close enough to your 7th house that it concerns your relationships...or it's more of a collegue thing...

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Idk but Venus retrograde is kicking my ass right now, like it's crazy, got reconnected with my older cousin I hadn't spoken to since I was lik 10 and I found my father...I never knew him growing up. But that's another story.

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Posted by bricklemark
When guys fvk, and ejaculate often, they can lose feelings quickly...the sex is an addiction, and sooner or later they lose interest...because they lose the most precious parts of their being....but feelings can develop and your minds may be compatible...

Oh and Caps have Pluto lighting their fire right now....which house is cap in your chart?

Cap is in my 6th house

Maybe it's close enough to your 7th house that it concerns your relationships...or it's more of a collegue thing...

Idk but Venus retrograde is kicking my ass right now, like it's crazy, got reconnected with my older cousin I hadn't spoken to since I was lik 10 and I found my father...I never knew him growing up. But that's another story.

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Aries in 9th house? Travel and spirituality....maybe smth to do with it.

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Posted by Bricks195
You said you're not interested in him sexually anymore, so I guess you're not too smitten with him at this point? Is this an ego thing for you? You want him to still want you even though the relationship is dead in the water?

Or do you want us to tell you that he has serious feelings for you now and distance shouldn't matter?

I don't think you want the relationship to be over. I think you want to believe that he's more than just getting his residual attraction to you out of his system before he moves on.

In my opinion, he's just having a little fun with you. Maybe dude doesn't get as much pussy as you think.

We were never in a relationship, I wasn't sexually attracted to him anymore because I was the one who caught feelings that I wasn't supposed to have first and that's when I first put distance between us cause I didn't want to be that girl.

Again we were never in a relationship nor talking about getting into one, it was supposed to be sexual that was all, that's why I am confused to as why he even said the things he has said now if it was just supposed to be sexual.

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Maybe he's as confused as I am.

He likes to have sex with u & he knows nothing can come out of the two of u cuz u live so far away from each other .. he's just having fun flirting

Posted by SofiaV87
He likes to have sex with u & he knows nothing can come out of the two of u cuz u live so far away from each other .. he's just having fun flirting

Ok thank you that's what I thought! Sheesh ??‍♀️

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When guys fvk, and ejaculate often, they can lose feelings quickly...the sex is an addiction, and sooner or later they lose interest...because they lose the most precious parts of their being....but feelings can develop and your minds may be compatible...

Oh and Caps have Pluto lighting their fire right now....which house is cap in your chart?

Cap is in my 6th house

Maybe it's close enough to your 7th house that it concerns your relationships...or it's more of a collegue thing...

Idk but Venus retrograde is kicking my ass right now, like it's crazy, got reconnected with my older cousin I hadn't spoken to since I was lik 10 and I found my father...I never knew him growing up. But that's another story.

Aries in 9th house? Travel and spirituality....maybe smth to do with it.

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Nope pisces ?

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Posted by bricklemark
When guys fvk, and ejaculate often, they can lose feelings quickly...the sex is an addiction, and sooner or later they lose interest...because they lose the most precious parts of their being....but feelings can develop and your minds may be compatible...

Oh and Caps have Pluto lighting their fire right now....which house is cap in your chart?

Cap is in my 6th house

Maybe it's close enough to your 7th house that it concerns your relationships...or it's more of a collegue thing...

Idk but Venus retrograde is kicking my ass right now, like it's crazy, got reconnected with my older cousin I hadn't spoken to since I was lik 10 and I found my father...I never knew him growing up. But that's another story.

Aries in 9th house? Travel and spirituality....maybe smth to do with it.

Nope pisces ?

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Oh god...so Venus is in your 10th house right now? Well that's your father isnt it??!....

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When guys fvk, and ejaculate often, they can lose feelings quickly...the sex is an addiction, and sooner or later they lose interest...because they lose the most precious parts of their being....but feelings can develop and your minds may be compatible...

Oh and Caps have Pluto lighting their fire right now....which house is cap in your chart?

Cap is in my 6th house

Maybe it's close enough to your 7th house that it concerns your relationships...or it's more of a collegue thing...

Idk but Venus retrograde is kicking my ass right now, like it's crazy, got reconnected with my older cousin I hadn't spoken to since I was lik 10 and I found my father...I never knew him growing up. But that's another story.

Aries in 9th house? Travel and spirituality....maybe smth to do with it.

Nope pisces ?

Oh god...so Venus is in your 10th house right now? Well that's your father isnt it??!....

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Rising: Leo

II: Leo

III: Virgo

IV: Libra

V: Sag

VI: Cap

VII: Aquarius

VIII: Aquarius

IX: Picies

Midhaven: Aries

XI: Gemini

XII: Cancer

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When guys fvk, and ejaculate often, they can lose feelings quickly...the sex is an addiction, and sooner or later they lose interest...because they lose the most precious parts of their being....but feelings can develop and your minds may be compatible...

Oh and Caps have Pluto lighting their fire right now....which house is cap in your chart?

Cap is in my 6th house

Maybe it's close enough to your 7th house that it concerns your relationships...or it's more of a collegue thing...

Idk but Venus retrograde is kicking my ass right now, like it's crazy, got reconnected with my older cousin I hadn't spoken to since I was lik 10 and I found my father...I never knew him growing up. But that's another story.

Aries in 9th house? Travel and spirituality....maybe smth to do with it.

Nope pisces ?

Oh god...so Venus is in your 10th house right now? Well that's your father isnt it??!....

Rising: Leo

II: Leo

III: Virgo

IV: Libra

V: Sag

VI: Cap

VII: Aquarius

VIII: Aquarius

IX: Picies

Midhaven: Aries

XI: Gemini

XII: Cancer

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MC, midheaven or 10th house cusp, that represents authority figures, your father, or reputation. So that makes sense. Venus brings something pleasant, and retro from the past.

Posted by KingPinky
I've been smitten with this Cap for 7 months now, it started off as something just sexual, I developed feelings for him, I tried to fight it because there was no use I was moving from the east coast to the west coast. So when I was getting ready to leave I just said goodbye and pushed him away, he let it happen but I couldn't get him off of my mind, we had amazing sex, and we got a long just fine. Before I started my cross country drive I admitted my feelings for him, to my surprise he took it very well, but as time went on he started showing signs of selfishness and I grew impatient and stopped talking to him, (this was after I had moved) after about two weeks he sent me sexual things on snap, I texted him and said I wasn't interested in him sexually anymore and I could tell that fucked with him a little. A few days afterwards he text me telling me he still looks and beats off to my pictures. Then proceeds to try to win me over again, and even admits to liking me back. My only question is how do I know it's for real?

" Libra sun w/ Virgo moon" This.

@Capri-Sun