Things we learned from dating Caps (Dos and Don'ts)

Hi Caps and those that care for them! Let's share some advice and experiences, hopefully we can help each other. I'll start.. Do - give them alone time and do your own thing. They seem to always understand and respect if it's work related.
SunMoonStars
female
SagiSun, AquaRising, LeoMoon, LibraMars+Venus
Hi Caps and those that care for them!

Let's share some advice and experiences, hopefully we can help each other.

I'll start..

Do

- give them alone time and do your own thing. They seem to always understand and respect if it's work related.
- handle with gentle care in the morning. Let them have coffee first. Mine takes about an hour to warm up.
- pay attention to how they make requests of you, and mirror that.
- joke around with them, they need a laugh!
Yes
30 years old male from Philippines
BORN perfect
Don't be a Cancer
SunMoonStars
female
SagiSun, AquaRising, LeoMoon, LibraMars+Venus
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Joke around with them but not about them yes.
Do something for them every now and then but make it consistent.
Don't date them cause they're boring ?


LOL!

Thanks for the advice

How long did you make it with yours?
SunMoonStars
female
SagiSun, AquaRising, LeoMoon, LibraMars+Venus
Posted by Yes
Don't be a Cancer


Why not?
SunMoonStars
female
SagiSun, AquaRising, LeoMoon, LibraMars+Venus
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Make sure you have ???
They love the smell of greens lol



Sorry, I cannot see the graphic..make sure you have...?
tnmnt
25 years old male
Cancer Sun, Capricorn Moon, Virgo Rising - INTJ
Keep a very slow pace & don't rush things
SalamanderCandy
Leo ✗❥ Aquarius Rising
Do-
-Have your own hobbies.
-Have your own fire and not get so serious just because they seem serious. They LOOOVE fun.

Don't-
-Slave over them. Even if they don't love you, they'll keep you as a pet and still call you a girlfriend for amusement and convenience.
-be TOO available. They tend to get unamused if they think they don't have to climb higher for you. (But don't take advantage of that either).
From my experience, if they get taken advantage of, they take it out on someone else and push away those that are good for them. It really doesn't help you and you'd hurt them for a lifetime.

I've dated 3 capricorns
Two of them were one of the sweetest ever. One was one of the best or THE best..

but one of them was a real scumbag...who happened to be a capricorn. I say this because he cheated a lot. (And I didn't find out until the end so, )
SalamanderCandy
Leo ✗❥ Aquarius Rising
Posted by ParisianCappy
Posted by SalamanderCandy
Do-
-Have your own hobbies.
-Have your own fire and not get so serious just because they seem serious. They LOOOVE fun.

Don't-
-Slave over them. Even if they don't love you, they'll keep you as a pet and still call you a girlfriend for amusement and convenience.
-be TOO available. They tend to get unamused if they think they don't have to climb higher for you. (But don't take advantage of that either).
From my experience, if they get taken advantage of, they take it out on someone else and push away those that are good for them. It really doesn't help you and you'd hurt them for a lifetime.

I've dated 3 capricorns
Two of them were one of the sweetest ever. One was one of the best or THE best..

but one of them was a real scumbag...who happened to be a capricorn. I say this because he cheated a lot. (And I didn't find out until the end so, )


i havnt seem salamandercandy seems so long, i never know that she dates capricorn
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Hello! ^^ yeah I love that sign xD hahah.
But if I meet someone new, I'll take them in as a completely different person than anyone before, though.

SunMoonStars
female
SagiSun, AquaRising, LeoMoon, LibraMars+Venus
Posted by SalamanderCandy
Do-
-Have your own hobbies.
-Have your own fire and not get so serious just because they seem serious. They LOOOVE fun.

Don't-
-Slave over them. Even if they don't love you, they'll keep you as a pet and still call you a girlfriend for amusement and convenience.
-be TOO available. They tend to get unamused if they think they don't have to climb higher for you. (But don't take advantage of that either).
From my experience, if they get taken advantage of, they take it out on someone else and push away those that are good for them. It really doesn't help you and you'd hurt them for a lifetime.

I've dated 3 capricorns
Two of them were one of the sweetest ever. One was one of the best or THE best..

but one of them was a real scumbag...who happened to be a capricorn. I say this because he cheated a lot. (And I didn't find out until the end so, )


Great advice, thanks!

Curious to know (if you don't mind sharing), with the scumbag - was there any indication or red flags that he was cheating. Hindsight is 20/20 as they say!
LoisLane
female
Pisces sun/moon with Cap stellium
I'll think of more, but

Don't be over-emotional around them
Don't drink too much
Do NOT cry. You might as well look for comfort from a cactus.
Always be nice to them
Ask them lots of questions and be interested in their professional life
SunMoonStars
female
SagiSun, AquaRising, LeoMoon, LibraMars+Venus
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by SunMoonStars
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Make sure you have ???
They love the smell of greens lol



Sorry, I cannot see the graphic..make sure you have...?


Dollars ?
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Haha, yeah, I can see this.

Do you think Cap men want a sugar mama??
SunMoonStars
female
SagiSun, AquaRising, LeoMoon, LibraMars+Venus
Posted by LoisLane
I'll think of more, but

Don't be over-emotional around them
Don't drink too much
Do NOT cry. You might as well look for comfort from a cactus.
Always be nice to them
Ask them lots of questions and be interested in their professional life


Thanks! I especially agree with the comfort part and the always be nice to them. They are SO sensitive sometimes.

SamCancerGirl
female
Great thread!!
SunMoonStars
female
SagiSun, AquaRising, LeoMoon, LibraMars+Venus
Do

- realize that sometimes Caps can dish it out, but cannot take it back!!

- drop hints about what you want rather than flat out say (unless they ask you)

- show them how serious you can be

- practice cultivating silence. I don't think Caps like chatterboxes or be used as a sounding board.

SunMoonStars
female
SagiSun, AquaRising, LeoMoon, LibraMars+Venus
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Oh yea since they like being in control make them think they're the boss even if they aren't. Lol


How can I do that??
Subtlety is a bit of a weakness for me...

TY!

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