Things we learned from dating Caps (Dos and Don'ts)

Hi Caps and those that care for them! Let's share some advice and experiences, hopefully we can help each other. I'll start.. Do - give them alone time and do your own thing. They seem to always understand and respect if it's work related.
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  • SunMoonStars
    SagiSun, AquaRising, LeoMoon, LibraMars+Venus
    female
    Hi Caps and those that care for them!

    Let's share some advice and experiences, hopefully we can help each other.

    I'll start..

    Do

    - give them alone time and do your own thing. They seem to always understand and respect if it's work related.
    - handle with gentle care in the morning. Let them have coffee first. Mine takes about an hour to warm up.
    - pay attention to how they make requests of you, and mirror that.
    - joke around with them, they need a laugh!
  • Yes
    BORN perfect
    30 years old male from Philippines
    Don't be a Cancer
  • SunMoonStars
    SagiSun, AquaRising, LeoMoon, LibraMars+Venus
    female
    Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
    Joke around with them but not about them yes.
    Do something for them every now and then but make it consistent.
    Don't date them cause they're boring ?


    LOL!

    Thanks for the advice smile

    How long did you make it with yours?
  • SunMoonStars
    SagiSun, AquaRising, LeoMoon, LibraMars+Venus
    female
    Posted by Yes
    Don't be a Cancer


    Why not? smile
  • SunMoonStars
    SagiSun, AquaRising, LeoMoon, LibraMars+Venus
    female
    Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
    Make sure you have ???
    They love the smell of greens lol



    Sorry, I cannot see the graphic..make sure you have...?
  • SalamanderCandy
    Leo ✗❥ Aquarius Rising
    Do-
    -Have your own hobbies.
    -Have your own fire and not get so serious just because they seem serious. They LOOOVE fun.

    Don't-
    -Slave over them. Even if they don't love you, they'll keep you as a pet and still call you a girlfriend for amusement and convenience.
    -be TOO available. They tend to get unamused if they think they don't have to climb higher for you. (But don't take advantage of that either).
    From my experience, if they get taken advantage of, they take it out on someone else and push away those that are good for them. It really doesn't help you and you'd hurt them for a lifetime.

    I've dated 3 capricorns
    Two of them were one of the sweetest ever. One was one of the best or THE best..

    but one of them was a real scumbag...who happened to be a capricorn. I say this because he cheated a lot. (And I didn't find out until the end so, )
  • SalamanderCandy
    Leo ✗❥ Aquarius Rising
    Posted by ParisianCappy
    Posted by SalamanderCandy
    Do-
    -Have your own hobbies.
    -Have your own fire and not get so serious just because they seem serious. They LOOOVE fun.

    Don't-
    -Slave over them. Even if they don't love you, they'll keep you as a pet and still call you a girlfriend for amusement and convenience.
    -be TOO available. They tend to get unamused if they think they don't have to climb higher for you. (But don't take advantage of that either).
    From my experience, if they get taken advantage of, they take it out on someone else and push away those that are good for them. It really doesn't help you and you'd hurt them for a lifetime.

    I've dated 3 capricorns
    Two of them were one of the sweetest ever. One was one of the best or THE best..

    but one of them was a real scumbag...who happened to be a capricorn. I say this because he cheated a lot. (And I didn't find out until the end so, )


    i havnt seem salamandercandy seems so long, i never know that she dates capricorn
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    Hello! ^^ yeah I love that sign xD hahah.
    But if I meet someone new, I'll take them in as a completely different person than anyone before, though.

  • SunMoonStars
    SagiSun, AquaRising, LeoMoon, LibraMars+Venus
    female
    Posted by SalamanderCandy
    Do-
    -Have your own hobbies.
    -Have your own fire and not get so serious just because they seem serious. They LOOOVE fun.

    Don't-
    -Slave over them. Even if they don't love you, they'll keep you as a pet and still call you a girlfriend for amusement and convenience.
    -be TOO available. They tend to get unamused if they think they don't have to climb higher for you. (But don't take advantage of that either).
    From my experience, if they get taken advantage of, they take it out on someone else and push away those that are good for them. It really doesn't help you and you'd hurt them for a lifetime.

    I've dated 3 capricorns
    Two of them were one of the sweetest ever. One was one of the best or THE best..

    but one of them was a real scumbag...who happened to be a capricorn. I say this because he cheated a lot. (And I didn't find out until the end so, )


    Great advice, thanks!

    Curious to know (if you don't mind sharing), with the scumbag - was there any indication or red flags that he was cheating. Hindsight is 20/20 as they say!
  • LoisLane
    Pisces sun/moon with Cap stellium
    female
    I'll think of more, but

    Don't be over-emotional around them
    Don't drink too much
    Do NOT cry. You might as well look for comfort from a cactus.
    Always be nice to them
    Ask them lots of questions and be interested in their professional life
  • SunMoonStars
    SagiSun, AquaRising, LeoMoon, LibraMars+Venus
    female
    Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
    Posted by SunMoonStars
    Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
    Make sure you have ???
    They love the smell of greens lol



    Sorry, I cannot see the graphic..make sure you have...?


    Dollars ?
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    Haha, yeah, I can see this.

    Do you think Cap men want a sugar mama??
  • SunMoonStars
    SagiSun, AquaRising, LeoMoon, LibraMars+Venus
    female
    Posted by LoisLane
    I'll think of more, but

    Don't be over-emotional around them
    Don't drink too much
    Do NOT cry. You might as well look for comfort from a cactus.
    Always be nice to them
    Ask them lots of questions and be interested in their professional life


    Thanks! I especially agree with the comfort part smile and the always be nice to them. They are SO sensitive sometimes.

  • SamCancerGirl
    female
    Great thread!!
  • SunMoonStars
    SagiSun, AquaRising, LeoMoon, LibraMars+Venus
    female
    Do

    - realize that sometimes Caps can dish it out, but cannot take it back!!

    - drop hints about what you want rather than flat out say (unless they ask you)

    - show them how serious you can be

    - practice cultivating silence. I don't think Caps like chatterboxes or be used as a sounding board.

  • SunMoonStars
    SagiSun, AquaRising, LeoMoon, LibraMars+Venus
    female
    Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
    Oh yea since they like being in control make them think they're the boss even if they aren't. Lol


    How can I do that??
    Subtlety is a bit of a weakness for me... Sad

    TY!

  • SunMoonStars
    SagiSun, AquaRising, LeoMoon, LibraMars+Venus
    female
    Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
    Posted by SunMoonStars
    Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
    Oh yea since they like being in control make them think they're the boss even if they aren't. Lol


    How can I do that??
    Subtlety is a bit of a weakness for me... Sad

    TY!



    I was just joking lol it's either you let em be in control or you don't.
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    Haha smile

    Why does it seem hard to believe that a Scorp (not you specifically) relinquished control to anyone?

    You must have really respected those Caps!

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