Cap guy wants to take me to a wedding but wouldn't tell me when was his last GF?

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There was a mix up in an invitation he received. So he missed the wedding, I said hey it might have been a good thing and now you get to see me! He goes if the mix up didn't happen I would have take you with me.

I knew he wasn't joking, we never had the boyfriend and girlfriend talk though. I had to ask what was his intention last date and he was like idk then he finally say he is looking for love.

He also teased me and say oh you couldn't fall asleep when you were with your ex? I didn't know what to say. Then I asked when was your last gF? he said I can't remeber when I'm wtih you I don't wanna think of them.
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Posted by StrawberryJam
There was a mix up in an invitation he received. So he missed the wedding, I said hey it might have been a good thing and now you get to see me! He goes if the mix up didn't happen I would have take you with me.

I knew he wasn't joking, we never had the boyfriend and girlfriend talk though. I had to ask what was his intention last date and he was like idk then he finally say he is looking for love.

He also teased me and say oh you couldn't fall asleep when you were with your ex? I didn't know what to say. Then I asked when was your last gF? he said I can't remeber when I'm wtih you I don't wanna think of them.
Need more info.. just sounds like regular flirting to me
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I guess we got exclusive before... @SofiaV87 he did tell me on second date that I'm the only one he is dating from the site. I didn't take what he said seriously. Last week we talked about it he said he is not dating or looking or meeting other people and I said I'm the same.

My question wasn't very clear LOL I was just surprise he wants to take me to a wedding just after 6 dates over 3 months. I know he meant it as he asked me to go overseas with him on third date.

He is usually very open about his past but last night he didn't want to tell me when was his last which I find weird.
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Sounds like his last relationship wasn't a good one or the breakup ended badly, which is why he doesn't want to be reminded of it. My Cap is also very open when I ask a question about his past. He has asked me about my previous relationship that I am not ready to discuss and respects that. Maybe for this particular case your cap needs more time to open up.

And congrats to you and your cap being exclusive! 🙂
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@dannymc I need your help to decode him again, please thanks!
@virgorean said it. PS you better go to that wedding 🙂 I'm watching lol
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oh the wedding is already past, I saw him on Sat and the wedding happened on Sat. but the invitation he recevied is for next sat... basically a mix up from the bride.

He was just upset he was left out. I told him I don';t think bride did that on purpose. Also its good so we can see each other before he flies out. He said if there was no mix up he would have take me as a plus one.

He is overseas now. He is not texting as much but still one text a day.. which is good. Can't wait to see him
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@dannymc Brother I'm just curious about what is your thought on this.. not sure if I'm overthinking.. I wonder if he wants me to post photos about him on my instagram? We never took photos together but he wanted me to take pics of our dinner and say I know you like food photo.

After I took the photo I sent them to him. I mean from my experience I know that if a guy is into you he would have post it himself... I had my pisces ex claiming he never post photos of girls but he did for his long term crush.

Long story short I'm not sure if he was trying to see if I will post photos and tag him? If he doesn't do the same I will feel rejected.. what is the best way to do it? Also my trip to see him is in a week... I;m not sure if I should take photos with him? or let him do it himself?
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@dannymc Brother I'm just curious about what is your thought on this.. not sure if I'm overthinking.. I wonder if he wants me to post photos about him on my instagram? We never took photos together but he wanted me to take pics of our dinner and say I know you like food photo.

After I took the photo I sent them to him. I mean from my experience I know that if a guy is into you he would have post it himself... I had my pisces ex claiming he never post photos of girls but he did for his long term crush.

Long story short I'm not sure if he was trying to see if I will post photos and tag him? If he doesn't do the same I will feel rejected.. what is the best way to do it? Also my trip to see him is in a week... I;m not sure if I should take photos with him? or let him do it himself?


"but he wanted me to take pics of our dinner" well there's your answer to that one lol. I had a girl that I was super in love with once that I couldn't post anything on SM about for a while because of a stalker ex who needed a slooooooowwwww let down.. we took tons of pics together though..