cap sun Venus aqua

OK I keep hearing bad things in terms of love and dating with the cap suns Venus aquas. I just met one and I am kinds starting yo like him. We had sex and afterwards he compliments me and tells me he hopes I wasn't bored. Im not sure what he wants from me as we haven't talked a week after that happened. So how are they? Am I screwed?

Waiting with Britney...

Yep...anyone please?

Britney,

I've been thinking about this.. If this guy has been talking to you for a year consistently, and not treating you like just another acquaintance or contact, then he really likes you.

I don't talk to someone for more than a couple months, unless I like them. I'll know after that amount of time which category they're going into. If I do continue talking to someone that I'm not romantically into, then it's staying in touch every few months or so, at the most.

So... Bottom line... I think he really likes you. Just maybe check in with him so he knows you're still interested, then let him come to you. But you do have to show that you want him, by reaching out.

@nostalgicappy



I know he left town for the 4th July , and I don't want to attack him with texts because Men act different after sex and they need "space". He usually always is the first to text. I will wait a little more than reach out. I just don't understand cap.men as this is my first one. Haha

I am Cap sun /Aqua venus, female.

I don't waste time on people if I dont want anything to do with them. I think he does like you, but you also have to reciprocate/show us you care and are interested, or else we'll think you're not into us as much as we are into you...then we'll start to fade away so to not make a fool of ourselves.

Posted by britneybabe26
@nostalgicappy



I know he left town for the 4th July , and I don't want to attack him with texts because Men act different after sex and they need "space". He usually always is the first to text. I will wait a little more than reach out. I just don't understand cap.men as this is my first one. Haha

We do Love our space, but just be careful. If you give us too much, we'll fly away and onto the next thing. Out of sight, out of mind.

I think you should go with Cheeky's idea.

Posted by K_1018
Does he also have moon in Aqua?

He has moon in Sagittarius

Posted by britneybabe26
@nostalgicappy



I know he left town for the 4th July , and I don't want to attack him with texts because Men act different after sex and they need "space". He usually always is the first to text. I will wait a little more than reach out. I just don't understand cap.men as this is my first one. Haha

See if I have to be the first to text or initiate all the time, that would irritate me and shows me they don't think/care/interested about me enough to even text a simple message. Why would I waste my time on that person then....like Nostalgic said space is good, just not too much bcuz it shows you're not interested....so naturally we lose our interest and options open.

@greentea yeah but thing is we spoke for a year never met at that time and we just saw each other on person now. We met through social media, but he was with a girl then. He would be flirty most of the time that's why I didn't want to meet him. I told him to stop talking with me and he did for 6 months and bam he contacted me again apologizing and saying he's not with the girl anymore and wants to start fresh. I thought about it for while and I agreed to meet. Then we had sex and so I'm thinking he wants fwb maybe.

@cheekyfaerie its only been a week thou

Posted by britneybabe26
We had sex and afterwards he compliments me and tells me he hopes I wasn't bored.

Why does he think you were bored?

@vixen2



I don't understand sorry

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by britneybabe26
We had sex and afterwards he compliments me and tells me he hopes I wasn't bored.

Why does he think you were bored?

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Because he wasn't drinking. I had 2 glasses of wine. He texted me 2 mins after I left saying that. Of course I texted back telling him he was cool and I complimented him. He wrote back you are delicious and I sent him a kiss.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by britneybabe26
We had sex and afterwards he compliments me and tells me he hopes I wasn't bored.

Why does he think you were bored?

Because he wasn't drinking. I had 2 glasses of wine. He texted me 2 mins after I left saying that. Of course I texted back telling him he was cool and I complimented him. He wrote back you are delicious and I sent him a kiss.

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Lol ok. Here I was thinking your o face looks the same as your sleeping face.

@ladyneptune hahahahahahahaha

@vixen2

A OK 😉

Aries sun, Aqua Venus here ... Text him & don't wait too long. If you want more then show that you're into him. If you don't text then he may think all you want is sex.

@sofiaV87

OK I will text him happy 4th of July then

Posted by cheekyfaerie
So why not send him a happy 4th text and say you hope you guys can get together again when he gets back?

Yeah I will text him on the fourth then

@sofiaV87

Also why wouldn't he say hi first? To set something up?

Posted by britneybabe26
@sofiaV87

Also why wouldn't he say hi first? To set something up?

He's busy doing his thing. I wouldn't look into it too much. Did he have these plans before you had sex with him?

@sofiaV87

Yes when we were getting dressed he said should have date 2 but nothing specific when. Walked me out the door to the taxi kissed me and slapped my butt and told me to let him know if I got home safe. Then 2 mins after he texted me saying that was fun! You are bad with devil emojis and smooth and delicious.

@sofiaV87 ohhh you said before....sorry..yeah he kept asking to meet. At first I ignored his advances but I kept in touch. He would text me 90% of the time and me 10% so I'm used to him doing it since this is the beginning.

Posted by britneybabe26
@sofiaV87

Yes when we were getting dressed he said should have date 2 but nothing specific when. Walked me out the door to the taxi kissed me and slapped my butt and told me to let him know if I got home safe. Then 2 mins after he texted me saying that was fun! You are bad with devil emojis and smooth and delicious.

Just text him & be careful. There's a possibility he might be looking for a FWB only since he was in a previous relationship not too long ago. You will know what's up soon enough.

@sofiaV87

Yeah that's what I'm thinking too. Thanks

Anyone else ?

Ok thanks so much!

Well I don't think he's that serious about me...I see social media (we follow each other) he's back and with a friend that happens to be a girl on the beach but zero texts for me :-/ whatever I think its a bad idea for me to text first

Posted by britneybabe26
Well I don't think he's that serious about me...I see social media (we follow each other) he's back and with a friend that happens to be a girl on the beach but zero texts for me :-/ whatever I think its a bad idea for me to text first

What's your sun sign?

The thing is you haven't laid out what you want from him ..he could think this is all you want too. I mean, you haven't even said anything to him since right?

If it meant more than just good sex then you should show it...amd from the looks of it you're not. So, you're sitting here wondering too.

@greentea

I'm a Gemini, Leo Moon, Aries Venus

True I haven't said anything since we talked that night. Its been a week 2 days. So I should send him a happy 4 the text?

Posted by britneybabe26
@greentea

I'm a Gemini, Leo Moon, Aries Venus

True I haven't said anything since we talked that night. Its been a week 2 days. So I should send him a happy 4 the text?

Yes, but he'll probably also be wondering what you've been up to all this time not contacting him at all. Seems to me, he's reached out to you, probed more to see what youre thinking, given more of himself than you have towards him.

I think you should reach out but this time keep the games out of it. If you want to see him, then tell him, otherwise he'll fade out and focus on someone who puts forth more effort. Everybody likes a little mystery but that shit gets old when you like someone. See my point.

@greentea

He didn't reach out to me this week. Last time we spoke was after we slept together and he texted me right after.

I just said before we had sex he was first to text, and now so far nothing.

@cheekyfaerie

You know why I'm like this? I did this with a Cancer boy. I texted him first only to have him choose someone else instead of me, that's why I don't want to make that mistake again. I don't want to be the one who's coming of as clingy, or chasing him. I mean what if this Cap just wanted a ONS? I don't want to be foolish but then again I don't give a fuq and I should have this attitude.

Posted by britneybabe26
@greentea

He didn't reach out to me this week. Last time we spoke was after we slept together and he texted me right after.

I just said before we had sex he was first to text, and now so far nothing.

Ah..nothing since that night huh? ... hmmm, thats a different story then... also did you indicate that you'd like to see eachother again during conversation?

It might seem to him that maybe you weren't into him as much as he was into you. He did come back and wamt to start over, so he probably felt like he had to pull teeth to see if you wanted more, see him again, etc.

Do what feels right, but I see miscommunication happen all the time in this pairing. I've never dated a Gem or was romantically involved with them, but I see it all the time in my friendships with them, too different.

@greentea

The convo was flirty. He did mention we need to see each other again, but the convo was only him complimenting me and telling me that he hopes I didn't think he was boring because he didnt drink. Of course I said no, he was cool and other compliments.

Yes I know what you mean about miss communication but im so used to the Man texting first if he REALLY wants to see me. I mean He chased me even when I told him I don't want to meet him because he did suggest to me all he wants is fwb situation, but I gave in haha and now I'm just wondering is that it? Or he will text me for booty calls only

Posted by britneybabe26
@greentea

The convo was flirty. He did mention we need to see each other again, but the convo was only him complimenting me and telling me that he hopes I didn't think he was boring because he didnt drink. Of course I said no, he was cool and other compliments.

Yes I know what you mean about miss communication but im so used to the Man texting first if he REALLY wants to see me. I mean He chased me even when I told him I don't want to meet him because he did suggest to me all he wants is fwb situation, but I gave in haha and now I'm just wondering is that it? Or he will text me for booty calls only

You have your answer Britney. Good luck to you honey.

Set expectations with him and men before sleeping with them, if they ever bring up fwb or not...unless you're ok with that of course.

@greentea

He never really said fwb but was talking about sex a lot.

Thank you... Btw I like green tea :-)

When a guy brings up sex a lot, it's usually imo, indicative of searching for a fwb. Major turn off and should be shut down immediately if you're not into it.

I don't think Caps try to rush things sexually when they are serious about someone - correct me if I'm wrong. Tbh, I think it makes them question a person's character and bothers them, if sex is given up easily.

I may have missed it, but what are you looking to get out of this with him?

@sunmoonstars

Well he has been chasing me over a year so we finally had sex. I don't think I gave myself that easily? I don't mind being fwb with him as I am not attracted to him to fall in love kind of way. Maybe I would fall for him but right now I have no emotion's for him. So you are saying he got turned off that I gave him sex? So the compliment texting after doesn't mean anything?

He's not texting me as of yet thou. I don't think I should be the one to? I'm confused actually if I should text

@sunmoonstars

Oh I forgot to say he was speaking to me when he had a g/f and even proposing a threesome with them. I said hell no and get away from me. He stopped contacting me and again he came back after he broke it off with his girl.

So yeah to text him or not?

Posted by britneybabe26
@greentea

He never really said fwb but was talking about sex a lot.

Thank you... Btw I like green tea :-)

See this is what I'm talking about with miscommunication. I never get the full story upfront with Gems. Lol

So he never mentioned fwb, but talks about sex a lot. Obviously he wants to have sex with you. That was your cue to tell him or indicate to him what you're looking for and back it up with your actions, again. Depending on what you want, you set the tone in how the relationship starts and progresses.

Yes, Cap men (men in general) like to flirt talk about sex. However, it's up to you again to set the tone.

When I was in high school, a senior there was a Cap (his birthday was mid Jan, I remember and I wasn't in too astrology then) we would talk on the phone but he would bring up and talk about sex ALL the time, being flirty, etc. So I had to let him go on his merry way. I knew he was just trying to bed me, and that wasn't going to happen.

I didn't see the purpose in continuing whatever it was we were doing.

Posted by Foreverloveme

Posted by Greentea

Posted by britneybabe26
@greentea

He never really said fwb but was talking about sex a lot.

Thank you... Btw I like green tea :-)

See this is what I'm talking about with miscommunication. I never get the full story upfront with Gems. Lol

So he never mentioned fwb, but talks about sex a lot. Obviously he wants to have sex with you. That was your cue to tell him or indicate to him what you're looking for and back it up with your actions, again. Depending on what you want, you set the tone in how the relationship starts and progresses.

Yes, Cap men (men in general) like to flirt talk about sex. However, it's up to you again to set the tone.

When I was in high school, a senior there was a Cap (his birthday was mid Jan, I remember and I wasn't in too astrology then) we would talk on the phone but he would bring up and talk about sex ALL the time, being flirty, etc. So I had to let him go on his merry way. I knew he was just trying to bed me, and that wasn't going to happen.

I didn't see the purpose in continuing whatever it was we were doing.

What are you suppose to talk about besides sex— ? lol

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He was just an 18 year old horn dog. High school what can you say. Ha!

I was talking with another Cap years later, he was a friend but not a close one.

He liked me and I was considering dating him at one point, and we'd talk about sex in a flirting way which was fun and enjoyable 😛 ...it was definitely not the main topic of our discussions though. He's the one who came back some time later and told me he would be better for me than the guy I started dating at the time.

Just 2 very different scenarios by Cap men.

@foreverloveme



Thanks

@vixen2



Yeah I know

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Posted by Greentea

Posted by britneybabe26
@greentea

He never really said fwb but was talking about sex a lot.

Thank you... Btw I like green tea :-)

See this is what I'm talking about with miscommunication. I never get the full story upfront with Gems. Lol

So he never mentioned fwb, but talks about sex a lot. Obviously he wants to have sex with you. That was your cue to tell him or indicate to him what you're looking for and back it up with your actions, again. Depending on what you want, you set the tone in how the relationship starts and progresses.

Yes, Cap men (men in general) like to flirt talk about sex. However, it's up to you again to set the tone.

When I was in high school, a senior there was a Cap (his birthday was mid Jan, I remember and I wasn't in too astrology then) we would talk on the phone but he would bring up and talk about sex ALL the time, being flirty, etc. So I had to let him go on his merry way. I knew he was just trying to bed me, and that wasn't going to happen.

I didn't see the purpose in continuing whatever it was we were doing.

What are you suppose to talk about besides sex— ? lol

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Work, money, future? :-p