Cap Women i Need Some Answers

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Aquarius213
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I am an aquarius lets get that out the way first.

It started off this cap girl from around my way would always stare at me wherever we saw each other,but it wasnt a regular stare she would stare at me as if she wanted to attack me in a good way Lol. I thought it was funny but i never approached her or even tried to start a convo with her.

So in November One day she dm's me on snapchat asking if i wanted to chill.. I said yeah.

We begin seeing each other every night. Everything is good.

Great conversations make out sessions all that type of stuff. We basically did everything except have actual sex Lol.

Remember we started "talking" in november.

Months going by everything is still great. Im not even worried about sex becuase i started to develop real feelings for her. Strong feelings..

But everytime i brought up the topic of us getting seroius and getting into a relationship she would tell me thats not what shes looking for right now. I was cool with that answer.

Her reason was because her last boyfriend broke her heart and plus she just wasnt looking for that right now.

I was fine with that.

Late march me and her get into our first real argument and some ugly things were said. We took 2-3 weeks off but then i hit her up to chill again she said yea and everything was back to good again.

A couple weeks ago we get into another argument about the same thing this time its even uglier. I give her space.

So last week i go on her facebook page and it seems she already has a new BOYFRIEND..

After all those months of her telling me she's not trying to be in a relationship with ANYONE.

Im not going to lie it hurt.

So now im on here asking u guys (cap women) what do you think about this situation?? Im stuck in the middle between thinking i came on too strong or maybe she's just a whore who was playing me the whole time.

Answers please

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CaptainCoulter
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Lol they gonna be testing your ass forever so you really ain't gonna know for sure.
Hush lol
Lol yea jealousy card is part of the game ?
Ew maybe when I was like 20. I'm far beyond that now.?
Lol in this case It's best to move on and find someone else.
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Yeah for sure. Caps will test you , scorps do you to potato calling the kettle tomato
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Posted by MissLadyIceQueen
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Posted by MissLadyIceQueen
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Lol they gonna be testing your ass forever so you really ain't gonna know for sure.
Hush lol
Lol yea jealousy card is part of the game ?
Ew maybe when I was like 20. I'm far beyond that now.?
lol age has nothing to do with it getting old is mandatory growing up is optional.
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Words or real wisdom.
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CaptainCoulter
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Posted by MissLadyIceQueen
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by MissLadyIceQueen
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by MissLadyIceQueen
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Lol they gonna be testing your ass forever so you really ain't gonna know for sure.
Hush lol
Lol yea jealousy card is part of the game ?
Ew maybe when I was like 20. I'm far beyond that now.?
lol age has nothing to do with it getting old is mandatory growing up is optional.
Words or real wisdom.
lol it's true just cause someone's a lil older it doesn't mean they're not playing the same ol game just generally speaking.

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You're so right. I knew you were generally speaking no worries ?
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Posted by MissLadyIceQueen
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by MissLadyIceQueen
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by MissLadyIceQueen
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Lol they gonna be testing your ass forever so you really ain't gonna know for sure.
Hush lol
Lol yea jealousy card is part of the game ?
Ew maybe when I was like 20. I'm far beyond that now.?
Lol in this case It's best to move on and find someone else.

Yeah for sure. Caps will test you , scorps do you to potato calling the kettle tomato


Lol im not saying caps are bad lol
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I know that lol. I'm just teasing you back.
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dude you need more money to handle Cap woman.

be a Dwarf for a year. collect, collect and collect.
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*I'm a Cap female and there's an Aqua male chasing me...and he has the dough, a lot if it. He bragged to me once about how much money he makes a year. We are friends but he claims he's in love with me. He will ask me if I need cash and I will tell him no.

We're not all after money. I feel uncomfortable when he flaunts his money and all his cars. Yet, I do like his Indy Corvette car collection...that I can't deny. Haha.

But my standards won't allow me to take advantage of him in that way. ?

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Aquarius213
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*Hmmm? If she didn't like you why would she be making out with you? As a Cap female I won't do that unless I dig you.

If she got hurt by her last boyfriend, making out with someone else would be the last thing on my mind, especially if I didn't like you. I usually don't waste time like that now-a-days.

May I ask your and her age? I need more info to tell you what I think.



We're both 20 years old
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dude you need more money to handle Cap woman.

be a Dwarf for a year. collect, collect and collect.
*I'm a Cap female and there's an Aqua male chasing me...and he has the dough, a lot if it. He bragged to me once about how much money he makes a year. We are friends but he claims he's in love with me. He will ask me if I need cash and I will tell him no.

We're not all after money. I feel uncomfortable when he flaunts his money and all his cars. Yet, I do like his Indy Corvette car collection...that I can't deny. Haha.

But my standards won't allow me to take advantage of him in that way. ?

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lol i'm not saying Cap women will take away your money. that's for another Sign 🙂

they just more comfortable with money men.
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*Hmmm? If she didn't like you why would she be making out with you? As a Cap female I won't do that unless I dig you.

If she got hurt by her last boyfriend, making out with someone else would be the last thing on my mind, especially if I didn't like you. I usually don't waste time like that now-a-days.

May I ask your and her age? I need more info to tell you what I think.



We're both 20 years old

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*It's possible she was on the rebound with you and just taking things lightly. When I was 20, I was on the rebound...and I didn't want anything serious, just wanted to have fun and find myself again after a terrible relationship with a Gemini.

If you approached her for a relationship that she wasn't ready for, it probably scared her away. I think she was honest and told you what was going on with her. I'm not sure about the FB status. It could be that she said she was in a relationship only to keep guys from contacting her...not wanting any of them to get the wrong idea like you did.

It doesn't feel good to get rejected. However, from what you wrote, I can't see where she has done anything wrong. You fell for a girl who didn't want to be in a relationship with you.

Girls go thru this with guys all the time; but the difference is guys will usually mislead girls into falling for them intentionally, then after she does, he plays games and continues dangling the carrot to keep her interested while he is steadily pulling away.

She did not do that to you. I don't think she is toying with you. So try not to take this experience so personal.



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Answers please
dude you need more money to handle Cap woman.

be a Dwarf for a year. collect, collect and collect.
*I'm a Cap female and there's an Aqua male chasing me...and he has the dough, a lot if it. He bragged to me once about how much money he makes a year. We are friends but he claims he's in love with me. He will ask me if I need cash and I will tell him no.

We're not all after money. I feel uncomfortable when he flaunts his money and all his cars. Yet, I do like his Indy Corvette car collection...that I can't deny. Haha.

But my standards won't allow me to take advantage of him in that way. ?


lol i'm not saying Cap women will take away your money. that's for another Sign 🙂

they just more comfortable with money men.
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*Here's the deal with Cap females and money: It is attractive for a man to have money...yes. It shows that he is economically stable and could be a potentially good, long-lasting mate. However, I look at a man's potential also, even if he didn't have much money, I'd see where his head is at to see if he had goals and the potential to make money.

If I see that he had potential and I wanted to be with him. I'd see how we could make more money together as a couple. Most Cap women like to earn their keep, unlike your classic gold diggers.

Cap women have a hustle, lol.

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Answers please
dude you need more money to handle Cap woman.

be a Dwarf for a year. collect, collect and collect.
*I'm a Cap female and there's an Aqua male chasing me...and he has the dough, a lot if it. He bragged to me once about how much money he makes a year. We are friends but he claims he's in love with me. He will ask me if I need cash and I will tell him no.

We're not all after money. I feel uncomfortable when he flaunts his money and all his cars. Yet, I do like his Indy Corvette car collection...that I can't deny. Haha.

But my standards won't allow me to take advantage of him in that way. ?


lol i'm not saying Cap women will take away your money. that's for another Sign 🙂

they just more comfortable with money men.
click to expand

*Here's the deal with Cap females and money: It is attractive for a man to have money...yes. It shows that he is economically stable and could be a potentially good, long-lasting mate. However, I look at a man's potential also, even if he didn't have much money, I'd see where his head is at to see if he had goals and the potential to make money.

If I see that he had potential and I wanted to be with him. I'd see how we could make more money together as a couple. Most Cap women like to earn their keep, unlike your classic gold diggers.

Cap women have a hustle, lol.

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Posted by Aquarius213
Answers please
dude you need more money to handle Cap woman.

be a Dwarf for a year. collect, collect and collect.
*I'm a Cap female and there's an Aqua male chasing me...and he has the dough, a lot if it. He bragged to me once about how much money he makes a year. We are friends but he claims he's in love with me. He will ask me if I need cash and I will tell him no.

We're not all after money. I feel uncomfortable when he flaunts his money and all his cars. Yet, I do like his Indy Corvette car collection...that I can't deny. Haha.

But my standards won't allow me to take advantage of him in that way. ?


lol i'm not saying Cap women will take away your money. that's for another Sign 🙂

they just more comfortable with money men.
*Here's the deal with Cap females and money: It is attractive for a man to have money...yes. It shows that he is economically stable and could be a potentially good, long-lasting mate. However, I look at a man's potential also, even if he didn't have much money, I'd see where his head is at to see if he had goals and the potential to make money.

If I see that he had potential and I wanted to be with him. I'd see how we could make more money together as a couple. Most Cap women like to earn their keep, unlike your classic gold diggers.

Cap women have a hustle, lol.

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ahaha yes. that's why i said the real "gold diggers" is another sign.

but i won't tell that here. it's another story 😄
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Answers please
dude you need more money to handle Cap woman.

be a Dwarf for a year. collect, collect and collect.
*I'm a Cap female and there's an Aqua male chasing me...and he has the dough, a lot if it. He bragged to me once about how much money he makes a year. We are friends but he claims he's in love with me. He will ask me if I need cash and I will tell him no.

We're not all after money. I feel uncomfortable when he flaunts his money and all his cars. Yet, I do like his Indy Corvette car collection...that I can't deny. Haha.

But my standards won't allow me to take advantage of him in that way. ?


lol i'm not saying Cap women will take away your money. that's for another Sign 🙂

they just more comfortable with money men.
*Here's the deal with Cap females and money: It is attractive for a man to have money...yes. It shows that he is economically stable and could be a potentially good, long-lasting mate. However, I look at a man's potential also, even if he didn't have much money, I'd see where his head is at to see if he had goals and the potential to make money.

If I see that he had potential and I wanted to be with him. I'd see how we could make more money together as a couple. Most Cap women like to earn their keep, unlike your classic gold diggers.

Cap women have a hustle, lol.


ahaha yes. that's why i said the real "gold diggers" is another sign.

but i won't tell that here. it's another story 😄
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who is the REAL gold diggers— tell us.
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I am an aquarius lets get that out the way first.

It started off this cap girl from around my way would always stare at me wherever we saw each other,but it wasnt a regular stare she would stare at me as if she wanted to attack me in a good way Lol. I thought it was funny but i never approached her or even tried to start a convo with her.

So in November One day she dm's me on snapchat asking if i wanted to chill.. I said yeah.

We begin seeing each other every night. Everything is good.

Great conversations make out sessions all that type of stuff. We basically did everything except have actual sex Lol.

Remember we started "talking" in november.

Months going by everything is still great. Im not even worried about sex becuase i started to develop real feelings for her. Strong feelings..

But everytime i brought up the topic of us getting seroius and getting into a relationship she would tell me thats not what shes looking for right now. I was cool with that answer.

Her reason was because her last boyfriend broke her heart and plus she just wasnt looking for that right now.

I was fine with that.

Late march me and her get into our first real argument and some ugly things were said. We took 2-3 weeks off but then i hit her up to chill again she said yea and everything was back to good again.

A couple weeks ago we get into another argument about the same thing this time its even uglier. I give her space.

So last week i go on her facebook page and it seems she already has a new BOYFRIEND..

After all those months of her telling me she's not trying to be in a relationship with ANYONE.

Im not going to lie it hurt.

So now im on here asking u guys (cap women) what do you think about this situation?? Im stuck in the middle between thinking i came on too strong or maybe she's just a whore who was playing me the whole time.

Answers please


OP, i'm Capricorn dominant. not a cappy sun or moon ...but I understand Capricorn.



here are the requirements:



1) You got a good job (you don't have to be a millionaire okay??)

are you able to PROVIDE...that means you will be a good provider, if so, youre almost in but not halfway..



2) do you have a job that is the type you can get anywhere you go? meaning if you move, you can find a job anywhere!!!

that is a good job type of guy. none of this ..."Oh i'm a lifeguard and then you move to Alaska or something)

3) and depends on the rest of her placements.



4) SECURITY.