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Capicorn woman, I'm leo whats the deal?
Am I in the right section because I can't find my thread in the list of Capricorn topics?
First, you need to chill. Don't rush anything that simply doesn't need to be rushed. You need to remember that this woman JUST got out of a long distance relationship. She's even said that she's not trying to rush into anything serious, so you'll need to hold it together emotionally. With Capricorn women it can take some time for things to launch as it is more of a slow burn. She needs to be the one falling for you at this time, not the other way around. Fortunately she seems to be warming up to you, so that's a plus.
One thing to know about Capricorn women is that they are looking for security and often status (for some this can be purely from an emotional perspective as well). Meaning a Capricorn woman isn't going to just fall for anyone. She's going to go after the guy who seems to be stable and have it all together. She may even go for a "bad boy" if that guys is really good at what he does. That not to say Cap women are unemotional, in fact some can be very emotional. Capricorns however are usually more prone to keeping up appearances while having a solid poker face until they can open up behind closed doors.
So keep those wilder emotions in check (at least in the beginning and definitely never in public). There's nothing wrong with being romantic, but know with Cap women that there's a place and a time (unless she starts initiating). Cap women appreciated refinement.
The last time I dated a Capricorn woman she did practically all of the pursuing. I found out that she liked me through one of her friends and she's the one who would call so that I could set up dates. The moment I started becoming more emotional was the moment things started to break down.
That all being said, you'll still need to be direct with Cap women. Cap women need a man that they can respect, a man who knows how to lead. A man who is afraid to approach or be direct with a Cap woman will turn her off. However having a bit of mystery to you is also a plus. So don't go chasing her like a puppy either. The fact that this Cap woman is learning there are different sides to you is a good thing.
For right now, your job is easy. Don't take anything too seriously. This woman is recently out of an LDR, so she's figuring out what she wants right now. However while she says that she doesn't want to rush anything, she's clearly been making it easy for you two to get together. Remember that a woman's actions are very important, even when he words seem to contradict. Be sure to listen to her words as well, but know that women "vote with their feet". If she's coming toward you, you have nothing to worry about.
Don't try rushing into a relationship or pouring out all of your feelings in an attempt to lock her down. That will ruin the mystery, the fun of a naturally unfolding love story that she may cherish for years. If the fun is gone, she'll get bored and start to back off. Let her spend the time unraveling and figuring you out. She'll feel more invested in you if she can do this.
Also kudos on reading her cues and not rushing into sex. If a woman isn't comfortable, there's no need to push things forward. You'll just need to be patient. However you'll also need to know when to initiate this situation when she is ready. As I mentioned a woman likes a man who knows how to lead, especially when they are inexperienced. So don't get complacent and think that you don't need to do anything either.
One thing to know about Capricorn women is that they are looking for security and often status (for some this can be purely from an emotional perspective as well). Meaning a Capricorn woman isn't going to just fall for anyone. She's going to go after the guy who seems to be stable and have it all together. She may even go for a "bad boy" if that guys is really good at what he does. That not to say Cap women are unemotional, in fact some can be very emotional. Capricorns however are usually more prone to keeping up appearances while having a solid poker face until they can open up behind closed doors.
So keep those wilder emotions in check (at least in the beginning and definitely never in public). There's nothing wrong with being romantic, but know with Cap women that there's a place and a time (unless she starts initiating). Cap women appreciated refinement.
The last time I dated a Capricorn woman she did practically all of the pursuing. I found out that she liked me through one of her friends and she's the one who would call so that I could set up dates. The moment I started becoming more emotional was the moment things started to break down.
That all being said, you'll still need to be direct with Cap women. Cap women need a man that they can respect, a man who knows how to lead. A man who is afraid to approach or be direct with a Cap woman will turn her off. However having a bit of mystery to you is also a plus. So don't go chasing her like a puppy either. The fact that this Cap woman is learning there are different sides to you is a good thing.
For right now, your job is easy. Don't take anything too seriously. This woman is recently out of an LDR, so she's figuring out what she wants right now. However while she says that she doesn't want to rush anything, she's clearly been making it easy for you two to get together. Remember that a woman's actions are very important, even when he words seem to contradict. Be sure to listen to her words as well, but know that women "vote with their feet". If she's coming toward you, you have nothing to worry about.
Don't try rushing into a relationship or pouring out all of your feelings in an attempt to lock her down. That will ruin the mystery, the fun of a naturally unfolding love story that she may cherish for years. If the fun is gone, she'll get bored and start to back off. Let her spend the time unraveling and figuring you out. She'll feel more invested in you if she can do this.
Also kudos on reading her cues and not rushing into sex. If a woman isn't comfortable, there's no need to push things forward. You'll just need to be patient. However you'll also need to know when to initiate this situation when she is ready. As I mentioned a woman likes a man who knows how to lead, especially when they are inexperienced. So don't get complacent and think that you don't need to do anything either.
#Chuchkcem
I understand what you mean and appreciate the post. I haven't poured out my feelings to her and I don't wanna come off like an idiot so I keep it for myself and just try to act normal and see what and where it will take me but, regarding a couple of things. For example one day, she told she wanted to come over at my place so I invited her and we did some things after some time but we did not do it 100% as she was on her period and a day or two after when we were out and was drunk and went to my place again (as I explained earlier in post), we were both so fucking tired when we came home but thats the night when she told me like she is afraid that I will throw her away after having sex with her. I played it good gentle and polite, PARTLY because we both were so tired but also because I didn't wanna have sex with her to make it look like: I took the opportunity when she was drunk u know? so we just cuddled or whatever u call it. was that a good or bad move? we were really tired tbh too.
The day after she also told me that she is still talking a lil bit to her ex who is living in another country, they recently broke up.. I told her nicely if you want to prooced in your life you might have to cut that for your own good. Im very objective when I say things, but anyway we chilled at the water, ate some breakfast and I dropped her off, she also took one of my tshirt cuz she needed it in the morning lol. anyway, we haven't spoke now since Friday, I know she had much work to do in the weekend at least. Give me some thoughts people. Sometimes I feel that she should do the chasing as it attracts more and Cap are very forward but still I wanna show that I am there for her and sometimes im overthinking and feel that I should write again? should I wait for her to get back and then ask her to come by my place or go out with me
cuz Im very forward, im a Leo and I can easily engage for women etc but it will look like Im trying to get her then and too easy to read?
I understand what you mean and appreciate the post. I haven't poured out my feelings to her and I don't wanna come off like an idiot so I keep it for myself and just try to act normal and see what and where it will take me but, regarding a couple of things. For example one day, she told she wanted to come over at my place so I invited her and we did some things after some time but we did not do it 100% as she was on her period and a day or two after when we were out and was drunk and went to my place again (as I explained earlier in post), we were both so fucking tired when we came home but thats the night when she told me like she is afraid that I will throw her away after having sex with her. I played it good gentle and polite, PARTLY because we both were so tired but also because I didn't wanna have sex with her to make it look like: I took the opportunity when she was drunk u know? so we just cuddled or whatever u call it. was that a good or bad move? we were really tired tbh too.
The day after she also told me that she is still talking a lil bit to her ex who is living in another country, they recently broke up.. I told her nicely if you want to prooced in your life you might have to cut that for your own good. Im very objective when I say things, but anyway we chilled at the water, ate some breakfast and I dropped her off, she also took one of my tshirt cuz she needed it in the morning lol. anyway, we haven't spoke now since Friday, I know she had much work to do in the weekend at least. Give me some thoughts people. Sometimes I feel that she should do the chasing as it attracts more and Cap are very forward but still I wanna show that I am there for her and sometimes im overthinking and feel that I should write again? should I wait for her to get back and then ask her to come by my place or go out with me
cuz Im very forward, im a Leo and I can easily engage for women etc but it will look like Im trying to get her then and too easy to read?
Posted by denzooooowhat's the problem? I think you're both doing really well in your interactions. Also, I think it was a great move for you not to rush things.
#Chuchkcem
I understand what you mean and appreciate the post. I haven't poured out my feelings to her and I don't wanna come off like an idiot so I keep it for myself and just try to act normal and see what and where it will take me but, regarding a couple of things. For example one day, she told she wanted to come over at my place so I invited her and we did some things after some time but we did not do it 100% as she was on her period and a day or two after when we were out and was drunk and went to my place again (as I explained earlier in post), we were both so fucking tired when we came home but thats the night when she told me like she is afraid that I will throw her away after having sex with her. I played it good gentle and polite, PARTLY because we both were so tired but also because I didn't wanna have sex with her to make it look like: I took the opportunity when she was drunk u know? so we just cuddled or whatever u call it. was that a good or bad move? we were really tired tbh too.
The day after she also told me that she is still talking a lil bit to her ex who is living in another country, they recently broke up.. I told her nicely if you want to prooced in your life you might have to cut that for your own good. Im very objective when I say things, but anyway we chilled at the water, ate some breakfast and I dropped her off, she also took one of my tshirt cuz she needed it in the morning lol. anyway, we haven't spoke now since Friday, I know she had much work to do in the weekend at least. Give me some thoughts people. Sometimes I feel that she should do the chasing as it attracts more and Cap are very forward but still I wanna show that I am there for her and sometimes im overthinking and feel that I should write again? should I wait for her to get back and then ask her to come by my place or go out with me
cuz Im very forward, im a Leo and I can easily engage for women etc but it will look like Im trying to get her then and too easy to read?
I think her insecurity that you might stop being interested in her after sex is a very important message. So it would be really good to just keep spending time together without sex.
Also, I don't agree that women should chase, especially Cap women.
We are direct but we don't chase. I would say if one person had to take the initiative it would be you but to do it nonchalantly and not needy.
We are direct but we don't chase. I would say if one person had to take the initiative it would be you but to do it nonchalantly and not needy.
Yeah alright. I was just wondering once again overthinking (why she havent wrote anything since friday) but I know she has much on her mind with soon ending school and other stuff. Is she backing off or is it normal that A cap does not talk to you in a some days? do they feel the need to write everyday, how are they as person or are they chill and can have some days off and alone time?
What do you guys recommend now, just sit and wait until she text me?
some random advices what attracts a Cap wom? 🙂
What do you guys recommend now, just sit and wait until she text me?
some random advices what attracts a Cap wom? 🙂
aww i hope this works out for you sounds like a cute story but yes dont rush into anything, when you dont rush you get to know the real her and that is very important when dating a cap, goodluck!
Heh, yeah. Thanks. Just some questions for you guys and specially to you Capricorns:
Is it weird if we haven't spoke since friday? I saw her posting on twitter like " why is everything complicated " and I related that a little bit to me but also that she is graduating and have much on her mind atm. It's getting at the end of school and all that stuff. I'd like to hear your guys opinion of what should I do how should I react, should I text her again and like hey wanna hangout or hey like im here if u need me, or just be a lil bit mysterious and let her wonder where I am? the worst part of all, I know she is going for backpacking for like two months this summer so it feels like I need to make a move but I don't wanna make wrong or a desperate one.
and it feels like she was more forward some days ago when we was at that point where we was getting to know eachother, it feels like she took a step back and is like thinking or so?
Is it weird if we haven't spoke since friday? I saw her posting on twitter like " why is everything complicated " and I related that a little bit to me but also that she is graduating and have much on her mind atm. It's getting at the end of school and all that stuff. I'd like to hear your guys opinion of what should I do how should I react, should I text her again and like hey wanna hangout or hey like im here if u need me, or just be a lil bit mysterious and let her wonder where I am? the worst part of all, I know she is going for backpacking for like two months this summer so it feels like I need to make a move but I don't wanna make wrong or a desperate one.
and it feels like she was more forward some days ago when we was at that point where we was getting to know eachother, it feels like she took a step back and is like thinking or so?
denzooooo
denzooooo
Heh, yeah. Thanks. Just some questions for you guys and specially to you Capricorns:
Is it weird if we haven't spoke since friday? I saw her posting on twitter like " why is everything complicated " and I related that a little bit to me but also that she is graduating and have much on her mind atm. It's getting at the end of school and all that stuff. I'd like to hear your guys opinion of what should I do how should I react, should I text her again and like hey wanna hangout or hey like im here if u need me, or just be a lil bit mysterious and let her wonder where I am? the worst part of all, I know she is going for backpacking for like two months this summer so it feels like I need to make a move but I don't wanna make wrong or a desperate one.
and it feels like she was more forward some days ago when we was at that point where we was getting to know eachother, it feels like she took a step back and is like thinking or so?
denzooooo
Heh, yeah. Thanks. Just some questions for you guys and specially to you Capricorns:
Is it weird if we haven't spoke since friday? I saw her posting on twitter like " why is everything complicated " and I related that a little bit to me but also that she is graduating and have much on her mind atm. It's getting at the end of school and all that stuff. I'd like to hear your guys opinion of what should I do how should I react, should I text her again and like hey wanna hangout or hey like im here if u need me, or just be a lil bit mysterious and let her wonder where I am? the worst part of all, I know she is going for backpacking for like two months this summer so it feels like I need to make a move but I don't wanna make wrong or a desperate one.
and it feels like she was more forward some days ago when we was at that point where we was getting to know eachother, it feels like she took a step back and is like thinking or so?
It has almost been a week. She was very pushy but recently she stopped having the talk with me? Is this some test, is she cold, does she peak me some way or what's up with this kind of behaviour? I was thinking if I should maybe call her invite to my place or so??
What do you mean by no deal? Should I just not call her or should I call her and show that I'm here for her?
If you haven’t talked to her in almost a week then I don’t see the harm in reaching out to invite her over. Do it! But ease into it because caps hate being caught off guard
How do you mean ease into it? Oh so they don't like when I suddenly call on the evening and like hey wanna do smth?
and do you recognize this behaviour guys, she pursued and all that stuff in the beginning, she have said plenty of times that I look good and I know she likes the way I, why has she been idle, backed off? Is this some game, do they dislike shwoing too much, do they loose interest, whats up? shoud l i let her contact me first or should i do it
and do you recognize this behaviour guys, she pursued and all that stuff in the beginning, she have said plenty of times that I look good and I know she likes the way I, why has she been idle, backed off? Is this some game, do they dislike shwoing too much, do they loose interest, whats up? shoud l i let her contact me first or should i do it
Update; so I called her yesterday, she was on a wedding so we just texted for a few min and she said she will call me tomorrow. so Today we spoke and she like said; She have much going on right now, she don't want me to be her rebound and stuff like that because she still loves her ex and it takes time to get over it and she is also going for a trip in a few weeks for two months and wont be here. I'm just wondering if there is anything more I can do, try to be there for her or should I turn ice cold or simply just accept it and go to next step in life? I know it has been tough for her these latest days and she is a strong woman so she wanna like make it on her own... damnit, she liked me she really said it plenty of times :/ Im dissapointed dunno what to say atm
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Update; so I called her yesterday, she was on a wedding so we just texted for a few min and she said she will call me tomorrow. so Today we spoke and she like said; She have much going on right now, she don't want me to be her rebound and stuff like that because she still loves her ex and it takes time to get over it and she is also going for a trip in a few weeks for two months and wont be here. I'm just wondering if there is anything more I can do, try to be there for her or should I turn ice cold or simply just accept it and go to next step in life? I know it has been tough for her these latest days and she is a strong woman so she wanna like make it on her own... damnit, she liked me she really said it plenty of times :/ Im dissapointed dunno what to say atm
You should move on, dont have her reject you another time...she has made up her mind
Yeah, I guess she have too much on her mind. It's a breakup after all and it takes time to heal. Of course, I won't pursue anything more here I guess then. She might get back some shiny day w/e
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