Capricorn Male Confusing (Page 2)

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by AriesAlways on Tuesday, April 18, 2017 and has 56 replies.

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@pinkbird03
10 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by AriesAlways
@pinkbird03 We haven't talked about exclusivity but we both have only had eyes for one another these past 2 months (and even before then when he said he thought about me while with his gf at the time...) I want to show him in loyal and not start dating too soon, but he may never return to me and as an Aries my nature is 'well if you don't want me, someone else will'

Looking at a lot of difference people experiences I think it's a number of issues: he felt too strongly for me too fast, he hurt a girl he cares for and feels guilty about 'us' now and that our friends all already thinking we're in a relationship which is freaking him out...

Maybe after our talk today I'll get more clarity...I really don't want to hurt him

I understand where your coming from, but I don't know. He just doesn't seem over his ex to me. That's not fair to you. I think you should talk about that today. Did u ever hear from him yesterday? What did he say?

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@AriesAlways
9 Years

@pinkbird03 I dunno...I think he is over her, not in love with her, but 2 years is a long time and he cares about her which is fine with me! And no, he got back quite late and I messaged saying that I hope everything went okay and if he wanted that drink or to talk tomorrow (today) then I'm here and he's seen it and not replied

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@pinkbird03
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Posted by AriesAlways
@pinkbird03 I dunno...I think he is over her, not in love with her, but 2 years is a long time and he cares about her which is fine with me! And no, he got back quite late and I messaged saying that I hope everything went okay and if he wanted that drink or to talk tomorrow (today) then I'm here and he's seen it and not replied

Is that normal for him to see your messages and not reply?

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@LibraLovesHim
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Posted by AriesAlways
And no cheekyfaerie the move isn't permanent! He's going up to work in Skye over summer (he actually asked me to join him when we were on holiday up there but I called him nuts haha) He'll be back in July/August- I've find him I would be happy to make the journey to see him before then though...

You called him nuts lol!? Prob not the best response...

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@AriesAlways
9 Years

@pinkbird03 Well when he's busy? Kinda of...we don't message all that often cause we live so local so our conversations usually are just 'hey you free tonight?' 'Yeah, wanna hang out?' 'Yeah meet you in 20' Like in the beginning when he had a phone we talked more haha But tbf I did say to him to let me know if he wants a chat or pint so he still might...

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@AriesAlways
9 Years

@LibraLivesHim hahaha yeah! Cause we were calling it casual and then he asked me to spend summer with him! Glad i didn't agree though cause once we were back he didn't find it so smart!

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@pinkbird03
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Posted by AriesAlways
@pinkbird03 Well when he's busy? Kinda of...we don't message all that often cause we live so local so our conversations usually are just 'hey you free tonight?' 'Yeah, wanna hang out?' 'Yeah meet you in 20' Like in the beginning when he had a phone we talked more haha But tbf I did say to him to let me know if he wants a chat or pint so he still might...

Oh ok. I hope you get a chance to talk to him soon! Good luck!