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Haven’t really been in a relationship with a cap but from what I’ve experienced, they take a REALLY long time to progress. You need a lot of patience and move at their pace.
Saturn is in there sign... they will be going though he’ll for a bit. It is how they deal with it and also how they lived there life up to this point.

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Do you mean currently or in general? He ghosted a few days ago. I’m not freaking out because I know this is part of who they are but also because I know he’s trying to start a business. Idk. Giving him space, I guess.


He meant Saturn is ruler of Capricorn and currently Saturn has returned to Capricorn so it's their time
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Ohhh ok! So does that effect their behavior?
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Step one: Get to know them. Don't be too pushy or weird, but just act normal and well minded. Caps tend to like responsible people. I also find it easy to make them laugh, which is another good trait to have. Capricorn love to be entertained, even if they seem cynical of entertainment at times. Try to focus on the things they like, and don't get discouraged if you can't make them laugh or smile 100% of the time. If you can make them smile or laugh even 20% of the time you're going to be in with them.

Step two: DO NOT distance yourself from them whatsoever. Capricorn are actually a bit clingy even though they don't act like it. You might get one "Awww sorry, I'm busy right now." but that's about it. They will not wait around for you, so if they want to see you or more importantly made plans you better keep to those plans 100% or they will slowly start to ghost you for someone else.

Step three: Just be there for them when they need you. If they accept you into their life then it means something to them deeply. Even if they don't show it or hide their emotions at times if you are in their life its because they want you there. They expect you to be that one light in there darkest of times, and if you can't be that they will slowly distance themselves from you without even saying anything. Capricorn are really easy to maintain. You just have to be a responsible well minded person that doesn't expect them to tell you how to be 24/7. They just want you to be the you they feel in love with from the start, and if they have to remind you constantly they will become unattracted and start to feel like you are fake. Which is not something a Capricorn wants to waste effort on.
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Step one: Get to know them. Don't be too pushy or weird, but just act normal and well minded. Caps tend to like responsible people. I also find it easy to make them laugh, which is another good trait to have. Capricorn love to be entertained, even if they seem cynical of entertainment at times. Try to focus on the things they like, and don't get discouraged if you can't make them laugh or smile 100% of the time. If you can make them smile or laugh even 20% of the time you're going to be in with them.

Step two: DO NOT distance yourself from them whatsoever. Capricorn are actually a bit clingy even though they don't act like it. You might get one "Awww sorry, I'm busy right now." but that's about it. They will not wait around for you, so if they want to see you or more importantly made plans you better keep to those plans 100% or they will slowly start to ghost you for someone else.

Step three: Just be there for them when they need you. If they accept you into their life then it means something to them deeply. Even if they don't show it or hide their emotions at times if you are in their life its because they want you there. They expect you to be that one light in there darkest of times, and if you can't be that they will slowly distance themselves from you without even saying anything. Capricorn are really easy to maintain. You just have to be a responsible well minded person that doesn't expect them to tell you how to be 24/7. They just want you to be the you they feel in love with from the start, and if they have to remind you constantly they will become unattracted and start to feel like you are fake. Which is not something a Capricorn wants to waste effort on.
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Step one: Get to know them. Don't be too pushy or weird, but just act normal and well minded. Caps tend to like responsible people. I also find it easy to make them laugh, which is another good trait to have. Capricorn love to be entertained, even if they seem cynical of entertainment at times. Try to focus on the things they like, and don't get discouraged if you can't make them laugh or smile 100% of the time. If you can make them smile or laugh even 20% of the time you're going to be in with them.

Step two: DO NOT distance yourself from them whatsoever. Capricorn are actually a bit clingy even though they don't act like it. You might get one "Awww sorry, I'm busy right now." but that's about it. They will not wait around for you, so if they want to see you or more importantly made plans you better keep to those plans 100% or they will slowly start to ghost you for someone else.

Step three: Just be there for them when they need you. If they accept you into their life then it means something to them deeply. Even if they don't show it or hide their emotions at times if you are in their life its because they want you there. They expect you to be that one light in there darkest of times, and if you can't be that they will slowly distance themselves from you without even saying anything. Capricorn are really easy to maintain. You just have to be a responsible well minded person that doesn't expect them to tell you how to be 24/7. They just want you to be the you they feel in love with from the start, and if they have to remind you constantly they will become unattracted and start to feel like you are fake. Which is not something a Capricorn wants to waste effort on.
Just out of curiosity, does other side gets a saying or it's all about how to keep THEM satisfied? Is there somewhere a satisfaction of the other side too? What are they offering for the other side?

Now as much as I can completely understand your intention and everything you said is correct, you have to realize this kind of advice is exact opposite of the last part of the post.

Last part says "they just want you to be you" while the rest says how to "win them over" which indicates you're going out of your way or whatever it is to behave in way that pleases their needs. And that might actually get them for while it lasts but eventually this last part shows up and they realize this is not it.

So this guide is actually describing what kind of person they need, not what one should do to get them. As far as I've seen so far they're pretty much fine with someone who isn't anything like this as long as they're true to themselves and hold qualities they value. You don't have to be perfect person to someone, but you do have to be true one.
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Personally I'm not a Capricorn, so I can't tell the op what the Capricorn will give back in return. I'm only going by the context of the op, which was how to have a relationship with a Capricorn. I'm assuming the OP already knows what they like about the cap, and what the cap gives to them to be attracted in the first place. Whether that be the Capricorns personality, companionship, or both. The question wasn't "What can the Capricorn give me in return?" It was simply how to have a relationship with one. Which i described what they look for in a person.

None of the last part of what i said is the opposite of the first part imo. It all leads up to the exact same thing. What you just described is exactly what I said lol.

If I'm misunderstanding your question maybe you could describe it in another way. As far as I can see you are either reading through my post and agreeing with me, or you disagree but then said the same thing I did. I have this issue with my Libra friend all the time. We argue over a topic, but really both of us are saying the exact same thing in a different way.



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Im letting mine go, when he comes back from ghost mode again Im going to tell him to go pound sand. I know he will be back, he will feel my energy shift when Ive fully let go.

He has disrespected me and doesn't stick to his word. I dont have room in my life for those that disrespect me and cant stand by and do what they say they will. Hes not even worth a friend.

I have pertinence but I dont for those that disrespect people as Im sure Im not the only one he does it to.

If I were you, run for your life!! LOL
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Im letting mine go, when he comes back from ghost mode again Im going to tell him to go pound sand. I know he will be back, he will feel my energy shift when Ive fully let go.

He has disrespected me and doesn't stick to his word. I dont have room in my life for those that disrespect me and cant stand by and do what they say they will. Hes not even worth a friend.

I have pertinence but I dont for those that disrespect people as Im sure Im not the only one he does it to.

If I were you, run for your life!! LOL
The bold part made me laugh lol it's so common to happen that it's not even surprising any more, only to poor souls who deal with it for first time lol
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Right! LOL

At this point he looking pathetic and I lost all respect for him as a human, cap aside. I have good energy and he just pops in to suck my goodness. Energy sucker.

I wish he'd just stay ghost but I know he will come crawling back again. LOL



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Im letting mine go, when he comes back from ghost mode again Im going to tell him to go pound sand. I know he will be back, he will feel my energy shift when Ive fully let go.

He has disrespected me and doesn't stick to his word. I dont have room in my life for those that disrespect me and cant stand by and do what they say they will. Hes not even worth a friend.

I have pertinence but I dont for those that disrespect people as Im sure Im not the only one he does it to.

If I were you, run for your life!! LOL
The bold part made me laugh lol it's so common to happen that it's not even surprising any more, only to poor souls who deal with it for first time lol
Right! LOL

At this point he looking pathetic and I lost all respect for him as a human, cap aside. I have good energy and he just pops in to suck my goodness. Energy sucker.

I wish he'd just stay ghost but I know he will come crawling back again. LOL





I'm not sure how to deal with that anymore, it seems like a never ending cycle with them. You really start wishing they don't come back at all :/

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I hoping he stays away when I tell him Im done on his come back. I read they dont let go so easy... If he doesn't I'll just keep ignoring him/block him. This is how Im going to deal. haha. Im moving on for my own sanity.

I am/you are the F-ing prize, I am the F-ing prize, I am the F-ing prize. Rinse and repeat.

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I've definitely not ever met a Cap (myself included), that would waste their time on anyone who doesn't want them around.

Tell me one time, and you'll Never hear from me again. Then you will go on block, deleted, and you're dust to me..
My ex was pretty normal as well. Neither of us made any drama about break up and in fact stayed longest friends with him after it from all exes...Idk where those crazy ones show from one lol
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Maybe other placements influencing that behavior? That's my only guess.

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I've definitely not ever met a Cap (myself included), that would waste their time on anyone who doesn't want them around.

Tell me one time, and you'll Never hear from me again. Then you will go on block, deleted, and you're dust to me..
My ex was pretty normal as well. Neither of us made any drama about break up and in fact stayed longest friends with him after it from all exes...Idk where those crazy ones show from one lol



Maybe other placements influencing that behavior? That's my only guess.



Could be, something about possessive or controlling behavior. I'm not sure what it could be really but I think you're pretty normal people as well, just like any other normal human beings would go away after being turned down. I'd act exactly like you said it as well, everyone that I know would do the same so it must be something specific about people who don't accept NO as answer. Sometimes I read about certain Mars aspects so it could be that. Tbh it was aspect in synastry with my Cap lol Mars-Pluto aspect or something like that I think, so far such things never happened so it all looks normal

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Interesting. I've never heard anything in regards to "Mars-Pluto" aspect. I will have to look into that. Piques my curiosity.

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I've definitely not ever met a Cap (myself included), that would waste their time on anyone who doesn't want them around.

Tell me one time, and you'll Never hear from me again. Then you will go on block, deleted, and you're dust to me..
My ex was pretty normal as well. Neither of us made any drama about break up and in fact stayed longest friends with him after it from all exes...Idk where those crazy ones show from one lol



Maybe other placements influencing that behavior? That's my only guess.



Could be, something about possessive or controlling behavior. I'm not sure what it could be really but I think you're pretty normal people as well, just like any other normal human beings would go away after being turned down. I'd act exactly like you said it as well, everyone that I know would do the same so it must be something specific about people who don't accept NO as answer. Sometimes I read about certain Mars aspects so it could be that. Tbh it was aspect in synastry with my Cap lol Mars-Pluto aspect or something like that I think, so far such things never happened so it all looks normal





Interesting. I've never heard anything in regards to "Mars-Pluto" aspect. I will have to look into that. Piques my curiosity.



Sierra made a thread about it today actually, it indicates domestic violence lol I don't take it too seriously considering we're likely to date people from same generation of pluto it's easy to have some contacts between mars and pluto for any one of us who have mars in same planet as pluto is

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That's a good point. I just get caught up on synastry and composite aspects when I'm doing my usual overthinking, haha. I enjoy learning about different ones and how they fit situations, or don't fit.

Thank you for telling me about it, and Sierra's thread. I need to look that one up. 🙂

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I've definitely not ever met a Cap (myself included), that would waste their time on anyone who doesn't want them around.

Tell me one time, and you'll Never hear from me again. Then you will go on block, deleted, and you're dust to me..

It's a tough fall when they have to go from a 'It's a Wonderful Life' to Old Man Winter/Father Time. They get a glimpse and then want it back. And then it's our fault that we're over the hills and far away.

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I've definitely not ever met a Cap (myself included), that would waste their time on anyone who doesn't want them around.

Tell me one time, and you'll Never hear from me again. Then you will go on block, deleted, and you're dust to me..

It's a tough fall when they have to go from a 'It's a Wonderful Life' to Old Man Winter/Father Time. They get a glimpse and then want it back. And then it's our fault that we're over the hills and far away.

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Yes. I don't think people realize that we do take a little time to make a decision on how we feel, once we analyze and process the interest level. We are on and off till that time (I am anyway), but once we do decide- We make them our King/Queen, and can give them the most pure, protective, Loyal, and Loving relationship that they could ever find. Once we're in it, we are In It for good. They won't have to question anything at all, they'll just know because we make it our business to show it..

They just need to learn patience and try to understand, that we are different when it comes to matters of the heart. It's very rare, we even let anyone in at all, let alone give our heart.

Saturn is our planet dad, it's not like we even have a choice in the matter, really.. 😇

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It does take a long time to get a commitment but be careful what you wish for. It takes ten times longer to get rid of them.

Cap men are stubborn and don't give up.
So to get them you have to be unavailable? Got it. Drive them crazy? Never respond to them. Got it. What exactly are we doing then? Some lame ass chase that no one wins in cause wtf do we even bother if we run in circles like that. Anyway don't get me wrong not truly directed to you but reply sparked my interest lol
Caps do like a challenge. But still need ALOT of attention. If you can strike a healthy balance between the two, then you’ll keep us wanting more



Oh yeah I forgot about the attention part! You're right completely! He would freak out as soon as I don't give him my 110% of attention, meanwhile he's perfectly fine not giving same amount in return. This was once a reason we fought, cause I simply mirrored his behavior and he got offended...


In despite of the need for constant attention, caps really are low maintenance lovers. Sometimes we go off in our own little world without realizing that our loved ones are in need of more consistent attention and affection.

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Or sometimes we shut ourselves away on purpose because we feel like everyone around us is too demanding and needy lol. Is that just me?
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My friend is dating a 22yr old Cap for 3month's now and they didn't even kiss even tho she's controling him like heeell, 2crazy if you ask me.... 3months no kiss, what thee fuuck maaan
did she explicitly state she doesn't want to kiss or did your friend just not try to go in for it? I'm sure she'd reciprocate if he went in for it
The only thing she said i want to take it slow, but he didn't kiss her for 3 whole fucking months...... Fuck me, i couldn't go as slow as him.
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That's pretty long. A kiss would be helpful to get a sense of their physical/sexual chemistry..