CAPS AND CHILDREN... (Page 2)

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@SirHorns
12 Years5,000+ Posts
Posted by Vixen2
Posted by Reincarnation
Posted by Vixen2
I found my mother controlling, sensitive, loyal, and devoted. My father is a Virgo and my mother was not the disciplinarian. My mother and I have had a very rocky relationship, she has had a rocky relationship with my sister as well (interesting enough my sis is 6 years younger Leo Sun /Pisces Moon) due to her controlling nature. My mother guilt trips ...I attribute some of her behavior to the Libra moon she has. But hey, as much as she drives me mental...she's my mom and I love her.
Lol - same.

I do try to distance myself from her as much as possible. Everything turns into a lecture. And she is the one who needs lecturing the most. -_-
Lol!

My mother is completely over sensitive to everything in regards to things pertaining to herself...you must walk on eggshells however...she is completely insensitive and inappropriate with her opinions at times to others...it's mind boggling. She has said quite a few times that she wished she made other life choices...basically, that she wished she hadn't chosen motherhood
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Ouch. DX
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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts
Posted by caIiber
Posted by truecap
Posted by Gobshite
I'd rather have a Cap father than a Cap mother any day of the week...
My cap daughter and I used to clash quite a bit. It's gotten better now that we don't live with each other.

This is exactly like my relationship with my mom. Much better when we're not under the same roof.

For those who don't know me, also a cap.
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Missed you! Good to see you back!
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@Greentea
10 Years1,000+ Posts
Posted by Montgomery
@RumiL

My father seems to be mellowing-- unless

he's taken up drinking for sport or something.

🙂

And I have no idea... the Virgo has a LEO Moon

but he can turn what seems 'out there' into

simple Logic-- which my Father understands.
What are your parents sun signs Montgomery?
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@emerald_dreams
10 Years
Posted by Greentea
Children of Caps welcome too...what was your experience like with your Cap parents?

Caps..
How do you feel about your children, being parents, or what kind of parent do you think you'll be?
My cap mom was and still is a hard working lady! She has a strong work ethic. She never remarried after my father. She's been single for 20 years. Never even dated, and shunned anyone trying to make a pass at her. She's a beautiful woman inside and out - even her being middle aged. She's definitely the rock i've leaned on and she was very strict with me and my two older sisters. I didn't have a boyfriend until I was a senior in high school. Didn't go to parties in high school. She always said everything is done in its appropriate time. Which now, as an adult, I know is very true. I admire my capricorn mother! ♥
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@Montgomery
13 Years10,000+ Posts
Posted by caIiber
Posted by truecap
Posted by Gobshite
I'd rather have a Cap father than a Cap mother any day of the week...
My cap daughter and I used to clash quite a bit. It's gotten better now that we don't live with each other.

This is exactly like my relationship with my mom. Much better when we're not under the same roof.

For those who don't know me, also a cap.
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Damn.

Haven't seen you since 'Nam. o.O


Glad to see you back. 🙂

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@iCloud9
11 Years1,000+ Posts
i love my cap mom deeply and she is the best mother one can have. generous, devoted, loving, grounded with great common sense and disciplined. my aqua dad does not have any earth in his chat. without my mom, we would be all messed up I'm 100% sure lol.

it's pretty common that mother-daughter relationships can be tricky. mine included. i blame mostly to the fact that mom has no water in her chart with lots of fire. my pisces, scorp and neptune 12 house make me the most detached and strange person in her eyes. and i find her insensitivity hurtful at times. for instance, she started complaining to my relatives that she didn't like what i was wearing at a big family gathering when that was the first time they met scorp. i jokingly stopped her half way and said my scorp said she shouldn't do that. mom was like huh? for a sec. she was shocked that i and scorp were so blunt but eventually realized that she embarrassed me in public. i actually kept my relationship with scorp secret for years from my parents until i decided to marry him so my mood and relationship wouldn't be affected by their negative comments. i learned my lessons how much their little negative comments could really get to me.

i had a dream just couple days ago that mom criticized me endlessly in front of my baby girl (in my dream only lol) and i completely lost it. i screamed at her at the top of my lungs to never do that again and i woke up. geez. what a dream. no escape huh? 😉
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@Greentea
10 Years1,000+ Posts
Posted by Montgomery
Posted by Greentea
Posted by Montgomery
@RumiL

My father seems to be mellowing-- unless

he's taken up drinking for sport or something.

🙂

And I have no idea... the Virgo has a LEO Moon

but he can turn what seems 'out there' into

simple Logic-- which my Father understands.
What are your parents sun signs Montgomery?
Capricorn dad and Sagittarius mom. 🙂


You?
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I've been seeing more of this combo lately. Cap/Sag.

Dad is Aqua, mom Scorpio
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@wagtail
13 Years5,000+ Posts
One of the things I found wonderfully surprising about the Cap-ex Scorp moon/Aqua venus was how children just FLOCKED to him at gatherings.
And how he played and played, at one point he was under the table at a New Years Eve event shooting pistachios at kids through a straw while they attacked his 'fort' ...
I mean it was kiddy-chaos, then he was giving donkey rides and piggybacks, it was a revelation!

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@BetaBanana
11 YearsCapricorn
Before I had kids I told myself i would be a strict parent and always pictured having the perfect kids who always listened . Now that is very far from reality haha. I have an aqua sun Virgo moon son and a Pisces sun Scorpio moon daughter both with cap Venus . As a mom I'm very easy going I want my children to be happy , respectful , kind and to have a bright future.I really want to be the parent I never had . When I have the means I spoil them. I'm very affectionate and playful and they are both very attached to me ( not always a good thing ) discipline is not easy for me but I'm getting better and more consistent ,that is probably my hardest task in the parenting department . I want to give my children a happy secure life and for them to know I will always be their rock .
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@LostPisces
20 Years1,000+ Posts
My kids will say 🙂

i have a cap grand mother, strongest woman i know, never forget the stories told about me as child, all that she said i understood clearly and comply, the only person that was capable of that with me, i was 2 or 3 years old.
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@Greentea
10 Years1,000+ Posts
Posted by LostPisces
My kids will say 🙂

i have a cap grand mother, strongest woman i know, never forget the stories told about me as child, all that she said i understood clearly and comply, the only person that was capable of that with me, i was 2 or 3 years old.
That is so sweet 🙂
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@LostPisces
20 Years1,000+ Posts
Posted by Greentea
Posted by LostPisces
My kids will say 🙂

i have a cap grand mother, strongest woman i know, never forget the stories told about me as child, all that she said i understood clearly and comply, the only person that was capable of that with me, i was 2 or 3 years old.
That is so sweet 🙂
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So wait until you listen to this, your heart will melt 😛

She lives far away I only visit her on summer holidays, I was 2 or 3 years old, I already splept without diaper but sometimes I got my bed wet, happened there and for what I was told she talked with me, explained that my mother had alot of work doing cleaning and all. Since then no more! If I was afraid probably wouldnt stop bed-wetting, I respected her instead since very young. I still respect old people alot.

She is 100 years old right now! Strongest woman I know for that too, unfortunely she doesnt know people anymore, but we know her, almost no words to describe.