Does this Cap male care or not?

(I'm a Taurus) He always used to say that he thought something was up with my ex and I but I told him and proved to him there wasn't. He knew I liked him a lot and made a lot of effort. He used to say I was his dream girl to everyone. I think he just got commitment issues and one day I called him out for going to a date party with a girl cause I found out and he said it was just a friend. But he didn't reply to me much anymore and after I said that he was sketchy and a hypocrite and that I was hurt, he never replied. A week later he sent me just a kissy face emoji after seeing my Snapchat stories of a night I went out looking good. But I said, "is that all you have to say to me?" And he didn't respond. He used to watch all my Snapchat stories but I recently posted a picture of my ex and I cause he took me to an event. So I know he knows now that we are hanging again. Do you guys think he doesn't even care or is he actually just never going to talk to me again cause he now will be mad?

Can't tell if this was insensitive of me.

Please give advice. Cap and I had talked for 3 months.

He must have picked up a vibe somehow about you and your ex because you just said you are hanging with him again hun, so it wasn't insensitive of you, he just didn't want to be a rebound I suppose, he probably felt you weren't emotionally single x

Posted by piscespoppy
He must have picked up a vibe somehow about you and your ex because you just said you are hanging with him again hun, so it wasn't insensitive of you, he just didn't want to be a rebound I suppose, he probably felt you weren't emotionally single x

This.

Your relationship with your ex was an issue with this cap guy from the get go, his trust in you had probably dimished greatly, because his suspicion about your ex was confirmed when you posted a picture of the two of you. He may not feel safe with your anymore.I could be wrong though I dont believe caps chase people they dont feel safe with.

Is there any way I can fix this? He didn't respond to my last message where I asked him what his intentions were. I really wish I could fix it. I really miss him and would at least like some closure.

I'm going to say it: women can be such oblivious DUNCES sometimes. ?

Don't bother coming at me with "well, men..." I'm talking about women right now.

I only posted one and I only started talking to my ex again because the cap told me he didn't want anything serious. I just really wish I wasn't in this situation. I love my ex cause I was with him for over a year and knew him for 3 but he kind of bores me now but i'm scared to cut it off and have no one. I know that's bad but that's how I am and that's why I told him I would of never even talked to my ex if he wouldn't have stopped talking to me. I see my mistake now but I just have been nothing but forgiving and kind with him so I really didnt even think he liked me if he wasn't going to at least try and so idk I am going through a lot.

You are so kind!! Thank you, I honestly really needed some insight on the situation. I hope you're right. He never replied to my message about me only giving my ex a chance cause cap had stopped talking to me for a month. I even said that I still wanted to know his intentions. I feel like another text would make me seem crazy so maybe I should wait till I see him in person?

Do you have any suggestions on the right way to tell him that if he ever wants anything with me that I would be open to it even if it's later?

He actually sent me something funny on insta a week ago and then 5 days ago he saw me out with some friends and my ex so he gave me a dirty look and then i smiled and waved and he did a double take and gave me a mean look again. Then he messaged me saying let me know when you are leave. But I replied saying I was home and asked him what was up and he never replied. so i texted him again and still no reply. Then I texted him Friday telling him all the stuff about only talking to my ex again cause it had been a month since him and I spoke so i thought the cap didnt care at all.

He only replied once and said that he understood and that we parted ways because he doesnt want anything serious but i do. He then said that my ex likes me a lot and must not know the full story but that if i wanted to be with him it was fine by him. he then lastly said "dont say i didnt tell you so though"

Thanks so much 🙂!!! That really helps and I appreciate your advice a lot! You are right!

I hope the best for you!!!

I think the real problem is you.You should learn to be comfortable and happy single.This way of playing safe is very childish.Your ex boyfriend broke up with you,then you started dating/talking with the cap man,then cap pulled back a little and that made you feel insecure so you started hanging out with your ex (who broke your heart),now you are with your ex but thinking and sending texts to the cap man.I mean,why?Why doing this and then asking what's wrong with the cap man?It's not necessarily the (bad) actions you took,it's about what made you took those actions.Try see your story from an outside perspective and then ask yourself "which are the things I should work on myself to become a better and happier person ?"

Posted by MoonyEYES88
Your relationship with your ex was an issue with this cap guy from the get go, his trust in you had probably dimished greatly, because his suspicion about your ex was confirmed when you posted a picture of the two of you. He may not feel safe with your anymore.I could be wrong though I dont believe caps chase people they dont feel safe with.

" I could be wrong though I dont believe caps chase people they dont feel safe with."

No, you are Very correct on that..

Yes I want something serious with this cap but he told me he didn't want anything serious rn but he texted me saying he was sorry and then we kinda fought again and now the girl who likeds him and he said he only saw as a friend posted a picture of them at a group date. So i texted him this time cause he would keep texting me when i was w/ my bf about how he was sorry. and when i texted him i told him i really wanted to talk and it was late and the next morning he answered saying about what? and then i took hours to respond and said lets talk after finals cause we need to concentrate but i want to talk because things were left too unfinished. Still want him. Ex already broke my heart before too many times so my feelings are too detached.