Met a cap man online. We chatted on the phone, never met and turned him down when he asked me out (due to long distance). Then he asked me out like crazy until I lied and said I got a new bf. We lost contact for two years and recently reconnected. He asked me if I ever remembered “ him asking me out”? I took it as that his way of asking me out? But he hardly knows anything about me! We still haven’t met. My Virgo analytical side is like: is he only asking me out because he’s lonely? I thought caps like to get to know someone slowly... is he for real?
