I'm going to return gifts to my Capricorn ex, is it rude?

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by c0mrade on Sunday, September 16, 2018 and has 15 replies.

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@c0mrade
15 YearsTaurus

I need a closure from this relationship, a complete closure and want to move forward.

I've been pondering over this for a few days and decided to return few gifts back to her.

Should I or should I not?

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by c0mrade

I need a closure from this relationship, a complete closure and want to move forward.

I've been pondering over this for a few days and decided to return few gifts back to her.

Should I or should I not?

No! Forget it! It’ll show her you care.

Unless that’s what you want to happen...

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@c0mrade
15 YearsTaurus

Thanks for the advice Ms.Ceaser, but I do not want to get into exchanging text messages or phone calls again. That would spell doom on my resolution.

I just thought of mailing expensive ones back and keeping the worthless ones with me, so she doesn't feel she lost it all.

Posted by Commodus

Dont return anything. Just ask her out to a place for lunch and to talk or something.

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Commodus

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Commodus

Dont return anything. Just ask her out to a place for lunch and to talk or something.

This is going to go well! With someone getting lunch in their face...

Start it off with, I know we've gone through some times that werent all that great, but I've matured from this experience and I want to put all of our bad blood behind us and be friends or some shit idk.

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Why would he be friend with her—

She has done shit behind his back...with his friend! And co-workers...why would he want to be friends?

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@starlord
8 Years1,000+ Posts

I once returned everything. Then got some of it back again. Then I set one of the things on fire, and honestly it felt really good! Destructiiiiiiiioooooon!

Just a suggestion 😊

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@c0mrade
15 YearsTaurus

I don't have anything against her, or am I looking to get some attention. It's just that this unused, expensive watch in my dresser, I absolutely detest seeing it. At least, I ought to return this one piece, knowing very well her materialistic side, i'm sure she'll be ok with it.

Even the battery is dead, so I thought I will mail it with a note "The battery's dead" (no pun intended).

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@c0mrade
15 YearsTaurus

No honey, not my intention to piss her off (in fact, I mean her well). I just want my peace, and don't like anything that reminds me of her lying around.

Posted by caIiber

Are you trying to piss her off? 🤨

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@c0mrade
15 YearsTaurus

Thank you, everyone, for your valuable inputs.

I am not going to return anything, as it would probably stir things up again and hurt her again. More drama, more silliness.

I am grateful to ya all, for stopping me from this madness!