Just wondering what the Cap guy is up to

Hello! I read up alot on Capricorn men and understand that most of them takes time to make a move.

I have been texting this Cap guy since Feb during my travel, everyday one long text til May when I return to my country. Metup with him just one day before I flew off again. We were just having a meal and chit chatting. No kisses or hugs or anything.

We continued to have one long text everyday til June when I decided to stop it to enjoy my travel life by reducing my text and ended up just replying 'okay'. He sensed it I guess and said me let him know when I return again.

He watched my story (not every time) and replied to one in August where I said that I will be returning soon, saying "welcome back". I told him that I wasnt back yet and told him the date I would be returning.

When I return, he did not text me. I text him a week later and we started having one long text again everyday. Met up, kissed and hugged. We shared our views on dating and he told me to text him when I got back home.

We continued with our one long text everyday but he doesnt really watch my insta stories or updates now. I saw the timings he liked others' posts and followed some pretty girls. He could like or follow and not reply me. He still replied though.

I was thinking that since he may not be interested in me, I will end the conversation nicely. My chance came when there is nothing much for me to reply and the perfect answer is only 'okay'. I replied that and after that he continued texting me asking other stuffs.

I would like to hear you guys views on this. I'm a Cap girl, I understand the slow reply due to work or stuff (because I do that too, ahah) but wouldnt they be interested to know what's happening in the life of the girl they are interested?

Thank you.

By the way, his details:

Sun: Cap

Moon: Germini

Venus: Sag

Mars: Cap

Saturn: Aqu

best to express ur goal (rs?) to him before u get physical (sex). ask him if hes looking for a rs or whatsoever. if yes, then waaaaaiiiiittttt and get to know him before jumping into bed!

Thank you bbiee!

He said that he would like to date first and see how things goes as all his dates doesnt last longer than 6 months. He added that most importantly is to be happy together so even if it doesnt last, at least he is happy. Sounds scary when he said this.

I dont mind waiting and see how it goes. But to me, dueing dating, both parties must be i terested in each other to go on and work things out together before saying we are not suitable and over. However it seems like he is not really interested. Otherwise he would check up on my social media for updates. We exchanged only instagram. Not phone numbers or facebook.

Do you think if it's good if I mirror his actions? Because thats what i do usually. Hahhha

Tracking likes and looks on social media as an interest indicator is a great way to ruin something before it’s even begun.

If he’s making an effort to see you irl then that’s more valuable than all the likes and comments in the world.

Thank you ladyneptune

Yes i agree, but it has been two weeks and he still hasnt arrange for the next meetup. Unlike previously we arrange the meetup like two weeks in advance.

go get his phone number and add him on fb! ure getting ahead of urself by wanting to fix rs problems even before getting his number.

how are u communicating if u do not have each other's phone numbers? u kissed someone without knowing his phone number?

i dont have a line of action to suggest to u but if ure not just playing around or looking for fun, then u should behave like ure mature and looking for something serious.

actually i experienced this before with a cap dude. i wasn't clear to him what i wanted, i disappeared while abroad because he disappeared while abroad, he didn't contact me after i return, i tried contacting him but he was cold, i found his insta and he was following pretty girls too but we never exchanged social media, i told him i was looking for 'fun' after we had sex, he pissed off, drifted away, called me crazy and demanding because i didnt understand, now together with a girl he met after me (who added him on fb LOL but i think she's those kind who adds guys she matches on tinder on fb because she added my close friend) and that was some years back. and this guy supposedly just came to the country to work as an expat.