Long Distance In-love with a cappy woman

Hi Cappies! I am a libra and in love with this cappy woman miles away from me.. I am getting a lot of mix signals from her. sometimes she seems so sweet and nice then after she's so distant and cold. If i don't text her she will worry, if I text her a lot she complains that i am a liitle annoying cos of messaging her and couldn't replied cos of her schools and stuff . Ugh what hurts most is that when she says busy i really don't believe it especially she's always online in that messaging apps. Please help 😢

@ Capri-sun Thanks for replying back. hmm come to think of it almost everyday. Just saying have a nice day or sweetdreams 😢 I just don't want her to feel that she has been forgotten.

1) oh she online im sure of it hahah

2) Thats the thing i don't wanna ask her about that schedule coz for me it feels like i am prying. Is that wrong?

hmm Kinda yes..I always text her to have a nice day or sweetdreams.I just dont want her to feel that she has forgotten. 😢

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@ Capri-sun Thanks for replying back. hmm come to think of it almost everyday. Just saying have a nice day or sweetdreams 😢 I just don't want her to feel that she has been forgotten.

1) oh she online im sure of it hahah

2) Thats the thing i don't wanna ask her about that schedule coz for me it feels like i am prying. Is that wrong?

hmm Kinda yes..I always text her to have a nice day or sweetdreams.I just dont want her to feel that she has forgotten. 😢

Nothing is wrong with that...it's possible she has lost interest.

I understand the prying part...just if she says she is busy next time ask her when is she free or when is a better time to contact her.

How old is she?

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She always replied me back but just to answer my questions and when i asked her why she didn't tell me that she is busy at the moment she said that she didn't want me to feel bad if she tells me that she can't text.. so i really don't know..

she 19 and i am 29

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How far about are you as far as distance?

like other countries.. I am from north america shes from latin america

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How far about are you as far as distance?

like other countries.. I am from north america shes from latin america

Wow...have you 2 met in person

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Was sleepy when i read your comment and i thought it said

Wow.....have you 2 met in prison? 😄

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Hi Cappies! I am a libra and in love with this cappy woman miles away from me.. I am getting a lot of mix signals from her. sometimes she seems so sweet and nice then after she's so distant and cold. If i don't text her she will worry, if I text her a lot she complains that i am a liitle annoying cos of messaging her and couldn't replied cos of her schools and stuff . Ugh what hurts most is that when she says busy i really don't believe it especially she's always online in that messaging apps. Please help 😢

If i am interested in someone i dont mind that person talking to me all the time , except for when its practically not possible to talk like if i am in some class or work or meeting . She could be different and may want more space. If i was you i wont continue too many msges and if she would ask then my answer would be clear that since she doesnt want it.

Different people expect different things . She may have lost interest or she would be like that , who wants more space .

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@ Capri-sun Thanks for replying back. hmm come to think of it almost everyday. Just saying have a nice day or sweetdreams 😢 I just don't want her to feel that she has been forgotten.

1) oh she online im sure of it hahah

2) Thats the thing i don't wanna ask her about that schedule coz for me it feels like i am prying. Is that wrong?

hmm Kinda yes..I always text her to have a nice day or sweetdreams.I just dont want her to feel that she has forgotten. 😢

Nothing is wrong with that...it's possible she has lost interest.

I understand the prying part...just if she says she is busy next time ask her when is she free or when is a better time to contact her.

How old is she?

She always replied me back but just to answer my questions and when i asked her why she didn't tell me that she is busy at the moment she said that she didn't want me to feel bad if she tells me that she can't text.. so i really don't know..

she 19 and i am 29

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There is a possibility that you could be misreading what she means . I have been misundersood a lot in my life , and even now people misread what i say. So possibly she may mean something else and u may take it as something else.

And yes there is good age gap. I hope you guys have met and its not just an online thing .

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How far about are you as far as distance?

like other countries.. I am from north america shes from latin america

Wow...have you 2 met in person

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No we did not. 😢 I am busy with work and schools. I am planning actually to visit her this year but she confuses me so i'm kinda afraid to see her. she has this past lovers or crushes. I sent her a gift though on her birthday and she said she appreciated it and loved it

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@ Capri-sun Thanks for replying back. hmm come to think of it almost everyday. Just saying have a nice day or sweetdreams 😢 I just don't want her to feel that she has been forgotten.

1) oh she online im sure of it hahah

2) Thats the thing i don't wanna ask her about that schedule coz for me it feels like i am prying. Is that wrong?

hmm Kinda yes..I always text her to have a nice day or sweetdreams.I just dont want her to feel that she has forgotten. 😢

Nothing is wrong with that...it's possible she has lost interest.

I understand the prying part...just if she says she is busy next time ask her when is she free or when is a better time to contact her.

How old is she?

She always replied me back but just to answer my questions and when i asked her why she didn't tell me that she is busy at the moment she said that she didn't want me to feel bad if she tells me that she can't text.. so i really don't know..

she 19 and i am 29

There is a possibility that you could be misreading what she means . I have been misundersood a lot in my life , and even now people misread what i say. So possibly she may mean something else and u may take it as something else.

And yes there is good age gap. I hope you guys have met and its not just an online thing .

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We have been talking for awhile now like 7 mos wow! I didn’t realize that till now haha. I haven't met her yet but I will. We flirted for 3 mos I told her those time I was falling and she told me right away she doesn’t want it.. so I was hurt by that and we agreed to stay friends..every time I pulled back she reached out and I hated it. There was one time, I was joking about meeting this hot woman and sent her the picture. I told her that I really love this woman that she is the one and she told me “oh I am really happy for you, finally u are in love and lucky’. Later on I told her that the picture was in fact an actress. Then, she said that I am a liar and broke her heart that she will not believe me again but of course she’s probably joking at that time. What did she mean by that “ broke her heart” she send me link or record a song to listen and asked me to watched certain episodes. After awhile she will pulled back again..so we’re in this cycle and it is exhausting. I wanted to visit her so badly the only thing stopping me is that I am not sure about her feelings. She keeps on telling of all her crushes or someone past lovers. ( why she is doing all of this?) I sent her a gift on her birthday she told me she loved it. Oh one more thing she asked me if I know this artist that she likes his poem that it is beautiful in her language so I told her if only I can hear that in their language so, she did read the poem for me. And now she’s telling me she was talking to this guy and she said she realized that she has feelings but then when I asked her if you love him she said she doesn’t . Oh my god I am attracted to Capricorns but it’s so hard to know what u really guys want.. I am a libra and I get along with anybody..

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How far about are you as far as distance?

Thanks for replying back. What should i do to keep her interested ?

Why can't you find a woman to date in your city?

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How far about are you as far as distance?

Thanks for replying back. What should i do to keep her interested ?

Be honest & genuine. Be yourself.

If you're unsure of traveling to see her, express that to her & see what she says.

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Do u think she will understand that?

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I understand your hesitation. She's still young & probably doesn't know what she wants.

Talking about crushes/past lovers is a red flag.

I really appreciate honesty so I would've pulled away after you sent the picture of the actress and confessed you lied about it.

Part of me feels like she is playing games with you. And you're right 7 months is a long time. She said in the beginning that she didn't want that so I would take her at her word. She could reach out when you pull back out of loneliness, boredom, or wanting attention.

so what should i do? just leave her cos shes not into me? so sharing all those past lovers and crushes she doesnt do that to get me jealous? I appreciate your responses

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Why can't you find a woman to date in your city?

Good question i have been but I am an idiot. I let myself fall to the person who is really far from me and young

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@ Capri-sun Thanks for replying back. hmm come to think of it almost everyday. Just saying have a nice day or sweetdreams 😢 I just don't want her to feel that she has been forgotten.

1) oh she online im sure of it hahah

2) Thats the thing i don't wanna ask her about that schedule coz for me it feels like i am prying. Is that wrong?

hmm Kinda yes..I always text her to have a nice day or sweetdreams.I just dont want her to feel that she has forgotten. 😢

Nothing is wrong with that...it's possible she has lost interest.

I understand the prying part...just if she says she is busy next time ask her when is she free or when is a better time to contact her.

How old is she?

She always replied me back but just to answer my questions and when i asked her why she didn't tell me that she is busy at the moment she said that she didn't want me to feel bad if she tells me that she can't text.. so i really don't know..

she 19 and i am 29

There is a possibility that you could be misreading what she means . I have been misundersood a lot in my life , and even now people misread what i say. So possibly she may mean something else and u may take it as something else.

And yes there is good age gap. I hope you guys have met and its not just an online thing .

We have been talking for awhile now like 7 mos wow! I didn’t realize that till now haha. I haven't met her yet but I will. We flirted for 3 mos I told her those time I was falling and she told me right away she doesn’t want it.. so I was hurt by that and we agreed to stay friends..every time I pulled back she reached out and I hated it. There was one time, I was joking about meeting this hot woman and sent her the picture. I told her that I really love this woman that she is the one and she told me “oh I am really happy for you, finally u are in love and lucky’. Later on I told her that the picture was in fact an actress. Then, she said that I am a liar and broke her heart that she will not believe me again but of course she’s probably joking at that time. What did she mean by that “ broke her heart” she send me link or record a song to listen and asked me to watched certain episodes. After awhile she will pulled back again..so we’re in this cycle and it is exhausting. I wanted to visit her so badly the only thing stopping me is that I am not sure about her feelings. She keeps on telling of all her crushes or someone past lovers. ( why she is doing all of this?) I sent her a gift on her birthday she told me she loved it. Oh one more thing she asked me if I know this artist that she likes his poem that it is beautiful in her language so I told her if only I can hear that in their language so, she did read the poem for me. And now she’s telling me she was talking to this guy and she said she realized that she has feelings but then when I asked her if you love him she said she doesn’t . Oh my god I am attracted to Capricorns but it’s so hard to know what u really guys want.. I am a libra and I get along with anybody..

You sound immature for 29 te the pix of the actress.

Why on earth would you invest 7 months of emotions and yet you have not met the person.. That is also childish and not thinking straight...

Meet her as soon as possible before investing any further...

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It was meant to be a joke. we were joking at that time..question though..do u think she see me? cos i don't want to invest and have my heart broken in a foreign country. 😢

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@ Capri-sun Thanks for replying back. hmm come to think of it almost everyday. Just saying have a nice day or sweetdreams 😢 I just don't want her to feel that she has been forgotten.

1) oh she online im sure of it hahah

2) Thats the thing i don't wanna ask her about that schedule coz for me it feels like i am prying. Is that wrong?

hmm Kinda yes..I always text her to have a nice day or sweetdreams.I just dont want her to feel that she has forgotten. 😢

Nothing is wrong with that...it's possible she has lost interest.

I understand the prying part...just if she says she is busy next time ask her when is she free or when is a better time to contact her.

How old is she?

She always replied me back but just to answer my questions and when i asked her why she didn't tell me that she is busy at the moment she said that she didn't want me to feel bad if she tells me that she can't text.. so i really don't know..

she 19 and i am 29

There is a possibility that you could be misreading what she means . I have been misundersood a lot in my life , and even now people misread what i say. So possibly she may mean something else and u may take it as something else.

And yes there is good age gap. I hope you guys have met and its not just an online thing .

We have been talking for awhile now like 7 mos wow! I didn’t realize that till now haha. I haven't met her yet but I will. We flirted for 3 mos I told her those time I was falling and she told me right away she doesn’t want it.. so I was hurt by that and we agreed to stay friends..every time I pulled back she reached out and I hated it. There was one time, I was joking about meeting this hot woman and sent her the picture. I told her that I really love this woman that she is the one and she told me “oh I am really happy for you, finally u are in love and lucky’. Later on I told her that the picture was in fact an actress. Then, she said that I am a liar and broke her heart that she will not believe me again but of course she’s probably joking at that time. What did she mean by that “ broke her heart” she send me link or record a song to listen and asked me to watched certain episodes. After awhile she will pulled back again..so we’re in this cycle and it is exhausting. I wanted to visit her so badly the only thing stopping me is that I am not sure about her feelings. She keeps on telling of all her crushes or someone past lovers. ( why she is doing all of this?) I sent her a gift on her birthday she told me she loved it. Oh one more thing she asked me if I know this artist that she likes his poem that it is beautiful in her language so I told her if only I can hear that in their language so, she did read the poem for me. And now she’s telling me she was talking to this guy and she said she realized that she has feelings but then when I asked her if you love him she said she doesn’t . Oh my god I am attracted to Capricorns but it’s so hard to know what u really guys want.. I am a libra and I get along with anybody..

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Lol we are not so complicated in our own mind, to others may be . In your case i feel there is some chemistry. She may have some interest too . How much that she only could say but since you both are not seeing each other. Not even met so officially you guys are not in a relationship. Obviously there would be confusion. What ever she feels , as of now she cant be certain .

Why dont you ask her again directly ? And may be plan to meet because nothing can be for sure until you both meet face to face . If she has no interest she will ideally clearly tell to not travel to see her .

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How far about are you as far as distance?

Thanks for replying back. What should i do to keep her interested ?

Be honest & genuine. Be yourself.

If you're unsure of traveling to see her, express that to her & see what she says.

Do u think she will understand that?

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If she doesnt then she is not worth it

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@ Capri-sun Thanks for replying back. hmm come to think of it almost everyday. Just saying have a nice day or sweetdreams 😢 I just don't want her to feel that she has been forgotten.

1) oh she online im sure of it hahah

2) Thats the thing i don't wanna ask her about that schedule coz for me it feels like i am prying. Is that wrong?

hmm Kinda yes..I always text her to have a nice day or sweetdreams.I just dont want her to feel that she has forgotten. 😢

Nothing is wrong with that...it's possible she has lost interest.

I understand the prying part...just if she says she is busy next time ask her when is she free or when is a better time to contact her.

How old is she?

She always replied me back but just to answer my questions and when i asked her why she didn't tell me that she is busy at the moment she said that she didn't want me to feel bad if she tells me that she can't text.. so i really don't know..

she 19 and i am 29

There is a possibility that you could be misreading what she means . I have been misundersood a lot in my life , and even now people misread what i say. So possibly she may mean something else and u may take it as something else.

And yes there is good age gap. I hope you guys have met and its not just an online thing .

We have been talking for awhile now like 7 mos wow! I didn’t realize that till now haha. I haven't met her yet but I will. We flirted for 3 mos I told her those time I was falling and she told me right away she doesn’t want it.. so I was hurt by that and we agreed to stay friends..every time I pulled back she reached out and I hated it. There was one time, I was joking about meeting this hot woman and sent her the picture. I told her that I really love this woman that she is the one and she told me “oh I am really happy for you, finally u are in love and lucky’. Later on I told her that the picture was in fact an actress. Then, she said that I am a liar and broke her heart that she will not believe me again but of course she’s probably joking at that time. What did she mean by that “ broke her heart” she send me link or record a song to listen and asked me to watched certain episodes. After awhile she will pulled back again..so we’re in this cycle and it is exhausting. I wanted to visit her so badly the only thing stopping me is that I am not sure about her feelings. She keeps on telling of all her crushes or someone past lovers. ( why she is doing all of this?) I sent her a gift on her birthday she told me she loved it. Oh one more thing she asked me if I know this artist that she likes his poem that it is beautiful in her language so I told her if only I can hear that in their language so, she did read the poem for me. And now she’s telling me she was talking to this guy and she said she realized that she has feelings but then when I asked her if you love him she said she doesn’t . Oh my god I am attracted to Capricorns but it’s so hard to know what u really guys want.. I am a libra and I get along with anybody..

You sound immature for 29 te the pix of the actress.

Why on earth would you invest 7 months of emotions and yet you have not met the person.. That is also childish and not thinking straight...

Meet her as soon as possible before investing any further...

It was meant to be a joke. we were joking at that time..question though..do u think she see me? cos i don't want to invest and have my heart broken in a foreign country. 😢

I would be suspicious of a guy from another country 10 years older than me...

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That is true

Posted by Libra1037
Hi Cappies! I am a libra and in love with this cappy woman miles away from me.. I am getting a lot of mix signals from her. sometimes she seems so sweet and nice then after she's so distant and cold. If i don't text her she will worry, if I text her a lot she complains that i am a liitle annoying cos of messaging her and couldn't replied cos of her schools and stuff . Ugh what hurts most is that when she says busy i really don't believe it especially she's always online in that messaging apps. Please help 😢

You must learn to detach from your emotions. I understand your predicament. I am a Libra in a long distance relation with a Capricorn. [I did not initially understand her behaviors as well. But I kept my Peace in started to investigate/studying Capricorn's Natal personality/characteristics].



Their core Personalities are not like ours. So. please don't misread Capricorn's [fake] External Aloofness/Sobriety. They are very delicate internally, hence their circumspection.