I've written here before regarding a cap that was introduced to me by his mother. Long story short, this guy was completely closed off, didn't show any emotions, but when we went on dates at the beginning he was great. The only thing, I was pursuing all the time. I felt the best decision was to ask him to be fwb, and see where it goes from there. That night he came over, we did it......but I didn't feel good with myself after. I silently walked away from him. 3 weeks later he messaged me asking me why I was giving him the silent treatment. He said that he wanted to go out and have fun with me, not just fuck. I set a date for us to meet up, the day comes, and he bails. After this, I would walk away silently, and he would come back, set a date and bail. Just last weekend, he did it again, and I said enough was enough. I told him that neither of us should be contacting each other at all. I expressed that it tore me apart Everytime he cancelled on me. He didn't reply. So from there I blocked him. I know blocking him seems harsh, but I know that once he reaches out, I will respond to him, I'm weak for him. . Guys, my heart is aching so bad. I've never felt this way before for someone. Even when I left my 10 year relationship, I was not this heartbroken lol. I wish he knew how much I cared for him. I need to move on.....but it's been more than a week, and it's not getting easier for me. My question is this. He obviously wasn't that interested in me.....why the hell did he keep coming back? Was he punishing me? Caps, I need some input here.
