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Posted by Noni05
Caps don't open up as much so when they do they do t wanna feel dumb so your reaction will determine if they can open up again in the future.

Just drop it. Keep it light. Tell him you love him. You already apologized that's enoug for now. Move forward and let things flow.... eventually if you drop it and let things flow they'll open up again when ready.

My cap moon bf he holds in a lot but eventually I time he opens up to me. I get bit and pieces of his emotions I'm learning as a sag to accept who he is.
He's brought up the fact we had a disagreement so much I told him let it go last night. I think he expected me to be more upset about it. I just want to move on. Next time he brings it up Im just going to say "I didn't want to let it go because I wanted to tell you how much I love you too and I want us to establish that we are serious and I feel like we have an amazing future ahead of us". He'd probably shit a brick. Haha
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My first was a Cap lol. Unfortunately he is a January Cap. Lol he actually contacted me just a few weeks ago and I told him I had found a new Capricorn man. I know they like them saucy but not evil. It seems like December Caps are WAY more considerate and stable. Still passionate, fun and smart tho.
My cousin brother is a December Cap. I agree with you, December Caps are more stable, but they tend to be very old fashioned.

I respect my cousin brother a lot and he has always been there for me, but I lose patience with his regressive views on society and gender roles.

The January Caps are more liberal and outgoing, in my opinion.
"but they tend to be very old fashioned." This is true too, doesn't mean we aren't progressive though
I agree with you, Danny.

My cousin has a lot of good qualities -- he is selfless, loving and fair in most circumstances. Having said that, he is kind of a male chauvinist. ?

I've read your posts on here. Your interest in humanitarian causes is commendable. πŸ™‚

Must be your Pisces moon. ?
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Thanks Cap, it could be the moon, and my past combined.. I've launched many projects, 5 of them were big, 3 of them were massive.. I haven't done in project in 2+ years though after relaunching my biz.. I still get freakin media requests.. 1 today from some blog called QZ.. whoever that is.. I'm about to find a random dog for them all to interview so I can have a normal life again
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My first was a Cap lol. Unfortunately he is a January Cap. Lol he actually contacted me just a few weeks ago and I told him I had found a new Capricorn man. I know they like them saucy but not evil. It seems like December Caps are WAY more considerate and stable. Still passionate, fun and smart tho.
My cousin brother is a December Cap. I agree with you, December Caps are more stable, but they tend to be very old fashioned.

I respect my cousin brother a lot and he has always been there for me, but I lose patience with his regressive views on society and gender roles.

The January Caps are more liberal and outgoing, in my opinion.
You're right, they are. I guess since I'm a Taurus and like traditional roles and I appreciate the former. Lol although my Cap and I have bumped heads about child rearing. He's old school with it and I'm more new age (his words).


You guys are discussing children already? That's adorable! Lol.

My sister is a Taurus as well. She loves traditional roles too. πŸ™‚

I can do the traditional stuff, if I really love someone, but even a hint of male chauvinism is enough to turn me off.


With him not having children it seems like he's always watching a woman for motherly traits. He made it clear he is looking for a wife and would lIke children. We discussed children the first time we met lol. He's mentioned it many times since then. I think he's dropping hints. I too want at least another child so perhaps in the future if things continue as well as they are now. We'd be older parents but I'm ok with that. I can tell he'd be a stern but fun Dad.


That's really sweet. πŸ™‚

Cap men have such simple desires. I love that about them. They do make great parents.

I wish you two a great future together. πŸ™‚

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Thank you!

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My first was a Cap lol. Unfortunately he is a January Cap. Lol he actually contacted me just a few weeks ago and I told him I had found a new Capricorn man. I know they like them saucy but not evil. It seems like December Caps are WAY more considerate and stable. Still passionate, fun and smart tho.
My cousin brother is a December Cap. I agree with you, December Caps are more stable, but they tend to be very old fashioned.

I respect my cousin brother a lot and he has always been there for me, but I lose patience with his regressive views on society and gender roles.

The January Caps are more liberal and outgoing, in my opinion.
"but they tend to be very old fashioned." This is true too, doesn't mean we aren't progressive though
I agree with you, Danny.

My cousin has a lot of good qualities -- he is selfless, loving and fair in most circumstances. Having said that, he is kind of a male chauvinist. ?

I've read your posts on here. Your interest in humanitarian causes is commendable. πŸ™‚

Must be your Pisces moon. ?
Thanks Cap, it could be the moon, and my past combined.. I've launched many projects, 5 of them were big, 3 of them were massive.. I haven't done in project in 2+ years though after relaunching my biz.. I still get freakin media requests.. 1 today from some blog called QZ.. whoever that is.. I'm about to find a random dog for them all to interview so I can have a normal life again
That's nice, Danny. What are these projects related to?

I have Pisces Venus and Mars. I have been actively involved in social causes as well. It could have something to do with Pisces placements.



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Homelessness/disaster relief/water rights/police corruption/generational debt woes (my gen)/physical protection of first amendment/ so a myriad
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Ok yall so I need more help. Cap guy is coming across super super serious. He stared at me for like 5 minutes last night. He looked like he absolutely wanted to devour me. We talked about soulmates but I didn't get the idea he was saying he felt like that's what we are. Its crossed my mind but saying it out loud is different. He

did say he thinks I am "trying to get him caught up in this emotional thing" I was like "I didn't do anything!" His response "sometimes that's all it takes".

So, I want him so badly but I'm so skeptical. I feel like he is the rabbit hole and once I fall in there is no coming back. I feel like if we do it, we will go all the way, forever.

Is it normal for Cap guys to fall so deep quickly and mean it? Is it fleeting?
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Ok yall so I need more help. Cap guy is coming across super super serious. He stared at me for like 5 minutes last night. He looked like he absolutely wanted to devour me. We talked about soulmates but I didn't get the idea he was saying he felt like that's what we are. Its crossed my mind but saying it out loud is different. He

did say he thinks I am "trying to get him caught up in this emotional thing" I was like "I didn't do anything!" His response "sometimes that's all it takes".

So, I want him so badly but I'm so skeptical. I feel like he is the rabbit hole and once I fall in there is no coming back. I feel like if we do it, we will go all the way, forever.

Is it normal for Cap guys to fall so deep quickly and mean it? Is it fleeting?
WoW! The famous cap stare!! πŸ˜‰

I think he is honest with you.. Probably falling deeply for you.. They are some intense peeps when you get to their core... It's just hard for them to express it.. Women they fall for are like Aliens to them.. It's so unreal because it's not in their nature to get like that with anyone.. & him saying that you're "trying to get him caught up in this emotional thing" means that he is trying SO hard to fight it.. BUT whyβ€”

You Cap men need to take it easy.. BE vulnerable.. πŸ™‚

But...

I'm with you girly.. I wants ta' know too! πŸ™‚ From a Caps POV, of course.
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Posted by SweetestFatale
Ok yall so I need more help. Cap guy is coming across super super serious. He stared at me for like 5 minutes last night. He looked like he absolutely wanted to devour me. We talked about soulmates but I didn't get the idea he was saying he felt like that's what we are. Its crossed my mind but saying it out loud is different. He

did say he thinks I am "trying to get him caught up in this emotional thing" I was like "I didn't do anything!" His response "sometimes that's all it takes".

So, I want him so badly but I'm so skeptical. I feel like he is the rabbit hole and once I fall in there is no coming back. I feel like if we do it, we will go all the way, forever.

Is it normal for Cap guys to fall so deep quickly and mean it? Is it fleeting?
No I don't think it is normal. I also don't think is fleeting either. Emotions can get the better of us (we are humans just like everybody else) and in such instances normal behavior may not be observed. Personally, I used to be very afraid of situations like that (due to a lack of control). However, now I've learned to embrace them as the challenges they present offer plenty of new ways to learn about myself and others.
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Posted by SweetestFatale
Ok yall so I need more help. Cap guy is coming across super super serious. He stared at me for like 5 minutes last night. He looked like he absolutely wanted to devour me. We talked about soulmates but I didn't get the idea he was saying he felt like that's what we are. Its crossed my mind but saying it out loud is different. He

did say he thinks I am "trying to get him caught up in this emotional thing" I was like "I didn't do anything!" His response "sometimes that's all it takes".

So, I want him so badly but I'm so skeptical. I feel like he is the rabbit hole and once I fall in there is no coming back. I feel like if we do it, we will go all the way, forever.

Is it normal for Cap guys to fall so deep quickly and mean it? Is it fleeting?
WoW! The famous cap stare!! πŸ˜‰

I think he is honest with you.. Probably falling deeply for you.. They are some intense peeps when you get to their core... It's just hard for them to express it.. Women they fall for are like Aliens to them.. It's so unreal because it's not in their nature to get like that with anyone.. & him saying that you're "trying to get him caught up in this emotional thing" means that he is trying SO hard to fight it.. BUT whyβ€”

You Cap men need to take it easy.. BE vulnerable.. πŸ™‚

But...

I'm with you girly.. I wants ta' know too! πŸ™‚ From a Caps POV, of course.
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Be careful what you ask for my dear... πŸ˜‰
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Ok yall so I need more help. Cap guy is coming across super super serious. He stared at me for like 5 minutes last night. He looked like he absolutely wanted to devour me. We talked about soulmates but I didn't get the idea he was saying he felt like that's what we are. Its crossed my mind but saying it out loud is different. He

did say he thinks I am "trying to get him caught up in this emotional thing" I was like "I didn't do anything!" His response "sometimes that's all it takes".

So, I want him so badly but I'm so skeptical. I feel like he is the rabbit hole and once I fall in there is no coming back. I feel like if we do it, we will go all the way, forever.

Is it normal for Cap guys to fall so deep quickly and mean it? Is it fleeting?
WoW! The famous cap stare!! πŸ˜‰

I think he is honest with you.. Probably falling deeply for you.. They are some intense peeps when you get to their core... It's just hard for them to express it.. Women they fall for are like Aliens to them.. It's so unreal because it's not in their nature to get like that with anyone.. & him saying that you're "trying to get him caught up in this emotional thing" means that he is trying SO hard to fight it.. BUT whyβ€”

You Cap men need to take it easy.. BE vulnerable.. πŸ™‚

But...

I'm with you girly.. I wants ta' know too! πŸ™‚ From a Caps POV, of course.
Be careful what you ask for my dear... πŸ˜‰

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LOL! Why so Mr. Daron?

Nothing wrong with being vulnerable w/ the person you love.. What is there to be afraid of? Specially when you know we are vulnerable with you.. Don't leave us hanging... You guys fight it so hard.. But it's easy for me, a scorpio woman, to read through it.. Woman just want it expressed ...

It's almost like we have to be drastic, walk away from the situation, cut ties.. etc... in order for you (cap men) to be yourself...& go for what you been wanting ALL along.. It's always RIGHT in front of you. Clear as day. But ya'll are so scared of "love" lol

Trust me, There is nothing like a strong dominant man.. That can control his emotions..I Respect that, & as a scorp I don't do soft men because I'm way too aggressive for them but ... F!@K! YOU cap GUYS ARE SO DIFFICULT!! lol

Can you explain WHY? I'm sure you've had your share of interest and you pushed them away or fought your true feelings.. Why? What goes through your mind.. Think of that 1 (or more) gals that made you "fall"..
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Ok yall so I need more help. Cap guy is coming across super super serious. He stared at me for like 5 minutes last night. He looked like he absolutely wanted to devour me. We talked about soulmates but I didn't get the idea he was saying he felt like that's what we are. Its crossed my mind but saying it out loud is different. He

did say he thinks I am "trying to get him caught up in this emotional thing" I was like "I didn't do anything!" His response "sometimes that's all it takes".

So, I want him so badly but I'm so skeptical. I feel like he is the rabbit hole and once I fall in there is no coming back. I feel like if we do it, we will go all the way, forever.

Is it normal for Cap guys to fall so deep quickly and mean it? Is it fleeting?
WoW! The famous cap stare!! πŸ˜‰

I think he is honest with you.. Probably falling deeply for you.. They are some intense peeps when you get to their core... It's just hard for them to express it.. Women they fall for are like Aliens to them.. It's so unreal because it's not in their nature to get like that with anyone.. & him saying that you're "trying to get him caught up in this emotional thing" means that he is trying SO hard to fight it.. BUT whyβ€”

You Cap men need to take it easy.. BE vulnerable.. πŸ™‚

But...

I'm with you girly.. I wants ta' know too! πŸ™‚ From a Caps POV, of course.
Be careful what you ask for my dear... πŸ˜‰


LOL! Why so Mr. Daron?

Nothing wrong with being vulnerable w/ the person you love.. What is there to be afraid of? Specially when you know we are vulnerable with you.. Don't leave us hanging... You guys fight it so hard.. But it's easy for me, a scorpio woman, to read through it.. Woman just want it expressed ...

It's almost like we have to be drastic, walk away from the situation, cut ties.. etc... in order for you (cap men) to be yourself...& go for what you been wanting ALL along.. It's always RIGHT in front of you. Clear as day. But ya'll are so scared of "love" lol

Trust me, There is nothing like a strong dominant man.. That can control his emotions..I Respect that, & as a scorp I don't do soft men because I'm way too aggressive for them but ... F!@K! YOU cap GUYS ARE SO DIFFICULT!! lol

Can you explain WHY? I'm sure you've had your share of interest and you pushed them away or fought your true feelings.. Why? What goes through your mind.. Think of that 1 (or more) gals that made you "fall"..
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There have only been 2. The first took years for it to happen. I was infatuated with her from the moment I first saw her. However we met as friends and I spent the next year trying to convince myself that is all I wanted. As time went on we grew closer and eventually ended up dating-- for the next 6 years.

The other a few months. I tried my damndest to keep things rational. I tried to take my time, to be practical, to follow the script- if you will. But eventually the damn broke. Instead of being mad about her leaving clothes at my place, I found myself making space for her in my closets and dresser.

Letting you in is intended to be a permanent thing. If it turns out not to be, there is a lot of clean up that needs to be done.

What goes through my mind? I try to be as rational as possible and keep assumptions to a minimum. Feeling that way about someone is rare for me.
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Ok yall so I need more help. Cap guy is coming across super super serious. He stared at me for like 5 minutes last night. He looked like he absolutely wanted to devour me. We talked about soulmates but I didn't get the idea he was saying he felt like that's what we are. Its crossed my mind but saying it out loud is different. He

did say he thinks I am "trying to get him caught up in this emotional thing" I was like "I didn't do anything!" His response "sometimes that's all it takes".

So, I want him so badly but I'm so skeptical. I feel like he is the rabbit hole and once I fall in there is no coming back. I feel like if we do it, we will go all the way, forever.

Is it normal for Cap guys to fall so deep quickly and mean it? Is it fleeting?
WoW! The famous cap stare!! πŸ˜‰

I think he is honest with you.. Probably falling deeply for you.. They are some intense peeps when you get to their core... It's just hard for them to express it.. Women they fall for are like Aliens to them.. It's so unreal because it's not in their nature to get like that with anyone.. & him saying that you're "trying to get him caught up in this emotional thing" means that he is trying SO hard to fight it.. BUT whyβ€”

You Cap men need to take it easy.. BE vulnerable.. πŸ™‚

But...

I'm with you girly.. I wants ta' know too! πŸ™‚ From a Caps POV, of course.
Be careful what you ask for my dear... πŸ˜‰


LOL! Why so Mr. Daron?

Nothing wrong with being vulnerable w/ the person you love.. What is there to be afraid of? Specially when you know we are vulnerable with you.. Don't leave us hanging... You guys fight it so hard.. But it's easy for me, a scorpio woman, to read through it.. Woman just want it expressed ...

It's almost like we have to be drastic, walk away from the situation, cut ties.. etc... in order for you (cap men) to be yourself...& go for what you been wanting ALL along.. It's always RIGHT in front of you. Clear as day. But ya'll are so scared of "love" lol

Trust me, There is nothing like a strong dominant man.. That can control his emotions..I Respect that, & as a scorp I don't do soft men because I'm way too aggressive for them but ... F!@K! YOU cap GUYS ARE SO DIFFICULT!! lol

Can you explain WHY? I'm sure you've had your share of interest and you pushed them away or fought your true feelings.. Why? What goes through your mind.. Think of that 1 (or more) gals that made you "fall"..
There have only been 2. The first took years for it to happen. I was infatuated with her from the moment I first saw her. However we met as friends and I spent the next year trying to convince myself that is all I wanted. As time went on we grew closer and eventually ended up dating-- for the next 6 years.

The other a few months. I tried my damndest to keep things rational. I tried to take my time, to be practical, to follow the script- if you will. But eventually the damn broke. Instead of being mad about her leaving clothes at my place, I found myself making space for her in my closets and dresser.

Letting you in is intended to be a permanent thing. If it turns out not to be, there is a lot of clean up that needs to be done.

What goes through my mind? I try to be as rational as possible and keep assumptions to a minimum. Feeling that way about someone is rare for me.
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You guys do take your time...Wow! & I get it.. Why put forth the "extra" effort for something that would fall through the cracks.. Simply a waste of time, if you ask me.. BUT... the fact that you forced yourself NOT to fall for the 2nd gal is funny to me.. Like she pushed.. you pulled.. and eventually you were just like eff it.. "If you can't beat 'em, join 'em.." & Since the second "fall" came faster for you (few months) did you really have deep feelings for her, but you didn't know how to express those feels and just "let things happen" as they should? Why did you you try your "damndest?" lol

Why did they end? & what were their signs/venus? If you don't mind inquiring minds knowing?

I like picking a cap man's brain.. πŸ™‚
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Ok yall so I need more help. Cap guy is coming across super super serious. He stared at me for like 5 minutes last night. He looked like he absolutely wanted to devour me. We talked about soulmates but I didn't get the idea he was saying he felt like that's what we are. Its crossed my mind but saying it out loud is different. He

did say he thinks I am "trying to get him caught up in this emotional thing" I was like "I didn't do anything!" His response "sometimes that's all it takes".

So, I want him so badly but I'm so skeptical. I feel like he is the rabbit hole and once I fall in there is no coming back. I feel like if we do it, we will go all the way, forever.

Is it normal for Cap guys to fall so deep quickly and mean it? Is it fleeting?
WoW! The famous cap stare!! πŸ˜‰

I think he is honest with you.. Probably falling deeply for you.. They are some intense peeps when you get to their core... It's just hard for them to express it.. Women they fall for are like Aliens to them.. It's so unreal because it's not in their nature to get like that with anyone.. & him saying that you're "trying to get him caught up in this emotional thing" means that he is trying SO hard to fight it.. BUT whyβ€”

You Cap men need to take it easy.. BE vulnerable.. πŸ™‚

But...

I'm with you girly.. I wants ta' know too! πŸ™‚ From a Caps POV, of course.
Be careful what you ask for my dear... πŸ˜‰


LOL! Why so Mr. Daron?

Nothing wrong with being vulnerable w/ the person you love.. What is there to be afraid of? Specially when you know we are vulnerable with you.. Don't leave us hanging... You guys fight it so hard.. But it's easy for me, a scorpio woman, to read through it.. Woman just want it expressed ...

It's almost like we have to be drastic, walk away from the situation, cut ties.. etc... in order for you (cap men) to be yourself...& go for what you been wanting ALL along.. It's always RIGHT in front of you. Clear as day. But ya'll are so scared of "love" lol

Trust me, There is nothing like a strong dominant man.. That can control his emotions..I Respect that, & as a scorp I don't do soft men because I'm way too aggressive for them but ... F!@K! YOU cap GUYS ARE SO DIFFICULT!! lol

Can you explain WHY? I'm sure you've had your share of interest and you pushed them away or fought your true feelings.. Why? What goes through your mind.. Think of that 1 (or more) gals that made you "fall"..
There have only been 2. The first took years for it to happen. I was infatuated with her from the moment I first saw her. However we met as friends and I spent the next year trying to convince myself that is all I wanted. As time went on we grew closer and eventually ended up dating-- for the next 6 years.

The other a few months. I tried my damndest to keep things rational. I tried to take my time, to be practical, to follow the script- if you will. But eventually the damn broke. Instead of being mad about her leaving clothes at my place, I found myself making space for her in my closets and dresser.

Letting you in is intended to be a permanent thing. If it turns out not to be, there is a lot of clean up that needs to be done.

What goes through my mind? I try to be as rational as possible and keep assumptions to a minimum. Feeling that way about someone is rare for me.
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It must be my Cap Moon, but I am like you. I'm trying to be rational and follow the script. Trying to figure a rational timeline. It seems like he doesn't care hes willing to take his chances if I'm willing to assert it. I hate assuming but he acts as if I should "just know". And in a way I would if I wasn't doubtful. That doubt keeps me from giving in.
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Ok yall so I need more help. Cap guy is coming across super super serious. He stared at me for like 5 minutes last night. He looked like he absolutely wanted to devour me. We talked about soulmates but I didn't get the idea he was saying he felt like that's what we are. Its crossed my mind but saying it out loud is different. He

did say he thinks I am "trying to get him caught up in this emotional thing" I was like "I didn't do anything!" His response "sometimes that's all it takes".

So, I want him so badly but I'm so skeptical. I feel like he is the rabbit hole and once I fall in there is no coming back. I feel like if we do it, we will go all the way, forever.

Is it normal for Cap guys to fall so deep quickly and mean it? Is it fleeting?
WoW! The famous cap stare!! πŸ˜‰

I think he is honest with you.. Probably falling deeply for you.. They are some intense peeps when you get to their core... It's just hard for them to express it.. Women they fall for are like Aliens to them.. It's so unreal because it's not in their nature to get like that with anyone.. & him saying that you're "trying to get him caught up in this emotional thing" means that he is trying SO hard to fight it.. BUT whyβ€”

You Cap men need to take it easy.. BE vulnerable.. πŸ™‚

But...

I'm with you girly.. I wants ta' know too! πŸ™‚ From a Caps POV, of course.
Be careful what you ask for my dear... πŸ˜‰


LOL! Why so Mr. Daron?

Nothing wrong with being vulnerable w/ the person you love.. What is there to be afraid of? Specially when you know we are vulnerable with you.. Don't leave us hanging... You guys fight it so hard.. But it's easy for me, a scorpio woman, to read through it.. Woman just want it expressed ...

It's almost like we have to be drastic, walk away from the situation, cut ties.. etc... in order for you (cap men) to be yourself...& go for what you been wanting ALL along.. It's always RIGHT in front of you. Clear as day. But ya'll are so scared of "love" lol

Trust me, There is nothing like a strong dominant man.. That can control his emotions..I Respect that, & as a scorp I don't do soft men because I'm way too aggressive for them but ... F!@K! YOU cap GUYS ARE SO DIFFICULT!! lol

Can you explain WHY? I'm sure you've had your share of interest and you pushed them away or fought your true feelings.. Why? What goes through your mind.. Think of that 1 (or more) gals that made you "fall"..
There have only been 2. The first took years for it to happen. I was infatuated with her from the moment I first saw her. However we met as friends and I spent the next year trying to convince myself that is all I wanted. As time went on we grew closer and eventually ended up dating-- for the next 6 years.

The other a few months. I tried my damndest to keep things rational. I tried to take my time, to be practical, to follow the script- if you will. But eventually the damn broke. Instead of being mad about her leaving clothes at my place, I found myself making space for her in my closets and dresser.

Letting you in is intended to be a permanent thing. If it turns out not to be, there is a lot of clean up that needs to be done.

What goes through my mind? I try to be as rational as possible and keep assumptions to a minimum. Feeling that way about someone is rare for me.
You guys do take your time...Wow! & I get it.. Why put forth the "extra" effort for something that would fall through the cracks.. Simply a waste of time, if you ask me.. BUT... the fact that you forced yourself NOT to fall for the 2nd gal is funny to me.. Like she pushed.. you pulled.. and eventually you were just like eff it.. "If you can't beat 'em, join 'em.." & Since the second "fall" came faster for you (few months) did you really have deep feelings for her, but you didn't know how to express those feels and just "let things happen" as they should? Why did you you try your "damndest?" lol

Why did they end? & what were their signs/venus? If you don't mind inquiring minds knowing?

I like picking a cap man's brain.. πŸ™‚
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She (the 2nd) didn't push anything. I just couldn't hold back for as long as I probably should have- she walked right through whatever measures I use to slow things down.. I didn't push her away- I just tried to stay on the script because I didn't want to fuck up. Anyway, if you want to know the details of that story PM me. She is a Scorpio Sun- Taurus Moon w/ Virgo Venus.

The first was an Aries Sun- Leo moon w/ Pisces Venus

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Ok yall so I need more help. Cap guy is coming across super super serious. He stared at me for like 5 minutes last night. He looked like he absolutely wanted to devour me. We talked about soulmates but I didn't get the idea he was saying he felt like that's what we are. Its crossed my mind but saying it out loud is different. He

did say he thinks I am "trying to get him caught up in this emotional thing" I was like "I didn't do anything!" His response "sometimes that's all it takes".

So, I want him so badly but I'm so skeptical. I feel like he is the rabbit hole and once I fall in there is no coming back. I feel like if we do it, we will go all the way, forever.

Is it normal for Cap guys to fall so deep quickly and mean it? Is it fleeting?
WoW! The famous cap stare!! πŸ˜‰

I think he is honest with you.. Probably falling deeply for you.. They are some intense peeps when you get to their core... It's just hard for them to express it.. Women they fall for are like Aliens to them.. It's so unreal because it's not in their nature to get like that with anyone.. & him saying that you're "trying to get him caught up in this emotional thing" means that he is trying SO hard to fight it.. BUT whyβ€”

You Cap men need to take it easy.. BE vulnerable.. πŸ™‚

But...

I'm with you girly.. I wants ta' know too! πŸ™‚ From a Caps POV, of course.
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LOL! Why so Mr. Daron?

Nothing wrong with being vulnerable w/ the person you love.. What is there to be afraid of? Specially when you know we are vulnerable with you.. Don't leave us hanging... You guys fight it so hard.. But it's easy for me, a scorpio woman, to read through it.. Woman just want it expressed ...

It's almost like we have to be drastic, walk away from the situation, cut ties.. etc... in order for you (cap men) to be yourself...& go for what you been wanting ALL along.. It's always RIGHT in front of you. Clear as day. But ya'll are so scared of "love" lol

Trust me, There is nothing like a strong dominant man.. That can control his emotions..I Respect that, & as a scorp I don't do soft men because I'm way too aggressive for them but ... F!@K! YOU cap GUYS ARE SO DIFFICULT!! lol

Can you explain WHY? I'm sure you've had your share of interest and you pushed them away or fought your true feelings.. Why? What goes through your mind.. Think of that 1 (or more) gals that made you "fall"..
There have only been 2. The first took years for it to happen. I was infatuated with her from the moment I first saw her. However we met as friends and I spent the next year trying to convince myself that is all I wanted. As time went on we grew closer and eventually ended up dating-- for the next 6 years.

The other a few months. I tried my damndest to keep things rational. I tried to take my time, to be practical, to follow the script- if you will. But eventually the damn broke. Instead of being mad about her leaving clothes at my place, I found myself making space for her in my closets and dresser.

Letting you in is intended to be a permanent thing. If it turns out not to be, there is a lot of clean up that needs to be done.

What goes through my mind? I try to be as rational as possible and keep assumptions to a minimum. Feeling that way about someone is rare for me.
It must be my Cap Moon, but I am like you. I'm trying to be rational and follow the script. Trying to figure a rational timeline. It seems like he doesn't care hes willing to take his chances if I'm willing to assert it. I hate assuming but he acts as if I should "just know". And in a way I would if I wasn't doubtful. That doubt keeps me from giving in.

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My thinking...

How do you "plan" love? Doesn't it just happen?

I think most ppl think rationally in relationships.. Want to follow the script.. I told myself this time around I would take it slow.. Because all my relationships in the past went way too fast.. & failed... and I'm afraid of putting my trust in someone again.. Never knew I'd meet him.. It just happened.. It feels right.. So... If it feels right, why not let it happen..? Why not take a leap of faith.. Let love happen, if that's the way you feel? I really am falling hard for my cap.. But I'm letting him lead us.. & As you said, it seems like I'm just suppose to "know" how he feels.. because he won't just come out and say it.. It's frustrating.
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My first was a Cap lol. Unfortunately he is a January Cap. Lol he actually contacted me just a few weeks ago and I told him I had found a new Capricorn man. I know they like them saucy but not evil. It seems like December Caps are WAY more considerate and stable. Still passionate, fun and smart tho.
My cousin brother is a December Cap. I agree with you, December Caps are more stable, but they tend to be very old fashioned.

I respect my cousin brother a lot and he has always been there for me, but I lose patience with his regressive views on society and gender roles.

The January Caps are more liberal and outgoing, in my opinion.
"but they tend to be very old fashioned." This is true too, doesn't mean we aren't progressive though
I agree with you, Danny.

My cousin has a lot of good qualities -- he is selfless, loving and fair in most circumstances. Having said that, he is kind of a male chauvinist. ?

I've read your posts on here. Your interest in humanitarian causes is commendable. πŸ™‚

Must be your Pisces moon. ?
Thanks Cap, it could be the moon, and my past combined.. I've launched many projects, 5 of them were big, 3 of them were massive.. I haven't done in project in 2+ years though after relaunching my biz.. I still get freakin media requests.. 1 today from some blog called QZ.. whoever that is.. I'm about to find a random dog for them all to interview so I can have a normal life again
That's nice, Danny. What are these projects related to?

I have Pisces Venus and Mars. I have been actively involved in social causes as well. It could have something to do with Pisces placements.




Homelessness/disaster relief/water rights/police corruption/generational debt woes (my gen)/physical protection of first amendment/ so a myriad
That's amazing. We need more people who are sensitive to the suffering of others.
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Fact, I think what happened is I felt so alone from childhood trauma that went on through my teens that when I hit about 18, 19, I realized I wasn't alone and projected that trauma outward. What came next was a storm, I saw it everywhere.
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Ok yall so I need more help. Cap guy is coming across super super serious. He stared at me for like 5 minutes last night. He looked like he absolutely wanted to devour me. We talked about soulmates but I didn't get the idea he was saying he felt like that's what we are. Its crossed my mind but saying it out loud is different. He

did say he thinks I am "trying to get him caught up in this emotional thing" I was like "I didn't do anything!" His response "sometimes that's all it takes".

So, I want him so badly but I'm so skeptical. I feel like he is the rabbit hole and once I fall in there is no coming back. I feel like if we do it, we will go all the way, forever.

Is it normal for Cap guys to fall so deep quickly and mean it? Is it fleeting?

It's possible, especially cap/taurus when both aren't being stubborn lol.

Not fleeting at all. He wouldn't say it in the first place without a) giving it prior thought & b) meaning it

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Update: He's so serious, like a train at 500 mph. He continues to tell me he loves me. Hes been over every night this week so far. Last night he asked if I want a title and which one (he was fishing to know my level of attachment). He asked me why I want to be with him, what is it about him. Then he asked what's the date of the wedding. (Because he can tell I'm not the sort of woman who would be in a relationship with him if I didn't think him marriage material). I didn't pick a date. I won't until he meets my family, notably my dad. They are both Marine vets so I think they'll get along well with "war" stories.

Im reading this book called "Get Married in 365 Days" so a year seems reasonable to me. How is this all happening so quickly!?

He said that in the past he's been told by women he's too nice and that couldn't be more absurd. Yes he's nice, but it's a kind generosity not a lurker annoyance and I like that about him. I see him as dependable and reliable. Be still my Aries/Taurus heart.
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My first was a Cap lol. Unfortunately he is a January Cap. Lol he actually contacted me just a few weeks ago and I told him I had found a new Capricorn man. I know they like them saucy but not evil. It seems like December Caps are WAY more considerate and stable. Still passionate, fun and smart tho.
My cousin brother is a December Cap. I agree with you, December Caps are more stable, but they tend to be very old fashioned.

I respect my cousin brother a lot and he has always been there for me, but I lose patience with his regressive views on society and gender roles.

The January Caps are more liberal and outgoing, in my opinion.
"but they tend to be very old fashioned." This is true too, doesn't mean we aren't progressive though
I agree with you, Danny.

My cousin has a lot of good qualities -- he is selfless, loving and fair in most circumstances. Having said that, he is kind of a male chauvinist. ?

I've read your posts on here. Your interest in humanitarian causes is commendable. πŸ™‚

Must be your Pisces moon. ?
Thanks Cap, it could be the moon, and my past combined.. I've launched many projects, 5 of them were big, 3 of them were massive.. I haven't done in project in 2+ years though after relaunching my biz.. I still get freakin media requests.. 1 today from some blog called QZ.. whoever that is.. I'm about to find a random dog for them all to interview so I can have a normal life again
That's nice, Danny. What are these projects related to?

I have Pisces Venus and Mars. I have been actively involved in social causes as well. It could have something to do with Pisces placements.




Homelessness/disaster relief/water rights/police corruption/generational debt woes (my gen)/physical protection of first amendment/ so a myriad
That's amazing. We need more people who are sensitive to the suffering of others.
Fact, I think what happened is I felt so alone from childhood trauma that went on through my teens that when I hit about 18, 19, I realized I wasn't alone and projected that trauma outward. What came next was a storm, I saw it everywhere.
I'm very sorry to learn that. Did you receive any help in coping with your experiences?

A traumatic childhood can be the most difficult to deal with. Its effects can last a lifetime. Helping others similarly disadvantaged is definitely a good way of coming to terms with your childhood experiences.

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I suppose help received came in the form of watching bad people around the world just, fall. And in the eyes of those I helped. That's where the healing set in.. I may have been powerless to help myself, but I found it easy to help others. Even on a large scale.
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Go on a road trip, hike or camping. Something where you can see how you both act under sustained periods of stressful situations. That's what you're gonna have a partner for, a person to lean on for bad times. The hike or camping thing might be good. Just an idea I've read around.
He actually likes to take weekend trips and we're planning on sharing some. I think life is stressful enough for him right now to see how he is under stress.

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God your bf sounds so f-ing stiff. I can't think of any other word to describe what I mean besides stiff lol but that's so typical of them. He made himself vulnerable, and now it sounds like he's uncomfortable. It sucs that he put that wall back up bc no one likes to move backwards in relationships after there is forward movement, but he sounds like he loves you so he will put it down again. At least you know how he feels, so you can just enjoy the relationship knowing it's headed in a positive direction yanno.
He's very stiff at times and it does get challenging. Knowing more about what he's been through in the past I am very patient and protective with him. He always comes back to show his emotons in dazzling fashion if I show him that it's safe to do so. I think with time and deepend trust he'll be more comfortable and consistent.