That Cap that came back (or probably never left).

So my ex dumped me 7 months ago on the basis of not spending enough time with me (we both worked opposite shifts; I was days and she worked nights), how busy she was, how she had a lot on her plate, and the distance between us (we were 3 hours apart).

I accepted the breakup gracefully, but I was still pretty hurt because I really loved her (still do). So to allow myself to heal, I told her that I was cutting all contact with her until I felt ready to actually consider a friendship. She was upset and didn't accept my decision at all, but I continued to go on with my life.

Even though I cut contact with her, she still sent me text mesaages every couple of days that all said the same thing: "Hey."

I never answered them and she eventually started to write longer messages asking how I'm doing, how's work, school, etc and would end the messages with "Love ya" each time. And in between those mesaages, she sent me a text saying that we should add each other back on social media to which I said was fine, but that hasn't happened yet, but I'm not sweating over it.

I still didn't respond to them and about 2 months ago, she called me out of the blue. I didn't know if I wanted to answer or not, so I let it ring. I eventually called her back and we talked for about 5 minutes before she told me that she'd call me right back which she did a few hours later. She apologized for taking so long and I told her it was alright.

We talked for almost an hour and she seemed genuinely happy to hear from me. We caught up on what was going on in our lives and laughed. It wasn't too bad at all. And since then, she has called me around every 3-4 weeks and we have 45 minute-hour long conversations each time with the most recent time being this Friday that just passed.

I was leaving work when she called me and asked me how I was doing and when I told her I was getting off of work, her voice changed to a disappointed tone and she told me that she would let me get settled in and call me back. I told her to call me back whenever and we hung up.

I was planning on going straight home, but that didn't happen, so when I called her back it was a little after 11 and I figured she wasn't up because she has to be to work at 3AM. I haven't heard from her anymore, but I know she'll get in touch soon enough.

I would love some Capricorn insight on this. My intuition is saying that she misses me, but my head is saying to keep moving forward and that it means nothing. What do y'all think?

Posted by Foreverloveme
What do you want out of the situation?

I thought you had ended things?...I missed the original story, just remember you mentioning her when you posted in a different thread...

Either way, she misses you & wants to keep in touch so she wants you in her life. In what capacity is the part that's hard to tell.

Truthfully, I don't know what I want out of this. I'm very conflicted. It's a mixture of wanting her back in my life, but then I start to think about the things that she did to me and what we went through post-break up that make me want to curse her out. I guess you could say that I'm still hurt over it, but no where near how I was 7 months ago.

And yeah, you'll find my stories all over Dxp in different boards and what not. To give you the entire back story would take forever.

As for what extent that she wants me back in her life, I don't know and but at least my intuition was partially right.

I should've added that she threw it out there that she was single and how she's in no rush to find someone new.

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Posted by Chelsey07

Posted by Foreverloveme
What do you want out of the situation?

I thought you had ended things?...I missed the original story, just remember you mentioning her when you posted in a different thread...

Either way, she misses you & wants to keep in touch so she wants you in her life. In what capacity is the part that's hard to tell.

Truthfully, I don't know what I want out of this. I'm very conflicted. It's a mixture of wanting her back in my life, but then I start to think about the things that she did to me and what we went through post-break up that make me want to curse her out. I guess you could say that I'm still hurt over it, but no where near how I was 7 months ago.

And yeah, you'll find my stories all over Dxp in different boards and what not. To give you the entire back story would take forever.

As for what extent that she wants me back in her life, I don't know and but at least my intuition was partially right.

I should've added that she threw it out there that she was single and how she's in no rush to find someone new.

Figure out what you want first. Everything else is irrelevant until you can answer that question

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You are so right. I'm gonna take my time and figure this out.

Posted by OmniVirgoFlirt
this here says it all

you sum up how cap women do people.

That was my personal experience. I hope no other Capricorns behave this way.

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Posted by Chelsey07

Posted by OmniVirgoFlirt
this here says it all

you sum up how cap women do people.

That was my personal experience. I hope no other Capricorns behave this way.

Mine also. But they all are not like....

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Oh wow. Small world. If you'd want, feel free to PM me about any Cappy questions. I went through enough with my ex to give you some decent answers 🙂