the dumping garden (Page 16)

Posted by capgirl69
Mr. Scorp asked me, "If I bought a house, would you move in?" 😄

WOW!

And how do you feel about that?

Maybe the "😄" says it all LOL

silly me 🙂

Posted by lnana04
Aww, thats so sweet capgirl!

Apparently I don't know how to be the lady I am lol. When the Taurus left the other day I walked him outside in the cold to his car. I was going to stand there and watch him drive off but he was like "go in the house its cold out here!" I made a joke about him telling.me what to do and we laughed.

Now I just got home a few minutes ago and as usual I run into the older Virgo. He walked me home and when I got in front of my apartment I was going to stand out in the freezing cold and finish talking to him for a sec. He stopped that fast and said "Its freezing out here. You are lady go in the house!"

Ummm, why do these guys think they can tell me what to do lol jk? Really though, I guess I should put more effort into being a lady lol.

No worries, they want to take care of you, it's sweet.

Lildol- he picked a great house, I thought it was very sweet. I love how he thinks.

BE CAREFUL!

Yeah, I will. I should say he hadn't actually bought a house yet. Lol. No worries.

Wow, capgirl! Looks like he is very, very serious!!

Posted by CreepyPants
i am doing surprisingly well in this break up.

i'm not sure what to make of it, but i dont think i'm going to try to analyze it... just gonna surf this wave as long as it carries me.

Because scorpio love is heavy. It is like Persephone coming to rejoin the people of the sunshine. It is heavy being in love as a scorpio 😢

Posted by AreTwoFour

Posted by CreepyPants
i am doing surprisingly well in this break up.

i'm not sure what to make of it, but i dont think i'm going to try to analyze it... just gonna surf this wave as long as it carries me.

Because scorpio love is heavy. It is like Persephone coming to rejoin the people of the sunshine. It is heavy being in love as a scorpio 😢

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it's funny... im such an idiot ...i tried to call him just to see how life was for him. i can't freaking help myself... i care about the guy. it would be like a punch in the gut (and will be like this apparently) not knowing a damn thing about what's going on with him and hearing it from everyone else.

but so be it. my call was not welcome. not in the slightest. it really hurt, but somehow i am resigned to it as well. i threw a feeler out and had my antennae lobbed off. im currently numb in that regard and left with my other feelings of sheer joy for the good things i'm doing with the rest of my life.

i see how things will go down with him... he's choosing his anger over honesty and forgiveness to him and myself. eventually time will win him over, and the truth will settle in. I've been wrong before, but my cassandra prophecy is that i'll have moved on and the creepypants that he wants to not care right now, really wont care by the time he gives up his bitterness. he will not have the chance to evolve (or transform for a scorpio) in the respect of a deep relationship with someone, and he'll find himself caught in a repetitive motion until the circles he's running finally causes him to break down and forces rebuilding. then everything i've ever said to him will make sense.

and my oh my will he remember me. he might even know me a little bit better.

just a thought. we'll see what the summer brings, but I have very high hopes soundly based in myself, my plans and my attitude that I'll be loving life. I already am and today was a craptastic day, all things considered. lol

imagine what a great day will do to me!!! 🙂

by the way... i just want everyone to know... the only pills i pop are vitamins.

but the real reason i came to le jard

You're not an idiot; you're just not ready for it to be as final as it is. The passion with which he loved you is now turned to hate. Sometimes it remains that way with Scorps, sometimes not. Passion is blinding. As you expect, once his anger and hurt subside, assuming he permits them to, he will be able to learn from your relationship, as you already have. Whether he ultimately chooses to learn, or to hide, from the truth, remains to be seen. Fabtatic tomorrow, girl 🙂

I was just about to agree with your post Stoic.

I hate that he figures its okay for him to call, or drunk dial, but you cant do the same.

i guess this is partly what i meant with the whole "all or nothing" thing that appears to happen to some cap women in these situations. hopefully time will bring him around...dont let it get you down.

Posted by lnana04
I was just about to agree with your post Stoic.

What stopped you?! I'm generally a pretty agreeable sort of fellow! 😛

Posted by StoicGoat
You're not an idiot; you're just not ready for it to be as final as it is. The passion with which he loved you is now turned to hate. Sometimes it remains that way with Scorps, sometimes not. Passion is blinding. As you expect, once his anger and hurt subside, assuming he permits them to, he will be able to learn from your relationship, as you already have. Whether he ultimately chooses to learn, or to hide, from the truth, remains to be seen. Fabtatic tomorrow, girl 🙂

Gawd, I hate to agree with that but its true. We are not good at remaining friends if it was extremely passionate love when it ended. It hurts too much. It has to cool for a long, long time before we can have enough control to be around that person again. If it was just a fling or when two people out-grow each other, that is not the case

Posted by StoicGoat

Posted by lnana04
I was just about to agree with your post Stoic.

What stopped you?! I'm generally a pretty agreeable sort of fellow! 😛

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lol, it looked like you hid your post for a sec. glad to see it back up.

stoic 🙂 a mighty fine day to you tomorrow as well. you're so right. it is more final than i can stand.

inana, thanks love, i'm bouncing back pretty well. it helps to keep busy and there in i thank my lucky stars im a capricorn.

that said, being cap... i don't switch off feelings like a light switch. i definitely dont lie to myself and resort to hate. but this parting i can do. somehow that phone call is just what i needed to let it go. i can respect someone telling me to piss off. that's not what he said, but it's what he meant. i dont feel the need to internalize or rationalize or analyze... any... more.

thanks for the affirmations. i believe he will choose to learn. the question is when. i know what he wants out of a relationship and i know the only way he'll get it is by learning these lessons. so he'll have to face them again. if he chooses denial, he'll run circles. when he finally gives up on denial, he'll realize the lessons i asked him to learn were the keys all along.

M... !!! yessssss... it's exactly that that i was trying to explain to him tonight. he's so quick to point the finger, but hasnt a clue how to take responsibility in any of it. things like this are exactly what will inevitably catapult me past all of this, with no thoughts of looking back. and they are exactly what will cage him.

just checking in. Hi everyone!

1991.

In 1991, I was 16 years old.

1992.

In 1992, I was 17 years old.

1993. In 1993, I graduated from HS. In April I have my 20 year reunion.

1994. Forgive me, I'm bored.

1995. My students are asking me for dating advice. lol.

1996. I came across this photo online today. This is where Mr. Scorp and I had our second date and where he kissed me the first time (but in the parking lot). We sat right on this porch and talked for about a half hour while we were waiting for the comedy show to start.

1997. Graduated from college.

1998.

This was the number 1 song in March 1998.

1999.

lol. I was trying to find a good gif!

yeah, yeah, yeah.
Damn sneaky Scorpio moon! 😉

having a smoothie and i just tried to drink out of a spoon...

...as though it were a straw.

capgirl i love how sentimental you are. i hope mr. scorp knows!

Thanks creepy. I think he does. He just glosses over it though lol

I have a girl in my class who does not speak. I received several emails that stated she was coming to my class and that she does not speak, and that there is a behavior plan to get her to speak. Her case manager pulled me aside to tell me about her too.

Today was her second day.
She spoke. 🙂

I had a new pencil sharpener installed. I was taking a picture of it. I said, "I am so excited, I just have to take a picture. I've gone a year without a sharpener, and I've been on a waiting list! Can you believe it?"

"I believe it." That's what she said. I was not expecting a reply.
She's been here since September and has only communicated through notes.

This is why I love my job.

She must trust you. Good job!

Posted by ellessque
I wonder what her sign is.

I bet there is aome scorpio in there.

In school....I either didn't speak or you couldn't shut me up because I would be on some crusade.

....but if I felt nobody wanted to listen or was interested in what I had to say....I could be silent for days.

I know, hard to believe 😛

She's a Virgo. lol.

I hope so.
I make the kids feel comfortable- that is one of my strengths, but I think another part of it is that I teach very small classes.
That particular class only has 7 kids in it.

Yesterday, while they were all doing work, I just casually said, "This is Alice (not her real name). She's new but she doesn't like to talk, is what I hear." She nodded and smiled. And then I just went around and told her who everyone was.

It's like a little family here, being such a small group, we do a lot of talking about random stuff while we work, so it is very much more relaxed than a regular classroom.

Thanks!

capgirl... awe!!! that made my day!

It made my day too! Great day to be a teacher.

kids are freaking amazing... i hope i get to have one of my own someday.

Capgirl's Coupon deal of the day:

Always Infinity Pads at CVS stores.
Normally 8.99 a box.
This week, they are 2 for $ 14.
There was a coupon in the paper last week for $ 2.50 off of 2.
Plus if you have extra bucks, you can use them. I had 2.

So $ 14- 4.50 is the deal I got: $ 9.50 for 2 boxes of pads. Basically I paid full price for 1 box, and got 1 box for 50 cents.

How many in the package?

Rite Aid has Kotex pads on sale for $ 3.89 if your a rewards member (for pkg of 14) then an in-ad coupon for $ 3.00 off! I think I can spare $ 0.89 cents 🙂

I think the GUYS need to run out and stock up for their ladies regardless of what sale they go for. Always a good idea to be prepared and your women will either see you as very thoughtful or a goof (we do know it takes a mature man to buy feminine products) - just don't wrap it and give it to her as a gift! If you don't live together, DO let her know you saw them on sale and thought of her, otherwise she'll wonder who's f'ing pads are in your closet LOL

Posted by lildol
How many in the package?

Rite Aid has Kotex pads on sale for $ 3.89 if your a rewards member (for pkg of 14) then an in-ad coupon for $ 3.00 off! I think I can spare $ 0.89 cents 🙂

I think the GUYS need to run out and stock up for their ladies regardless of what sale they go for. Always a good idea to be prepared and your women will either see you as very thoughtful or a goof (we do know it takes a mature man to buy feminine products) - just don't wrap it and give it to her as a gift! If you don't live together, DO let her know you saw them on sale and thought of her, otherwise she'll wonder who's f'ing pads are in your closet LOL

Good tip on the Kotex.
I don't know how many were in the box, I will have to look when I get home.

Always infinity is my brand. That dry-weave is amazing! lol.

You know, I never go to Rite Aid! Our Rite-Aid is on the other side of town from CVS and Walgreens.
I love CVS and their extra bucks and their coupon machine.

Meh. I'd rather talk about the new Walmart, frankly.

lol. What can I say? I'm a simple person.

Posted by lildol
I think the GUYS need to run out and stock up for their ladies regardless of what sale they go for. Always a good idea to be prepared and your women will either see you as very thoughtful or a goof (we do know it takes a mature man to buy feminine products) - just don't wrap it and give it to her as a gift! If you don't live together, DO let her know you saw them on sale and thought of her, otherwise she'll wonder who's f'ing pads are in your closet LOL

lol

the more observant and attentive to other people you become, the more you're apt to become curious about what you pick up and you will naturally strike up conversation.. that's all it is, imo... having something to say or ask in regards to what is surrounding you.

i think shyness is hyper self-awareness. just let go of over thinking yourself and tune in to whats around you.

*rubs palms together ...excitedly*

MUAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHA>>> HAPPY DAAAAAAAAYYYYSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Yay for menopause! I was 38, so six yrs of not having to buy stayfrees, kotexes, tampaxes, alway-ez

I used a progesterone cream derived from wild yams religiously at age 37, and I think it sped up the process. A doctor was going to put me on hormones to make shit happen again, and I refused. Pluh-leeze, Dr. bitch, I have been waiting for this since I was 12. in the 1970's. No way, Jose!

So, the God particle isn't a graviton. Fascinating.
but......Are they sure?