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Posted by lnana04
Aww, thats so sweet capgirl!

Apparently I don't know how to be the lady I am lol. When the Taurus left the other day I walked him outside in the cold to his car. I was going to stand there and watch him drive off but he was like "go in the house its cold out here!" I made a joke about him telling.me what to do and we laughed.

Now I just got home a few minutes ago and as usual I run into the older Virgo. He walked me home and when I got in front of my apartment I was going to stand out in the freezing cold and finish talking to him for a sec. He stopped that fast and said "Its freezing out here. You are lady go in the house!"

Ummm, why do these guys think they can tell me what to do lol jk? Really though, I guess I should put more effort into being a lady lol.



No worries, they want to take care of you, it's sweet.

Lildol- he picked a great house, I thought it was very sweet. I love how he thinks.
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i am doing surprisingly well in this break up.

i'm not sure what to make of it, but i dont think i'm going to try to analyze it... just gonna surf this wave as long as it carries me.



Because scorpio love is heavy. It is like Persephone coming to rejoin the people of the sunshine. It is heavy being in love as a scorpio 😢
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it's funny... im such an idiot ...i tried to call him just to see how life was for him. i can't freaking help myself... i care about the guy. it would be like a punch in the gut (and will be like this apparently) not knowing a damn thing about what's going on with him and hearing it from everyone else.

but so be it. my call was not welcome. not in the slightest. it really hurt, but somehow i am resigned to it as well. i threw a feeler out and had my antennae lobbed off. im currently numb in that regard and left with my other feelings of sheer joy for the good things i'm doing with the rest of my life.

i see how things will go down with him... he's choosing his anger over honesty and forgiveness to him and myself. eventually time will win him over, and the truth will settle in. I've been wrong before, but my cassandra prophecy is that i'll have moved on and the creepypants that he wants to not care right now, really wont care by the time he gives up his bitterness. he will not have the chance to evolve (or transform for a scorpio) in the respect of a deep relationship with someone, and he'll find himself caught in a repetitive motion until the circles he's running finally causes him to break down and forces rebuilding. then everything i've ever said to him will make sense.

and my oh my will he remember me. he might even know me a little bit better.

just a thought. we'll see what the summer brings, but I have very high hopes soundly based in myself, my plans and my attitude that I'll be loving life. I already am and today was a craptastic day, all things considered. lol
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You're not an idiot; you're just not ready for it to be as final as it is. The passion with which he loved you is now turned to hate. Sometimes it remains that way with Scorps, sometimes not. Passion is blinding. As you expect, once his anger and hurt subside, assuming he permits them to, he will be able to learn from your relationship, as you already have. Whether he ultimately chooses to learn, or to hide, from the truth, remains to be seen. Fabtatic tomorrow, girl 🙂
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Posted by StoicGoat
You're not an idiot; you're just not ready for it to be as final as it is. The passion with which he loved you is now turned to hate. Sometimes it remains that way with Scorps, sometimes not. Passion is blinding. As you expect, once his anger and hurt subside, assuming he permits them to, he will be able to learn from your relationship, as you already have. Whether he ultimately chooses to learn, or to hide, from the truth, remains to be seen. Fabtatic tomorrow, girl 🙂



Gawd, I hate to agree with that but its true. We are not good at remaining friends if it was extremely passionate love when it ended. It hurts too much. It has to cool for a long, long time before we can have enough control to be around that person again. If it was just a fling or when two people out-grow each other, that is not the case
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stoic 🙂 a mighty fine day to you tomorrow as well. you're so right. it is more final than i can stand.

inana, thanks love, i'm bouncing back pretty well. it helps to keep busy and there in i thank my lucky stars im a capricorn.

that said, being cap... i don't switch off feelings like a light switch. i definitely dont lie to myself and resort to hate. but this parting i can do. somehow that phone call is just what i needed to let it go. i can respect someone telling me to piss off. that's not what he said, but it's what he meant. i dont feel the need to internalize or rationalize or analyze... any... more.

thanks for the affirmations. i believe he will choose to learn. the question is when. i know what he wants out of a relationship and i know the only way he'll get it is by learning these lessons. so he'll have to face them again. if he chooses denial, he'll run circles. when he finally gives up on denial, he'll realize the lessons i asked him to learn were the keys all along.

M... !!! yessssss... it's exactly that that i was trying to explain to him tonight. he's so quick to point the finger, but hasnt a clue how to take responsibility in any of it. things like this are exactly what will inevitably catapult me past all of this, with no thoughts of looking back. and they are exactly what will cage him.
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I have a girl in my class who does not speak. I received several emails that stated she was coming to my class and that she does not speak, and that there is a behavior plan to get her to speak. Her case manager pulled me aside to tell me about her too.

Today was her second day.
She spoke. 🙂

I had a new pencil sharpener installed. I was taking a picture of it. I said, "I am so excited, I just have to take a picture. I've gone a year without a sharpener, and I've been on a waiting list! Can you believe it?"

"I believe it." That's what she said. I was not expecting a reply.
She's been here since September and has only communicated through notes.

This is why I love my job.
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I hope so.
I make the kids feel comfortable- that is one of my strengths, but I think another part of it is that I teach very small classes.
That particular class only has 7 kids in it.

Yesterday, while they were all doing work, I just casually said, "This is Alice (not her real name). She's new but she doesn't like to talk, is what I hear." She nodded and smiled. And then I just went around and told her who everyone was.

It's like a little family here, being such a small group, we do a lot of talking about random stuff while we work, so it is very much more relaxed than a regular classroom.
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Capgirl's Coupon deal of the day:

Always Infinity Pads at CVS stores.
Normally 8.99 a box.
This week, they are 2 for $ 14.
There was a coupon in the paper last week for $ 2.50 off of 2.
Plus if you have extra bucks, you can use them. I had 2.

So $ 14- 4.50 is the deal I got: $ 9.50 for 2 boxes of pads. Basically I paid full price for 1 box, and got 1 box for 50 cents.
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How many in the package?

Rite Aid has Kotex pads on sale for $ 3.89 if your a rewards member (for pkg of 14) then an in-ad coupon for $ 3.00 off! I think I can spare $ 0.89 cents 🙂

I think the GUYS need to run out and stock up for their ladies regardless of what sale they go for. Always a good idea to be prepared and your women will either see you as very thoughtful or a goof (we do know it takes a mature man to buy feminine products) - just don't wrap it and give it to her as a gift! If you don't live together, DO let her know you saw them on sale and thought of her, otherwise she'll wonder who's f'ing pads are in your closet LOL
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Posted by lildol
How many in the package?

Rite Aid has Kotex pads on sale for $ 3.89 if your a rewards member (for pkg of 14) then an in-ad coupon for $ 3.00 off! I think I can spare $ 0.89 cents 🙂

I think the GUYS need to run out and stock up for their ladies regardless of what sale they go for. Always a good idea to be prepared and your women will either see you as very thoughtful or a goof (we do know it takes a mature man to buy feminine products) - just don't wrap it and give it to her as a gift! If you don't live together, DO let her know you saw them on sale and thought of her, otherwise she'll wonder who's f'ing pads are in your closet LOL



Good tip on the Kotex.
I don't know how many were in the box, I will have to look when I get home.

Always infinity is my brand. That dry-weave is amazing! lol.
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Posted by lildol
I think the GUYS need to run out and stock up for their ladies regardless of what sale they go for. Always a good idea to be prepared and your women will either see you as very thoughtful or a goof (we do know it takes a mature man to buy feminine products) - just don't wrap it and give it to her as a gift! If you don't live together, DO let her know you saw them on sale and thought of her, otherwise she'll wonder who's f'ing pads are in your closet LOL


lol
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the more observant and attentive to other people you become, the more you're apt to become curious about what you pick up and you will naturally strike up conversation.. that's all it is, imo... having something to say or ask in regards to what is surrounding you.

i think shyness is hyper self-awareness. just let go of over thinking yourself and tune in to whats around you.
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*rubs palms together ...excitedly*

MUAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHA>>> HAPPY DAAAAAAAAYYYYSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Yay for menopause! I was 38, so six yrs of not having to buy stayfrees, kotexes, tampaxes, alway-ez

I used a progesterone cream derived from wild yams religiously at age 37, and I think it sped up the process. A doctor was going to put me on hormones to make shit happen again, and I refused. Pluh-leeze, Dr. bitch, I have been waiting for this since I was 12. in the 1970's. No way, Jose!

So, the God particle isn't a graviton. Fascinating.
but......Are they sure?