the dumping garden (Page 15)

arggghhhh!!! i am such a pisces moon!!!!!!

Posted by lnana04
After all of that another "hey boo" text today. Completely random and basically pushing aside all that was said, but I played nice....didnt know I had it in me lol....and he eventually asked what I was doing for valentines day. After I said nothing he told me he got me a gift. We exchanged more texts then he said he had to go in to work, I replied ttyl, and 5min later the phone rings. We talk and catch up for about a good 45 minutes, and before he got of the phone he said "I got your gift so dont be acting all scared"...im really nervous/shy in person.

Anyway, this is just all so random to me. Im trying to figure out what to make of it and his intentions. I told him he must have just broken up with his girlfriend and thats why hes calling me for valentines day lol. He laughed a bit and said no,that he hasnt dated anyone in a long time.

Im like Im back at square one with the boundaries thing. Im trying to start over and he's saying he has a gift, Im asking what it is then asking about his dating life, hes asking about mine.

I think one of the sillyest thing is to go thru something and not learn a lesson from it. I probably shouldnt accept a gift but how do I say that now? Good thing that he's cheap, so its probably a candy bar and a little bear. Still there's something said behind the gift if he give it, and if I accept.ugh again


And Im also sitting here wondering why my Cap friend hasnt called me to let me know he made it in from Turks and Caicos(?) Him and his wife had their "official" wedding Sunday!

I think you are over analyzing. I do that all the time too, but maybe you should just relax, see what develops. And I know how hard that is to do!

I think this is why I have (finally!) had success with the Scorp. In the beginning, because he is so young, I had no expectations. Really the first time ever that happened. Before I was always overanalyzing like you are here. I just thought, "Well, I can have a little fun with this one until he gets sick of me." But now it has been almost 6 months and he is really serious. But I still never overanalyze anything because I have learned that he is pretty genuine.

scorpio ex is honestly and sadly starting to scare me. he called me and went off on me with a lot of hateful things. he wants me to stay away from my friends who are his friends... but these are people i love to death and like me a lot too.

i have no clue what to do.

i'm thinking ignoring him is best.

he was so hateful... he actually used the word hate. at one point not too long ago he said "i love you more than anything" and now... "i hate you more than anything"

wow

this is all ironic and unbelievable.

Creepy- hugs! That sounds like a terrible situation.

Is it bad that I'm half expecting this Libra guy to get bored and move on soon? :/

bump!
Happy Monday!

Today? Monday for you maybe, you had yesterday off while the rest of us slaved! 😛

Happy Tuesday to the rest of 😄

Ahh, Happy Tuesday! I forgot. I was off yesterday. My bad. lol

lol, elle. I have read a lot about Pisces/Cap being a good match but I scare Pisces men.

Awwww. How old are they?

Posted by Sangfroid
Test, getting "error adding message" on other threads.

Hmmm... that was the message one would receive when trying to post if the OP had blocked you a when Duncan was doing his block feature experiment with us. Maybe he reinstated it? UGH! I do not believe we should be restricted from posting on a thread just because the OP has a stick up their ass!! Folks were doing it out of spite due to the shear fact someone held a different view point from them... SO NOT COOL!

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Posted by lildol
Today? Monday for you maybe, you had yesterday off while the rest of us slaved! 😛

Happy Tuesday to the rest of 😄

your virgo story was hilarious! just lay there, don't move. i laughed for an hour toooo funny!

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AND BE QUIET! PFFT!!

And they ALL think they're supreme beings!

This discussion is really giving me bad visions in my head... my father's a Virgo *runs away from the thought, screaming, ripping hair out*

Ahhhh, that's better...

Posted by capgirl69
bump!
Happy Monday!

this confused me for a couple minutes. lol

dinner: 2 eggs over easy, 2 slices avocado toast, sauteed spinach and aarugala, 2 slices bacon. mmm.

Oh, I forgot to share: Mr. Scorp told me he was born at 8 AM, but actually, according to his mother he was born at 8 PM, making him a Cancer Ascendant instead of a Scorpio Asc, which makes him even more like Dazed than I orginally thought. lol.

4am. woke up starving. eating cereal. gonna be tired at 5 when I am supposed to be up.

lol. That's cute.

My Scorp's two best friends are a Pisces and a Cancer. The three of them crack me up. And what makes me laugh even harder is that the Scorp thinks he is so much tougher than the other two.

I am very disorganized and scatterbrained, Sangfroid! My word of the year is "together" because I am trying to get it together. lol. I am making progress though.

My son is a Libra and his best friend is a Pisces. At times I have no idea why they are friends because they fight. Other times they get along so well that I only hear laughter all day. They are 9.

When they do fight, usually it's because the Pisces (Cancer moon) thinks the Libra (Cappy moon) is mean. lol. Or sometimes the Libra kicks the Pisces out when he doesn't let him have his way.

lol i apologize on behalf of his moon 😛

if he didnt before, i bet he LOVES you now for saving him! nicely done!

Bringing Mr. Scorp to a cub scout dinner tonight. This is serious. lol.

capgirl... you're so in love. 🙂

Posted by CreepyPants
capgirl... you're so in love. 🙂

I know, it's crazy. 🙂
He did ok at the dinner.

He is going to be formidable when he has his own children. lol.

Student: Miss, you shoulda signed my paper yesterday.
Me: Do you have it? I remember telling you I would help you with it and then I would sign it.
Student: I left it in my car.
Me: Oh. Sorry.
Student: You shoulda signed it!
Me: It was a blank paper. I told you I'd help you fill it out.
Student: It wasn't blank.
Me: It wasn't filled out. It was blank.
Student: Well, I signed it.
Me: You may have signed it but the rest of it was blank. I'm not signing a paper that is blank.
Student: IT WASN'T BLANK! I SIGNED IT!! MY MOTHER SIGNED IT!
Me: laughing and yelling: YOU HANDED ME A BLANK PAPER. I CAN'T SIGN A FORM THAT IS NOT FILLED OUT. I TOLD YOU I WOULD HELP YOU!
I'm not refusing to sign it to be mean, I just can't sign a blank paper. I will help you fill it out.

Student: Oh. But that other teacher told me you just needed to sign it...

Oy!
He's a Leo/Scorpio moon, just because I know everyone wants to know. He's one of my favorites. He's so cute and smiley all the time. He's lucky because if he were anyone else I probably would've lost it on him. lol.

I just signed up for the Color Me Rad 5k! So excited!

TGIF!

I'm so tired this morning. Scorp kept me up all night and not in a fun way. He's been having issues and he can't sleep, so everytime I dozed off, I hear, "are you awake? I can't sleep." Then he woke me up to tell me he was gonna sleep on the couch, lol. Seriously, dude, go sleep on the couch, don't wake me up at 2 am when I have to get up at 5. lol.

lol@capgirl.

Its been a minute since Ive laughed this hard.

Just got off the phone with my Cap friend who loves to tell me how mean I am and always go back to when I was sick and he brought me medicine, a salad and flowers.

Him--you told me to come that day and turned into the d3vil when I showed up.
Me--No I didnt. Why would I be mad if I knew you were coming?
Him--How would I know you wanted a salad?
Me--I dont know!!

we go back and forth about it til he agrees that maybe he did just pop up. Then he says...

Him--wait hold up..I didnt bring flowers did I?
Me---Yes, you did.
Him--Oh s&it, I was trying to hit that(aka have sex).
*both dying laughing*
Me--this confirms what I thought all that time lol.

Noe he's embarrased that I called him out and wants me to ask my sis and mom what kind of flowers they were(I dont remember) because that will tell him if he aas really trying to have sex or not. I told him I wasnt doing all of that lol. I think he really feels embarrased though, mostly because I followedhim and he's probably going to tie it all to why I keep a distance.

lol.

My kid came in third at the pinewood derby. So fun!

wtf? run like a squirrel? i love it. that's flippin adorable

I'm stealing his line!!!!!

*runs away like a squirrel*

Why do I turn into such a weirdo when I like someone?

My Libra and Pisces kids have been making movies with my webcam. i found them yesterday. They are hilarious!!
They figured out how to put avatars in the movies with a voice over and they have made these like mini talk/news shows. The things they think of!

Posted by lnana04
Why do I turn into such a weirdo when I like someone?

Love this... this is me.

life is too precious to not be who you want to be.

i am doing surprisingly well in this break up.

i'm not sure what to make of it, but i dont think i'm going to try to analyze it... just gonna surf this wave as long as it carries me.

Why do I seem to run into the older Virgo guy evertime I step foot outside? I just checked the mailbox and there he is.."aww, I miss you" walking towards me, hugging me, and grabbing my hand lol. The police officer on the property called him and wouldnt say anything on the other line so the virgo kept saying "hello, hello" and making jokes telling me how he should shoot his @ss lol. It took about a good minute or two before he said "ahh s#it thats a signal" and rushed down there. Hopefully they are not this careless in signaling eachother. The Virgo had him on speaker phone so I now know what the signal is smh lol. seriously, hopefully things are alright down there.

I notice that them virgos "get in the know" and operate on a very low key level. This guy walks around talking to everybody but he is VERY observant and fills me in on whats going on around the complex and lets me know what to watch out for. He works with the management there, which Im not sure many are aware of.

Thats like the Virgo at my old job. It was an older leo lady who told me the Virgo is friendly with and talks to everyone and reports everything said back to the supervisor(who was a Cancer). Them darn Virgos lol.

Welp, talking to the Aries has officially crossed a line. Silly me didn't think he'd be this forward with flirting. Crap. He seems to be correcting that, though. Also, gotta deal with the aqua ex, too. I let myself get trapped too easily.
I just need to get away from guys altogether. It's also bad that, now that I'm single, I've been thinking about the scorp ex, which has become toxic territory to think about. For all I know, he could be engaged by now. And, because that still hurts to think about, I need to move myself away from that area. Where are my friends when I need them?

@Creepy- glad you are doing well.
@Scenic- sounds like a shitty situation all around.
@M- I wish it would snow here.

Now for my random comment: Last night I had a small crafting party and 2/3 attendees are December 8th Sagittarius women, unbeknownst to me. lol.

I don't have many Sag friends. But I dated 2 in the past- they were 12/10 and 12/11.

One of my best buds growing up was 12/5.

So I guess I get along well with second decans. lol.

The third attendee is a Leo. lol.

3 fire sign women= non-stop conversation and laughing all night. Was so much fun!

Posted by Scenic
Welp, talking to the Aries has officially crossed a line. Silly me didn't think he'd be this forward with flirting. Crap. He seems to be correcting that, though. Also, gotta deal with the aqua ex, too. I let myself get trapped too easily.
I just need to get away from guys altogether. It's also bad that, now that I'm single, I've been thinking about the scorp ex, which has become toxic territory to think about. For all I know, he could be engaged by now. And, because that still hurts to think about, I need to move myself away from that area. Where are my friends when I need them?

aww Scenic!! 🙂

i hope you're over your cold.

thanks capgirl!!! besos

I think Im meant to have my own space. This arrangement is not working for me anymore at all.

Aww, I havent seen my Taurus friend since summer of 2011 and he just stopped by. He told me he ate my Valentines day gift smh lol, but he brought something to eat and we sat and talked for 2hrs. We didnt go back in the past to us basically ignoring eachother, but Im never not talking to someone i like this much again. A whole year was wasted for nothing. I really enjoyed him today.

Just my luck.

I seem to be breaking out with a very rare skin rash. Its rare for someone to get it once, extremely rare for it to appear twice, well lucky me...this will be my third time, and it will be all over my body for atleast a month or two smh.

That does not sound like fun, Inana! Feel better.

Posted by capgirl69
That does not sound like fun, Inana! Feel better.

Thanks capgirl

Today is a fucking amazing day...

madame gumshoe... thank you

Mr. Scorp asked me, "If I bought a house, would you move in?" 😄

Aww, thats so sweet capgirl!

Apparently I don't know how to be the lady I am lol. When the Taurus left the other day I walked him outside in the cold to his car. I was going to stand there and watch him drive off but he was like "go in the house its cold out here!" I made a joke about him telling.me what to do and we laughed.

Now I just got home a few minutes ago and as usual I run into the older Virgo. He walked me home and when I got in front of my apartment I was going to stand out in the freezing cold and finish talking to him for a sec. He stopped that fast and said "Its freezing out here. You are lady go in the house!"

Ummm, why do these guys think they can tell me what to do lol jk? Really though, I guess I should put more effort into being a lady lol.