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Ugh, I just have to tell the tale of my aggravating lunch.

First was my own damn fault- I packed a salad, and 2 knives, no fork. So annoying. So I had to go to the cafeteria and get a fork.

Usually I eat with my Sag friend but today she took a half day so I decided to go to the faculty room but the A/C was not working there so I finally sit down at my desk to eat. I go to open my salad and a minute later there is a knock on my door.

So I curse myself for not turning the lights off and eating in the dark, and at the door is my (Leo) co-worker who teaches next door. She asks if I am eating lunch and I say yes. She asks me if I mind sitting with some kids who are finishing a final so she can get her lunch.

I reluctantly look at her then look at my salad. She tells me I can eat in her room if I don't mind. So I go over there. She tells me she will be right back. She comes in and out about 5 times while I sit at her desk eating my salad.

She comes back 25 minutes later with pizza slices from the pizzeria! Really?!! lol. I thought she was just going to the fridge downstairs or the cafeteria. *face palm*

Lunch over. What a rip.
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I felt like that all weekend, Lildol!
Because it had been a while since I got any. lol. A week with my son here and then I got my period and then I got over it but we were at the Scorp's parent's house so no hanky panky.

I pounced on him when we got home though. lol. And now I've been trying to squeeze it in before we go to the beach because we share a house with his whole family and a room with my son all week.
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YUP, he came to my office, I so wanted to kick him out. He said he had work to do BLAH fuck your work!!!

I swear he likes to torture me!! He does!!! I'm certain of it!!!

What man turns down a woman wanting to take him home in the middle of the day— HUH? Tell me that— Especially one who has a hard time hiding his attraction to her?

*glares*

I'm mad now!

I hate men!

And still horny 😭
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Oh, speaking of "angry sex" what runs through a guys mind when a woman says that? :/

As an Aries w/ a Sag Moon and Merc in Aries he should be able to handle my slight of tongue...

It was tongue in cheek, but I did text it none-the-less. I'm just wondering if he's taking a step back and saying "whoa"

Prob not, I'm just over thinking again (damn moon), I'm sure it made him smile...
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*sigh*

I told the Taurus the other day that I didnt think we were real friends...moreso friends with benefits. He gets offended and we go back n forth, thru text, on what I mean by that.He sent me something this morning asking again what Im trying to say, and I text "call me because clearly I cant explain this thru text" he replies "clearly im not a real friend so theres no need to explain"

Im like this proves my point!!. I told him "i apologize if i offended you. I tried to be honest but that never gets me far. As it unravels, maybe you will see what i meant"

I do think i am too blunt and direct sometimes. Maybe telling him i dont think we are real friends made his wall instantly go up, but I cant help how it comes out. My thing is, how can you be comfortable asking me thru text over and over again what I mean, but as soon as i present a real opportunity to explain myself you shut that opportunity down and try to reverse it.

I just have no more hope with this situation.
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Posted by truecap
Posted by lildol
At what point in a relationship are you when your partner candidly discusses their, ummm... bathroom habits with you? (this is "the dumping garden" - I thought it was an appropriate venue for asking LOL)



Lmao!!! I just love your sense of humor!!!

Wouldn't that be around the intimacy stage?
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I considered it, at minimum, a new level of intimacy LOL

I just hope he doesn't decide he's comfortable enough to leave the door open o.O
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Posted by lnana04
*sigh*

I told the Taurus the other day that I didnt think we were real friends...moreso friends with benefits. He gets offended and we go back n forth, thru text, on what I mean by that.He sent me something this morning asking again what Im trying to say, and I text "call me because clearly I cant explain this thru text" he replies "clearly im not a real friend so theres no need to explain"

Im like this proves my point!!. I told him "i apologize if i offended you. I tried to be honest but that never gets me far. As it unravels, maybe you will see what i meant"

I do think i am too blunt and direct sometimes. Maybe telling him i dont think we are real friends made his wall instantly go up, but I cant help how it comes out. My thing is, how can you be comfortable asking me thru text over and over again what I mean, but as soon as i present a real opportunity to explain myself you shut that opportunity down and try to reverse it.

I just have no more hope with this situation.



Tough one 😢

If you haven't done so already, maybe give him a call when you get a chance. He may just need a cooling off period to reflect and will answer. If that doesn't work, you could always send him an email, not as personal, but it will give you a chance to say your peace.

*hugs*