the dumping garden (Page 25)

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Posted by TigerCap
I just got thanked by a girl today for asking her number last week. WHOOP! 😄

Go get 'em Tiger 😉

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Posted by lnana04
*sigh*

I told the Taurus the other day that I didnt think we were real friends...moreso friends with benefits. He gets offended and we go back n forth, thru text, on what I mean by that.He sent me something this morning asking again what Im trying to say, and I text "call me because clearly I cant explain this thru text" he replies "clearly im not a real friend so theres no need to explain"

Im like this proves my point!!. I told him "i apologize if i offended you. I tried to be honest but that never gets me far. As it unravels, maybe you will see what i meant"

I do think i am too blunt and direct sometimes. Maybe telling him i dont think we are real friends made his wall instantly go up, but I cant help how it comes out. My thing is, how can you be comfortable asking me thru text over and over again what I mean, but as soon as i present a real opportunity to explain myself you shut that opportunity down and try to reverse it.

I just have no more hope with this situation.

Tough one 😢

If you haven't done so already, maybe give him a call when you get a chance. He may just need a cooling off period to reflect and will answer. If that doesn't work, you could always send him an email, not as personal, but it will give you a chance to say your peace.

*hugs*

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Thanks lildol

I remember one time we were texting back and forth and he said something about not feeling well, so I immediately called. He did not pick up. That was my que to never do that again, so calling is not an option lol.

He texted again a few hrs ago asking again what was the point I was trying to make *bangs head against the wall* i told him again...saying "you keep asking yet wont call and shut down the attempt for me to explain, proving that we are not as solid as Id like"

Imo, there is more than enough reason to feel the way I do, so Im good knowing that.

I realize that I may fit the description of a codependent person, and not just with him but with everyone. Crazy, because I always mention my boundary issues. Thats definitely something ill use this oppt and time to work on.

yea... lnana... i'd say give it some time to cool off. people always realize what they want after stepping away when things get heady and aggressive.

Thanks Creepy!

Posted by TigerCap

Posted by lildol

Posted by TigerCap
I just got thanked by a girl today for asking her number last week. WHOOP! 😄

Go get 'em Tiger 😉

😛

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I couldn't resist lol

Elle- I agree the time thing is annoying.

Driving back home with the Scorps and libra today.

Inana- sounds like my Taurus friend! Frustrating,

Most recently updated threads are not moving to the top now... DUNCAN QUIT MESSING WITH STUFF!!!

Posted by Stinger Baby
capricorn women are the only ones that wake you up at 7 on dot am talking about what there is to do for the day...

REALLY?!! THAT SHIT COULDNT WAIT?! you had to inform me about things that are only gonna take 5 minutes to do. things that have to wait until the we can hit the stores...that open up at 9. next time i'm locking my door...

yall do the most some times...smdh

Lol. I resemble that remark.

lnana... if you are feeling bad that you might have overreacted... then just tell him the truth. say you're sorry, you're starting to want more and freaked out, possibly took it out on him without being as understanding of his position as you normally would. you realize it now. please forgive.

then give it the quintessential cap momentary "back away" so that he has his time to digest and sort out his life and realize how he feels.

...that's just what i would do 🙂

simone de beauvoir said once... "i gave up the comfort of certainties for my love of truth and truth rewarded me" you can read into that many ways but it applies very much when dealing with feelings. go for the truth. ppl adore and respect it.

btw... i'm seeing a taurus now too. it was really random how it all happened. but we were def attracted before ever meeting as he's a friend of friends that i'd never formally met til a month ago. i went to a pool party. saw him playing craps and just walked up to him and introduced myself. the rest is history.

he's ... jeezus... well on his way to stealing my heart so i gotta keep a leesh on myself. i dont know how he's doing it. damn those taurean men!!!!! ;(
HOW DO THEY DO THIS TO ME!!!!!

virgo rising
taurus sun
aqua moon
taurus merc
taurus venus
taurus mars
libra jupiter
libra saturn
scorpio uranus

You read it! I deleted because I was going to let you all guide me, but I became too impatient. I text him apologizing, basically saying exactly what you wrote. Honestly, I have absoluetely no problems with honesty, so I just told the truth. Now Im getting pissed that he hasnt responded yet lmao. Im a mess.

Yay! Happy to hear you are dating, and extremely happy to hear a Taurus!! I really hope it goes well. I like Taurus and Cappies...wish Id see more of this pair. Keep us updated.

lol i did read it, then saw you deleted and thought "phew, i caught it!" haha! good move. and dont stress about it 🙂 he'll come around.

you sound like me!!!!!

and yea the taurus/cappy pair is amazing. i'm kinda stoked. no... i'm very stoked, but trying to chill about it too. lol

Made it home. So glad to be here!

i really really wanna gush about the taurus right now

o.o !!!

i just dropped him off at the airport. he'll be gone on business for at least a week. it's insane... we miss each other already and we've only been dating for two weeks.

I can't tell what page I'm on or the one's I've recently visited... DUNCAN FIX IT! Please, pretty, pretty please 🙂

I have some weird feeling that I should contact all of my family today... omen? :/

nicrobliz... that avatar looks like two penis ppl having sex.

lol why?

Becoming obsessed with geocaching for the moment. anyone else do this?

I've seen pics of geocaching, but I've never done this. I don't have kids. Is this fun? It looks like a treasure hunt...

I go by myself. I don't bring my son. lol.

I just started doing it. So far I have found 4.
Some of them are difficult to find.

It is fun, but I am just a beginner. I'm not good at finding the ones that are really well camoflauged. I also like to walk to them, where I think most people drive to them. I wish there were more to walk to.

You would be surprised at where you can find one. I found one in the city this morning 4 blocks from my building. Took me 15 minutes on a break.

Basically you are finding junk. But the looking is fun.

Posted by CreepyPants
nicrobliz... that avatar looks like two penis ppl having sex.

lol why?

It does!!!

LMAO!!!!!

Posted by capgirl69
Becoming obsessed with geocaching for the moment. anyone else do this?

I don't even know what that is.

Posted by truecap

Posted by capgirl69
Becoming obsessed with geocaching for the moment. anyone else do this?

I don't even know what that is.

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You download an app on your phone. People hide things in public places and you use your gps to find it.

Wow, so rock the boat, and get a reaction? I finally get why women go there. I will be more careful, and a bit more mature, but its interesting to see what appears to work.....for a second atleast.??

The Taurus opened up to me a bit more yesterday, I got a phonecall last night, and he came to see me this morning.We'll sit on the couch and talk with a distance between us for about an hour, then he'll start poking at me and trying to tickle me, and once he grabs me its a wrap. I just melt. Its like when we touch thats when its clear just how much we've missed eachother. Its like the depth of it is felt.

I hadn't realized geocaching is an app. I may try this...

Well, very nice 🙂 He's pretty extraordinary.

I pretty much see 9:11 day and night. Been seeing that number on the clock for the past 3-4yrs.

Starting maybe two days ago Ive been catching 9:10 instead. Ive never not caught 9:11, so this minute change is big to me and i wonder what it means.

Anyway, i missed my niece. She was at her grandmas, so i took her out yesterday. Shes a little cancer and can be sooo difficult lol.

Towards the end of our trip she started crying saying her feet hurt, so i carried her on my back. Id put her down after a while and she'd cry again. I put her down for the last time near the train station and i heard the train. I grabbed her hand and said "come on, we're going to miss it!" We both sprinted thru the station...(she was just as determined to not miss the train), tapped our card thru the door, ran down the escalator and made the train. I just looked at her when i sat down. Im like "you can run but you couldnt walk?!" I wass so mad lol. One time bent down so she could get on my back and i was struggling to stand back up. I had to grab something to stand. That was so embarrasing and all for someone that was most likely faking smh lol.

CapriLady dont worry, it should be alright. Caps are pretty understanding...He'll come around

Good to finally have another set of eyes to see something I saw.

Pulling up to my apt, and Im in the car telling my mom and sis about the numbers i see on the clock and how ita changed. I get out of the car, look up, and see the little dipper, so i tell them to look at it. I look over and see three small dots, that resemble stars, traveling in a vertical line. Im like what is that?!? I point, and my mom see it too.

Now im online trying to figure out what it was. Definitely NOT an airplane. Weird!

Posted by CapriLady
Thank you Inana. Caps can be understanding. He has the right to choose. I do have a boundary that cannot be crossed at this time, and he's been forthcoming as well. It seems like it can get a little messy because of the emotional closeness, and neither of us seem to really like that. Sometimes, space and uncertainty are good for people as individuals and we may have to grow separately before there could be a together. I'll be ok 🙂 That is nice to hear that you think there's at least a possibility. Very reassuring. Thank you.

@Caplove Caps can be tough when they want to be, and that's a good thing. Sometimes, I like to joke around 😉

I hope things work out for you CapriLady maybe get in touch with him in a few days and see how he is
I'm sure hearing from him will feel good x

Posted by M
I swear some shit would only happen to me. It's not that people can't believe it, it's that nobody gets that's how my life is. Needlessly complex through no fault of my own...none of that law of attraction stuff. Just random and always happening, like a bad case of wrong place at the wrong time.

In the lucky event I get someone to tag along and see (since I can't trigger it by choice) they are dumbfounded as to why it's gotta be like that. Finally clicks for them what the hell I bring it up. That it's not all in my head or some law of attraction dealy.

Seriously hesitant to go places because it always turns awkward...whether I'm self conscious about it or not, even when it's on them it's just always a challenge for me. *headdesk*

I can relate...

I hope the opposite is true as well for you guys... random fortune.

someone actually drew all those? jesus christ...

"I also don't have any expectations and I prepare for the worst"

This way we're not so disappointed in the end... and if it goes better than anticipated, all that much better 🙂

I think we're making progress... the Aries peed in front of me LOL

no idea where this flu came from but it SUCKS!... i've eaten an orange in the last two days. as acidic as those are, it stayed down no problem. i tried eating a little bite of a sandwich and my stomach feels like it died.

-_-

my fever finally broke this afternoon though. so thats good.

and did i work today? yes, i did. cuz i'm crazy.

the taurus is back in town too... so, nice and chill night with him.

Glad you're starting to feel better...

So, things are better with the Taur. Good. BUT, now you're going to get him sick... it'll just give you a reason to take care of him LOL

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Posted by lildol
I think we're making progress... the Aries peed in front of me LOL

... but when he lets you write your name in snow with it, or writes "Aries guy loves lildol", that's when you know it's really true love. 🙂

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hahaha

*sigh*

My sister is a bit upset. She has surgery today, a surgery her father paid for, and my mom went into the hospital yesterday. My mom been having chest pains, and I came home yesterday and she was cleaning but had sweat dripping off of her. She said she wanted to wait until my sis had the surgery to go to the hospital but I told her it was best she went now.

They did say something seems off, but so far, nothing major. They are still checking. What has my sis upset is that my mom is texting everyone, but what really is getting to my sister is that my mom told my sis to tell her dad. I think my mom ended up texting him, and my sis and him talked and he told her to be okay and take care of our mom. My aunt and uncle are coming to see my mom today, and my mom asked my sis what her boyfriend said about her being in the hospital. Basically my sis feels she is making this all about her and now her surgery is an afterthought. I think its all silly but im not in her shoes.

My mom is pretty darn draining though lol, and we always have and probably always will play backseat to the Aquarius with the Pisces Mars. I dont care, but my sister have her moments where she needs attention too. What am i going to do with these two? Weird thing is, my mom never sweated like that again. I dont know if it was because she was cleaning or what.

I talked to a childhood friend today who is a Dec 28th Cappie. We were extremely close growing up. She is married to a Scorpio, and I asked her the sign of her ex husband. She was like for some reason, I keep dating Scorpios. So her ex husband, as well as another guy she dated, AND her current husband are/were all Scorpios. Weird lol.

I'm mad at Tate! I had a dream about him last night and he told me that I was fat 😭

Bling was really sweet in my dream though 😛

I so need to get a life if I'm dreaming about these two blokes...


(oh, and Kenny Chesney game me his phone number in my dream too LOL)

*gave

My sisters surgery went well, thank GOD!!

I was a bit indifferent towards her new Libra boyfriend, but Im really impressed with him right now. He came and got her to bring her to surgery, sat there for basically 6hrs, now he's bringing her to his house so he can take care of her. He is alright by me lol. Major cool pts there, and a 360 difference from her last guy.

i'm glad lnana! Hope your mom is doing ok too!

ahhh drama lol

lildol i think you might be confusing this 23rd cap dating a taur with lnana.. this taurus and i just started dating 😛 so far so good. it's literally been only 3 weeks. but that flu that i had must've been a short lived bug... as of last night i was fine. i was able to eat. no fever. so i thanked him for his healing powers LOL. 100% today!

😄

I like the way lnana04 telling the stories.
childs, trains, stations, Scorpios, relations and feelings

I'm me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I need to live among the building of concrete and glass.
Moving across the crowds fighting and pushing them.
I can't live in the country.
Where sun rises later than in Japan but earlier than at the West Coast in the country means 'towns'.
I need to stay in a rush hour looking at another pplz and want to # $ #@# em out!
I need to see all these goverment cars moving and blocking the road.
I need to see people gathering on the streets telling their opinion to the public!
I need to see the big city lights which never sleeps neither 11 o'clock in the evening nor 6 AM nor, nor, nor, nor ever.
I need to see all these famous bands and artists coming and saying 'Don't you wanna see me? So we will come back next week' Hoping you are growing.

Faster and tricky, agressive and combined.

Forward and higher.

Thanks Creepy!

And thank you too Serginho!

Posted by CreepyPants
i'm glad lnana! Hope your mom is doing ok too!

ahhh drama lol

lildol i think you might be confusing this 23rd cap dating a taur with lnana.. this taurus and i just started dating 😛 so far so good. it's literally been only 3 weeks. but that flu that i had must've been a short lived bug... as of last night i was fine. i was able to eat. no fever. so i thanked him for his healing powers LOL. 100% today!

😄

I can't keep EVERYONE's stories straight 🙂

Glad you're feeling better and YOUR Taur is there for you!

Posted by lnana04
My sisters surgery went well, thank GOD!!

I was a bit indifferent towards her new Libra boyfriend, but Im really impressed with him right now. He came and got her to bring her to surgery, sat there for basically 6hrs, now he's bringing her to his house so he can take care of her. He is alright by me lol. Major cool pts there, and a 360 difference from her last guy.

Inana... glad all went ok with your sis. Libra's can be a little sticky (my son is one, I know lol). Glad he's taking the reigns and doing what he should. Sounds like a keeper 🙂

How is your mom doing? (sorry if I missed it in the posts)