the dumping garden (Page 38)

Posted by lnana04
I so appreciate my Virgo sister.

She just told me tonight how her boss had a meeting and my Cap friend and his Aries wife were there. My Cap frien started talking about his birthday and how he was going to make me come, and his wife said "She's not coming....She is not your friend." My sister was offended that she said those things and said them in front of her. My sis came to my defense and explained to his wife that im not a people person and just shy and to myself in general. His wife was like "Im shy too" and my sister said "but you see how you walked in here and didnt speak to anybody and headed straight for the food....my sister wouldnt have done that." My sis explained more of my personality and the Aries understood it more. I just love how my sis speaks her mind so freely and get her entire point across without things excalating.

Anyway, I always felt the Aries was in my friends ear about me and that kind of confirmed it. He'd always call questioning our friendship, and it just seemed so random. I knew it was her. I plan on attending his birthday but Im sure ill feel a bit weird. I just dont gel too well with people that feel they can voice their opinions about you.

Is the Aries threatened by your friendship with the cap? Is she jealous? He is her husband, I could see how she be jealous or threatened.

Inana, I mean no disrepect and I know yall are just friends, but I am just wondering if that's why she's planting thoughts in his head.

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Posted by lnana04
I so appreciate my Virgo sister.

She just told me tonight how her boss had a meeting and my Cap friend and his Aries wife were there. My Cap frien started talking about his birthday and how he was going to make me come, and his wife said "She's not coming....She is not your friend." My sister was offended that she said those things and said them in front of her. My sis came to my defense and explained to his wife that im not a people person and just shy and to myself in general. His wife was like "Im shy too" and my sister said "but you see how you walked in here and didnt speak to anybody and headed straight for the food....my sister wouldnt have done that." My sis explained more of my personality and the Aries understood it more. I just love how my sis speaks her mind so freely and get her entire point across without things excalating.

Anyway, I always felt the Aries was in my friends ear about me and that kind of confirmed it. He'd always call questioning our friendship, and it just seemed so random. I knew it was her. I plan on attending his birthday but Im sure ill feel a bit weird. I just dont gel too well with people that feel they can voice their opinions about you.

Is the Aries threatened by your friendship with the cap? Is she jealous? He is her husband, I could see how she be jealous or threatened.

Inana, I mean no disrepect and I know yall are just friends, but I am just wondering if that's why she's planting thoughts in his head.

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I dont know. It took me a while to actually meet her because I didn't know how she would feel about me, but once I met her I got the impression she was cool and thought that she could probably see that I was a bit awkward lol.

I'll admit, I don't visit them or go too many places with him, and when he ask for favors I usually say no, but I've always been that way...it's how I am with everyone. He knows it, but I'd all of a sudden get "why don't you come around?" or "why don't you want to spend time with my family?", "Are you my friend?"

He says that I reject them, and sometimes if I'll say no to something...not knowing she's around...he'll be like "babe, she's not coming...she doesn't like you like that" so he doesn't make it any better.

I just thought we were kind of past all of that.

Just found out this new Aries goes to the same gym around the same exact time as the ex Aries guy goes. All I can imagine is some National Geographic scene where the rams are bludgeoning each other. And he wants me to go with him sometime! This is so bad.

every once in a while improper grammar/spelling happens. "your" when it should be "you're" ??_i've done it plenty.

BUT

??_when it's consistently incorrect? that may be grounds for a divorce. the shitty screaming kind cuz i don't know how to talk it through like an adult.

*grumbles* i just know how to spell basic words.

SHE WENT HOME TO CARDEFF
IM STAYING HERE IM SURE ITS OVER
THIS COULD BE A NEW RECORD FOR ME DID NOT LAST A MONTH.

😢

Awww Tate

i use pet names a lot??_ hon, cutie, dear, babe

but he's the only one i call darling

wavy back hair is a big turn on to some I guess

And what type of hair do you like Tate?

😉

CLEAN, DOESN'T MATTER ABOUT COLOUR ARE style AS LONG AS IT IS CLEAN

You can pull, ummm, I mean play with, my hair anytime Tate 😉

just grilled some delicious chicken breasts in a savory marinade...

which reminds me that i need a beer ^_^

Chicken Marinade:

-1 egg well beaten
-1/2 cup cooking oil
-1 cup vinegar
-2 T salt
-1 1/2 tsp poultry seasoning (sage, marjoram, rosemary, thyme, nutmeg, pepper)
-1/4 tsp black pepper

Combine. Let marinade for 30 mins. Grill til fully cooked. Good for 3 breasts.

This marinade makes the chicken tender and juicy!

i want dessert, but i don't want to go buy any, and i sure as hell don't want to make anything, and i DON'T want to do anything else until i have dessert!

*sigh* times like these i wish i had a bf.

🙂

i'd make it worth his while

That sounds good , my mouths watering.

Posted by CreepyPants
just grilled some delicious chicken breasts in a savory marinade...

which reminds me that i need a beer ^_^

Chicken Marinade:

-1 egg well beaten
-1/2 cup cooking oil
-1 cup vinegar
-2 T salt
-1 1/2 tsp poultry seasoning (sage, marjoram, rosemary, thyme, nutmeg, pepper)
-1/4 tsp black pepper

Combine. Let marinade for 30 mins. Grill til fully cooked. Good for 3 breasts.

This marinade makes the chicken tender and juicy!

Good recipe. Simple. Tasty. Thank you for sharing 🙂

time is a fictional thing

The look this older Virgo male gave to me today kind of scared me a bit..

I can bet money that he has either a Scorpio moon or venus. I seem to attract water influenced earth sign men, or just water influenced men in general. Maybe it's my venus sign. Idk, but these men look at me like they are hunters and I'm their prey. A bit spooky and these are the only type of men that will try to get close...the ones with "that look" in their eyes.

I very much dislike when plans are made and then they fall through. I really know how to hold on to my anger so I've just sat here all day fuming on the inside.

Okay, just kidding, I'm not done yet.

I hate my bfs ex's family. Like really hate. They're all a bunch of selfish, manipulating, lying bastards. Both of the exs kids were sick and the girl had a really high fever. But, she still didn't keep them herself. She's too busy with her boyfriend to care about helping her kids. Instead, she sent the boy to my bfs house and the girl who was really sick to the grams (like she would every weekend). She came back the next day to take the girl to the doctors...found out she had pneumonia...then dropped her back off at the grams. Then the grandma, who normally would have both today didn't want to take the boy from my bf because two sick kids were too much to handle. Fine, but if it was the other way around, would she offer the bf the same kindness and keep one of the kids instead of giving him both? No fucking way. In fact, he's supposed to have both of them tomorrow and I'm sure I'll be proven right when he has to go pick up the girl to take back. And why the fuck does the mother think it's okay to move around her child who has pneumonia to different houses? She should be at home resting. Period. This only furthers my belief that those who have kids young never grow up. Always too concerned about themselves.

Edit: She would drop them off every weekend, not to separate houses.

"This only furthers my belief that those who have kids young never grow up. Always too concerned about themselves. "

^ I've noticed this at times as well. There exists a tendency to push responsibility onto others, and a cycle of drama based on unreasonable decision making.

"One dollar, two dollars, three dollars, four.

700 million Facebook wh0res!

Five dollars, six dollars, seven dollars rich,

everybody's Mark Zukerberg's b1tch!"

Posted by CluelessCancer
Do caps get mad if you they ask you to hang out and you kind of ignore them cause you're too busy with DXP and rather chat with online entities than real life people who you can build bonds with?

do you guys get mad, it's not like i flaked out, im just not responding...

CC - yup they sure do get mad/upset annoyed that u didn't make time for them when they ask u.

CC- yh I hear ya sometimes we just arnt in the mood or have stuff to do.
I'm sure she'll reply back eventually after the initial knock back but happy hour sounds fun. It's good u gave an alternative suggestion. Did she say what she wanted to do initially or was it a general lets go out /catch up n chill on the weekend?

smitten all over again??_. i'm a glutton for punishment

Posted by CreepyPants
smitten all over again??_. i'm a glutton for punishment

I'm a glutton for punishment too. 😢

Me 3!

Posted by lnana04

Posted by CreepyPants
smitten all over again??_. i'm a glutton for punishment

I'm a glutton for punishment too. 😢

Posted by lildol
Me 3!

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"Alas that love, so gentle in his view, should be so tyrannous and rough in proof!" -William Shakespeare

Posted by Chance15

Posted by CreepyPants
smitten all over again??_. i'm a glutton for punishment

love junkie :p

welcome back 😄 *hug*

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lol! addicted to love ??_those words have def been slung at me before.

and thanks 😄 *big hugs*

that's a conundrum my dear

Posted by CluelessCancer
I can't do dxp chat unless it's with a select few, i just don't like people. I seriously don't and I'm not going to spend my time always having to defend myself, I'm an African. I come from warriors, i have a country with water at my feet, i don't have to pretend i get along with people who love guns and are beyond ignorant. Yes I'm judgmental. I don't care it's who i am.

i respect this.

so is that virgo still a friend? or did you say she's an ex-friend?

i'm??_ buckling...

get it to-fucking-gether, girl

??_this instant!

Posted by CluelessCancer
I have cousins who fought the enemy with tanks and AK47s and they don't behave this way about guns, if i asked them about gun rights, they'd laugh at me.. they have no fear...see guns in other parts of the world are used for wars not to try to get over some small penis complex.

we're obsessed with power in the states. we've been conditioned to feel entitled to it. if it's not money, which in most peoples' cases it's not, then it's some other false notion of it. you even get a strong sense of this on dxp sometimes.

like guns for instance... not to say everyone who owns or has possession of one has the wrong regard for firearms, but like anything else??_ a few will abuse its capabilities for power and control. this puts a negative spin on its image. then others will even exploit that negativity for their own ends.
and it's all just so goddamn loud. it's like we're trying to make sure the whole universe can hear or see how twisted we are and incapable of evolving.

our values could use a lil tweaking

??_glad i could get that off my chest. /rant off

Posted by CluelessCancer
Me and the Virgo are no longer friends, but it doesn't matter, she was my friend first and introduced him to me, he is only my friend through her, so i couldn't anything with him even if i wanted, that would be wrong, and plus i'd never want to do something to someone else that i wouldn't want done to me.

that's a good code to live by

Wondered how he (as an Aries) could be so down to earth, not necessarily as calm or collected as the last Aries but definitely deeper, much more comforting and secure. And so many compliments! Man's got more earth in his chart than I do! And a bunch of Capricorn placements.

And I'm starting to realize I meet a lot of Virgo Moons.

Posted by CluelessCancer
i pm'd you his pic Creepy, he's fine right?

Yea... Wow, lol.

I really wanna be your shoulder devil right now. I have inappropriate things to suggest.

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by CreepyPants

Posted by CluelessCancer
i pm'd you his pic Creepy, he's fine right?

Yea... Wow, lol.

I really wanna be your shoulder devil right now. I have inappropriate things to suggest.

Well i don't think i can handle him, he's really tall 6'3 and from my friends description (she's a sluey), nicely packaged and very sexual...

im not of his caliber. LMAO, but yes he's intensely hot.

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Haha! Yea that descrip intimidates me too actually.

In my head I'm 6'2", but I'm really a shrimp.

You should still get to know him though... Maybe he has a friend :p

Aha... Yea keep that line open

Found out the first Aries had been dating someone the whole time. Explains why he was so sketchy! I'm pissed, but at least I know my suspicions are confirmed and I can leave it in the past. My gain. This Aries told me to thank the guy for letting go of something good. Bam. Always trust your gut.

This is still my favorite random thread. For the record. 🙂

i love it when a man has control over my feelings.
i hate it when a man has control over my feelings.

Posted by caliber

Posted by CreepyPants
i love it when a man has control over my feelings.
i hate it when a man has control over my feelings.

this is why women have shorter life-spans -_-

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ehh? explain please 🙂

Posted by capgirl69
This is still my favorite random thread. For the record. 🙂

+1

This just dawned on me.

My mom is a Sag and her best friend of 40 years is a Cap.

I am a Cap and my best friend of 16 years is a Sag.

Pretty cool, huh?

Did some shopping today, found an awesome sweater on sale but the item I am most happy about thusfar...

is a clothing brush.

Feeling like such a damn Cap right now. 😛

^ Four cats, two dogs... I need one of those....

Bought a white cashmere cardigan a few weeks ago. The fuzz coming off that thing is all over the house!

I made chicken and dumplings... my daughter's bf has to see if the kids like it. I say eat it or go hungry! HELLO— They should be grateful they get to eat!!

Posted by caliber
sorry lol drunk posting - whoops. I go through an entire conversation in my head and everyone gets the end result.

I was trying to say that those exact emotions are stressful on women. And at some time or another, I think we all feel that exact way. Hence, shorter lifespans. It was was more of "hehehe" than serious debate 😛 ....don't mind me.

hahahahahahahahaha??_ it kinda felt like something like this^^^ that's hysterical lol