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Posted by lnana04
I so appreciate my Virgo sister.

She just told me tonight how her boss had a meeting and my Cap friend and his Aries wife were there. My Cap frien started talking about his birthday and how he was going to make me come, and his wife said "She's not coming....She is not your friend." My sister was offended that she said those things and said them in front of her. My sis came to my defense and explained to his wife that im not a people person and just shy and to myself in general. His wife was like "Im shy too" and my sister said "but you see how you walked in here and didnt speak to anybody and headed straight for the food....my sister wouldnt have done that." My sis explained more of my personality and the Aries understood it more. I just love how my sis speaks her mind so freely and get her entire point across without things excalating.

Anyway, I always felt the Aries was in my friends ear about me and that kind of confirmed it. He'd always call questioning our friendship, and it just seemed so random. I knew it was her. I plan on attending his birthday but Im sure ill feel a bit weird. I just dont gel too well with people that feel they can voice their opinions about you.



Is the Aries threatened by your friendship with the cap? Is she jealous? He is her husband, I could see how she be jealous or threatened.

Inana, I mean no disrepect and I know yall are just friends, but I am just wondering if that's why she's planting thoughts in his head.

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Posted by lnana04
I so appreciate my Virgo sister.

She just told me tonight how her boss had a meeting and my Cap friend and his Aries wife were there. My Cap frien started talking about his birthday and how he was going to make me come, and his wife said "She's not coming....She is not your friend." My sister was offended that she said those things and said them in front of her. My sis came to my defense and explained to his wife that im not a people person and just shy and to myself in general. His wife was like "Im shy too" and my sister said "but you see how you walked in here and didnt speak to anybody and headed straight for the food....my sister wouldnt have done that." My sis explained more of my personality and the Aries understood it more. I just love how my sis speaks her mind so freely and get her entire point across without things excalating.

Anyway, I always felt the Aries was in my friends ear about me and that kind of confirmed it. He'd always call questioning our friendship, and it just seemed so random. I knew it was her. I plan on attending his birthday but Im sure ill feel a bit weird. I just dont gel too well with people that feel they can voice their opinions about you.



Is the Aries threatened by your friendship with the cap? Is she jealous? He is her husband, I could see how she be jealous or threatened.

Inana, I mean no disrepect and I know yall are just friends, but I am just wondering if that's why she's planting thoughts in his head.

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I dont know. It took me a while to actually meet her because I didn't know how she would feel about me, but once I met her I got the impression she was cool and thought that she could probably see that I was a bit awkward lol.

I'll admit, I don't visit them or go too many places with him, and when he ask for favors I usually say no, but I've always been that way...it's how I am with everyone. He knows it, but I'd all of a sudden get "why don't you come around?" or "why don't you want to spend time with my family?", "Are you my friend?"

He says that I reject them, and sometimes if I'll say no to something...not knowing she's around...he'll be like "babe, she's not coming...she doesn't like you like that" so he doesn't make it any better.

I just thought we were kind of past all of that.
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just grilled some delicious chicken breasts in a savory marinade...

which reminds me that i need a beer ^_^

Chicken Marinade:

-1 egg well beaten
-1/2 cup cooking oil
-1 cup vinegar
-2 T salt
-1 1/2 tsp poultry seasoning (sage, marjoram, rosemary, thyme, nutmeg, pepper)
-1/4 tsp black pepper

Combine. Let marinade for 30 mins. Grill til fully cooked. Good for 3 breasts.

This marinade makes the chicken tender and juicy!
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Posted by CreepyPants
just grilled some delicious chicken breasts in a savory marinade...

which reminds me that i need a beer ^_^

Chicken Marinade:

-1 egg well beaten
-1/2 cup cooking oil
-1 cup vinegar
-2 T salt
-1 1/2 tsp poultry seasoning (sage, marjoram, rosemary, thyme, nutmeg, pepper)
-1/4 tsp black pepper

Combine. Let marinade for 30 mins. Grill til fully cooked. Good for 3 breasts.

This marinade makes the chicken tender and juicy!



Good recipe. Simple. Tasty. Thank you for sharing 🙂
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The look this older Virgo male gave to me today kind of scared me a bit..

I can bet money that he has either a Scorpio moon or venus. I seem to attract water influenced earth sign men, or just water influenced men in general. Maybe it's my venus sign. Idk, but these men look at me like they are hunters and I'm their prey. A bit spooky and these are the only type of men that will try to get close...the ones with "that look" in their eyes.
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Okay, just kidding, I'm not done yet.

I hate my bfs ex's family. Like really hate. They're all a bunch of selfish, manipulating, lying bastards. Both of the exs kids were sick and the girl had a really high fever. But, she still didn't keep them herself. She's too busy with her boyfriend to care about helping her kids. Instead, she sent the boy to my bfs house and the girl who was really sick to the grams (like she would every weekend). She came back the next day to take the girl to the doctors...found out she had pneumonia...then dropped her back off at the grams. Then the grandma, who normally would have both today didn't want to take the boy from my bf because two sick kids were too much to handle. Fine, but if it was the other way around, would she offer the bf the same kindness and keep one of the kids instead of giving him both? No fucking way. In fact, he's supposed to have both of them tomorrow and I'm sure I'll be proven right when he has to go pick up the girl to take back. And why the fuck does the mother think it's okay to move around her child who has pneumonia to different houses? She should be at home resting. Period. This only furthers my belief that those who have kids young never grow up. Always too concerned about themselves.
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Posted by CluelessCancer
Do caps get mad if you they ask you to hang out and you kind of ignore them cause you're too busy with DXP and rather chat with online entities than real life people who you can build bonds with?

do you guys get mad, it's not like i flaked out, im just not responding...


CC - yup they sure do get mad/upset annoyed that u didn't make time for them when they ask u.
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Posted by CluelessCancer
I can't do dxp chat unless it's with a select few, i just don't like people. I seriously don't and I'm not going to spend my time always having to defend myself, I'm an African. I come from warriors, i have a country with water at my feet, i don't have to pretend i get along with people who love guns and are beyond ignorant. Yes I'm judgmental. I don't care it's who i am.



i respect this.

so is that virgo still a friend? or did you say she's an ex-friend?
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Posted by CluelessCancer
I have cousins who fought the enemy with tanks and AK47s and they don't behave this way about guns, if i asked them about gun rights, they'd laugh at me.. they have no fear...see guns in other parts of the world are used for wars not to try to get over some small penis complex.



we're obsessed with power in the states. we've been conditioned to feel entitled to it. if it's not money, which in most peoples' cases it's not, then it's some other false notion of it. you even get a strong sense of this on dxp sometimes.

like guns for instance... not to say everyone who owns or has possession of one has the wrong regard for firearms, but like anything else??_ a few will abuse its capabilities for power and control. this puts a negative spin on its image. then others will even exploit that negativity for their own ends.
and it's all just so goddamn loud. it's like we're trying to make sure the whole universe can hear or see how twisted we are and incapable of evolving.

our values could use a lil tweaking


??_glad i could get that off my chest. /rant off
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i pm'd you his pic Creepy, he's fine right?



Yea... Wow, lol.

I really wanna be your shoulder devil right now. I have inappropriate things to suggest.



Well i don't think i can handle him, he's really tall 6'3 and from my friends description (she's a sluey), nicely packaged and very sexual...

im not of his caliber. LMAO, but yes he's intensely hot.

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Haha! Yea that descrip intimidates me too actually.

In my head I'm 6'2", but I'm really a shrimp.

You should still get to know him though... Maybe he has a friend :p
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Posted by caliber
sorry lol drunk posting - whoops. I go through an entire conversation in my head and everyone gets the end result.

I was trying to say that those exact emotions are stressful on women. And at some time or another, I think we all feel that exact way. Hence, shorter lifespans. It was was more of "hehehe" than serious debate 😛 ....don't mind me.



hahahahahahahahaha??_ it kinda felt like something like this^^^ that's hysterical lol