This Cap broke my heart

So I was in a relationship with this Cap for 7 months.

It was a very intense relationship, he asked me to be his girlfriend after two months that we've been dated, I was basically living with him, I was not working and spent most of my time with him cause he's self employed. Everything was great until I got a job, I was super excited and barely had free time, still we were spending time together. I thought everything was ok. Then some things happened like he didn't arrive to my place because "he fell asleep" and things like that.I got mad, he apologized for everything telling me that he had been working, a lot and that he needed a woman,

who can respect his work and space. I told him that I understood but that I needed a man who respect me and my time, because I work too. He told me he was aware and that he wanted to be with me. So I gave him " space" and waited until he reached me, I was not stopping by his place like I used to and he wasnt at mine's, we were still talking everyday, but missed him a lot, but said nothing, because every time we met it was awesome.but after three months I got tired and told him if everything was ok. Suddenly told me it was over, and I was like wtf? you were holding my hand like two days ago... and he told me all this by message. 😑 no, he's not a teenager he's almost 30. I told him that we needed to talk in person and told me it wasn't necessary. So that's it. Lol.maybe he was high, maybe he's seeing someone else or maybe he's just a douche bag, but I'm not tolerating that. I could have gone to his apartment and hit him on the face, but I just told him I was thankful for all the time we spent together. I really don't know why he ended up things like that but I can't force him to love me or to feel the way I feel. And he's gonna regret it sooner or later not because I'm a fucking goddess which btw I nearly am 😜 more like he didn't have the courage to confront me in first place. I know gave my all and have nothing to regret about, and of course I'm not going back to that. I don't have time for that shit.

That day I was crying all alone at night haha and one of my crushes sent me a message in that very moment and asked me out, oh wait he's a Cap too 🙃 😟

So anytime a Capricorn asks you for space... I really don't know guys. I'm kinda lost in that subject, bye.

Posted by Rindaroo
It's hard to tell what's going on with Caps when they don't really talk about it.

All I know is sometimes they need space to work through things. Mine did something similar but then came back with a different perspective. Although he never said it was over. I had assumed it was. Ah they can be difficult! Just sounds like that transition of you going back to work was hard.

What do you mean like with a different perspective? I really don't know why they closed themselves all of a sudden.

You are right, I think it was hard for him, but he never said anything. This going back and forward is painful for me I can't really understand how their hearts operate, maybe i should date water signs again lol

Oh Caps!... I understand the fear of getting hurt . We Scorps understand the term, but I think for us is a live force, being hurt ( is being connected to our feelings) keeps us going. For me it's sad that Caps take a lot of time to realize what they are capable of giving and have the power to receive as well, because when they do maybe it's too late. But sometimes it is not like in your case! Good luck with your Cap, they are the cutest.

When the pressure comes on they panic. They like doing things on their own time their own way. It's very frustrating. And they hate to feel like they own you that, like if you expect something from him he will not give in. It's best to leave them alone when they act like this and they will come back around. Only if you leave them alone and don't chase ever.

do you girl.

We feed on consistency. Change is necessary, but we don’t warm to it quickly.

If it’s that easy for you to go, we’ll let you walk away.

We don’t always know what to say and, until we do, we’ll say nothing. One of the side effects of that is giving our partners enough rope to hang themselves with. I’ve never made a habit out of testing people, per se, but time is a great test in and of itself.

I’m not a man and I don’t know if you can relate to either of those things in this past relationship, but this is what came to mind while reading your post.

Posted by MoonshineLeo
When the pressure comes on they panic. They like doing things on their own time their own way. It's very frustrating. And they hate to feel like they own you that, like if you expect something from him he will not give in. It's best to leave them alone when they act like this and they will come back around. Only if you leave them alone and don't chase ever.

do you girl.

But the thing is that I was not putting any pressure, I just asked him about our situation cause he seemed distant and suddenly he tells me it's over...as if I cannot ask a question, without him reacting all paranoid. I'm glad I asked though I guess he wasn't sure about us in first place ://

Coward

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Posted by MoonshineLeo
When the pressure comes on they panic. They like doing things on their own time their own way. It's very frustrating. And they hate to feel like they own you that, like if you expect something from him he will not give in. It's best to leave them alone when they act like this and they will come back around. Only if you leave them alone and don't chase ever.

do you girl.

But the thing is that I was not putting any pressure, I just asked him about our situation cause he seemed distant and suddenly he tells me it's over...as if I cannot ask a question, without him reacting all paranoid. I'm glad I asked though I guess he wasn't sure about us in first place ://

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Yea it's hard to talk to a Capricorn about your feelings. They freak out and start yelling and make no sense. And then you both just don't accomplish anything. I know this all too well. They do come back though so don't worry but you have to not reach out.

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Posted by MoonshineLeo
When the pressure comes on they panic. They like doing things on their own time their own way. It's very frustrating. And they hate to feel like they own you that, like if you expect something from him he will not give in. It's best to leave them alone when they act like this and they will come back around. Only if you leave them alone and don't chase ever.

do you girl.

But the thing is that I was not putting any pressure, I just asked him about our situation cause he seemed distant and suddenly he tells me it's over...as if I cannot ask a question, without him reacting all paranoid. I'm glad I asked though I guess he wasn't sure about us in first place ://

Yea it's hard to talk to a Capricorn about your feelings. They freak out and start yelling and make no sense. And then you both just don't accomplish anything. I know this all too well. They do come back though so don't worry but you have to not reach out.

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haha yes that sounds totally like him. He also has 7 planets in Cap, sooo lol. I think I'm not coming back though, it has been really emotionally rough for me *sigh* , I wanna be with someone who can be a little bit more communicative.

Posted by Rindaroo
I think they put pressure on themselves..

They certainly do, he was the one talking about commitment, marriage, kids and all of that. And I thought it was too soon... but certainly he put pressure on himself for...nothing, really.

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Posted by MoonshineLeo
When the pressure comes on they panic. They like doing things on their own time their own way. It's very frustrating. And they hate to feel like they own you that, like if you expect something from him he will not give in. It's best to leave them alone when they act like this and they will come back around. Only if you leave them alone and don't chase ever.

do you girl.

But the thing is that I was not putting any pressure, I just asked him about our situation cause he seemed distant and suddenly he tells me it's over...as if I cannot ask a question, without him reacting all paranoid. I'm glad I asked though I guess he wasn't sure about us in first place ://

Yea it's hard to talk to a Capricorn about your feelings. They freak out and start yelling and make no sense. And then you both just don't accomplish anything. I know this all too well. They do come back though so don't worry but you have to not reach out.

haha yes that sounds totally like him. He also has 7 planets in Cap, sooo lol. I think I'm not coming back though, it has been really emotionally rough for me *sigh* , I wanna be with someone who can be a little bit more communicative.

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Yea totally understandable. You will find someone (: In the mean time just do you and don't worry about him if it's meant to be it will.

Posted by nightowl
idk about it being just capricorns, but I've seen a lot of guys do this. they ask for space and they end it through text because they're cowardly

there's so many reasons why he could have broke up with you but none of it matters. dating is stupid, single life ftw. especially when they say they feel like they're going to hurt you, tell them no worry about yourself

We could make a movie or a book called: Capricorn Youth - The Great Contradiction or The Typical Case of Capricorn: The Vanisher. Or I Love You Therefore I'll Walk Away and the list goes on and on.

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Posted by MoonshineLeo
When the pressure comes on they panic. They like doing things on their own time their own way. It's very frustrating. And they hate to feel like they own you that, like if you expect something from him he will not give in. It's best to leave them alone when they act like this and they will come back around. Only if you leave them alone and don't chase ever.

do you girl.

But the thing is that I was not putting any pressure, I just asked him about our situation cause he seemed distant and suddenly he tells me it's over...as if I cannot ask a question, without him reacting all paranoid. I'm glad I asked though I guess he wasn't sure about us in first place ://

Yea it's hard to talk to a Capricorn about your feelings. They freak out and start yelling and make no sense. And then you both just don't accomplish anything. I know this all too well. They do come back though so don't worry but you have to not reach out.

haha yes that sounds totally like him. He also has 7 planets in Cap, sooo lol. I think I'm not coming back though, it has been really emotionally rough for me *sigh* , I wanna be with someone who can be a little bit more communicative.

Yea totally understandable. You will find someone (: In the mean time just do you and don't worry about him if it's meant to be it will.

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Thank you! You are the sweetest, I do believe so.

Posted by hippiecrite
We feed on consistency. Change is necessary, but we don’t warm to it quickly.

If it’s that easy for you to go, we’ll let you walk away.

We don’t always know what to say and, until we do, we’ll say nothing. One of the side effects of that is giving our partners enough rope to hang themselves with. I’ve never made a habit out of testing people, per se, but time is a great test in and of itself.

I’m not a man and I don’t know if you can relate to either of those things in this past relationship, but this is what came to mind while reading your post.

OMG YOU CAME BACK TO ME!!!

(I mean... "us".... yes..... "us"...... that's it.. that's what I meant...)

Always consider the other placements!