Is my gemini best friend interested in me?

Hey everyone,

I think my gemini best friend is in love with me?

I dated him a year and a half ago for maybe two months tops. He had his own company and was always blowing me off, i didnt have the patience for that and moved on.

We still kept in contact though texting all the time. He had a great sense of humor and i loved having him as a friend. About six months after dating, we started hanging out again. We are both incredibly extroverted and started going out to events, dinners, gala's etc together every weekend.

All of a sudden we were hanging out every day. He introduced me to his family (as a friend) I started hanging out with his friends. I became his favorite topic to discuss. Everytime someone would introduce me to one of his friends they would say, "ive heard all about you."

He always cracks jokes about everyone saying we are going to get married. But he's never had a serious conversation with me about how he feels.

I slept over with him a few nights ago and we were physically affectionate but not sexual. I know gemini's dont have much of a sexual appetite, which is annoying for me as im a scorpio...but I like that this is the first "relationship" ive had that doesnt center around sex.

He still says things like "my friends can't wait till I get a gf so we can double date etc" and im standing there like, "...uhh im right here and i think im in love with you."

Is this normal for gemini's? To have friendships with people of the opposite sex and it not mean anything? I'm so confused.

Posted by tumultuouscorp
Hey everyone,

I think my gemini best friend is in love with me?

I dated him a year and a half ago for maybe two months tops. He had his own company and was always blowing me off, i didnt have the patience for that and moved on.

We still kept in contact though texting all the time. He had a great sense of humor and i loved having him as a friend. About six months after dating, we started hanging out again. We are both incredibly extroverted and started going out to events, dinners, gala's etc together every weekend.

All of a sudden we were hanging out every day. He introduced me to his family (as a friend) I started hanging out with his friends. I became his favorite topic to discuss. Everytime someone would introduce me to one of his friends they would say, "ive heard all about you."

He always cracks jokes about everyone saying we are going to get married. But he's never had a serious conversation with me about how he feels.

I slept over with him a few nights ago and we were physically affectionate but not sexual. I know gemini's dont have much of a sexual appetite, which is annoying for me as im a scorpio...but I like that this is the first "relationship" ive had that doesnt center around sex.

He still says things like "my friends can't wait till I get a gf so we can double date etc" and im standing there like, "...uhh im right here and i think im in love with you."

Is this normal for gemini's? To have friendships with people of the opposite sex and it not mean anything? I'm so confused.

Hmm well maybe he's giving you hints ?? whatis his Venus and moon?

Posted by LadyPootsAlot
Geminis don't have much of a sexual appetite? *scratches head* That's news to me.

Some don't... it's different though, more playful then passionate depending on placements.

Posted by Vageenka
To answer the OP, yes he likes you. He just doesn't know if he wants to commit to you. Geminis don't like to jump into relationships... There's a lot of thinking that goes on in a Geminis head before he/she decides that they're ready to commit and be with you.

You have to be patient with Gems. Keep hanging out with them, don't force them into making decisions, don't change, be the same person you are and then eventually we'll seal the deal on some random, unexpected day.

Good advice ? By commitment you mean bf/gf or marriage? How does one know where they truly stand with a Gem if he doesn't confirm you are in a relationship? I dated an Aries briefly and he was 10 steps ahead of me to the point I freaked out and did a 180 ?

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Posted by Vageenka
To answer the OP, yes he likes you. He just doesn't know if he wants to commit to you. Geminis don't like to jump into relationships... There's a lot of thinking that goes on in a Geminis head before he/she decides that they're ready to commit and be with you.

You have to be patient with Gems. Keep hanging out with them, don't force them into making decisions, don't change, be the same person you are and then eventually we'll seal the deal on some random, unexpected day.

Good advice ? By commitment you mean bf/gf or marriage? How does one know where they truly stand with a Gem if he doesn't confirm you are in a relationship? I dated an Aries briefly and he was 10 steps ahead of me to the point I freaked out and did a 180 ?

By commitment I mean like... "We're together. You're mine. I'm yours. I will take care of you. Sleep at my place." type of thing. When a Gemini commits you will know. There won't be no mixed signals. There won't be confusion. You will know that he or she is "down" with you and the main person in your life. And you will also know you're a special person in their life if they start to give you little glimpses of parts of themselves you never knew about... Like if you've never seen their room before, they'll invite you over. If they do soccer or some kind of sport and you've never seen them compete before, they'll invite you out. If you didn't know much about their upbringing, they'll open up to you about it. It's like little steps with Geminis before they decide to go all in. It's never a "sudden" thing.

Gems and Cancer to me seem like the moodiest signs, but when it comes to relationships, Gems will REALLY over-think it and make sure it's the right decision while some Cancers I noticed tend to jump into it, become moody and then disappear or not really be sure if that is what they want. Once a Gemini is sure you will know!

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Ok I get it... the Gem I'm seeing has done all this and recently he just met my sister and went out of his way to get to know her better. He says "we" and "us" and "our" a lot so I think he's in but i guess like you say I overthink ?

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Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by Vageenka
To answer the OP, yes he likes you. He just doesn't know if he wants to commit to you. Geminis don't like to jump into relationships... There's a lot of thinking that goes on in a Geminis head before he/she decides that they're ready to commit and be with you.

You have to be patient with Gems. Keep hanging out with them, don't force them into making decisions, don't change, be the same person you are and then eventually we'll seal the deal on some random, unexpected day.

Good advice ? By commitment you mean bf/gf or marriage? How does one know where they truly stand with a Gem if he doesn't confirm you are in a relationship? I dated an Aries briefly and he was 10 steps ahead of me to the point I freaked out and did a 180 ?

By commitment I mean like... "We're together. You're mine. I'm yours. I will take care of you. Sleep at my place." type of thing. When a Gemini commits you will know. There won't be no mixed signals. There won't be confusion. You will know that he or she is "down" with you and the main person in your life. And you will also know you're a special person in their life if they start to give you little glimpses of parts of themselves you never knew about... Like if you've never seen their room before, they'll invite you over. If they do soccer or some kind of sport and you've never seen them compete before, they'll invite you out. If you didn't know much about their upbringing, they'll open up to you about it. It's like little steps with Geminis before they decide to go all in. It's never a "sudden" thing.

Gems and Cancer to me seem like the moodiest signs, but when it comes to relationships, Gems will REALLY over-think it and make sure it's the right decision while some Cancers I noticed tend to jump into it, become moody and then disappear or not really be sure if that is what they want. Once a Gemini is sure you will know!

Ok I get it... the Gem I'm seeing has done all this and recently he just met my sister and went out of his way to get to know her better. He says "we" and "us" and "our" a lot so I think he's in but i guess like you say I overthink ?

If you really want him just keep going at this paste. Don't rush things. Enjoy the time you're spending with him. What's the rush anyway? You're both young. He will surprise you! x

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Yes, that's what I'm telling myself as well I'm glad you think this. No rush, but I know how Gems like to say no way to marriage and then they end up marrying anyway ?

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Posted by Vageenka
To answer the OP, yes he likes you. He just doesn't know if he wants to commit to you. Geminis don't like to jump into relationships... There's a lot of thinking that goes on in a Geminis head before he/she decides that they're ready to commit and be with you.

You have to be patient with Gems. Keep hanging out with them, don't force them into making decisions, don't change, be the same person you are and then eventually we'll seal the deal on some random, unexpected day.

Good advice ? By commitment you mean bf/gf or marriage? How does one know where they truly stand with a Gem if he doesn't confirm you are in a relationship? I dated an Aries briefly and he was 10 steps ahead of me to the point I freaked out and did a 180 ?

By commitment I mean like... "We're together. You're mine. I'm yours. I will take care of you. Sleep at my place." type of thing. When a Gemini commits you will know. There won't be no mixed signals. There won't be confusion. You will know that he or she is "down" with you and the main person in your life. And you will also know you're a special person in their life if they start to give you little glimpses of parts of themselves you never knew about... Like if you've never seen their room before, they'll invite you over. If they do soccer or some kind of sport and you've never seen them compete before, they'll invite you out. If you didn't know much about their upbringing, they'll open up to you about it. It's like little steps with Geminis before they decide to go all in. It's never a "sudden" thing.

Gems and Cancer to me seem like the moodiest signs, but when it comes to relationships, Gems will REALLY over-think it and make sure it's the right decision while some Cancers I noticed tend to jump into it, become moody and then disappear or not really be sure if that is what they want. Once a Gemini is sure you will know!

Ok I get it... the Gem I'm seeing has done all this and recently he just met my sister and went out of his way to get to know her better. He says "we" and "us" and "our" a lot so I think he's in but i guess like you say I overthink ?

If you really want him just keep going at this paste. Don't rush things. Enjoy the time you're spending with him. What's the rush anyway? You're both young. He will surprise you! x

Yes, that's what I'm telling myself as well I'm glad you think this. No rush, but I know how Gems like to say no way to marriage and then they end up marrying anyway ?

So true.

I hope I don't fall victim to that shit though. lol.

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Which means secretly you do ??

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Posted by Vageenka
To answer the OP, yes he likes you. He just doesn't know if he wants to commit to you. Geminis don't like to jump into relationships... There's a lot of thinking that goes on in a Geminis head before he/she decides that they're ready to commit and be with you.

You have to be patient with Gems. Keep hanging out with them, don't force them into making decisions, don't change, be the same person you are and then eventually we'll seal the deal on some random, unexpected day.

Good advice ? By commitment you mean bf/gf or marriage? How does one know where they truly stand with a Gem if he doesn't confirm you are in a relationship? I dated an Aries briefly and he was 10 steps ahead of me to the point I freaked out and did a 180 ?

By commitment I mean like... "We're together. You're mine. I'm yours. I will take care of you. Sleep at my place." type of thing. When a Gemini commits you will know. There won't be no mixed signals. There won't be confusion. You will know that he or she is "down" with you and the main person in your life. And you will also know you're a special person in their life if they start to give you little glimpses of parts of themselves you never knew about... Like if you've never seen their room before, they'll invite you over. If they do soccer or some kind of sport and you've never seen them compete before, they'll invite you out. If you didn't know much about their upbringing, they'll open up to you about it. It's like little steps with Geminis before they decide to go all in. It's never a "sudden" thing.

Gems and Cancer to me seem like the moodiest signs, but when it comes to relationships, Gems will REALLY over-think it and make sure it's the right decision while some Cancers I noticed tend to jump into it, become moody and then disappear or not really be sure if that is what they want. Once a Gemini is sure you will know!

Ok I get it... the Gem I'm seeing has done all this and recently he just met my sister and went out of his way to get to know her better. He says "we" and "us" and "our" a lot so I think he's in but i guess like you say I overthink ?

If you really want him just keep going at this paste. Don't rush things. Enjoy the time you're spending with him. What's the rush anyway? You're both young. He will surprise you! x

Yes, that's what I'm telling myself as well I'm glad you think this. No rush, but I know how Gems like to say no way to marriage and then they end up marrying anyway ?

So true.

I hope I don't fall victim to that shit though. lol.

Which means secretly you do ??

Lol we shall see sunshine! 😄

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That's what I ❤️ about you Gems... hidden softies

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Posted by Vageenka
To answer the OP, yes he likes you. He just doesn't know if he wants to commit to you. Geminis don't like to jump into relationships... There's a lot of thinking that goes on in a Geminis head before he/she decides that they're ready to commit and be with you.

You have to be patient with Gems. Keep hanging out with them, don't force them into making decisions, don't change, be the same person you are and then eventually we'll seal the deal on some random, unexpected day.

Good advice ? By commitment you mean bf/gf or marriage? How does one know where they truly stand with a Gem if he doesn't confirm you are in a relationship? I dated an Aries briefly and he was 10 steps ahead of me to the point I freaked out and did a 180 ?

By commitment I mean like... "We're together. You're mine. I'm yours. I will take care of you. Sleep at my place." type of thing. When a Gemini commits you will know. There won't be no mixed signals. There won't be confusion. You will know that he or she is "down" with you and the main person in your life. And you will also know you're a special person in their life if they start to give you little glimpses of parts of themselves you never knew about... Like if you've never seen their room before, they'll invite you over. If they do soccer or some kind of sport and you've never seen them compete before, they'll invite you out. If you didn't know much about their upbringing, they'll open up to you about it. It's like little steps with Geminis before they decide to go all in. It's never a "sudden" thing.

Gems and Cancer to me seem like the moodiest signs, but when it comes to relationships, Gems will REALLY over-think it and make sure it's the right decision while some Cancers I noticed tend to jump into it, become moody and then disappear or not really be sure if that is what they want. Once a Gemini is sure you will know!

Ok I get it... the Gem I'm seeing has done all this and recently he just met my sister and went out of his way to get to know her better. He says "we" and "us" and "our" a lot so I think he's in but i guess like you say I overthink ?

This is the first time you've said something that makes me think this guy really is into you, by the way. Geminis don't say "we" "us" about relationships much. It gives us the heebie jeebies.

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Yeah... I noticed that with my last ex he hardly said those words but he would say "I love you" a lot and spontaneous kisses and greet me with good mornings and such but I always felt something was missing. This guy does the kissing thing and is more about cuddling (specifically me rubbing his head/scratching his back) lol. But yeah, he wants me to join in a social game he plays on his phone and I'm like that's your thing, and he's like "but it could be our thing"

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Posted by tumultuouscorp
Hey everyone,

I think my gemini best friend is in love with me?

I dated him a year and a half ago for maybe two months tops. He had his own company and was always blowing me off, i didnt have the patience for that and moved on.

We still kept in contact though texting all the time. He had a great sense of humor and i loved having him as a friend. About six months after dating, we started hanging out again. We are both incredibly extroverted and started going out to events, dinners, gala's etc together every weekend.

All of a sudden we were hanging out every day. He introduced me to his family (as a friend) I started hanging out with his friends. I became his favorite topic to discuss. Everytime someone would introduce me to one of his friends they would say, "ive heard all about you."

He always cracks jokes about everyone saying we are going to get married. But he's never had a serious conversation with me about how he feels.

I slept over with him a few nights ago and we were physically affectionate but not sexual. I know gemini's dont have much of a sexual appetite, which is annoying for me as im a scorpio...but I like that this is the first "relationship" ive had that doesnt center around sex.

He still says things like "my friends can't wait till I get a gf so we can double date etc" and im standing there like, "...uhh im right here and i think im in love with you."

Is this normal for gemini's? To have friendships with people of the opposite sex and it not mean anything? I'm so confused.

Hmm well maybe he's giving you hints ?? whatis his Venus and moon?

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moon sagg and venus cancer

Posted by tumultuouscorp

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Posted by tumultuouscorp
Hey everyone,

I think my gemini best friend is in love with me?

I dated him a year and a half ago for maybe two months tops. He had his own company and was always blowing me off, i didnt have the patience for that and moved on.

We still kept in contact though texting all the time. He had a great sense of humor and i loved having him as a friend. About six months after dating, we started hanging out again. We are both incredibly extroverted and started going out to events, dinners, gala's etc together every weekend.

All of a sudden we were hanging out every day. He introduced me to his family (as a friend) I started hanging out with his friends. I became his favorite topic to discuss. Everytime someone would introduce me to one of his friends they would say, "ive heard all about you."

He always cracks jokes about everyone saying we are going to get married. But he's never had a serious conversation with me about how he feels.

I slept over with him a few nights ago and we were physically affectionate but not sexual. I know gemini's dont have much of a sexual appetite, which is annoying for me as im a scorpio...but I like that this is the first "relationship" ive had that doesnt center around sex.

He still says things like "my friends can't wait till I get a gf so we can double date etc" and im standing there like, "...uhh im right here and i think im in love with you."

Is this normal for gemini's? To have friendships with people of the opposite sex and it not mean anything? I'm so confused.

Hmm well maybe he's giving you hints ?? whatis his Venus and moon?

moon sagg and venus cancer

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Oh interesting... I know this combo very well personally

Posted by tumultuouscorp
I know gemini's dont have much of a sexual appetite

Ummm what? lol

Someone should tell my Gem cause he's like a ravenous beast. There have been times he couldn't even wait long enough to tear off my clothes, just push my panties to the side and slide home.

I'm very much an asexual around my guy friends.... I won't feel a thing for them. So idk.

Why did you guys break up in the past? If he is being careful/just friendly, your breakup might have an answer.

We broke up because he wasn't spending enough time with me. I moved on and started dating someone else.

He's not interested though. We talked about it, he said we have a high quality relationship and he knows i could make him happy for a very long time. But I dont have the innocence he needs to fall in love with a girl.

So thats over.

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Posted by SofiaV87
He sounds like a total Gem.. he's into your more than a friend & yes Gems are more playful in the bedroom, less passion .. if u think you're in love with him, tell him u want to take the relationship to the next level.. it's better than wondering forever lol

Lady you really need to read the replies in a topic before you reply! 😄

Topic creator just wrote today, that she has already talked to him and he is not interested in her as a partner.

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