Things that I've learned from each sign.....

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Aries: I am an Aries, and I've learned alot from my experiences. The biggest thing that I've learned is endurance. Independence is nice, but having a shoulder to cry on is nice too. Sometimes I surprise even myself with how much I have and can endure and over come. So far, I can honestly say that my experiences have been very humbling??_.

Taurus: They taught me to stop being selfish. By far, these are some of the most selfish people around. And I'm very connected to my Taurus friends.... I have two of them that are married to each other, and they drive each other crazy with their selfish ways. I hear her, and it's all about how he makes her feel. I talk to him, it's all about how she makes him feel. My roommate is a Taurus, and I'm constantly cleaning up after her.... So, I've learned to not be like that, because it makes me feel very uncomfortable.

Gemini: I've got to say, my best friends are Gemini's. From Gemini's I've learned two things: Loyalty and disloyalty. They talk about loyalty like it's in their nature, but when it comes to it, it's on their time. I've been very badly screwed over by several of my gemini friend's, two of them being very close to me, one being like a dear sister to me and completely, completely messed up things for me. So, they have taught me to let things go as well.

Cancer: I've learned the value of consistency and devotion..... my cancer friend always checks up on me and makes sure to keep in contact with me. He's like my older protective brother....... I know that he is a resort that I can turn to when I really need the help.

Leo: I've learned from Leo's to take pride in what you do and do it well. I had a boss that was a leo, and I learned alot from him.

Virgo: I've never really been exposed to many virgos, but I'm learning alot from one in particular. Def. a protector, but things are mostly done on his time and leisure. I'm fine with that.... when I want to be around him, I'm around him. Very loyal... when I need to get out of craziness and for some peace of mind, I know all I have to do is ask. There are no questions asked, I don't have to explain myself.... we understand each other, and we observe each other. This is the first time I've experienced this.....

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Libra: I don't know any libra's.... not saying that I haven't met libra's before. To me, they are very far and few... perhaps as an Aries, I scare them—

Scorpio: My mother is a scorpio. I've learned sooooooo many things from her and she has learned so many things from me. Our relationship is very complicated, to say the least. But the truth is, I wouldn't be the strong and courageous person that I am today if it weren't for unconditional love. I was in love with a scorp, but I ended up getting burned??_.. But his love for me was pure. It was a shame that things ended the way they did, but what is life if you can't reminisce on the finer things??

Sagittarius: My dad is a sag, and like my mother, I??ve learned about the value of devotion and unconditional love. He has been a solid character in my life, and two years ago he became sick. I will be devastated the day that he moves onto the next stage of life. Another great love of mine was a sag. We were 18 at the time, and we had plans to stay together for ever. He and I are still in contact, even though we live on opposite coasts and separated our lives 8 years ago??_.. Upstanding people.

Capricorn: Again, another sign that I haven't been exposed to. But the one that I was exposed to has surprisingly taught me that everything has it's time, and not to rush things. I wish things had turned out differently, but everything has it's time, right— I only hope that I taught him to hope and to have courage??_. Another cappy that had helped me through a rough time of my life said something that has always stuck true to me??_. —Let those who love you, help you.??

Aquarius: Very witty people. I always have fun with my aqua gals, but it's a limited fun. It's not one on one with them, it's always involves going out somewhere and having some drinks. I??ve learned to be social through them, to remember important details about people, and to listen while people are talking.

Pisces: My sister is a fish??_.. We have been there and done that. We've hated each other, loved each other, protected each other, told on each other??_??_??_??_ god, everything!!! I used to get annoyed by her over-reactions when I would find myself in trouble, but now I welcome it J I know that I??ve taught her that it's okay to spend time by yourself. And she has taught me that it's okay to get emotional and to turn to those that have your best interest at heart. She's so much like my mom, neurotic as s
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Thank-you..... it was never intended to be a sign bashing thread.... it was something that I've reflected upon.

Castro..... not everything is a competition to me, but when it needs to be, I thrive in a competitive environment. As far as being emotionally limited, I would agree with you there. I think my aggression is what throws people off more than my competitive side.
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Castro.... you're zeroing in on one aspect. I said that Gems are my best friends.... Gems who are close to me have taught me the loyalty ascpect. But there have been 2 gems that did screw me over. One of them was like a sister to me.... she intentionally went out of her way to do what she did, even after I confronted her and asked her to stop for friendship sake. They showed me what disloyalty is.... they taught me disloyalty. It hurt the most because we were so close. And I know we stopped being friends mainly because she was ashamed of what she did and couldn't face apologizing to me. I understand... she knows she's forgiven. But the truth of the matter is, even though I've forgiven, and even if we were to talk it out (I actually wouldn't mind clearing things up) I could never trust her ever again. And that is another reason why we stopped being friends.... she knows how I am. If I can't trust you, you aren't what I call a close friend. And the truth of the matter is, it's better this way, because we were such good friends. I learned from it, and she learned from it. That's what good friends do.... they learn, and move on. We granted each other that.

All of my gem friends love the way that I'm competetive. In fact, when a group of us get together, we will play games like taboo. Gems are very competitive too, and that's where we really connect... perhaps the Aries is the third twin to Gemini, because many gems and aries I know say that there is an immediate connection....
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I think that is a misconception about aries.... I know that we have the stereotype that we are gung-ho and willing to go that extra mile, but when it comes to love/friendship/ family..... We'd rather take on the blame rather than having the ones that we care about feel hurt. I consider myself a very good friend.

When an argument is about to occur, I take steps back. I'm more of a communicator, and would rather to talk things outa nd clear the air than to argue. This has been due to many, many, many, years of arguments. I know that I can sustain, but honestly, it wears me out very quickly, and that's when I turn into self-defense mode and will shake you off. I don't like being in that position, but sometimes your hardest lessons are learned through some of the most difficult times. It's what you personally take away from it that enables you to grow. So, if you're to get into an argument with an Aries, at least you know that a grudge won't ever be held against you, no matter how badly you've done wrong, because it's just not in our nature to hate.

I think that's the part that makes us very naive....
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I've said it time and time again that Aries doesn't hurt people on purpose. Honestly if they do they aren't aware they are doing it. They are so into the "full charge ahead" mode they forget to watch out for people they may be stepping on. They are selfish but not in a sinister way.

I've told Aries "um you hurt my feelings" blah blah and they give you this confused look like "I did? Ooops my bad". And then they prance away because they are just crazy like that 😛 They do seem to feel bad about it but they don't hold onto things like some signs do. It's onward and upward!!!!

Aries people have hearts of gold they just are so gung-ho they don't realize that they might being "ramming" you out of the way. 🙂 If you bring a conflict to their attention and explain your side they are willing to listen.
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Posted by Gingerscorp
I've said it time and time again that Aries doesn't hurt people on purpose. Honestly if they do they aren't aware they are doing it. They are so into the "full charge ahead" mode they forget to watch out for people they may be stepping on. They are selfish but not in a sinister way.

I've told Aries "um you hurt my feelings" blah blah and they give you this confused look like "I did? Ooops my bad". And then they prance away because they are just crazy like that 😛 They do seem to feel bad about it but they don't hold onto things like some signs do. It's onward and upward!!!!

Aries people have hearts of gold they just are so gung-ho they don't realize that they might being "ramming" you out of the way. 🙂 If you bring a conflict to their attention and explain your side they are willing to listen.



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ginger you so get it! i appreciate when people tell me if something ive done has hurt them. it really isn't ever intentional and i get really embarrassed and feel so so aweful but it's better than being misunderstood. i forget that i dont always say exactly what's going on in my head. the people in my life who call me out the most a scorpio, a cancer and a capricorn...go figure!
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really seavixen— my sister is Pisces and it is just so oil and water, that i can't stand it. how do ya'll make that work—? i would love a better relationship with my sister, but her tunnel vision and being able to only handle 1 situation and neglect the rest of her life because that one little situation consumes her to where she can't focus on anything drives me NUTS. when she gets like that, all that's left is for me to play mom to her kids cuz she can't focus on them at all.

Now, with that i admire so much about her. It's just her bad is REALLY REALLY bad.

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BabyGirl,
"It's just her bad is REALLY REALLY bad." Tell me this doesn't sound like US? Our great is GREAT, our bad is HORRIBLE :-)

Ginger & Ewe,

They know what they've done wrong because they've been told but they act as though they haven't a clue, hoping it will go away because they can't deal with confronting any subject relating to feelings or emotions. I've tried; they've only gotten very defensive and distant and continued to be just as selfish and oblivious. When your acquaintances that's fine, but when you're friends, it's unacceptable - in my book. They're not malicious, they don't hold grudges; but when you've been there for someone emotionally it's natural to expect that it will be reciprocated and very hurtful when it's not. And if it's a matter of her lack of awareness, then I ask myself whether I want to be friends with someone like that. Is that someone I could ever rely, depend, or trust when I really need them. Is that someone who will be there for me as I've been there for them?



i agree with what you say castor. it takes a mature aries to suck it up and apologize when they've done something wrong (unintentional or not) but you also have to learn to pick and choose your battles. at some point you learn what to expect from people and you can choose to take it ot leave it (in your case leave it lol). i highly doubt i'm the first person my friends come to for emotional support because i never know what i'm supposed to do. i'm very loyal and i'll listen and be good company and i keep my mouth shut unless you ask me for my opinion (which won't be sugar coated) but i suck at comforting people. if somebody finds those qualities comforting then we would make keen friends but i wouldn't want somebody to stay friends with me if i contantly frustrated them or let them down. i'd feel too badly about that
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"But the truth of the matter is, even though I've forgiven, and even if we were to talk it out (I actually wouldn't mind clearing things up) I could never trust her ever again. And that is another reason why we stopped being friends.... she knows how I am. If I can't trust you, you aren't what I call a close friend."

What a contradiction ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ ... you've forgiven her and you wouldn't mind clearing this up .. however, you will never let her be a friend of yours again because no matter what, you won't trust her. So, the real reality of it is .. you haven't forgiven, you aren't good enough to be a friend to another if you cannot accept that friends are as equally apt to fuck up as you are.



"I think that is a misconception about aries.... I know that we have the stereotype that we are gung-ho and willing to go that extra mile, but when it comes to love/friendship/ family..... We'd rather take on the blame rather than having the ones that we care about feel hurt. I consider myself a very good friend."

What utter bullshit ^^^^^^^^^^^^^, and what you said in the first quote of yours proves just how deluded you are. You think that you are a good friend and that you will take blame of something rather than lose someone dear to you ... yet, in reality, if something doesn't go your way, you will turn your back on it and never accept that people err.

What a fucking bitch, you are in reality .... truth be told, if that bullshit is really a part of your daily hypocrasy then this Gemini woman has been blessed that your ass isn't there ruining her life any longer.




"And I know we stopped being friends mainly because she was ashamed of what she did and couldn't face apologizing to me. I understand... she knows she's forgiven."

Did you say that ^^^^^^ with a straight face? Because if she heard you say it, she'd be laughing at you. On two other boards (Scorpio and Pisces) I've commented on how your powers of observation are fucked up and in that these people aren't anything like you are posting .. therefore I think your awareness is severely twisted, probably because of your selfish sun.

Gemini's are the first fucking people to apologize for an error they make .... ::::: shakes head at stupid people ::::::

Embarrassed? You should lay off the rope, it's making you into a fool.
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P-Angel,
You only prove how miserable of a human being you are. People like you make me sick to my stomach. I am physically shaking from your nonsense of a post. There is no contradiction with me.... I have standards and I set boundaries. This post had good and honest intentions for an open discussion. This is perhaps the 4th or 5th time that you have indvaded with your negativity on several other boards.

You are sick, dellusional, and pathetic. I suggest you get a life, and considering that your 50 years old, I suggest that you get one real quick. The term "life is too short to be miserable" is an understatement in your case.
Fact of the matter is, my experiences with this gemini has been what I stated. I have very high standards, and I'm an excellent person. I am open minded, honest, and believe that people should live a happy and free life. This person severely screwed me over, to the point that legal issues came in. I HAVE forgiven her, but she and I will never be friends due to her actions. And yes, she is ashamed of her behavior, as so she should be.

As for you, You ought to be ashamed of how you conduct yourself. You are disgusting. Your negativity is so pungent that I wonder why someone would waste their time spreading such disease on a messageboard. But then the answer is very simple... you have too much time to waste, and it's starting to implode on you.

I will not participate in such nonsense. I don't do it it reality, and I won't do it here. You are not allowed to be invasive when it comes to MY posts. How other people allow you to treat them is their business, but if this was in reality, and we were standing face-to-face, I gaurentee that you wouldn't say half of the shit that you say, because you would be dealt with efficiently.
Someone your age ought to know better. And it disappoints me that some people choose to harness onto negativity as a form of projecting their karma. I suggest you look at your own thread on the Pisces board as an example, and respond to what it is that I have to say there. Because that is real talk.... but the truth is, I'm too intelligent for you, so you have to rely on personal attacks. Shameful, you old fool.

Do not respond to any posts of mine. You are not at liberty to spread you disease in my direction. This is a closed avenue for you. There is nothing for you to obtain. You cannot provoke me. Enjoy the rest of your years. I hope for your own sake that you are able to find peace and happiness.
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P-Angel,
You only prove how miserable of a human being you are. People like you make me sick to my stomach. I am physically shaking from your nonsense of a post. There is no contradiction with me.... I have standards and I set boundaries. This post had good and honest intentions for an open discussion. This is perhaps the 4th or 5th time that you have indvaded with your negativity on several other boards.

You are sick, dellusional, and pathetic. I suggest you get a life, and considering that your 50 years old, I suggest that you get one real quick. The term "life is too short to be miserable" is an understatement in your case.
Fact of the matter is, my experiences with this gemini has been what I stated. I have very high standards, and I'm an excellent person. I am open minded, honest, and believe that people should live a happy and free life. This person severely screwed me over, to the point that legal issues came in. I HAVE forgiven her, but she and I will never be friends due to her actions. And yes, she is ashamed of her behavior, as so she should be.

As for you, You ought to be ashamed of how you conduct yourself. You are disgusting. Your negativity is so pungent that I wonder why someone would waste their time spreading such disease on a messageboard. But then the answer is very simple... you have too much time to waste, and it's starting to implode on you.

I will not participate in such nonsense. I don't do it it reality, and I won't do it here. You are not allowed to be invasive when it comes to MY posts. How other people allow you to treat them is their business, but if this was in reality, and we were standing face-to-face, I gaurentee that you wouldn't say half of the shit that you say, because you would be dealt with efficiently.
Someone your age ought to know better. And it disappoints me that some people choose to harness onto negativity as a form of projecting their karma. I suggest you look at your own thread on the Pisces board as an example, and respond to what it is that I have to say there. Because that is real talk.... but the truth is, I'm too intelligent for you, so you have to rely on personal attacks. Shameful, you old fool.

Do not respond to any posts of mine. You are not at liberty to spread you disease in my direction. This is a closed avenue for you. There is nothing for you to obtain. You cannot provoke me. Enjoy the
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The fact that you can't handle the truth is your problem and not mine .. I'll talk on any thread in here I choose to talk on.

Your threats hold no bearing to me .. though, let it be known that you threatened me .. so, who is the bitch?



Fact .. Gemini's are the first people to apologize if they have fucked up, and understand that people err, so therefore aren't ashamed to be human and err.

Fact ... Aries have to be right.

Assumption that is probably fact .... Gemini won't apologize to you because you are the one who was wrong and this is killing .. kind of like you saying in here that you are physically shaking over someone elses assesment ..

"I am physically shaking from your nonsense of a post."

Yep ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ that pretty much proves that you cannot handle if another person speaks in opposition of what you believe, if you have no control over yourself when a person does have their their own mind.


Weak, you are.

I would suspect that the Gemini spoke her own mind also, and you couldn't handle it.
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I personally love the way you attempt to hold yourself above what you consider nonesense .. and then sink even lower than me to project personal insults.

I merely said you were wrong and have no fucking clue what you are saying and it's making you look like a fool and called you a bitch for it .. you on the other hand said things like ..

"You are sick, dellusional, and pathetic. I suggest you get a life, and considering that your 50 years old, I suggest that you get one real quick. The term "life is too short to be miserable" is an understatement in your case."
"You are disgusting. Your negativity is so pungent that I wonder why someone would waste their time spreading such disease on a messageboard. But then the answer is very simple... you have too much time to waste, and it's starting to implode on you."




Which of course, I don't really care what you think .. my point is .. you think you are above me, when in reality, your insults are more abrasive.


lol ... you are so ignorant that you actually think it's ok to go against your own principals.


seriously .. stop being a dumbass and I'll go away .. until then you cannot dismiss me, you aren't smart enough to even know how to, apparantly, and actually think that lowering yourself to a level you hate will keep truth-throwers like me away .. when in reality, so long as your an ignorant fool, it will keep me on you, trying to get you to accept the fact you're a dumbass.