3 Consecutive Dates With A Leo & Now MIA

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Maybae
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7 Years

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Okay So... I met this Leo back in 2013 we used to talk. He was 18 , I was 2o. We reconnected bc he saw me at a party and went directly up to me in front of everyone and asked me for my #. 3 Days later he texts me fastforward 3 weeks he invited me to dinner on september 1st. He had been drinking a little but nothing too much. In the car he was SOOO SWEET, HE HELD MY HAND THE ENTIRE RIDE, KISSED MY HAND , OPENED AND CLOSED CAR DOOR. It felt like we never stopped talking. At the end of the night he went in for a kiss and i went along bc i felt the click , the chemistry . When i left he texted me " i miss you kisses" with a kissing emoji. Next morning he send me " Good Morning" with another kissing emoji. and we text well then he invites me to dinner. Kicked it off well but he did seem nervous/shy and he didnt make a move. Then for Labor Day we arranged a double date. It went super well also but he didnt make a move, but i could tell he wanted to. Just was to shy and with our friends. Now i havent heard from him since Tuesday, he hasnt texted me. But he will be the first to see my instagram story. I dont want to reach out to not seem slingy/desperate. Could he have lost interest THAT QUICK? Hes a LEO & im a LIBRA. 🙂
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Nameless Nemean
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14 Years5,000+ Posts

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So basically you' spent the three days in a row together for Labor Day weekend (Friday-Monday). You haven't heard from him since Tuesday because he needs a break. Just because he's a Leo doesn't mean he's not a human being with a life. Even if he doesn't need a break, he probably thinks that you do. One big complaint people make about Leos is how smothering/possessive we can be. This isn't lost on us. In fact Leos can easily burn Libras out, so it's good that the Leo is currently giving you space.

Also if the Leo has been initiating everything up to this point, he probably wants to see you reciprocate. All things being fair we Leos like to see the person that we're interested in also interested in us. Don't wait for him to do everything. We like partners who are direct, not passive. As you've already stated, he's asked you out on three dates already. If you want to hear from the Leo, just call him. I say call because Leos aren't the best texters. Calling is a much easier way to communicate with a Leo. Even if the Leo stared by texting, expect that to drop off as you two get to know each othr better.