A Leo male has gotten my interest.... (Page 3)

Okay, I'm back. I haven't seen Leo doctor today as I had a free day (being a nursing student, we work 4 days of the week). I'll get back to Leo doctor in just a minute. A few days ago, I wrote about there is a girl from my part-time job who is just plain wild. She is 10 years younger than me, but she feels I need to party more. To get her off my back regarding guys, I gave her challenge, thinking she wouldn't take me up on it, about the type of guys I go for. I haven't seen her for two weeks. Today when I came to work, she tells me she's told a friend of hers about me and that friend is on the lookout for a decent guy for me. I asked her how old is her friend who is doing this. She told me she is 33 years old. I just can't believe this colleague is so determined to find me a guy. I did tell her about Virgo guy (over two weeks ago) and she told me I had to move on which I told her I was doing. This girl, who is 10 years younger than me is very fast and a real wild child but very nice. I'm nothing like her. However, she wants me on the dating scene. I did not tell her today about Leo doctor though. I said to her she isn't being serious with me but she told me her friend is on the job with finding me a guy. I'll see what happens but it totally floors me how people suddenly are interested in my love life.

Okay, now back to Leo doctor. Yesterday, he did the same thing with zeroing in on me. However, there were no seats available. He was trying to figure out how he was going to get to me. Suddenly, a nurses' aid who was sitting next to me got up and told him she had warmed up the seat for him and he jumped at the opportunity. It amazes me how he always makes sure when he comes in the room he has eye contact with me and then does whatever possible to sit next to me. Anyway, yesterday, there was a patient who went nuts and most of the doctors were called in to calm her down (I'm in the Psychiatric ward as a nursing student). Leo doctor didn't want to get involved and stayed out of it as long as he could. He went on the net and was reading news. When he was done, I asked him if there was anything interesting. He said nothing but that the rent was going up (bank rent) and we got on the conversation about having to work while still studying. He knows I work parttime also as I have to since I'm a student. Then he told me he was so tired and was suffering from a cold. I told him that in America they have Nyquil but I wasn't able to get that shipped

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to Norway (where I live). I told him I had found out in England they have some cold remedy called Day Nurse and Night Nurse and I had that shipped legally to me. I wanted to tell him I would let him try them because I could see he really was suffering and my heart went out to him (darn it because when that happens, I know I really like the guy). Then the conversation had to be cut short because the patient who went nuts was calling for him. He went and was the hero of the day. The patient only likes him. It's unbelievable how he gains trust with people. I've never seen that happen so fast. He came back to me again. I was reading about some type of medicine and he wanted to read to so he got closer to me so he could read. As the day went on, I wasn't in much contact with him because everything got behind schedule due to patient who went nuts. I was a little scared but kept my cool. Everyone had to wear alarms on their arm for protection. I didn't really talk with him for hours. However, I did see him and he'd say hello to me. I said hello back. Then at about 2.35, he suddenly remembers that the day before he wasn't done with all of the testing he had done the day before regarding a patient. I told him I had to go for 3 as I was going to my part-time job for 4. He said he'd try to get it done before 3. Now right then and there, he scored points with me. He actually remembered me. He must have had me on his mind because if he had done the testing he would have had me right by his side and my full attention. However, he never was able to get back to me but that was okay. All through the day, I had him on my mind. Again that is not a good sign. When I got home, I found the Day Nurse and Night Nurse and I called him up. I told him if he wanted, he could try these as a sort of help because it helps tremendously. Did he want to try? He said yes. I fotocopied the instructions so he would be able to read up about the medicines and I ran to the hospital. Remember I left the hospital at 3 and by 3.30 I was back there to give him the medicine. He smiled from ear to ear. He even laughed that I had fotocopied the instructions. He was so appreciative. I told him I had been thinking of him the whole day. He said that was very good. I told him, in a nice way, no that it wasn't. He was smiling the whole time. I told him to let me know on Monday if the medicine helped him which he said he will. I hope he does tell me.

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So now the whole weekend through I'm going to wonder how he's doing. All of sudden the nurse came out and I wanted to help him. It's crazy. I haven't even known him that long and yet I wanted to find a solution. At times it astonishes me why I want to help certain people. As a nurse I always want to help out the patients but this Leo doctor is not a patient. I just don't know what came over me. He sees I do have a caring side. This caring side of me is not something I display to absolutely everyone though. Leo doctor just seemed to be so relieved. In a way I feel like he and I have gotten a little bit closer but I still am keeping my distance as I don't want to act over eager. I want him to do the pursuing. Right now, he's working slowly but eventually I think he's going to do something more. I'm just so curious how he's going to act towards me on Monday. I don't like how he's gotten into my head so quickly. This is why I'm playing somewhat cool but not like ice. Usually, I get nervous (in the beginning) around guys that I like. I've never been nervous around him which makes no sense to me. I just don't know. This year has been so weird. It's been emotionally draining but also taught me a whole lot. Never did I ever think someone would peek my interest after the Virgo guy this year. I thought it would take into next year before I might see someone of interest. Hell no, it's happening now. I act friendly, but not overly friendly with Leo doctor. He smiles around me and is always listening when I'm talking to others. In a way scares me but not in a bad way. Actually, it's a good scare, if that makes sense. He does seem keen on me and I'm not even prepared for it. I'll just go with the flow. The timing couldn't have been any more perfect though. I had just finally gotten over Virgo guy (emotionally) and then this Leo doctor appears. As I've stated before, I didn't even notice him until he placed himself in front of me. If he hadn't done that, I probably would still be oblivious to him.

Hi Mysti..
Interesting thread. Got your PM. I'm afraid I cannot comment to your advantage as my only experience with a Leo is that of a gorgeous, tyrranical, cheating, drug abusing, alcoholic first husband who beat the living **** out of me on a regular basis until I finally got the nerve to leave him for the last time. He threatened to kill me if I ever called the police. Luckily, for me, the neighbors did. Definitely not Virgos.

Kris,

I understand what you are saying. To be totally honest with you, I'm scared. Therefore I don't want to make a step forward unless he does. When he does something, then I meet him halfway. If this Leo doctor and I start dating, then I'll put more effort in. Right now, I don't know really what is going on. I think he's interested and keen on me but I'm a little frightened. Had a rough time regarding a Virgo guy this year so I've just finally healed from that. I never expected that a Leo doctor would peek my interest now though. I'm not trying to be unfair to the Leo doctor at all. However, I'm not going to show too much interest until I'm more sure of if things are going somewhere with this Leo doctor. Boy, do I hope they do.

PM,

Yes, I totally get what you mean by "seeing me". A big hug back to you. 🙂I truly am very happy. I can't believe my luck. However, I'm scared to death. I don't want to fall in love with this Leo doctor, but I know if he continues moving towards me, eventually it will happen. However, I'm not the type of person who falls in love fast. I'm always so careful in everything. This is why I have no idea what I could have done to attract this Leo doctor to me. I've just been myself. I wouldn't mind dating this Leo doctor whatsoever. As I've stated before, I feel so comfortable around him which makes no sense to me. It's like his confidence in himself has gone over to me. Normally, I'm nervous (in the beginning) when I like a guy. I haven't been nervous around him.

How adorable you refer to this thing with Leo doctor as a love story. I never thought of it that way but in a way I guess it is. It sure is something I'm not prepared for but will not stop it from evolving. I don't know what is going to happen or if nothing is going to happen. I'm going to leave it to chance. One thing is for sure, Leo doctor has been able to bring me back as I had been so down regarding Virgo guy. This is why I'm being careful with Leo doctor. The weekend is here, and I've had this Leo doctor on my mind. Oh boy, I can't wait until Monday to see him again.


Ltvm,
I'm so sorry regarding your Leo ex-husband. No man should ever hit a woman. Thank goodness you got away from that turmoil. Please stay in touch.

Maybe the other Leos are pussycats...mine was a ferrel wild cat. Good luck with yours. Taurus and Leo are not matches, maybe Aquas do better with Leos? Hope so.
Take care.

don't follow so much of what websites and astrologers say, just go with your gut feeling and see what happens.

I'm back. Today was a little bit of a weird day. I had to work last night at the ward, went home and to bed to only get up again to go back. However, today I did see Leo doctor. As each day has gone by his appearance has gotten better and better. Maybe he's started to feel more comfortable on the ward. I just don't know. He didn't sit next to me as there was no seat there. He did sit across from me so he could have eye contact again. This is something he always does. If he can't sit next to me, he makes sure I see him. It astonishes me still. He did the small glances at me. Now when I catch him staring, I give him a little smile. I hope that's smart to do. He gives a smile back. Must be doing something right. Then the hours went by. He was very busy also. I had responsibility for a patient today so I was busy too. So around 2.15, he and I were finally alone in the meeting room (where we all sit in the meetings or talk). I wasn't looking for any opportunity to be alone with him as I was reading some booklets about psychiatrics. He was having trouble looking for some word to order blood tests. I looked too but couldn't see it either. So since I couldn't help him, I went back to reading. He sat down across from me and was looking at some papers. I asked him what plans did he have for today as a form of conservation. He said he'll be on duty tomorrow so he was going to be doing some reading on psychiatrics as he doesn't have so much knowledge on that. Then I asked him if he has a social life since he's reading so much. He says he has a little. I asked him does he go out on the town. He said no he doesn't. He asked if I do. I answered him back it was all according to who I was with. Now what I did next is so unlike me, I even stunned myself. I continued by saying if I was with him I'd go. He was smiling from ear to ear. It was so cute to see. He said: "You would?" I said yes I would. I continued by saying there is something about him I like. He responded: "I'm nice". I responded: "Oh, you're nice?" He then responded: "Well,..." I responded with: "It's all according to who is saying it". He said yes. I continued by saying I wouldn't mind going with him whatsoever. He's still smiling. Then he said: "There has to be time for it". I responded: "We make time for what we want". He agreed. Now I know he's a very busy guy being a doctor therefore I know he has a lot going on. I've now in a way told him I'm interested in him.

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I just don't really know what it is that has come over me regarding him. For some reason I feel comfortable around him. I'm scared as hell, but also I want to take a chance and see what can happen. I've left the ball in his court now. He seems a bit shy and I only have another 6 weeks and 4 days left at my internship. Therefore there isn't much time so if anything could evolve, it would great for it to start soon. Now I won't do much more. However, I do have to thank Kris (if you're reading this) for giving me a little insight. When you mentioned that Leo doctor was doing a lot of the work it hit home. I didn't see it at the time but that is something I want to correct. Maybe subsciously it was going on. However, now I've met him halfway. Now he knows a bit better where I stand. If I could get this Leo doctor, I'd be a truly happy gal. I've never been like this before. Usually, it takes a long while before I'll let a guy know they peeked my interest. This is different. However, a little later on when I saw him, he still stared at me. Therefore I don't think I've scared him off. I'll see how he is towards me tomorrow. If nothing ever comes of it, it won't be in vain because at least I took a chance. However, now since I've left the ball in his court, I think he'll eventually do something. At least I hope so. I just couldn't believe how he was smiling. It astonishes me. For some reason my gut tell me to take this chance. I just hope he meets me half way now. In a way, I think I could have stumped him as he probably wasn't prepared either. I'm still not prepared but that's okay. If he did ask me out, I'd definitely go. I told him I'd see him tomorrow early and he said "Yes" in English. In Norway, we speak Norwegian. Sometimes I can be so bold when I want to. I just hope my gut is right. I get the feeling he's very attracted to me. As the days have gone on, I've become with him. I just hope he steps up to plate now soon.

PM,
Thanks for your insight. I really hope things work out with your Aqua guy. Keeping my fingers crossed. I'm hoping for the same regarding Leo doctor.

Rockchick10110
Very interesting. What you wrote hit a little home, because Leo doctor just told me today he's nice. I don't know if Leo doctor has fallen fast for me. To be honest, I don't even know how a Leo acts when they are falling for someone. When I start to like someone very much, I get a little scared and pull back. Then I realize there is nothing to be scared of.

It is a good idea to hold back Mystic since you aren't sure what his intentions are towards you.

The Leo I am interested in called last night. Everytime I give up on him, he reappears. He was away on a shoot.

Although another Leo also got in touch yesterday. It is turning out to be battle of the Leos.

🙂

"It is turning out to be battle of the Leos."

Yeah, but it's a lot of fun, isn't it? 🙂 Who would have thought it?

I wish the leo I am very into would be more consistent but we really do have a battle of the vanities every now and then. I am hoping we can put all the competition and bullcrap behind and just move forward.

I think things will work out for the both of you once the Leo guy is more sure of himself. It could be he's scared of falling too hard, or that things won't work out. I'm in the beginning stages with this Leo doctor so I'm still getting to know him. I'm not even sure yet when you know a Leo is falling for you as I've never dated a Leo guy before. Oh, it's confusing but fun also.

Being sure of himself is NOT the problem.

He fears having his wings clipped and losing his freedom of thought and action.

Oh really? He must have had some girl in his past that took away his freedom to which he doesn't want that to happen again. However, in my opinion, it's unfair of him to assume you or something could take away his freedom. Being a Libra as yourself, you like freedom too. Therefore he should know you would never take anything away from him.

It's good he's sure of himself. That seems to be a trait of Leos. At least from my experience with this Leo doctor.

I think it is more that he has been feeding on female flesh and doesn't want to give up his freedom unless he is sure which I totally understand. I don't want to limit my options until I know it is the right person as well.

In some respect, we are very much alike.

He is very sure of himself. It is something I admire about him. He has the ability to be comfortable in his own skin, know what he wants, and just goes after it. I really admire and respect that.

I wish you good luck. Leos are interesting. It's great how their confidence shows. Just by knowing this Leo doctor has been a great experience. Never did I think anything like this would happen to me after Virgo Guy. Things do work out the way they are suppose to. Eventually your Leo guy will realize he has just what he's been looking for, meaning you.

Well let's not go jumping the gun here! lol!

Although I wish our ambiguous acquaintanceship was a little more consistent, the truth is I like the fact I am not being pushed into a relationship at all. I feel NO pressure. We both need a lot of space and need to figure out what we want. I am still not 100% sure he is IT for me. In truth, he would be a very odd choice for me. I am intrigued. Plus the sex is just smashing!

Well, even though he would be an odd choice makes it all the better because it will always be intriguing. I guess he isn't the type of guy you usually go for. Heck, this Leo doctor, is not the type of guy I usually go, hence why I didn't notice him until he made sure I did. In relationships it's always a risk. That is why we have to be careful with our hearts. I still get the feeling, he knows you are the one for him but he doesn't want anything to get screwed up.

You asked how Leos show there interest:

My theory is they prefer to chase than be chased. they are passionate, enthusiastic, assertive or aggressive. They tend to show off like speak in other languages or do flamboyant/spontaneous things. Acts warm and friendly.

Of course, this is very dependent on his MARS.

LS,

I won't chase Leo doctor. He knows I like him and that's what counts. I'll never chase a guy ever again. I just wanted him to know a little bit of where I stand. However, from what I understand, Aquarians never let others know where they stand so there is some mystery around them. I've been told this also so I know it's true. It's part of my charm. This is one guy I don't want to get away though. However, now he has to do the pursuing little by little.
I have a question for you though. You mention it's all depending on what his Mars is. His Mars is in Libra. What does that mean?

Chocolate,
Thanks for the thumbs up. I was nervous as hell (excuse the language). I wanted to tell him in a sweet way since I can feel he's shy. Therefore I wanted him to know he has nothing to worry about. Plus, I feel comfortable with him which makes no sense to me. Yeah, I've grown a few balls this year alone (hahahaha). A year ago, I'd never be so bold. Knowing that Virgo Guy sure brought out another side of me. I was so astonished as he smiled. It was like he finally had gotten the confirmation he had been looking for. Now I just hope he keeps sending me signals and eventually makes a move. I think I took him off guard. That wasn't my purpose but I felt it was the right time. I'm going to keep following my intuition whatever way it goes.

Rockchick10110,
I agree with the gut instincts are the way to go. I already have a part-time job on top of being a full-time student so I keep myself busy. However, if I got a boyfriend I'd definitely make time for him.

Mars in Libra should be very gracious, charming, and accomodating. He probably will be sensitive and will love to listen to you and your feelings, and ideas. Probably he will be sweet and will go out of his way to make you felt undertood.

He is a complete 180 from anyone I have ever dated.

I always date overachieving A-type personalities. The Alex P Keaton type from Family Ties.

This guy is an artist. He is laid back yet stuck up (as eloquently put on another thread.) He is all disorganized and messy and weird. He has very calm energy compared to my past partners. Very open-minded, very sexual. Very comfortable in his own skin. VERY, VERY different from the other guys I have dated. Completely opposite.

*** I still get the feeling, he knows you are the one for him but he doesn't want anything to get screwed up.

I wonder. Part of me agrees. Part of me thinks he is completely freaked out for this reason but not because he fears things getting screwed up but because I don't think we were really expecting each other.

LS,

Wow! He already loves to hear me talk (I love to talk when I feel comfortable with a person). He's very charming. When it comes to being gracious and accomodating, he's been like that but not too much yet. That voice of his is just so great. I haven't come too far with the feelings part. When it comes to feelings, I get a little scared because I don't trust myself then. It takes a while for me to show my feelings and even then I'm scared because of being vulnerable. I don't like being vulnerable. I do a lot of brainstorming and he either smiles or laughs a little. At times I wonder what he thinks of me as I am quite original (you know being an Aquarian we can be quite quirky in a charming way). He is so sweet so that is true. Time will tell if he goes out of his way to make me feel understood. Thanks for your help.

LS,

Oh, I love Alex P. Keaton from Family Ties. He was my favorite on that show. He was so funny and his expressions were priceless. I remember watching that show every Thursday night in the 80's. Michael J. Fox is one of my favorite actors.
Well, since your Leo guy is the complete opposite of Alex P. Keaton, I totally understand you. However, there is a reason why this Leo guy came into your life even though he's messy and whatnot. I gather he's the complete opposite of you. I gather you like order. Anyway, opposites attract. Since the both of you weren't expecting each other shows even more how destiny plays in. You never know what is around the corner. I can speak from experience. I never thought I would meet a Leo doctor in a Psychiatric ward. Crazy, right? I wasn't even looking and there he is (he made sure I noticed him). He's also not the type of guy I go for either. I don't know how he lives, like whether he's messy or what. However, I love his personality which a great plus with me.

Chocolate,
LOL. Yeah, he didn't know what to say. He had a hard time keeping eye contact with me then. I think he was blushing but didn't want me to see it. Therefore when I saw him later on, he stopped both the patient and I as he suddenly had to talk to her about her X-ray results (it could have waited until tomorrow because it just by chance he saw us), I stared at him just to see if he'd look at me, which he did. Then when I looked away, he'd stare at me. The patient told me afterwards that he was staring at me. All I could say was: "I know and that I didn't mind it". It's nuts this whole situation. I'm not going to stop it though.

nooo problemo!

I actually have Mars in Libra. I try to be refined when I like a boy. 🙂

Well, I see have Mars in Capricorn. I don't know what that means either. All this astrologically thing is new to me. All I ever knew was that I am a Aquarian. All the moons, venus, planets and whatnot, I didn't even know. I only found out this past summer I had Moon in Leo. When I read about that it made sense to me because I fit that to a "T".
Yes, I am refined when I like a guy. However, I sometimes can act so aloof that they don't know I like them when in reality I do. After a while, I suddenly show a little bit more and they are completely taken aback because I was so aloof. Then when they know, things go so much better. I'm loyal and vice versa. Right now, if I'm going to honest, I have no clue of what has gotten into me. Normally, I don't care (in the beginning) which is something I've worked on because I have to let the guy I like know I like them otherwise they feel rejected which is not my intention. This is why it's so unlike me to have been as bold as I was today.

PM,

It's so true that it was funny when Leo doctor said "I'm nice". That is why I questioned him by saying "You're nice?". His response was "Well..." and he did have a grin on his face (stating what Chocolate wrote). Gosh, it's amazing. I did laugh inside when he said that because it came from no where. I said there is something about him that I like and his response was: I'm nice. What? Where did that come from?
Thank you very much for telling me what Mars in Capricorn means. Wow, I fit that to a "T". I must respect the guy I like. He has to be a respectable kind of person. I couldn't take being with someone that didn't have goals in his life nor a non-achiever. Nope, nope, nope. I truly admire this Leo doctor. My admiration for him has grown over the days and now I like him. Darn it. I fought hard though, but I haven't fallen in love with him just yet. However, if he sticks around, it will happen. I sure do hope it happens because he and I make a great team.

Chocolate,
You're bad but in a good way. 🙂It looks like I have a lot to look forward to if I start dating this Leo doctor. Well, I'm ready to date him, it's all up to him now. However, if he did ask me out, I'd be so surprised. Time will tell.

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Well, Leo doctor is changing tactics now. So I'm not sure if me being a little bold with him yesterday has scared him a little or what. Today, I made sure where I sat, he'd be able to sit next to me. Don't you know he goes around the table and sits semi across from me. What I've noticed with him is when he sits next to me, he rarely looks at me but I catch his small glances. However, when he sits across from me, he'll either stare or he'll just look a little bit longer at me. I was a little taken a back today. However, I guess it has to do with he likes to see my face now since he knows a little better that I do in fact like him. When he talks to others, he makes sure he looks at me just a little longer than the other people. So what I did to him today, was I would give him long stares and don't you know it made him a little uncomfortable. He would suddenly do some writing or act like he didn't see me looking at him. However, when he talked, he always gave me a longer look than the others. So I'm not sure if I've scared him off now because of yesterday. Or because he got confirmation about me and was finally relieved.

As I've stated before I can't chase a guy and I've left the ball in his court. Whether he's going to do anything is left up to chance. I'm a little scared now, but I know if I didn't tell him what I did yesterday, I would have busted. Sooner or later it would have come out as I believe in saying what is on my mind but in a sweet way. When I would see him today, I'd say hi to him and he pleasantly said hi back. I'm trying to meet him half way now again. I know he has a lot on his plate right now. I didn't get the feeling like he was ignoring me either. He was on duty today also and therefore didn't see him as much. However, I hope he doesn't scare easily. I can't imagine Leos not taking on a challenge, or could I be wrong?

*** So I'm not sure if me being a little bold with him yesterday has scared him a little or what.

told. you. so.

This happens EVERYTIME without fail. I think we have found part of the secret of leo men. You can't approach them directly at all. It has to be indirect.

*** I can't imagine Leos not taking on a challenge, or could I be wrong?

But the thing is you aren't being a challenge. You are making yourself to available. You are sitting across the table staring at him. If my theory holds, you have to be indirect. You have to ask him for advice regarding work. Make him feel important but in a sly way.

I personally believe your best bet is to turn tables on him and ignore him at little. Be polite but disinterested. If my theory holds, he will come your way.

Once he comes your way, you can seek him out for advice regarding work. If you see him you can ask about his family or some other issue he mentioned to you. You need to hit and run him.

I dunno chocolate. I think Leo guys want a bit of mystery. Everytime I put my cards on the table, they bolt. I have had this happen three times now.

You can't be direct. They just lose interest and/or feel pressured. You can't cage a lion.

She is in the perfect position though because she sees him every day. I think one day of cold politeness will get him to come her way again.

Chocolate,

I sure hope you are right. I've started to really like him over the past week. He purposedly wanted me to take notice of him. If he hadn't, I probably wouldn't have noticed him. In life I've sometimes waited too long to make my move because I was scared. This time I wasn't scared because it felt right. Well, I do hope he makes his move. This waiting on time is driving me a little crazy. I so want to get to know him (not just for sex, but for his personality) as it's very difficult to do that in the Psychiatrics ward as there usually always people around. I'm so curious about him and want to find out more. So you don't think I've scared him away? Also what's up with looking at me a little longer thing when he's talking to other people? Is that a signal or what?

LS,

Turn the tables? That might work. Yes, I do see him most every day (I say most every day because I work 4 out of 5 days and he works 5 days a week). I can detach myself very well when need to be. However, sometimes I have gone overboard with being too detached and then suddenly I get confused. Gosh, I wouldn't want to cage a lion as I wouldn't want him to cage me. I'd go nuts then.

"I think one day of cold politeness will get him to come her way again."
Very true. I can very cold that I sometimes stun myself. Also making a guy feel in important I'm very good at as I'm curious about everything. I love new things. He was showing me yesterday an EKG (about the heart) and I was very interested (this was before I had the "talk" with him). I just don't know. Sometimes I jump too quickly or too slowly.

Don't worry about it.

Take a big deep breath and let it out slowly.

You are just getting too wrapped up in this guy.

What I have found with my Leo experiment is, the direct approach is NOT the way to go. You can't call them and invite them out. You have to be indirect. You have to call them and ask for their advice about something. Maybe ask a few questions about something they were interested in. They will notice that you noticed. They notice EVERYTHING and will file it away.

But you can't be direct. You can't ask him out. You can't say, "I like you." You can't arrange the chairs so he can sit next to you.

You can say, "I like your shoes. They are awesome. You are a great dresser."

Someone reconfirmed this on the Libra board re: Libra men. I think Leos are very similar. This is my new approach.

LS,

"Leo experiment". LOL. You have a way with words I have to say. Thanks for that. I never thought of that but it's just what I have to do. I have to look at this as an experiment and let the chips fall where they may. I'm not cut out for all this right now. I'm not prepared whatsoever. I finally had gotten over Virgo Guy so I wasn't looking. I've acted like I didn't have a care in the world. Then when this Leo doctor purposedly made his presence known, I didn't even take notice. He had to do it for a whole week before I realized he was around. You see, I can be so aloof when I want to. Therefore with this Leo doctor with his persistence, he got my interest. Then I got a little scared because I didn't want him to think I was made of ice which I'm not but I do have a way of acting like I don't care. However, that is just on the outside. Inside I'm a real teddy bear with the right person or people. I won't do anything more regarding Leo doctor. I'll back off and see what he does, if anything.

Yes chocolate but you are a girl not a guy.

Men and women are different.

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Chocolate,
"Someone could arrange a chair so i could sit next to them, but only if im really interested in them. And then again i would switch up my plan on them also, by coming later than usual so hoping all the chairs are filled and i can't sit next to u and get to see their expression if i have to sit somewhere else......priceless. Or if i get there late and they are still holding a seat for me, that would really mean alot. That shows me u r looking out for me and being considerate.......'priceless'........"

I was absolutely stunned but I had my poker face on so I didn't react to it. However, when you mention that all he and I have is time and he knows this. What do you mean? Do you mean he thinks I'll hold out for him? If so, how could he be so sure after so little time. I don't want to ignore him as I hate that being done to me. Also he doesn't just stare at me when he's talking to other people. He looks at other people (guys/girls) but he looks at me a little longer than usual. I'm suppose to assume that is a sign?

Everytime I am direct they bolt. EVERYTIME. without exception EVEN when I know they like me.

Directness suddenly sets up an expectation. It brings a lot of pressure with it.

I really believe Leo men want to be hunters. When a woman pursues them, although they are flattered, the fun is gone. Even my cousin is that way.

You know I love you chocolate. My experience just seems to be different.

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Oh my and I thought Virgos were difficult in figuring out. At least the one I know. I never knew what was going on. I don't feel like that with this Leo doctor. Hopefully, I never will. It wasn't a good feeling when it was happening with the Virgo guy. That push and pull thing drove me crazy. Oh brother...

I'm going to have find a way to bring the fun back, if it's not too late. Gosh, and I who thought my internship at the Psychiatrics ward was going to be on the dull side.

Just have fun and don't worry about the consequences or getting the guy. That is what he liked about you so just do it.

This advice has NEVER steered me wrong.

Chocolate,

Why is so that Leos are so much into the soul? Thanks for the encouraging words about him and I going out. You didn't say "if" he and I go out. I truly do hope it does work out. I'm so much into the mind of a person. However, it seems Leos are into the soul. Could you explain a little more? If I'm getting you right, by Leo doctor looking at me a little longer than usual, he's trying to figure me out. If he can do that then he'll be the first guy to ever accomplish that.

"Just have fun and don't worry about the consequences or getting the guy. That is what he liked about you so just do it."

Thanks LS. Yeah, I have such a carefree attitude about most things and then I always meet someone when I'm the least prepared for it. Then I just go with my gut which is usually right on target (it failed miserably regarding Virgo Guy so I'm gun shy).

I've heard the "eyes are the window to the soul". I guess this Leo doctor can see inside me without me even knowing it. I look forward to having a special connection with him. I will go with the flow. He does have my full attention. I just have to make sure he doesn't know it, at least in the beginning, I guess.

the last leo was always staring at me.

He also gave me the good soup. That is love.