Chase

Have you ever felt like you're chasing someone too much?

How do you feel if the person doesn't reciprocate or if she/he is cold towards you or just doesn't react just the way you expect?

What would you do if you're in that kind of situation?

In the past yes. Life has taught me one simple lesson, don't chase someone who isn't also chasing you back. If someone is cold, it's best to leave them alone and find someone who is excited to see you.

I get distant ?

Edit:

I just realized this is the LEO forum —

I rather be with someone who appreciates my efforts and i don't have to apologize for being me

You're so pretty! But I've only been there once where I felt like I offered up more than them. As soon as I backed off they chased me. I think some people want what they can't have. It's unfortunate it goes that way sometime.

Posted by Wineaux15
You're so pretty! But I've only been there once where I felt like I offered up more than them. As soon as I backed off they chased me. I think some people want what they can't have. It's unfortunate it goes that way sometime.

Very unfortunate because leos will just leave and find someone else...then they come back to chase us. Its a sick game, who has time for that?

Posted by aquaglass
Have you ever felt like you're chasing someone too much?

How do you feel if the person doesn't reciprocate or if she/he is cold towards you or just doesn't react just the way you expect?

What would you do if you're in that kind of situation?

Yep, current Taurean. I ALMOST gave up (five weeks)! I felt as if I was "bothering him". But I kept asking for advice (read here in DXP), youtube (Taurus Barbi), Googled Taurus men, remembered what my tea leaf reading said (coffee cup), dreams, AND last my tarot card reader (David). You have to be a STRONG woman, read between the lines, NEVER give up, and if he texts you in less than two minutes; you've got him hooked! Doesn't hurt to be "mature" too as he has a life and so do I. Oh, and it helps to be "patient" as Taurean men are like riding snails/turtles (latter I saw in my tea leaf reading/coffee cup). My continued advice is to look up his zodiac sign (characteristics). I did EVERYTHING and it paid off!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: PERSEVERANCE!

I'm actually going through this right now. 😢 It feels like I'm chasing a ghost. He eats up the attention, reciprocates sometimes and then gets upset when I back off. I just added him to Snap and all he does is watch my snaps but doesn't say anything. It almost feels like I'm in some weird twilight zone of him just watching me but not reaching out.

It's like I'm stuck in limbo.

Are you guys referring to chasing before or after sex? I feel like women chase after they have had sex (or before if the guy is really a good catch), while men chase before sex most of the time.

Posted by aquaglass
Have you ever felt like you're chasing someone too much?

How do you feel if the person doesn't reciprocate or if she/he is cold towards you or just doesn't react just the way you expect?

What would you do if you're in that kind of situation?

Cold?

I would stop, immediately.

Chasing almost always can be seen by aspects to saturn and venus in synastry charts.

For the most failing or getting nowhere chasing, hard aspects.

For the most rewarding in the end, look for soft aspects

I mean you could work or not work either way but just saying how much effort you have to put will show here.. Saturn holds people down, it'll also show how likley you are to give up.

I don't chase but I do flirt a lot even with my straight friends, its all light hearted fun.

I got irritated by him, he pissed me off. So i went cold for a reason.

He still all warm and hit me up a lot, but i just felt like not talking to him. Thats what i usually do when i'm upset tho, distant and people would maybe see it as really cold.

But after a while, i responded again. We talked on the phone and video call. He wanted to meet but i couldn't as i'm busy with work. Idk but i maybe still sounds cold. Then he just dissapear after that.

I checked him up after a few. To kind of let him know that i still care for him.

Then a while later, he drunk texted me at 2am.

That's ridiculous

I can relate! I just decided to just let go of the Leo guy I was getting to know! He was persistent at the beginning now I feel like I'm doing all the effort. I'm going to take it ask loss of interest n move on... I feel like I'll take that loss... (shrugs)

As*

We will not stay where we feel unwanted. Every single time you push us away our feelings go away too, you do not want to play with a leos heart.

Posted by MoonshineLeo
We will not stay where we feel unwanted. Every single time you push us away our feelings go away too, you do not want to play with a leos heart.

I'm not into heart-playing too tho. Whenever i get cold, there's always a reason. Most of them are because something pissed me off. And the latest case was he pissed me off. I eventually got over it and we're all good again now.

Posted by aquaglass

Posted by MoonshineLeo
We will not stay where we feel unwanted. Every single time you push us away our feelings go away too, you do not want to play with a leos heart.

I'm not into heart-playing too tho. Whenever i get cold, there's always a reason. Most of them are because something pissed me off. And the latest case was he pissed me off. I eventually got over it and we're all good again now.

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Well next time you should probably be mature and let him know what bothers you instead of ignoring like you're in middle school.

Posted by MoonshineLeo

Posted by aquaglass

Posted by MoonshineLeo
We will not stay where we feel unwanted. Every single time you push us away our feelings go away too, you do not want to play with a leos heart.

I'm not into heart-playing too tho. Whenever i get cold, there's always a reason. Most of them are because something pissed me off. And the latest case was he pissed me off. I eventually got over it and we're all good again now.

Well next time you should probably be mature and let him know what bothers you instead of ignoring like you're in middle school.

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I always did tell him. And will always do. I'm pretty direct. Just doing it in rather calmer way, which could be seen as too cold.

Posted by Tauruswithspunk
Aries Venus here... yes I tend to chase even though I don't want to (Taurus sun says no)... but it only takes a split second for you to start playing cat and mouse before I move on to better pastures.

I have an Aries venus as well... I am always at war with myself bc she loves to chase n conquer while my Taurus side hates it