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Mark David
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After our argument last Thursday she blocked my phone 18 times that Thursday I haven't heard from her ever since.

I'm greatly worried about her and I love her more than anything she is my heaven on earth she makes me satisfied more than anything; more than money and cars and material.

If I can ask for any woman to spend the rest of my life with and it would be her

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Mark David
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Posted by SassyKiwi
Are you fucking your professor?


Hahahaha no no. I met her when I was 18, I did lie about my age and by the time I came forward it was too late we both were in love.

I told her that out of every single woman on the face of the earth I would choose you no one but you I don't care about your age I don't care about how your gonna look in 20 years, I don't care about any of it you are perfect for me ....



Infact she even saved her eggs... because we were gonna get married and have a family.

I'm finishing up on mechanical engineering and when I do finish school I'm going to design the house that I wanted to give for her and our future children
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Mark David
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Snap out of it. If she didn't pick up your call or blocked it 18 times, clearly it means to leave her be and let her come to you when and if she's ready to talk.


No she called me 18 times I was the one who didn't pick up.
Oh, then proceed to hit me in the face with that paddle and carry on. I profusely apologize for my ill-mannerism and my terrible reading comprehension.
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—✌️️ hahah your cool as F! Thanks I needed the laugh god I'm very depressed because of all this... #isabitch
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Mark David
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After our argument last Thursday she blocked my phone 18 times that Thursday I haven't heard from her ever since.

I'm greatly worried about her and I love her more than anything she is my heaven on earth she makes me satisfied more than anything; more than money and cars and material.

If I can ask for any woman to spend the rest of my life with and it would be her

Down below is the link to Our synastry chart

http://m.imgur.com/a/t5UMI
Have you tried the bridge jumping technique?

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As much as you sound fucked up.., I'm actually busting up
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Mark David
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After our argument last Thursday she blocked my phone 18 times that Thursday I haven't heard from her ever since.

I'm greatly worried about her and I love her more than anything she is my heaven on earth she makes me satisfied more than anything; more than money and cars and material.

If I can ask for any woman to spend the rest of my life with and it would be her

Down below is the link to Our synastry chart

http://m.imgur.com/a/t5UMI
Have you tried the bridge jumping technique?


As much as you sound fucked up.., I'm actually busting up
So it worked?

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Nice.

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Hahaha no I'll pass
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After our argument last Thursday she blocked my phone 18 times that Thursday I haven't heard from her ever since.

I'm greatly worried about her and I love her more than anything she is my heaven on earth she makes me satisfied more than anything; more than money and cars and material.

If I can ask for any woman to spend the rest of my life with and it would be her

Down below is the link to Our synastry chart

http://m.imgur.com/a/t5UMI
Have you tried the bridge jumping technique?


As much as you sound fucked up.., I'm actually busting up
So it worked?

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Nice.

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LOL!
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Posted by PootyButt
Age is NOT just a number. People are at different points in their lives at different ages. As @MyStarsShine said, your brain isn't even completely mature until at least 25. Your frontal lobe is just not fully developed yet.

She's nearing the end of her fertile days, looking long-term at what's to come. You're not done with college yet.

I'm looking at going into a relationship with a smaller age gap, but I'm doing it with eyes wide open about the issues that will likely arise and with a much more mature man. You are too starry eyed about this.
Amen to this

I have come to realize that age matters so much in relationships

Great for fun for a while.....but beyond that......no
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Age is NOT just a number. People are at different points in their lives at different ages. As @MyStarsShine said, your brain isn't even completely mature until at least 25. Your frontal lobe is just not fully developed yet.

She's nearing the end of her fertile days, looking long-term at what's to come. You're not done with college yet.

I'm looking at going into a relationship with a smaller age gap, but I'm doing it with eyes wide open about the issues that will likely arise and with a much more mature man. You are too starry eyed about this.
Amen to this

I have come to realize that age matters so much in relationships

Great for fun for a while.....but beyond that......no
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Age doesn't matter, because I have my life straight.

Finishing mechanical engineering, gonna buy my house next I work in the aerospace industry. I don't party or whore myself around stop this negative judgment please...
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Mark David
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Age is NOT just a number. People are at different points in their lives at different ages. As @MyStarsShine said, your brain isn't even completely mature until at least 25. Your frontal lobe is just not fully developed yet.

She's nearing the end of her fertile days, looking long-term at what's to come. You're not done with college yet.

I'm looking at going into a relationship with a smaller age gap, but I'm doing it with eyes wide open about the issues that will likely arise and with a much more mature man. You are too starry eyed about this.
When she gifts you car, that's pretty cool.
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It's not about gifting each other... it's how are you gonna go for something? If you want it bad enough you will find a way to achieve it.

3 years ago I didn't know anything about running my own company; but fuck did I want to? Hell ya!!

Today I have started 4 companies and I myself am busy in the aerospace industry
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You sound so in love. But why did she block you?
She didn't block me. we got into an argument so

Instead of blowing up her phone, I merely ceased all contact her. Not a single phone call or text sent in 9 days however I do have a letter written for her... Idk when to send it though
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What was the argument about? Sounds serious
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Ok as an older women

I'm going to say she's done

I could never take a relationship serious who is a young as my son

Wrong way to do things but she problably used you to get back at ex
Ok two years of being with someone isn't using... I don't think she used me at all.
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Listen to the lady....she is speaking sense
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Mark David
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Posted by MyStarsShine
Your brain will not mature until you around 25 or later...you aren't able to process emotions in a rational way at the moment

That age gap is far too big
I grew up fast in New Jersey. and by the time i was 18, I already faced going through a proxy war (got stuck in Chechnya while visiting in 2010. Had to serve with Russian units.) so don't tell me that my mind is probably immature.

I don't drink or party like the average 20 year old I take care of myself I work and go to school. I help society as much as I can.
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Your brain will not mature until you around 25 or later...you aren't able to process emotions in a rational way at the moment

That age gap is far too big
I grew up fast in New Jersey. and by the time i was 18, I already faced going through a proxy war (got stuck in Chechnya while visiting in 2010. Had to serve with Russian units.) so don't tell me that my mind is probably immature.

I don't drink or party like the average 20 year old I take care of myself I work and go to school. I help society as much as I can.
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But you are still 20

You are not fully mature...she is....keep reading that

The differences are palpable...believe me
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Ya know, I doubt she was using you. I think she fell for you, just like you said. But she's mature enough to see now that it's not going to work. You're having trouble believing that because 1) nobody wants to believe that, ever, at any age, 2) this is your first big love, and 3) you are probably not mature enough to know what you're going to want down the line yet, and she probably knows that. It's not an insult, and it's not me being negative. It's human development.

http://hrweb.mit.edu/worklife/youngadult/brain.html

"20s and beyond

According to recent findings, the human brain does not reach full maturity until at least the mid-20s. (See J. Giedd in References.) The specific changes that follow young adulthood are not yet well studied, but it is known that they involve increased myelination and continued adding and pruning of neurons. As a number of researchers have put it, "the rental car companies have it right." The brain isn't fully mature at 16, when we are allowed to drive, or at 18, when we are allowed to vote, or at 21, when we are allowed to drink, but closer to 25, when we are allowed to rent a car."
Yes ma'am

Are you letting your young one go free?
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Mark David
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Posted by MyStarsShine
You are 20

She is over 40



She is old enough to be your mother.....she is in her mature yours....you are not

How can that possibly work?
It was working out the first half when she was willing to compromise. I told her a very long time ago and I was very very firm and clear with her.

I said "my love, I want you to know age is just a number. Don't ever think that being with me is wrong or it's never gonna workout. Anything is possible and a relationship is a two way street. This like other relationship needs the both of us and that right there will workout. Someday when you stand next to me, people will know your my wife the mother of my children. And I want you to know I'll always love you more than anything."

I remember, she froze her eggs. She said she wanted to get pregnant. She's got a special daughter from another marriage that I wanted to be a father to; she's a sweetheart. Her ex she's keeping around wasn't serious about her and her daughter.

My Leo woman knows I'm mature people. I don't believe maturity is the main issue here...

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Ya know, I doubt she was using you. I think she fell for you, just like you said. But she's mature enough to see now that it's not going to work. You're having trouble believing that because 1) nobody wants to believe that, ever, at any age, 2) this is your first big love, and 3) you are probably not mature enough to know what you're going to want down the line yet, and she probably knows that. It's not an insult, and it's not me being negative. It's human development.

http://hrweb.mit.edu/worklife/youngadult/brain.html

"20s and beyond

According to recent findings, the human brain does not reach full maturity until at least the mid-20s. (See J. Giedd in References.) The specific changes that follow young adulthood are not yet well studied, but it is known that they involve increased myelination and continued adding and pruning of neurons. As a number of researchers have put it, "the rental car companies have it right." The brain isn't fully mature at 16, when we are allowed to drive, or at 18, when we are allowed to vote, or at 21, when we are allowed to drink, but closer to 25, when we are allowed to rent a car."
I wanna let you know that I've always valued marriage and stability over fucking around. Dating and maturity and all that is a western concept. The more we emphasis on something then more it becomes reality...
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Mark David
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Posted by Impulsv
She's a cap moon

That makes her practical

Ull be changing her diapers when ur fourty
I told her a long time ago that when she grows old She won't ever have to worry about an elders home. That I will take care of her and bring her coffee every morning and nice breakfast.

I don't mjnd changing her diapers when she's old. Love is love, and it's a brick and a bitch.
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God, @Pootybutt I respect the hell out of you right now. Ever single one of his responses are so obnoxious to my sensibilities. He doesn't listen to anything anyone says to him, he's gonna do what he wants to do. And you are gentle and have the patience of a saint.

He's 20, has been abusive to his "love", is playing mind games left and right, and all this other obviously unhealthy stuff. He is obsessive at this point.

It's been more then a week of this nonsense, and multiple threads. Someone just call it a day already!
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Age is NOT just a number. People are at different points in their lives at different ages. As @MyStarsShine said, your brain isn't even completely mature until at least 25. Your frontal lobe is just not fully developed yet.

She's nearing the end of her fertile days, looking long-term at what's to come. You're not done with college yet.

I'm looking at going into a relationship with a smaller age gap, but I'm doing it with eyes wide open about the issues that will likely arise and with a much more mature man. You are too starry eyed about this.
When she gifts you car, that's pretty cool.
It's not about gifting each other... it's how are you gonna go for something? If you want it bad enough you will find a way to achieve it.

3 years ago I didn't know anything about running my own company; but fuck did I want to? Hell ya!!

Today I have started 4 companies and I myself am busy in the aerospace industry


I remember what it was like to have a car. It was nice.

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Ok car wise I have enough to buy myself an AMG. But I'm gonna invest in real estate and buy a house put it out for rent make money till she is ready to marry me and have children with me.

You all don't realize is I don't wanna fuck around like the typical bozo 20 year old fuck. I have a very very old soul, very very very old fucking soul.
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Mark David
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Ya know, I doubt she was using you. I think she fell for you, just like you said. But she's mature enough to see now that it's not going to work. You're having trouble believing that because 1) nobody wants to believe that, ever, at any age, 2) this is your first big love, and 3) you are probably not mature enough to know what you're going to want down the line yet, and she probably knows that. It's not an insult, and it's not me being negative. It's human development.

http://hrweb.mit.edu/worklife/youngadult/brain.html

"20s and beyond

According to recent findings, the human brain does not reach full maturity until at least the mid-20s. (See J. Giedd in References.) The specific changes that follow young adulthood are not yet well studied, but it is known that they involve increased myelination and continued adding and pruning of neurons. As a number of researchers have put it, "the rental car companies have it right." The brain isn't fully mature at 16, when we are allowed to drive, or at 18, when we are allowed to vote, or at 21, when we are allowed to drink, but closer to 25, when we are allowed to rent a car."
I wanna let you know that I've always valued marriage and stability over fucking around. Dating and maturity and all that is a western concept. The more we emphasis on something then more it becomes reality...


I believe that you're mature for your age. I still think age is probably the big problem here. That, and her ex. She won't let go of him. She obviously has feelings for him.

What do _you_ think the problem is?
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I think the problem is lack of communication and honesty. Whatever I communicate to her with love and tranquility goes through one ear and out the other. I understand she has feelings for him, but in the process she told me she loves me more than anything. We both spoke of kids we will have even their names which leaves a mark on someone man or woman.

She's dishonest about things that she doesn't need to be dishonest about. Thus instead of a lovely phone conversation about how our days went, it's fuck this and lies about that and you don't love and your a liar (that's us going back and forth.)



And when you have that kind of communication there is no room for love and oxytocin and love juju vibes heheheh you get the point.



That's why I asked her two weeks ago, who she wants and what and where she sees herself in the near future, to which she replied, you and our children and our home
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Age is NOT just a number. People are at different points in their lives at different ages. As @MyStarsShine said, your brain isn't even completely mature until at least 25. Your frontal lobe is just not fully developed yet.

She's nearing the end of her fertile days, looking long-term at what's to come. You're not done with college yet.

I'm looking at going into a relationship with a smaller age gap, but I'm doing it with eyes wide open about the issues that will likely arise and with a much more mature man. You are too starry eyed about this.
When she gifts you car, that's pretty cool.
It's not about gifting each other... it's how are you gonna go for something? If you want it bad enough you will find a way to achieve it.

3 years ago I didn't know anything about running my own company; but fuck did I want to? Hell ya!!

Today I have started 4 companies and I myself am busy in the aerospace industry


I remember what it was like to have a car. It was nice.


Ok car wise I have enough to buy myself an AMG. But I'm gonna invest in real estate and buy a house put it out for rent make money till she is ready to marry me and have children with me.

You all don't realize is I don't wanna fuck around like the typical bozo 20 year old fuck. I have a very very old soul, very very very old fucking soul.




I use to press a pedal on my car and it would go faster. That was pretty cool.

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Now your just trolling me but it's

Funny hahaha
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Mark David
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Well she might care about not putting you through hell in your prime age.

How old is the ex sag?
He's like in his late 30s, I have a feeling he's taking her for a right cause when I came in the picture they were 4-5 year in and no damn ring.

No ring, well all is fair game. One of my favorite poetic quotes is

"all is fair in love and war"
N do u see her strategy

Make him see she is wanted by a younger man so he can finally see her "worth" n he can put that ring on it.

Why she won't cut him off even at ur asking

This is wrong n she acting very childish
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He's never gonna put a ring on her hand. He's gonna be use her till the end.

I remember in the beginning she didn't want him to find out about us... infact I tried to steal her off of him. To which now I'm sick and done with her games and thus I haven't talked to her in 9 days

She doesn't realize my worth and talking to her 8 times a day won't fucking help
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I hate to say this but with everything I know about you two, regardless of how you feel about her or the circumstances of your relationship, she should have let you go and dropped it already. She knows this, but can't break free from either of you and it's starting to manifest outwardly.

I will say this; love isn't everything.

I don't want to sound insensitive, but this is supremely unhealthy for both of you. Let her make her choice (even not deciding is a choice) and if she isn't 100% all in, cut the rope.
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Mark David
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Well she might care about not putting you through hell in your prime age.

How old is the ex sag?
He's like in his late 30s, I have a feeling he's taking her for a right cause when I came in the picture they were 4-5 year in and no damn ring.

No ring, well all is fair game. One of my favorite poetic quotes is

"all is fair in love and war"
Aaah. Okay. Looks like she's on his hook and you're on hers. And neither of it is a loving relationship.

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There was a time when she was on my hook and I should've done something instead of sitting around on my ass and enjoying everything.
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Mark David
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Are you fucking your professor?


Hahahaha no no. I met her when I was 18, I did lie about my age and by the time I came forward it was too late we both were in love.

I told her that out of every single woman on the face of the earth I would choose you no one but you I don't care about your age I don't care about how your gonna look in 20 years, I don't care about any of it you are perfect for me ....



Infact she even saved her eggs... because we were gonna get married and have a family.

I'm finishing up on mechanical engineering and when I do finish school I'm going to design the house that I wanted to give for her and our future children
In all honesty it is probably not gonna work out. You'll go through a period of grief and anger but probably realize in the end it is for the best - for the both of you. You are just gonna have to accept defeat. It didn't turn out great, she's not gonna turn into the person you want her to, that never cheated on you and will give up everything for you.

Probably.
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I accepted defeat along along time ago. I just wanted us to be together regardless of our differences...
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Mark David
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Mark, is your mother still around?


Yes we are very close and I keep in touch with my family members. Although I haven't disclosed this information to them I didn't wanna burden my loved ones.


So you are not so close to her that you can't be open with her?

Why is that?

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No im close to her but she's got health problems and diabetes ect that's why I don't wanna bring home drama
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