Do leo girlfriend still loves me?

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I have been with her for almost 10 years. We had countless of fights and the most recent one was because my dad had to undergo some surgery which we have to fork out a sum of money. And she thought that i will not be willing to spend money on her anymore. I was really mad and we fought.

It has been 2 weeks since we have contacted.

Before that i tried looking for her but she just cant seems to talk amicably. I love her but is it worth it? Or maybe she doesnt love me anymore.....

Please advise me should i look for her or should i not.
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She is likely still upset, hence avoiding talks at the moment. Try to give her space for the time being.

If you really want to reach out to her, text to let her know you would like to talk and see how she responds to that text. Talk over the phone is usually a better open.

Have your thoughts calm and collected and tell her on the issues you have been facing, like your stress, the problems and how you want to fix things? Have an open communication.

IF she still doesn't understand you and bring you down then maybe decides if a break is for the best?
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I have been with her for almost 10 years. We had countless of fights and the most recent one was because my dad had to undergo some surgery which we have to fork out a sum of money. And she thought that i will not be willing to spend money on her anymore. I was really mad and we fought.

It has been 2 weeks since we have contacted.

Before that i tried looking for her but she just cant seems to talk amicably. I love her but is it worth it? Or maybe she doesnt love me anymore.....

Please advise me should i look for her or should i not.
Lovely. 🙄

You might be trolling.

In case you're not and the obvious needs to be said : she doesn't sound like a keeper.
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Yea i feel like theres a part to the story here missing because that sounds so shallow.

Op, i dont think a fight like that would really keep a leo away and we care about family alot so you would think she would be super understanding, is there something else that might be bothering her?
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I have been with her for almost 10 years. We had countless of fights and the most recent one was because my dad had to undergo some surgery which we have to fork out a sum of money. And she thought that i will not be willing to spend money on her anymore. I was really mad and we fought.

It has been 2 weeks since we have contacted.

Before that i tried looking for her but she just cant seems to talk amicably. I love her but is it worth it? Or maybe she doesnt love me anymore.....

Please advise me should i look for her or should i not.
Lovely. 🙄

You might be trolling.

In case you're not and the obvious needs to be said : she doesn't sound like a keeper.
Yea i feel like theres a part to the story here missing because that sounds so shallow.

Op, i dont think a fight like that would really keep a leo away and we care about family alot so you would think she would be super understanding, is there something else that might be bothering her?
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That day when i told her about the surgery fee was the same day when she wanted to go out with me to change her oversize gold bangle (which is also paid by me, basically all expenses will be on me).

So after i told her about the surgery, she said forget it and i got abit mad because i did not say she cant buy what she wants to buy. So end up she blocked me from her phone and whatsapp (which she always does that) and i got even angrier that i went to her home to look for her to either talk or let's go out.

But when she saw me she hide in her room till her mum has to ask me to leave. She never let me to go her house. (Thats the reason why she is so mad).

After that incident i tried to look for her to talk things out but she is always mad and refuse to listen. Until a point where i was so mad that i pretended to snatch her things just to get her attention.

So for 2 weeks we did not contact even if i wanted to text her i cant because im being blocked (her phone was also paid by me). This is the 3rd week, i went to look for her just now and she said that she has forgotten me and she just want peace. Yesterday i used my colleague phone to text her and she thought i changed phone number.

Maybe at certain point in time i was wrong for acting so recklessly but why must she always be mad. If she hasnt block me i wouldnt be triggered.

In short:

She doesnt want me to look for her at her house.
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Posted by Czy
I have been with her for almost 10 years. We had countless of fights and the most recent one was because my dad had to undergo some surgery which we have to fork out a sum of money. And she thought that i will not be willing to spend money on her anymore. I was really mad and we fought.

It has been 2 weeks since we have contacted.

Before that i tried looking for her but she just cant seems to talk amicably. I love her but is it worth it? Or maybe she doesnt love me anymore.....

Please advise me should i look for her or should i not.
Lovely. 🙄

You might be trolling.

In case you're not and the obvious needs to be said : she doesn't sound like a keeper.
Yea i feel like theres a part to the story here missing because that sounds so shallow.

Op, i dont think a fight like that would really keep a leo away and we care about family alot so you would think she would be super understanding, is there something else that might be bothering her?
That day when i told her about the surgery fee was the same day when she wanted to go out with me to change her oversize gold bangle (which is also paid by me, basically all expenses will be on me).

So after i told her about the surgery, she said forget it and i got abit mad because i did not say she cant buy what she wants to buy. So end up she blocked me from her phone and whatsapp (which she always does that) and i got even angrier that i went to her home to look for her to either talk or let's go out.

But when she saw me she hide in her room till her mum has to ask me to leave. She never let me to go her house. (Thats the reason why she is so mad).

After that incident i tried to look for her to talk things out but she is always mad and refuse to listen. Until a point where i was so mad that i pretended to snatch her things just to get her attention.

So for 2 weeks we did not contact even if i wanted to text her i cant because im being blocked (her phone was also paid by me). This is the 3rd week, i went to look for her just now and she said that she has forgotten me and she just want peace. Yesterday i used my colleague phone to text her and she thought i changed phone number.

Maybe at certain point in time i was wrong for acting so recklessly but why must she always be mad. If she hasnt block me i wouldnt be triggered.

In short:

She doesnt want me to look for her at her house.
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How old is she? she sounds young and immature, obviously not ready to talk about her problems. Just let her know to come find you when she gets over it and theres not much more you can do, you seem like a very fine gentleman.
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Posted by Czy
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Posted by Czy
I have been with her for almost 10 years. We had countless of fights and the most recent one was because my dad had to undergo some surgery which we have to fork out a sum of money. And she thought that i will not be willing to spend money on her anymore. I was really mad and we fought.

It has been 2 weeks since we have contacted.

Before that i tried looking for her but she just cant seems to talk amicably. I love her but is it worth it? Or maybe she doesnt love me anymore.....

Please advise me should i look for her or should i not.
Lovely. 🙄

You might be trolling.

In case you're not and the obvious needs to be said : she doesn't sound like a keeper.
Yea i feel like theres a part to the story here missing because that sounds so shallow.

Op, i dont think a fight like that would really keep a leo away and we care about family alot so you would think she would be super understanding, is there something else that might be bothering her?
That day when i told her about the surgery fee was the same day when she wanted to go out with me to change her oversize gold bangle (which is also paid by me, basically all expenses will be on me).

So after i told her about the surgery, she said forget it and i got abit mad because i did not say she cant buy what she wants to buy. So end up she blocked me from her phone and whatsapp (which she always does that) and i got even angrier that i went to her home to look for her to either talk or let's go out.

But when she saw me she hide in her room till her mum has to ask me to leave. She never let me to go her house. (Thats the reason why she is so mad).

After that incident i tried to look for her to talk things out but she is always mad and refuse to listen. Until a point where i was so mad that i pretended to snatch her things just to get her attention.

So for 2 weeks we did not contact even if i wanted to text her i cant because im being blocked (her phone was also paid by me). This is the 3rd week, i went to look for her just now and she said that she has forgotten me and she just want peace. Yesterday i used my colleague phone to text her and she thought i changed phone number.

Maybe at certain point in time i was wrong for acting so recklessly but why must she always be mad. If she hasnt block me i wouldnt be triggered.

In short:

She doesnt want me to look for her at her house.
How old is she? she sounds young and immature, obviously not ready to talk about her problems. Just let her know to come find you when she gets over it and theres not much more you can do, you seem like a very fine gentleman.
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Hi, she is 37 this year. But im 10 years younger 😂 really thanks for the reply.
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Posted by Czy
I have been with her for almost 10 years. We had countless of fights and the most recent one was because my dad had to undergo some surgery which we have to fork out a sum of money. And she thought that i will not be willing to spend money on her anymore. I was really mad and we fought.

It has been 2 weeks since we have contacted.

Before that i tried looking for her but she just cant seems to talk amicably. I love her but is it worth it? Or maybe she doesnt love me anymore.....

Please advise me should i look for her or should i not.
Lovely. 🙄

You might be trolling.

In case you're not and the obvious needs to be said : she doesn't sound like a keeper.
Yea i feel like theres a part to the story here missing because that sounds so shallow.

Op, i dont think a fight like that would really keep a leo away and we care about family alot so you would think she would be super understanding, is there something else that might be bothering her?
That day when i told her about the surgery fee was the same day when she wanted to go out with me to change her oversize gold bangle (which is also paid by me, basically all expenses will be on me).

So after i told her about the surgery, she said forget it and i got abit mad because i did not say she cant buy what she wants to buy. So end up she blocked me from her phone and whatsapp (which she always does that) and i got even angrier that i went to her home to look for her to either talk or let's go out.

But when she saw me she hide in her room till her mum has to ask me to leave. She never let me to go her house. (Thats the reason why she is so mad).

After that incident i tried to look for her to talk things out but she is always mad and refuse to listen. Until a point where i was so mad that i pretended to snatch her things just to get her attention.

So for 2 weeks we did not contact even if i wanted to text her i cant because im being blocked (her phone was also paid by me). This is the 3rd week, i went to look for her just now and she said that she has forgotten me and she just want peace. Yesterday i used my colleague phone to text her and she thought i changed phone number.

Maybe at certain point in time i was wrong for acting so recklessly but why must she always be mad. If she hasnt block me i wouldnt be triggered.

In short:

She doesnt want me to look for her at her house.
How old is she? she sounds young and immature, obviously not ready to talk about her problems. Just let her know to come find you when she gets over it and theres not much more you can do, you seem like a very fine gentleman.
Hi, she is 37 this year. But im 10 years younger 😂 really thanks for the reply.
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Yikes! You are a sweetheart for dealing with her!
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Posted by Czy
I have been with her for almost 10 years. We had countless of fights and the most recent one was because my dad had to undergo some surgery which we have to fork out a sum of money. And she thought that i will not be willing to spend money on her anymore. I was really mad and we fought.

It has been 2 weeks since we have contacted.

Before that i tried looking for her but she just cant seems to talk amicably. I love her but is it worth it? Or maybe she doesnt love me anymore.....

Please advise me should i look for her or should i not.

So she got mad at you for spending money on your dad's surgery?!!



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She is a keeper! Fuck her!!!
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He threw every stereotype in there. 37 and has a room at her parents'? Pissed that she can't upgrade her bling cuz his dad's seriously ill? You can't honestly think this is a believable story. And if it is, I can't believe he'd put up with it for long; not ten years.

Nope, not real. If a Leo gal does this kind of thing she's not over 25.

1) We don't go for betas that we can push around. Once we find out that's the deal, we get bored and move on. Even a sugar daddy.

2) we can (and do) take care of ourselves. Do we like being taken care of? Sure, but if he can't, no biggie. We can get what we want anyway.

3) family is important, and we will take a back seat if we have to. Not indefinitely, but within reason.
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He threw every stereotype in there. 37 and has a room at her parents'? Pissed that she can't upgrade her bling cuz his dad's seriously ill? You can't honestly think this is a believable story. And if it is, I can't believe he'd put up with it for long; not ten years.

Nope, not real. If a Leo gal does this kind of thing she's not over 25.

1) We don't go for betas that we can push around. Once we find out that's the deal, we get bored and move on. Even a sugar daddy.

2) we can (and do) take care of ourselves. Do we like being taken care of? Sure, but if he can't, no biggie. We can get what we want anyway.

3) family is important, and we will take a back seat if we have to. Not indefinitely, but within reason.
Unfortunately, this is the real story. Yes, 10 years and it is hard to get over someone so easily.

I think feelings is very hard to say or to let go. Of course i am sick of getting pushed around but i genuinely wants to work things out with her.

She is a strong woman and can take care of herself but of course she has her soft side and i would want to take care of her too.

If she can understand the situation that i am in, for the surgery cost that i have to fork out then i would be so grateful. Instead, she just show me her temper.

Yes, come to think of it that this whole episode is ridiculous and maybe not worth it but it's not easy to let go. If things could work out, wouldnt it be better.

She does love to spend money but that doesnt mean in any circumstances i would love her less.
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He threw every stereotype in there. 37 and has a room at her parents'? Pissed that she can't upgrade her bling cuz his dad's seriously ill? You can't honestly think this is a believable story. And if it is, I can't believe he'd put up with it for long; not ten years.

Nope, not real. If a Leo gal does this kind of thing she's not over 25.

1) We don't go for betas that we can push around. Once we find out that's the deal, we get bored and move on. Even a sugar daddy.

2) we can (and do) take care of ourselves. Do we like being taken care of? Sure, but if he can't, no biggie. We can get what we want anyway.

3) family is important, and we will take a back seat if we have to. Not indefinitely, but within reason.
Unfortunately, this is the real story. Yes, 10 years and it is hard to get over someone so easily.

I think feelings is very hard to say or to let go. Of course i am sick of getting pushed around but i genuinely wants to work things out with her.

She is a strong woman and can take care of herself but of course she has her soft side and i would want to take care of her too.

If she can understand the situation that i am in, for the surgery cost that i have to fork out then i would be so grateful. Instead, she just show me her temper.

Yes, come to think of it that this whole episode is ridiculous and maybe not worth it but it's not easy to let go. If things could work out, wouldnt it be better.

She does love to spend money but that doesnt mean in any circumstances i would love her less.
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She's too old to be playing like this, and you're too young to be bothering with it. This is your life if you stick around. She doesn't respect you. No respect, no love.

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Posted by sultrykitty
He threw every stereotype in there. 37 and has a room at her parents'? Pissed that she can't upgrade her bling cuz his dad's seriously ill? You can't honestly think this is a believable story. And if it is, I can't believe he'd put up with it for long; not ten years.

Nope, not real. If a Leo gal does this kind of thing she's not over 25.

1) We don't go for betas that we can push around. Once we find out that's the deal, we get bored and move on. Even a sugar daddy.

2) we can (and do) take care of ourselves. Do we like being taken care of? Sure, but if he can't, no biggie. We can get what we want anyway.

3) family is important, and we will take a back seat if we have to. Not indefinitely, but within reason.
Unfortunately, this is the real story. Yes, 10 years and it is hard to get over someone so easily.

I think feelings is very hard to say or to let go. Of course i am sick of getting pushed around but i genuinely wants to work things out with her.

She is a strong woman and can take care of herself but of course she has her soft side and i would want to take care of her too.

If she can understand the situation that i am in, for the surgery cost that i have to fork out then i would be so grateful. Instead, she just show me her temper.

Yes, come to think of it that this whole episode is ridiculous and maybe not worth it but it's not easy to let go. If things could work out, wouldnt it be better.

She does love to spend money but that doesnt mean in any circumstances i would love her less.
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So if there is no money? Where will you be! Out on a curb! For sure!!!

You are blind! Open your eyes! She is a selfish bitch whom you like to fuck! Nothing else is between you! That’s why she is still your gf! Not wife! You KNOW IT!
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I have been with her for almost 10 years. We had countless of fights and the most recent one was because my dad had to undergo some surgery which we have to fork out a sum of money. And she thought that i will not be willing to spend money on her anymore. I was really mad and we fought.

It has been 2 weeks since we have contacted.

Before that i tried looking for her but she just cant seems to talk amicably. I love her but is it worth it? Or maybe she doesnt love me anymore.....

Please advise me should i look for her or should i not.
Sounds like there's more to the story than you're sharing. The women are experts at the quiet game... give it time. Wishing your dad a speedy recovery
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Thank you.