Does my leo man likes me —?

I'm a very independent Libra woman and a couple of weeks ago I was looking for someone to clip my horses .... a Leo man responded to me on FB and I hired him to clip 2 horses 3 weeks later... strangly enough in the meantime we began to chat with eachother and there was this enormous Click !!! we ended up flirting big time with eachother and when I wasn't wishing him a goodmorning ... he was texting me... ending up Always wishing eachother sweet dreams before ending the day.... and even if he currently has a full agenda of work he always responds within 5 min even telling me its ok to disturb him while at work..... then the day if clipping came and I just wished he swept me off my feet.... but he acted soo cold and businesslike ... so I also put on this business face.... we had a great time but when he left he just gave me a cold handshake and it threw me completely of balance .... didn't he like me seeying me in reality — Are Leo men soo superficial that they only fall for a top model kind of women —? We are still in contact... when I send him a message he tells me all about his normal day activities ( working hard and I did tell him that I think it is quite admirable).... we still wish eachother goodmorning and goodnight but I don't dare to flirt anymore —? Did he reject me —? so plse any Leo man out there that can explain this to me please.... just feel kind of helpless here.....

So you're concerned that the Leo didn't flirt with you while he was working? Have you considered that he may have had other things on his mind? You barely even know this gut. It's possible he was simply in work mode. Likewise it's possible that he was only casually flirting with you or just being friendly. If the Leo is texting you consistently, then that means he possibly has some interest in you. Instead of worrying about the little stuff, why don't you just ask him out?

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I'm a very independent Libra woman and a couple of weeks ago I was looking for someone to clip my horses .... a Leo man responded to me on FB and I hired him to clip 2 horses 3 weeks later... strangly enough in the meantime we began to chat with eachother and there was this enormous Click !!! we ended up flirting big time with eachother and when I wasn't wishing him a goodmorning ... he was texting me... ending up Always wishing eachother sweet dreams before ending the day.... and even if he currently has a full agenda of work he always responds within 5 min even telling me its ok to disturb him while at work..... then the day if clipping came and I just wished he swept me off my feet.... but he acted soo cold and businesslike ... so I also put on this business face.... we had a great time but when he left he just gave me a cold handshake and it threw me completely of balance .... didn't he like me seeying me in reality — Are Leo men soo superficial that they only fall for a top model kind of women —? We are still in contact... when I send him a message he tells me all about his normal day activities ( working hard and I did tell him that I think it is quite admirable).... we still wish eachother goodmorning and goodnight but I don't dare to flirt anymore —? Did he reject me —? so plse any Leo man out there that can explain this to me please.... just feel kind of helpless here.....

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its innuendo for my horse needs a hair cut I believe

sorry guys.... i'm not a troll.... I needed someone to clip my miniature horses for a horse show .... like shave them....

@chuckcem how do I know if he is/was truly interested in my —? So now he wants to train my horses —? eventhough he has a full work load —? Maybe I should just invite him over for a drink to discuss that —?

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@chuckcem how do I know if he is/was truly interested in my —? So now he wants to train my horses —? eventhough he has a full work load —? Maybe I should just invite him over for a drink to discuss that —?

Lol hold your horses. Let the man be a man. If youre anything like me Libra sista, you would want the guy to do the efforts. Youve already expressed your interest, why be so.. desperate?

Yes.... I do hate this feeling that I'm cha

Yes... I do hate this feeling that I need to chase him !!!! then again, he is the first guy in a long time that I would ever consider dating.....

Posted by ilsepardalis
sorry guys.... i'm not a troll.... I needed someone to clip my miniature horses for a horse show .... like shave them....

I think it's a little too soon for all that. Lol

They will certainly do the efforts and romance thing if they like you. Imho, the courtship stage with Leo is truly enjoyable so dont rob yourself of that joy 😊✌

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Yes... I do hate this feeling that I need to chase him !!!! then again, he is the first guy in a long time that I would ever consider dating.....

JFC how old are you?

that has nothing to do with it !!! I came on this forum (and english isn't even my mother language) to get some insights on why this leo man acted the way he did... and yes maybe I was wrong to presume anything but that doesn't give you the right to ridicule people or troll them....

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@chuckcem how do I know if he is/was truly interested in my —? So now he wants to train my horses —? eventhough he has a full work load —? Maybe I should just invite him over for a drink to discuss that —?

Well it's early, so you won't really know until you actually get to know him (which takes time). It sounds like the only reason you're confused is because this guy isn't throwing himself at you. That's normal. Leo men will flirt, even initiate, but we won't necessarily chase you. Ask him out for a drink and see what happens.

@chuckcem thank you for your great advice ....

Don't be too intimidating.

The amount of '??' or like interest can spook a Leo.

Update : we are still in daily contact - and despite his busy work schedule - still texting eachhother good morning and good night _ but I don't dare to flirt .....what are the signs plse that a Leo Man is stil iinterested —? what are the texting habits of a leo man —? thnks Ilse

ok Leo guys plse.... this libra woman feels really insecure.... and this is the first time since ages !!! so plse share your thoughts on this one.... a leo man, very busy and working really hard (I told him I admire him for it) is in contact with me... texting eachother good morning and good night.... I am sure I'm the last chick he mails to before going to sleep... yet when we meet he avoids contact... and i am really stressing out.... thinking ok dude just sweep me off my feet already..... I'm soo puzzled right now... thinking that traditionally a man should make the first move.... so any leo guys out there... what should,I/or shouldn't I do next —?? really appreaciate some deeper understanding - thank you

Hey I'm leo.... Good to see that libra that you're so into him. I'm in a long term l

Relationship with a gorgeous cancer and I would never trade her for the world but as soon as I see I little bit of disinterest Ill give her time to think that maybe for myself you know the thing which brings me to your question...... For Leo's there two things that is to be taken care of is the commitment/loyalty and ego thus you stroke both..... And be sure to communicate with him more.... All Leo's are chatty even the most ignorant one

Update : we grew closer in that last month.... chatting back and forth ... and even meeting in person..... (not real dates) so a few weeks ago we had this deep conversation and I confessed I had strong feelings for him... he flatout replied he liked me very much and thinks highly of me but that he hasn't any feelings for me..... and eventhough that hurted like hell especially since he gave me another impression I answered him I appreciated his honesty and the fact that he would like to remain friends with me..... soo the weeks passed and we were still mailing eachother daily... despite his busy workschedule... he Always responded like immediately( or within 5 min) to my messages... so this weekend he offered to help me (despite the fact he hardly has any freetime or Metime) and we were in eachothers company Friday - saterday and Sunday..... Yesterday he really opened up to me - without me asking or prying into his personal space.... he started to tell me about his future plans and business endaveaours.... his bitter divorse (his ex cheated on him and the way he tells it he sounds very bitter) lateron I got to meet his mom and his sister and her husband and I was even invited to join him and his fmily to diner) we had the greatest time .... then today I caught him chatting with another girl on FB right under my nose....(dont know she is also just a friend or more) but I felt really jaleous..... I started to pull back and I really think he also sensed it.... so jst now he sent me another message ending it with the words.... we talk later ok

I am soo confused right now - he sees me as just a friend but when we talk in person there is this strong Chemistry.... I Always support and encourage him... he opens really up to me about his future plans and hopes and dreams..... he himself started to tell me about his bad marriage and ugly divorse..... and just know (probabaly sensed this distance I am trying to create) he sent me a message ending it with : we talk later OK —?

So I am just a friend to him but why is he acting this way then — He totally ripes out my heart..... just plse just need to know why a leo acts this way when he sees you as just a friend —??

yes he did.... but his actions seems to contradicte him.... telling it is one thing.... meaning it is another....

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Update : we grew closer in that last month.... chatting back and forth ... and even meeting in person..... (not real dates) so a few weeks ago we had this deep conversation and I confessed I had strong feelings for him... he flatout replied he liked me very much and thinks highly of me but that he hasn't any feelings for me..... and eventhough that hurted like hell especially since he gave me another impression I answered him I appreciated his honesty and the fact that he would like to remain friends with me..... soo the weeks passed and we were still mailing eachother daily... despite his busy workschedule... he Always responded like immediately( or within 5 min) to my messages... so this weekend he offered to help me (despite the fact he hardly has any freetime or Metime) and we were in eachothers company Friday - saterday and Sunday..... Yesterday he really opened up to me - without me asking or prying into his personal space.... he started to tell me about his future plans and business endaveaours.... his bitter divorse (his ex cheated on him and the way he tells it he sounds very bitter) lateron I got to meet his mom and his sister and her husband and I was even invited to join him and his fmily to diner) we had the greatest time .... then today I caught him chatting with another girl on FB right under my nose....(dont know she is also just a friend or more) but I felt really jaleous..... I started to pull back and I really think he also sensed it.... so jst now he sent me another message ending it with the words.... we talk later ok

I am soo confused right now - he sees me as just a friend but when we talk in person there is this strong Chemistry.... I Always support and encourage him... he opens really up to me about his future plans and hopes and dreams..... he himself started to tell me about his bad marriage and ugly divorse..... and just know (probabaly sensed this distance I am trying to create) he sent me a message ending it with : we talk later OK —?

So I am just a friend to him but why is he acting this way then — He totally ripes out my heart..... just plse just need to know why a leo acts this way when he sees you as just a friend —??

You're just a friend as he said. Leos will hold our friends close and even open up to them. While we may not be the best texters, we will respond to our friends in a timely manner. Receiving quick responses from a Leo via text is normal if you're a friend. Meeting family members is also normal in close friendships. This Leo hasn't done aynthing romantic to make you think that he's contradicting himself. The Leo may be friendly, possibly a little flirty, but it doesn't mean that he wants anything romantic.

Once the Leo said that he wanted to just be friends, that was the truth. The issue is Leos are typically warm, friendly people by nature. We don't often need time to warm up to people the way other signs do. Our friendliness therefore can be misconstrued as romantic interest or something more serious. Additionally Leos are fairly direct people. We don't spend a lot of time manipulating people or playing mind games. So if a Leo says, "Let's be friends" believe them.

Guess than its time for me to walk away.... I care deeply for him but if he cannot appreciate all I have to offer him (and I was prepared to walk through fire for him) then I guess this is the end.....

I think you're moving way too fast.

How do you care for him deeply so fast?

Yall barely know each other.

Just get another horse clipper and save all your energy

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I think you're moving way too fast.

How do you care for him deeply so fast?

Yall barely know each other.

Just get another horse clipper and save all your energy

she doesn't care about him, she just had a crush, she's already saying she will move on if he doesn't want to give her the D

cuz "he cannot appreciate all I have to offer him"

the way libra moves, I "do something for you" and then you have to pay for it 😕 otherwise you don't appreciate me, psychological blackmail.

well you guys make it pretty Obvious no — once in the friendzone... there is no w

well you guys make it pretty Obvious no — once in the friendzone... there is no way out —?

chucksem... sorry your message has been hidden from me.... so I really don't know what you replied !!!

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chucksem... sorry your message has been hidden from me.... so I really don't know what you replied !!!

The hidden message was just an accidental duplicate of my last message.

As for the "friendzone", know that Leos don't usually implement that without a reason. It's not a trick to get you to want him more or something he's saying because he's being indecisive. Leos generally don't toy with people we're interested in romantically. He's either not interested in you in that way or simply too busy/preoccupied with other parts of his life. As you mentioned, he's talking to another woman already. So his romantic needs are probably being fulfilled by her.

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chucksem... sorry your message has been hidden from me.... so I really don't know what you replied !!!

The hidden message was just an accidental duplicate of my last message.

As for the "friendzone", know that Leos don't usually implement that without a reason. It's not a trick to get you to want him more or something he's saying because he's being indecisive. Leos generally don't toy with people we're interested in romantically. He's either not interested in you in that way or simply too busy/preoccupied with other parts of his life. As you mentioned, he's talking to another woman already. So his romantic needs are probably being fulfilled by her.

What bothers me the most is that she’s willing to cut him from her life even though this Leo has done nothing wrong to her. He’s treated her with nothing but respect, honesty and genuine friendship. She’s met his family too.

I don’t think she deserves his friendship

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Yeah, it's because she never actually wanted a friendship with this guy. She wanted something romantic, even though there wasn't enough reciprocation from both parties to warrant such strong feelings. If she feels that she must cut the Leo out of her life, then so be it. Better that then dragging the situaton out.

OK Guys I need to apologize !!!!! Soo yeah I said that in the heat of the moment (or in this case in the heat of my anger).... turns out the girl he was replying to is just a longtime friend of his.... So yes... I jumped the gun but I DO value and appreciate his honesty.... even told him that.... so yeah maybe I'm not his type ... but also remember he just got divorced fairly recently - his ex cheated on him and while telling me about it (eventhough I didnt ask) he sounded very bitter.... on top of that financially he has hit an all time low and the last months he has been working like crazy.... putting in really long hours.... I try to support him (being his n°1 fan) and do encourage him to work hard and strive hard to realize the dreams/ambitions he still has.... yes I do try to be there for him and eventhough I wrote it - I cannot walk away..... (sigh)

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OK Guys I need to apologize !!!!! Soo yeah I said that in the heat of the moment (or in this case in the heat of my anger).... turns out the girl he was replying to is just a longtime friend of his.... So yes... I jumped the gun but I DO value and appreciate his honesty.... even told him that.... so yeah maybe I'm not his type ... but also remember he just got divorced fairly recently - his ex cheated on him and while telling me about it (eventhough I didnt ask) he sounded very bitter.... on top of that financially he has hit an all time low and the last months he has been working like crazy.... putting in really long hours.... I try to support him (being his n°1 fan) and do encourage him to work hard and strive hard to realize the dreams/ambitions he still has.... yes I do try to be there for him and eventhough I wrote it - I cannot walk away..... (sigh)

It shouldn't matter who the woman was, you're not togethe. Also know that this Leo won't have time to focus on anyone really except himself. When a Leo needs to get his/her life together, we can go into "work mode" which will be our primary focus until we feel comfortable again. Anything that's not a priority will be shifted to the backburner. Also if he just got out of a messy divorce, jumping into another commitment is the last thing on his mind. Don't expect much from this situation.

If you can be an true, unconditional friend to him, great. Otherwise you need to take a serious step back because it doesn't sound like you two are on the same page.