Help with Leo woman

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Hi all! Thanks so much for any feedback. I dated a Leo woman (sag rising, Pisces moon, merc cancer, venus in cancer, Mars Virgo) for 2 years. We recently broke up a month ago and I begged and pleaded. She took me back but then we broke up again. She tells me she loves me and cries when she leaves but we broke up anyway. I know her feelings haven’t changed but feel she is being stubborn in her decision. She had pressure from friends. I need some good advice to win her back, please don’t say it’s over or move on. Even if that’s true it’s not my goal at the moment. Thanks so much if anyone can help.
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Thanks all for feedback. We broke up because her friend said I liked Instagram pictures of other girls. Her friends are single and not as pretty, and envy her relationship imo. I’d cook her dinner, massages, gifts, etc. She said no one treated her like this. Her friends comments wounded her Leo pride. This is probably our first/second real breakup. I also acted needy after this last breakup and didn’t handle it well. We have been almost 5 weeks no contact except this past Sunday I told her something reminded me of her and she said she was thinking about me. I didn’t chase and she didn’t either. I have options but she’s all I want, we have a genuine love for each other. My chart is Leo rising, sun cap, moon libra, mars Scorpio, Venus cap, merc sag. I know I have to be strong or she will think I’m weak but with her cancer planets I know she is hesitant to reach out directly and also a bit scared/insecure. I don’t know if I should wait or try to fix this/pursue her again. Please advise me moving forward. Thanks all!
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She’s smart, fun, caring, loving, and surprisingly very low maintenance for Leo. She’s kind of tomboyish which I like. We can play sports or watch movies most girls aren’t into. I don’t like that she’s overly emotional and easily offended/sensitive at times. When we were together we never fought, it was great. Once or twice I may have put her down when I was upset and she seemed to really hold onto those words. In the very beginning I treated our relationship nonchalantly but it grew to a very deep relationship. I think she resented that it may have taken me longer to want to be serious.
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Thanks all for feedback. We broke up because her friend said I liked Instagram pictures of other girls. Her friends are single and not as pretty, and envy her relationship imo. I’d cook her dinner, massages, gifts, etc. She said no one treated her like this. Her friends comments wounded her Leo pride. This is probably our first/second real breakup. I also acted needy after this last breakup and didn’t handle it well. We have been almost 5 weeks no contact except this past Sunday I told her something reminded me of her and she said she was thinking about me. I didn’t chase and she didn’t either. I have options but she’s all I want, we have a genuine love for each other. My chart is Leo rising, sun cap, moon libra, mars Scorpio, Venus cap, merc sag. I know I have to be strong or she will think I’m weak but with her cancer planets I know she is hesitant to reach out directly and also a bit scared/insecure. I don’t know if I should wait or try to fix this/pursue her again. Please advise me moving forward. Thanks all!


1) Did you actually like pictures of other girls on IG or did her friends just say that to get between you two?

2) If you did, were those pictures of friends or IG Influencers, aka random girls you don't know? Coz tbh, I dont have a problem at all with my s/o having female friends etc, but I would be a bit pissy if he followed a bunch of random girls on social media and all they do is post sexy selfies of themselves and he liked those photos. Yes, its kinda petty, but thats how it is. Im not following random guys and looking at their half naked photos. Again, if you're friends with those girls, its a different story. But no randos.

3) If she broke up because her friends made comments, she's weak af and you should move on. I dont think id ever break up with someone Id love or really cared about just because of something other people said. But if there are other reasons, you should focus on those and not let social media control your relationship. Not sure how old you guys are, but social media is not worth it
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Pisces moons are very sensitive. Add that with Leo sensitivity that is linked to our pride, it's horrible. I always blame my Pisces moon for all my emotional turmoil. I'd be a cold hearted bitch if it wasnt for it. I also have a cancer Mars which makes me very passive aggressive. Lol.

You're a Capricorn and to be honest I have a love/hate relationship with Caps. My bestie is a Cap and there have been so many times I just want to punch her in the face. I also have a Cap sister who I've had an estranged relationship with. It's very hard to talk to her.

She also sounds a bit immature. Not sure how old you guys are, but I wouldn't break up with you because you are liking pics on instagram. I might be a little jealous and want to know who these women are but as long as you werent hiding it from me I honestly wouldnt care that much.

As far as the begging, it is kind of unattractive. You have to show her you love her. Send her flowers(not in person but leave them at her door or send them to her job) I say not in person because this shows you care with out expectations and also does not pressure her on the spot. Leo's like to think about things. Plus if you send them to her job she can brag to her co workers that she got flowers....even if she throws them straight into the garbage..you just got brownie points with her pride.
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All, she is 25 I am a few years older. I sent her flowers to her job right after the breakup. She loved them and we met up. I probably got too confident and laid on the love too thick. We kissed exchanged I love you’s, etc. When she got home she thanked me for everything. I then went overboard and told her I planned a trip for us that weekend. I think it was too much too soon. Either way she said she can’t see me it’s too late. In regards to Instagram it is basically hot girls that I do and don’t know. I wrote her and said I’m done for good, no more flowers, etc when I went no contact. I immaturely blocked her (unblocked a day later) and texted her last Sunday a restaurant we used to go to made me think of her. She said she was thinking of me too. I stepped back to refocus before proceeding further. I know she’s on the fence, but I also know she loves me. I just want to know my best plan moving forward. Best plan (however slight) to get her back and start fresh. Thanks.
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Here’s my options:

1) do nothing and hope she returns

2) pursue her again

2a) confess my love and feelings and ask back

3a) play it cool but start contact again

3) do all that be relationship stuff about re-attracting her slowly with flirting etc

4) tell her I’m moving away to take a job somewhere else because I am only in this city for her

5) have a 3rd party contact her to plead my case
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Posted by Goodvibes2323

SeaLion I tried to send you a message but apparently it won't allow me.

I'll have to check my settings to see if I can get DMs.

Would you go back to a guy you dumped a month later if he didn't contact you?

If I dumped him and never heard from him....within a month I would have already moved on to someone else. I'm not going to sit around and wait for him if there is no contact.

Would you take a guy back who told you how much he loved you even though you dumped him?

Depends on why I dumped him and how much I loved him.



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Seriously, look at it from her point of view. Took you a long while to commit, your paying attention to other girls publicly, and you embarrassed her in front of her friends. Your chain of actions are not painting a pretty picture and that puts your relationship in question. I guarantee that is crossing her mind.




This!!!!!

Plus, you actually blocked her?? To me thats extremely immature behavior and I cant stand it. You gotta do something big to show her how much she means to you and make her feel secure in her decision to give you another chance. Dont you dare screw her over or make her feel like she's not Number one. She has to know that you changed and want to make things work, and for real, not just for the time being. Her pride got seriously hurt and it will be hard for her to let her guard down again.

And stop following random chicks on social media. Theres just no reason for it whatsoever.
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On a side note the moon is in Aquarius today. SeaLion believes time is running out. Should I contact her in cold Aquarius, emotional Pisces, or fiery Aries? Or should I wait until next week for merc to go retrograde and moon in Taurus? I am planning to send a simple text reminding her of some fond memories and take it from there.


The worst time to do it is when Merc is in Retrograde. Imo
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On a side note the moon is in Aquarius today. SeaLion believes time is running out. Should I contact her in cold Aquarius, emotional Pisces, or fiery Aries? Or should I wait until next week for merc to go retrograde and moon in Taurus? I am planning to send a simple text reminding her of some fond memories and take it from there.

The worst time to do it is when Merc is in Retrograde. Imo
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But wouldn’t merc in retrograde be a time to re-do our relationship? Reach out to old lovers? Fix things from the past?
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Posted by Goodvibes2323

So when then SeaLion?


Stop procrastinating and just do it already. If you want this girl then you need to show her. It's not time to be wishy washy... it is time to become a peacock and show her what you are about.

I have a Pisces man trying to get back with me after disappearing for 2 years right now. I'm waiting for his ass to become a peacock and show me he's worth it. Until then I told him I'm going to be guarded. He hasn't told me anything that is making me want to see him again. He is telling me he will tell me everything face to face but I need something b4 that and he hasn't given it to me yet.. so instead of seeing him this weekend I made plans for a girls night with my bestie. Maybe I'll see him next weekend..I dunno.

Unless your natal merc is rx then it's a bad time to communicate with anyone. Comm can become misunderstood or she might not get the messages at all. Electronic devices act up during this time.

Also, yes past lovers do show up in Merc Rx but they wont last once merc goes forward again.

It is a time for reflection on how you will move forward when merc turns forward again.

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Posted by Goodvibes2323

So when then SeaLion?

Stop procrastinating and just do it already. If you want this girl then you need to show her. It's not time to be wishy washy... it is time to become a peacock and show her what you are about.

I have a Pisces man trying to get back with me after disappearing for 2 years right now. I'm waiting for his ass to become a peacock and show me he's worth it. Until then I told him I'm going to be guarded. He hasn't told me anything that is making me want to see him again. He is telling me he will tell me everything face to face but I need something b4 that and he hasn't given it to me yet.. so instead of seeing him this weekend I made plans for a girls night with my bestie. Maybe I'll see him next weekend..I dunno.

Unless your natal merc is rx then it's a bad time to communicate with anyone. Comm can become misunderstood or she might not get the messages at all. Electronic devices act up during this time.

Also, yes past lovers do show up in Merc Rx but they wont last once merc goes forward again.

It is a time for reflection on how you will move forward when merc turns forward again.
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Elaborate. She has lots of water. Not sure if your Venus and merc is in cancer also? Give me an example of the type of message you want to receive. The wishy washy stuff worked in the last bit didn’t hold for long (I looked weak). I also don’t want to be so direct that it doesn’t create emotion. Thanks for your help.
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Posted by Goodvibes2323

Here’s my options:

1) do nothing and hope she returns

2) pursue her again

2a) confess my love and feelings and ask back

3a) play it cool but start contact again

3) do all that be relationship stuff about re-attracting her slowly with flirting etc

4) tell her I’m moving away to take a job somewhere else because I am only in this city for her

5) have a 3rd party contact her to plead my case


Just be natural with her if you want her back, just be honest..dont play games like that or it will push you guys farther away. Good luck buddy.