taurus111
@taurus111
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hey need some advice for my lioness
Damn. You were already bracing yourself for a fallout since you first had sex. Stop that.
Or let me ask: Do you even still like this girl? You're treating her like the end prize of a game to be won while holding your own self back so you don't get attached. She's got dreams and feelings too, y'know. Just because she's exuberant more than you, doesn't mean she doesn't have the same fears as you do. Leo and Taurus both need security and love, to be cherished.
Before things were light, now things are serious. (Think you were waiting for that.) You need to give her a heartfelt apology (maybe buy her food and do that?) and then some space to figure it out. But stay supportive. Golden rule applies. If this was you, you wouldn't want to be bothered by someone asking you if everything was they're fault constantly while you try to figure things out. Whether she had you or not, it would still be a problem for her to solve. But she'd feel more relieved if you would watch over her and let her do her thing. Then she knows you've got her back. Isn't that what you would want?
Or let me ask: Do you even still like this girl? You're treating her like the end prize of a game to be won while holding your own self back so you don't get attached. She's got dreams and feelings too, y'know. Just because she's exuberant more than you, doesn't mean she doesn't have the same fears as you do. Leo and Taurus both need security and love, to be cherished.
Before things were light, now things are serious. (Think you were waiting for that.) You need to give her a heartfelt apology (maybe buy her food and do that?) and then some space to figure it out. But stay supportive. Golden rule applies. If this was you, you wouldn't want to be bothered by someone asking you if everything was they're fault constantly while you try to figure things out. Whether she had you or not, it would still be a problem for her to solve. But she'd feel more relieved if you would watch over her and let her do her thing. Then she knows you've got her back. Isn't that what you would want?
Ppl that u for your answers and ur thoughts.
I will update the situation since it went off pretty strange...So i d love to hear ur thoughts and maybe your advice again.
So here is what happened.
All that week she was kind of wierd cause of the thing she had with her financess...she didnt text me much nor talked nice to me.
I had a feeling that smthing is wrong and it wouldn't leave my thoughts so what i did and call me an ass i know it wasnt nice.I checked her phone...ok i admit its not nice thing to do but as it came out she met an ex that week told him to come over her place and he slept there...when i read all that i couldnt just swallow it so i told her.she was like i didnt have sex with him we just slept together...i asked why didnt u mention it then and i never got a clear answer.i really want to believe her but idk 99 % i think she is lying.
I really dont understand why would she do that she seemed so happy and excited with ur relationship...
The funny thing is that now she turned to defence and she made it look as if i am the one to blame cause i looked at her phone.for which i ofc have sincerelly apologized but she never did bout that ex thing.She now is in ill call u when ill calm down mode...which as it seems might never happen...so what do u lions say?
I will update the situation since it went off pretty strange...So i d love to hear ur thoughts and maybe your advice again.
So here is what happened.
All that week she was kind of wierd cause of the thing she had with her financess...she didnt text me much nor talked nice to me.
I had a feeling that smthing is wrong and it wouldn't leave my thoughts so what i did and call me an ass i know it wasnt nice.I checked her phone...ok i admit its not nice thing to do but as it came out she met an ex that week told him to come over her place and he slept there...when i read all that i couldnt just swallow it so i told her.she was like i didnt have sex with him we just slept together...i asked why didnt u mention it then and i never got a clear answer.i really want to believe her but idk 99 % i think she is lying.
I really dont understand why would she do that she seemed so happy and excited with ur relationship...
The funny thing is that now she turned to defence and she made it look as if i am the one to blame cause i looked at her phone.for which i ofc have sincerelly apologized but she never did bout that ex thing.She now is in ill call u when ill calm down mode...which as it seems might never happen...so what do u lions say?
You must consider certain things carefully
If she slept with her ex, why would she come back to you?
Are you rich and going to save her from her financial crises?
Maybe have a mini castle and some bling she can pwn off at Harry Winston?
Or are you powerful?
Or, maybe, you have a ten inch around cock?
If she slept with her ex, why would she come back to you?
Are you rich and going to save her from her financial crises?
Maybe have a mini castle and some bling she can pwn off at Harry Winston?
Or are you powerful?
Or, maybe, you have a ten inch around cock?
Please remember - by your assertion this woman has slept with her ex. This means he has a one-up. Probably has a bigger dick size.
Leo women are not a mutable sign to drop their pants simply because a scaly phallus walked by.
Wish you qmutables would stop projecting. This is a serious issue right here.
Wish you qmutables would stop projecting. This is a serious issue right here.
i feel that she needs someone to talk to or share her problems with.. or just spend time with someone who can understand her better to help get her out of the situation. and obviously, ex will know her better than you. and also because you keep pressing her to tell you that the currently situation is not because of you, but of the job. i think she's feeling frustrated with you, with all your insecurities, you push her a little away in this situation.
right now, i guess you need to just back away and let her do her things.
if she comes back, you then deal the questions/problems you have with her.
and wanting to get to know why she meet her ex, did she sleep with him at the moment, you wont get any good result.
as for the sleeping part, no comments. it might or might not happen.
right now, i guess you need to just back away and let her do her things.
if she comes back, you then deal the questions/problems you have with her.
and wanting to get to know why she meet her ex, did she sleep with him at the moment, you wont get any good result.
as for the sleeping part, no comments. it might or might not happen.
Posted by 037Wow.
Leo women are not a mutable sign to drop their pants simply because a scaly phallus walked by.
Wish you qmutables would stop projecting.
I would have dumped her with no second thoughts but i think ill try talk to her in a calm way with no accusing just talk and see what comes out.she is after all the most beautiful woman ive seen and we have a great time when together.ofc all this made me sad i cant even eat all this time cause of the thoughts.
I still cant combine it in my head would a woman fake her feelings just to live it for some time till the next "good" thing comes up?she was so generous with her feelings even told me shes in love with me and then she just does it with her ex...or not i dont know.if it was just sex she could ofc tell me i just want u for that...why create a whole love situation if ur not into that from start.
I still cant combine it in my head would a woman fake her feelings just to live it for some time till the next "good" thing comes up?she was so generous with her feelings even told me shes in love with me and then she just does it with her ex...or not i dont know.if it was just sex she could ofc tell me i just want u for that...why create a whole love situation if ur not into that from start.
Posted by dontgetmewrongI won't.
Why don't you stop thinking every other leo roaming the earth is like you?
I'm a fixed sign.
Posted by busyeyes88Ofc i asked herPosted by taurus111Why don't you man up and simply ask her if she had sex with her ex?
I would have dumped her with no second thoughts but i think ill try talk to her in a calm way with no accusing just talk and see what comes out.she is after all the most beautiful woman ive seen and we have a great time when together.ofc all this made me sad i cant even eat all this time cause of the thoughts.
I still cant combine it in my head would a woman fake her feelings just to live it for some time till the next "good" thing comes up?she was so generous with her feelings even told me shes in love with me and then she just does it with her ex...or not i dont know.if it was just sex she could ofc tell me i just want u for that...why create a whole love situation if ur not into that from start.
Because you seem Soooooo enamoured by how good looking she is you would forgive anything it seems?!!!
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She said they just slept and had no sex but hey i ll never know the truth i guess
I guess she is a player likes to live today and next day smthing else
Ok so after almost a week we hadnt spokn much neither met i called her and met her at a cafe.
She was kind of distand and started expalining again and again the she didnt have SEX with her ex and that she didnt want me to get jealous so she didnt tell me..i didnt accuse her tried to be calm and focused on telling her if she is willing to forget this situation meaning the snooping i did,She still is kind of scared she said and Frozen inside.i told her to move on let our relationship evolve and let the negatives out if she still feels anything.She responded that she is sad that we are like that now that she felt nice with me and that she doesnt know HOW MUCH TIME it will take her, she doesnt see anything between us right now and she thanked me for being like that right now
(?)
finaly she said she knows i mean im sorry for snooping.
Ehm now im like wtf she doing?she plays me right?why doesnt she say its over and lets me like that.i think she wont come back.i either do smthing drastical now or never thats how i feel but what?....
She was kind of distand and started expalining again and again the she didnt have SEX with her ex and that she didnt want me to get jealous so she didnt tell me..i didnt accuse her tried to be calm and focused on telling her if she is willing to forget this situation meaning the snooping i did,She still is kind of scared she said and Frozen inside.i told her to move on let our relationship evolve and let the negatives out if she still feels anything.She responded that she is sad that we are like that now that she felt nice with me and that she doesnt know HOW MUCH TIME it will take her, she doesnt see anything between us right now and she thanked me for being like that right now
(?)
finaly she said she knows i mean im sorry for snooping.
Ehm now im like wtf she doing?she plays me right?why doesnt she say its over and lets me like that.i think she wont come back.i either do smthing drastical now or never thats how i feel but what?....
Posted by taurus111You have shown that you don't trust her and yet you expect her to stick around and kow tow to your wants. Telling her you will forget it if she forgets it means you think you should be forgiving her. You don't respect this lady. For you, she's just a pretty face. What is behind doesn't matter - or else you wouldn't be here believing crap enough to go back to this issue with her and basically lose this woman.
Ok so after almost a week we hadnt spokn much neither met i called her and met her at a cafe.
She was kind of distand and started expalining again and again the she didnt have SEX with her ex and that she didnt want me to get jealous so she didnt tell me..i didnt accuse her tried to be calm and focused on telling her if she is willing to forget this situation meaning the snooping i did,She still is kind of scared she said and Frozen inside.i told her to move on let our relationship evolve and let the negatives out if she still feels anything.She responded that she is sad that we are like that now that she felt nice with me and that she doesnt know HOW MUCH TIME it will take her, she doesnt see anything between us right now and she thanked me for being like that right now
(?)
finaly she said she knows i mean im sorry for snooping.
Ehm now im like wtf she doing?she plays me right?why doesnt she say its over and lets me like that.i think she wont come back.i either do smthing drastical now or never thats how i feel but what?....
I say she has dodged a bullet.
Let her be and go find one of those women who want to talk and feelings arise and they forget the man they currently love long enough to have sex with an ex.
Good luck.
Posted by facerollSometimes, before you judge something, read carefully.Posted by 037jynjya, i love you man. but holy shit. most of my exes and a lot of my friends are mutables. and really only one of them was "slutty" the rest were no different than a fixed sign in terms of what they allow in their body. i don't know where the mutable hate is coming from. but wow.
Leo women are not a mutable sign to drop their pants simply because a scaly phallus walked by.
Wish you qmutables would stop projecting. This is a serious issue right here.click to expand
I bet, even you, a Taur - not Leo, will not identify with the post I was responding to.
*shrugs*
Posted by 037I dont respect her?and she dodged a bullet?Posted by taurus111You have shown that you don't trust her and yet you expect her to stick around and kow tow to your wants. Telling her you will forget it if she forgets it means you think you should be forgiving her. You don't respect this lady. For you, she's just a pretty face. What is behind doesn't matter - or else you wouldn't be here believing crap enough to go back to this issue with her and basically lose this woman.
Ok so after almost a week we hadnt spokn much neither met i called her and met her at a cafe.
She was kind of distand and started expalining again and again the she didnt have SEX with her ex and that she didnt want me to get jealous so she didnt tell me..i didnt accuse her tried to be calm and focused on telling her if she is willing to forget this situation meaning the snooping i did,She still is kind of scared she said and Frozen inside.i told her to move on let our relationship evolve and let the negatives out if she still feels anything.She responded that she is sad that we are like that now that she felt nice with me and that she doesnt know HOW MUCH TIME it will take her, she doesnt see anything between us right now and she thanked me for being like that right now
(?)
finaly she said she knows i mean im sorry for snooping.
Ehm now im like wtf she doing?she plays me right?why doesnt she say its over and lets me like that.i think she wont come back.i either do smthing drastical now or never thats how i feel but what?....
I say she has dodged a bullet.
Let her be and go find one of those women who want to talk and feelings arise and they forget the man they currently love long enough to have sex with an ex.
Good luck.click to expand
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Teach me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I ask for your advice and thank you in advance for it.
So here the situation i am taurus my girl is leo and i know her like a month or so...there was a spark between us at first sight soon we went out had a great time and things went on pretty fast.
We had sex soon enough and it was fantastic...She said it was the best she had and i was like ok dont exagerate but she was like 100% possitive and got crazy about that she was telling me everyday bout it and that she likes it so much with me...ok well from the beginning we had been messaging each other quite many times during the day with much affection all the time and so she said one day im in love with u...i surely was very happy to hear that though i held back a little.Generally her messeges were crazy all the time how much she likes me and how much i make her feel nice and all.
NOW HERE THE THING.
Recently smthing happened at her job.Some financial problem which made her feel very insecure and afraid for her future.She like changed in a blink of an eye towards me.i was very thoughtfull asked her if i did smthing twice.She explained me that this has nothing to do with me and its just that thing that happened...and that i should let her get over it.In the meanwhile she rarely texts me anymore nor does she say stuff she did anymore...i was sad and maybe pushed her a little to make sure what she has.She went a lil mad and told me that she explained and its not my fault.she supposely is still in love and wants me but she doesnt show it....
She is like if she has closed in herself idk...
So what do you think about that situation lions?any advice or ideas ?
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