Bgirl
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I am not sure about my current situation.
So basically everything is perfect aside of the lack of sex? How often do you see him, daily or weekly? If he's given you no reason to doubt his intentions, that means this boils down to a communication issue.
Leos NEED direct communication, which Libra isn't always the best at initiating. If you want more sex, then ask him about it. Leos aren't going to read your mind. He may not think that you want more if you haven't said anything.
Leos are generally sexual creatures. However he may be hesitating so that he doesn't cross any of your potential boundaries. For a Leo male there's nothing more attractive than a woman who vocalizes how much she wants us.
Also he may be tiptoeing around your health issues. He may not think you would want more sex. Again if you're not vocalizing your needs, he simple won't know. With some Leos, we'll hold back the brunt of our desires so that we don't smother the other person. You'll need to talk to him directly about your desires.
Leos NEED direct communication, which Libra isn't always the best at initiating. If you want more sex, then ask him about it. Leos aren't going to read your mind. He may not think that you want more if you haven't said anything.
Leos are generally sexual creatures. However he may be hesitating so that he doesn't cross any of your potential boundaries. For a Leo male there's nothing more attractive than a woman who vocalizes how much she wants us.
Also he may be tiptoeing around your health issues. He may not think you would want more sex. Again if you're not vocalizing your needs, he simple won't know. With some Leos, we'll hold back the brunt of our desires so that we don't smother the other person. You'll need to talk to him directly about your desires.
Leos usually have a very high sex drive, maybe he thinks you dont want it often? thats the only thing i can think of
Posted by Bgirl
I am hoping I get some real help. I am a libra and I know nothing about leo men. I knew this guy over 6 years. He and I never had anything until about 5 months ago. he basically began coming with breakfast,lunch and dinner for about 3 weeks. He poured his heart out and it was sweet. He has been the kind of man I could only dream of. the one problem is he wants sex once a month.
he comes over and we talk so so nice,he will sit and have a beer. He looks at me and I see this look I never saw before. He has never raised his voice to me. His told me from the very beginning he wants me to let him work. And support his woman. I never stop him. He is so determined in ways I can't begin to explain. I am not a nag. I don't care at all about where he is. He calls and we talk.
I basically stopped calling him. I answer and he has the key to my unit. He surprises me all the time. I have health issues and he seems not to be able to manage seeing me in pain. I am sure I won't break it off with him. I am also sure that I want no man after him. The best I could ever dream of is him. The man is just sweet and kind. But I need more sex. I don't ask at all though.
He has made it perfectly clear that he wants me. He has never given me any reason to think anything else.
Posted by MoonshineLeoI have fibromyalgia and he does not want to hurt me. He won't let me tell him when it's too much. He will not hurt me no matter what. he drives me bonkers.
Leos usually have a very high sex drive, maybe he thinks you dont want it often? thats the only thing i can think of
Posted by Chuckcem
So basically everything is perfect aside of the lack of sex? How often do you see him, daily or weekly? If he's given you no reason to doubt his intentions, that means this boils down to a communication issue.
Leos NEED direct communication, which Libra isn't always the best at initiating. If you want more sex, then ask him about it. Leos aren't going to read your mind. He may not think that you want more if you haven't said anything.
Leos are generally sexual creatures. However he may be hesitating so that he doesn't cross any of your potential boundaries. For a Leo male there's nothing more attractive than a woman who vocalizes how much she wants us.
Also he may be tiptoeing around your health issues. He may not think you would want more sex. Again if you're not vocalizing your needs, he simple won't know. With some Leos, we'll hold back the brunt of our desires so that we don't smother the other person. You'll need to talk to him directly about your desires.
Thank you very much for this. I have fibromyalgia and for that he feels he can't hurt me. He has the saddest face when I am in pain. So I am good. Thank you again.
Posted by BgirlPosted by Chuckcem
So basically everything is perfect aside of the lack of sex? How often do you see him, daily or weekly? If he's given you no reason to doubt his intentions, that means this boils down to a communication issue.
Leos NEED direct communication, which Libra isn't always the best at initiating. If you want more sex, then ask him about it. Leos aren't going to read your mind. He may not think that you want more if you haven't said anything.
Leos are generally sexual creatures. However he may be hesitating so that he doesn't cross any of your potential boundaries. For a Leo male there's nothing more attractive than a woman who vocalizes how much she wants us.
Also he may be tiptoeing around your health issues. He may not think you would want more sex. Again if you're not vocalizing your needs, he simple won't know. With some Leos, we'll hold back the brunt of our desires so that we don't smother the other person. You'll need to talk to him directly about your desires.
Thank you very much for this. I have fibromyalgia and for that he feels he can't hurt me. He has the saddest face when I am in pain. So I am good. Thank you again.
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Sorry I missed the part where you asked how often I see him. I saw him every day for about three weeks. Then he went through something with his loved one. It was 24 days no call or show. Then he came and boy he was stressed. we talked and it was ok. I was able to offer advice. He took it which was nice. and it's better for him. He has popped up many times so that is not an issue. He called yesterday as well. I seem to not manage to call him any more. I am so happy when he walks in the door. I feel like a kid in a candy store. He works way more than I ever knew possible.
Posted by Leowwwww
Well it's not a problem yet because you haven't talked to him about it.
Once he confirms " I want sex once a month..."
Then... Yeah... Not good.
He has said it a few times. But when he is here he can't stick to that. he will come for his break and he is ready from the second he walks in. he tries his hardest not to. But there is nothing he can do. He has often left right out the door. He comes lays in bed and wants me all over him. But he wants to talk and relax. it's ok with me.
Is it possible that due to your health issues and seeing you in pain he is just being sensitive to that and holding back sexually? Could be he wants more intimacy as well.
Tell him what your feeling and what you want.
Tell him what your feeling and what you want.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Is it possible that due to your health issues and seeing you in pain he is just being sensitive to that and holding back sexually? Could be he wants more intimacy as well.
Tell him what your feeling and what you want.
I have but he has made it perfectly clear that he can't be with me like that. He will lay with me. and we talk and have our beers. As I am falling a sleep he will just talk to me. It's amazing. He is so soft to the touch and he constantly asks if he is hurting me. At times I have held my mouth shut just to be close to him. Thank you.
Lol
Posted by Bgirl
I am hoping I get some real help. I am a libra and I know nothing about leo men. I knew this guy over 6 years. He and I never had anything until about 5 months ago. he basically began coming with breakfast,lunch and dinner for about 3 weeks. He poured his heart out and it was sweet. He has been the kind of man I could only dream of. the one problem is he wants sex once a month.
he comes over and we talk so so nice,he will sit and have a beer. He looks at me and I see this look I never saw before. He has never raised his voice to me. His told me from the very beginning he wants me to let him work. And support his woman. I never stop him. He is so determined in ways I can't begin to explain. I am not a nag. I don't care at all about where he is. He calls and we talk.
I basically stopped calling him. I answer and he has the key to my unit. He surprises me all the time. I have health issues and he seems not to be able to manage seeing me in pain. I am sure I won't break it off with him. I am also sure that I want no man after him. The best I could ever dream of is him. The man is just sweet and kind. But I need more sex. I don't ask at all though.
He has made it perfectly clear that he wants me. He has never given me any reason to think anything else.
I read this as he has another woman to support, and can only get together once a month. Does he like spending time together a lot at least?
Posted by Superman77Ok that is a little weird, I'll admit.
That’s 3 today
Posted by BgirlI'm going to say that's probably the issue. He's holding back. He'll need you to explain your needs so that he know what is and is not ok.Posted by Chuckcem
So basically everything is perfect aside of the lack of sex? How often do you see him, daily or weekly? If he's given you no reason to doubt his intentions, that means this boils down to a communication issue.
Leos NEED direct communication, which Libra isn't always the best at initiating. If you want more sex, then ask him about it. Leos aren't going to read your mind. He may not think that you want more if you haven't said anything.
Leos are generally sexual creatures. However he may be hesitating so that he doesn't cross any of your potential boundaries. For a Leo male there's nothing more attractive than a woman who vocalizes how much she wants us.
Also he may be tiptoeing around your health issues. He may not think you would want more sex. Again if you're not vocalizing your needs, he simple won't know. With some Leos, we'll hold back the brunt of our desires so that we don't smother the other person. You'll need to talk to him directly about your desires.
Thank you very much for this. I have fibromyalgia and for that he feels he can't hurt me. He has the saddest face when I am in pain. So I am good. Thank you again.
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Sorry to ask, is he married?
I am not sure but I am thinking it's because I am not dressed. I have severe hot flashes and my skin hurts so bad that I can't keep on clothes. I can't begin to tell you the pain just wearing a bra. So,when he walks in I am not dressed. Most often her walks in while I have my videos on and I am excercizing. I since stopped when he walks in. I will even take a little pain by tossing on a sundress. But he tells me he would prefer me undressed. so I am at least glad for that. But he reminds me he does not want a sex relationship.
He loves to sit and talk so I love to sit and talk to. He surprised me and popped up to cook for me. I did not like the meal but I ate it all up. lol Thank you. I think I will just let it be. I have to for now.
He loves to sit and talk so I love to sit and talk to. He surprised me and popped up to cook for me. I did not like the meal but I ate it all up. lol Thank you. I think I will just let it be. I have to for now.
Posted by wagtail
Sorry to ask, is he married?
no he said he has never been married. He has a few kids though. He is such a wonderful dad and very supportive. Even shows a ton of interest in my 23 year old.
Posted by HearttofTopaz
Are you bed ridden and can’t initiate sex?
You always have to TALK about it?
Awkward
I think the reason it comes up is due to me always being naked. I explained it below. He comes and he tries not to have sex. And I am often times in horrible pain. He does not want to hurt me. I have a condition where I pass out anywhere. He has tried to pick me up to take me where I need to go. I use medical transportation most often. He was very upset when I paid a cab $ 24 to take me around. He said what.. He tries to make time but when I say this man is strange about his working trust me. He is. I let him work and don't stress him. I can't think of anything else. We have never had an arguement. So that is great.
Posted by MiZLeo
There is obviously more here that the OP is not sharing.
There is not much that I can think of.
If it is it's that I don't know.
Fucking trolls. Arg.
Posted by HearttofTopazPosted by BgirlPosted by HearttofTopaz
Are you bed ridden and can’t initiate sex?
You always have to TALK about it?
Awkward
I think the reason it comes up is due to me always being naked. I explained it below. He comes and he tries not to have sex. And I am often times in horrible pain. He does not want to hurt me. I have a condition where I pass out anywhere. He has tried to pick me up to take me where I need to go. I use medical transportation most often. He was very upset when I paid a cab $ 24 to take me around. He said what.. He tries to make time but when I say this man is strange about his working trust me. He is. I let him work and don't stress him. I can't think of anything else. We have never had an arguement. So that is great.
I think your chanclas are too tight. Loosen them and that may help with the pain.
U r doing a gud job! All you can do is give it ur all!
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Thank you very much. I am not sure what slippers have to do with that. I had to search that word. But thank you very much. I am rather pleased with this site. take care.
Posted by puhleezePosted by Bgirl
I am hoping I get some real help. I am a libra and I know nothing about leo men. I knew this guy over 6 years. He and I never had anything until about 5 months ago. he basically began coming with breakfast,lunch and dinner for about 3 weeks. He poured his heart out and it was sweet. He has been the kind of man I could only dream of. the one problem is he wants sex once a month.
he comes over and we talk so so nice,he will sit and have a beer. He looks at me and I see this look I never saw before. He has never raised his voice to me. His told me from the very beginning he wants me to let him work. And support his woman. I never stop him. He is so determined in ways I can't begin to explain. I am not a nag. I don't care at all about where he is. He calls and we talk.
I basically stopped calling him. I answer and he has the key to my unit. He surprises me all the time. I have health issues and he seems not to be able to manage seeing me in pain. I am sure I won't break it off with him. I am also sure that I want no man after him. The best I could ever dream of is him. The man is just sweet and kind. But I need more sex. I don't ask at all though.
He has made it perfectly clear that he wants me. He has never given me any reason to think anything else.
I read this as he has another woman to support, and can only get together once a month. Does he like spending time together a lot at least?click to expand
Now I am not sure but we are thinking the same thing. I am pretty sure he is paying all of his daugter's college tuition. I have reason to believe her cell phone as well. But I am truly wondering if he is paying rent for anyone. I don't ask questions at all about that. He answers his cell on speaker all the time. If the phone rings he has never said be quiet. When he wakes 3,4 am anytime he will call me.
So yeah I am almost sure about that but not a lover.
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I basically stopped calling him. I answer and he has the key to my unit. He surprises me all the time. I have health issues and he seems not to be able to manage seeing me in pain. I am sure I won't break it off with him. I am also sure that I want no man after him. The best I could ever dream of is him. The man is just sweet and kind. But I need more sex. I don't ask at all though.
He has made it perfectly clear that he wants me. He has never given me any reason to think anything else.