Jealously :do leos hate it

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I'm not dating this Leo we are just really close so recently I've been jealous because from Wednesday -Sunday he was on a church camp trip with lots of friends and I thought that that's fine but he came back yesterday and didn't even answer my text don't you think he'd be happy to talk to me Agian ? And then I thought it's because he must've gotten closer with his friends and met new better people and they all got really close closer than us and kind of replaced me or at least soon will because really ? We haven't talked in days and when he comes back he doenst text back and I told him exactly what I just said and said I was jealous and that I'm sorry it's just he's my Bestfriend and a whole paragraph or more do you think he's gonna stop talking to me because of my jealously we have talked about it before and he's always you don't have to be jealous over anything I feel the most connected to you and I love you the most I promise that . Your the best your perfect the perfect Bestfriend I love you babyGirl and stuff like that but then I get jealous i barely do but it's happened more than twice do you think he's gonna stop talking to me ? He hasn't answered yet
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I'm not dating this Leo we are just really close so recently I've been jealous because from Wednesday -Sunday he was on a church camp trip with lots of friends and I thought that that's fine but he came back yesterday and didn't even answer my text don't you think he'd be happy to talk to me Agian ? And then I thought it's because he must've gotten closer with his friends and met new better people and they all got really close closer than us and kind of replaced me or at least soon will because really ? We haven't talked in days and when he comes back he doenst text back and I told him exactly what I just said and said I was jealous and that I'm sorry it's just he's my Bestfriend and a whole paragraph or more do you think he's gonna stop talking to me because of my jealously we have talked about it before and he's always you don't have to be jealous over anything I feel the most connected to you and I love you the most I promise that . Your the best your perfect the perfect Bestfriend I love you babyGirl and stuff like that but then I get jealous i barely do but it's happened more than twice do you think he's gonna stop talking to me ? He hasn't answered yet
You're Leo.

First, when you said, "That's fine" that he went to a church camp trip; you shouldn't determine that you're "allowing" him to do that. Tsk, tsk, tsk.

Second, yes, you're jealous. You do have love for your BFF; this I know (and love doesn't mean sexual). Remember that love is patient, love is kind, love is NOT JEALOUS... He is his own human being with the comings and goings. I have a BFF and I see her pic posted by another friend of mine (at a function) and I just say to myself, "That little numph! Why didn't she tell me she was going out?!". WOOOOOOOOOOOOOAH! I pulled on my OWN reins. Why the tree trunk am I to question this? She is a grown woman! She can come and go as she pleases! Yeah, I don't hear from her unless she NEEDS something...and guess what?! I am there for her! You can do the same, little one.

He will get back to you whenever he tree trunk decides to.

Please think about what I posted...allow it to sink in BEFORE you respond 😕

Love,

Eva
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I'm not dating this Leo we are just really close so recently I've been jealous because from Wednesday -Sunday he was on a church camp trip with lots of friends and I thought that that's fine but he came back yesterday and didn't even answer my text don't you think he'd be happy to talk to me Agian ? And then I thought it's because he must've gotten closer with his friends and met new better people and they all got really close closer than us and kind of replaced me or at least soon will because really ? We haven't talked in days and when he comes back he doenst text back and I told him exactly what I just said and said I was jealous and that I'm sorry it's just he's my Bestfriend and a whole paragraph or more do you think he's gonna stop talking to me because of my jealously we have talked about it before and he's always you don't have to be jealous over anything I feel the most connected to you and I love you the most I promise that . Your the best your perfect the perfect Bestfriend I love you babyGirl and stuff like that but then I get jealous i barely do but it's happened more than twice do you think he's gonna stop talking to me ? He hasn't answered yet
You're Leo.

First, when you said, "That's fine" that he went to a church camp trip; you shouldn't determine that you're "allowing" him to do that. Tsk, tsk, tsk.

Second, yes, you're jealous. You do have love for your BFF; this I know (and love doesn't mean sexual). Remember that love is patient, love is kind, love is NOT JEALOUS... He is his own human being with the comings and goings. I have a BFF and I see her pic posted by another friend of mine (at a function) and I just say to myself, "That little numph! Why didn't she tell me she was going out?!". WOOOOOOOOOOOOOAH! I pulled on my OWN reins. Why the tree trunk am I to question this? She is a grown woman! She can come and go as she pleases! Yeah, I don't hear from her unless she NEEDS something...and guess what?! I am there for her! You can do the same, little one.

He will get back to you whenever he tree trunk decides to. Leos are so demanding and ya'll think when you ROAR we shake in our pants/dresses. Not!

Please think about what I posted...allow it to sink in BEFORE you respond 😕

Love,

Eva
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I told him I was wrong and I was just over thinking and that I'm sorry I'm no one to say that because he didn't do anything and that I understand if he's done with me I did the right thing right bc all he did was have fun with his friends
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I'm not dating this Leo we are just really close so recently I've been jealous because from Wednesday -Sunday he was on a church camp trip with lots of friends and I thought that that's fine but he came back yesterday and didn't even answer my text don't you think he'd be happy to talk to me Agian ? And then I thought it's because he must've gotten closer with his friends and met new better people and they all got really close closer than us and kind of replaced me or at least soon will because really ? We haven't talked in days and when he comes back he doenst text back and I told him exactly what I just said and said I was jealous and that I'm sorry it's just he's my Bestfriend and a whole paragraph or more do you think he's gonna stop talking to me because of my jealously we have talked about it before and he's always you don't have to be jealous over anything I feel the most connected to you and I love you the most I promise that . Your the best your perfect the perfect Bestfriend I love you babyGirl and stuff like that but then I get jealous i barely do but it's happened more than twice do you think he's gonna stop talking to me ? He hasn't answered yet
You're Leo.

First, when you said, "That's fine" that he went to a church camp trip; you shouldn't determine that you're "allowing" him to do that. Tsk, tsk, tsk.

Second, yes, you're jealous. You do have love for your BFF; this I know (and love doesn't mean sexual). Remember that love is patient, love is kind, love is NOT JEALOUS... He is his own human being with the comings and goings. I have a BFF and I see her pic posted by another friend of mine (at a function) and I just say to myself, "That little numph! Why didn't she tell me she was going out?!". WOOOOOOOOOOOOOAH! I pulled on my OWN reins. Why the tree trunk am I to question this? She is a grown woman! She can come and go as she pleases! Yeah, I don't hear from her unless she NEEDS something...and guess what?! I am there for her! You can do the same, little one.

He will get back to you whenever he tree trunk decides to. Leos are so demanding and ya'll think when you ROAR we shake in our pants/dresses. Not!

Please think about what I posted...allow it to sink in BEFORE you respond 😕

Love,

Eva
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I dont think OP is a leo. I think her friend is.
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I'm not dating this Leo we are just really close so recently I've been jealous because from Wednesday -Sunday he was on a church camp trip with lots of friends and I thought that that's fine but he came back yesterday and didn't even answer my text don't you think he'd be happy to talk to me Agian ? And then I thought it's because he must've gotten closer with his friends and met new better people and they all got really close closer than us and kind of replaced me or at least soon will because really ? We haven't talked in days and when he comes back he doenst text back and I told him exactly what I just said and said I was jealous and that I'm sorry it's just he's my Bestfriend and a whole paragraph or more do you think he's gonna stop talking to me because of my jealously we have talked about it before and he's always you don't have to be jealous over anything I feel the most connected to you and I love you the most I promise that . Your the best your perfect the perfect Bestfriend I love you babyGirl and stuff like that but then I get jealous i barely do but it's happened more than twice do you think he's gonna stop talking to me ? He hasn't answered yet
What's your zodiac sign? Sorry. Apologize. Saw the top line as Leo (it's the subject of topic). 🤗 Cyber hug!

Love,

Eva
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I hate jealousy. A little possessiveness is OK, even taken kindly, but if you keep pushing the issue when we've said there's nothing to worry about, you're going to start pissing me off.

We may be hard to deal with sometimes, but we're honest. If you can't believe when I tell you there's nothing to worry about, I have no patience for you. It's your job to figure your shit out, not mine to keep reassuring you.
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I'm not dating this Leo we are just really close so recently I've been jealous because from Wednesday -Sunday he was on a church camp trip with lots of friends and I thought that that's fine but he came back yesterday and didn't even answer my text don't you think he'd be happy to talk to me Agian ? And then I thought it's because he must've gotten closer with his friends and met new better people and they all got really close closer than us and kind of replaced me or at least soon will because really ? We haven't talked in days and when he comes back he doenst text back and I told him exactly what I just said and said I was jealous and that I'm sorry it's just he's my Bestfriend and a whole paragraph or more do you think he's gonna stop talking to me because of my jealously we have talked about it before and he's always you don't have to be jealous over anything I feel the most connected to you and I love you the most I promise that . Your the best your perfect the perfect Bestfriend I love you babyGirl and stuff like that but then I get jealous i barely do but it's happened more than twice do you think he's gonna stop talking to me ? He hasn't answered yet
What's your zodiac sign? Sorry. Apologize. Saw the top line as Leo (it's the subject of topic). 🤗 Cyber hug!

Love,

Eva
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I am an Aquarius he's a Leo
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I'm not dating this Leo we are just really close so recently I've been jealous because from Wednesday -Sunday he was on a church camp trip with lots of friends and I thought that that's fine but he came back yesterday and didn't even answer my text don't you think he'd be happy to talk to me Agian ? And then I thought it's because he must've gotten closer with his friends and met new better people and they all got really close closer than us and kind of replaced me or at least soon will because really ? We haven't talked in days and when he comes back he doenst text back and I told him exactly what I just said and said I was jealous and that I'm sorry it's just he's my Bestfriend and a whole paragraph or more do you think he's gonna stop talking to me because of my jealously we have talked about it before and he's always you don't have to be jealous over anything I feel the most connected to you and I love you the most I promise that . Your the best your perfect the perfect Bestfriend I love you babyGirl and stuff like that but then I get jealous i barely do but it's happened more than twice do you think he's gonna stop talking to me ? He hasn't answered yet
What's your zodiac sign? Sorry. Apologize. Saw the top line as Leo (it's the subject of topic). 🤗 Cyber hug!

Love,

Eva

I am an Aquarius he's a Leo
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I understand what your saying 100% I just can't help but think that's gonna change over time that he does replace even when he says he won't . But I apologized and he hasn't answered neither to my jealous he's probably studying for regents that's what he said before but I'm really scared I messed everything bc I sent follow up messages to the jealous one then I said sorry and why I'm wrong . would you have forgiven me if you were him
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I hate jealousy. A little possessiveness is OK, even taken kindly, but if you keep pushing the issue when we've said there's nothing to worry about, you're going to start pissing me off.

We may be hard to deal with sometimes, but we're honest. If you can't believe when I tell you there's nothing to worry about, I have no patience for you. It's your job to figure your shit out, not mine to keep reassuring you.
What if you are doing something incredibly odd and displaying very erratic behavior and disappearing almost days at a time with no explanation?
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I hate jealousy. A little possessiveness is OK, even taken kindly, but if you keep pushing the issue when we've said there's nothing to worry about, you're going to start pissing me off.

We may be hard to deal with sometimes, but we're honest. If you can't believe when I tell you there's nothing to worry about, I have no patience for you. It's your job to figure your shit out, not mine to keep reassuring you.

I understand what your saying 100% I just can't help but think that's gonna change over time that he does replace even when he says he won't . But I apologized and he hasn't answered neither to my jealous he's probably studying for regents that's what he said before but I'm really scared I messed everything bc I sent follow up messages to the jealous one then I said sorry and why I'm wrong . would you have forgiven me if you were him
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I hate jealousy. A little possessiveness is OK, even taken kindly, but if you keep pushing the issue when we've said there's nothing to worry about, you're going to start pissing me off.

We may be hard to deal with sometimes, but we're honest. If you can't believe when I tell you there's nothing to worry about, I have no patience for you. It's your job to figure your shit out, not mine to keep reassuring you.
What if you are doing something incredibly odd and displaying very erratic behavior and disappearing almost days at a time with no explanation?
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That's a red flag with any guy. Would that call for being jealous, or getting to the bottom of the behavior (or not) and making a decision to stay or go?
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I hate jealousy. A little possessiveness is OK, even taken kindly, but if you keep pushing the issue when we've said there's nothing to worry about, you're going to start pissing me off.

We may be hard to deal with sometimes, but we're honest. If you can't believe when I tell you there's nothing to worry about, I have no patience for you. It's your job to figure your shit out, not mine to keep reassuring you.

I understand what your saying 100% I just can't help but think that's gonna change over time that he does replace even when he says he won't . But I apologized and he hasn't answered neither to my jealous he's probably studying for regents that's what he said before but I'm really scared I messed everything bc I sent follow up messages to the jealous one then I said sorry and why I'm wrong . would you have forgiven me if you were him
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If you are not in a relationship, you can't really go on about being jealous and expect him to understand. He has not said you are exclusive or an item. It is wrong for him to say you're number one and his baby girl and what not, getting you emotionally attached with no intention to make you his girl. If you feel this strongly about it, be upfront, say to him how you truly feel and put your cards on the table and if you want to be with him as his gf SAY IT. That way you can get your answer on the matter and if he says he'd rather be friends, then create distance and space and move on and find someone willing to reciprocate your love.
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I hate jealousy. A little possessiveness is OK, even taken kindly, but if you keep pushing the issue when we've said there's nothing to worry about, you're going to start pissing me off.

We may be hard to deal with sometimes, but we're honest. If you can't believe when I tell you there's nothing to worry about, I have no patience for you. It's your job to figure your shit out, not mine to keep reassuring you.
What if you are doing something incredibly odd and displaying very erratic behavior and disappearing almost days at a time with no explanation?
That's a red flag with any guy. Would that call for being jealous, or getting to the bottom of the behavior (or not) and making a decision to stay or go?
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I attempted to get to the bottom of the behavior and mr leo turned it around on me quick, blamed me for everything and it all ended there and then.
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I hate jealousy. A little possessiveness is OK, even taken kindly, but if you keep pushing the issue when we've said there's nothing to worry about, you're going to start pissing me off.

We may be hard to deal with sometimes, but we're honest. If you can't believe when I tell you there's nothing to worry about, I have no patience for you. It's your job to figure your shit out, not mine to keep reassuring you.

I understand what your saying 100% I just can't help but think that's gonna change over time that he does replace even when he says he won't . But I apologized and he hasn't answered neither to my jealous he's probably studying for regents that's what he said before but I'm really scared I messed everything bc I sent follow up messages to the jealous one then I said sorry and why I'm wrong . would you have forgiven me if you were him
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We have some of that, me and my Aqua. He gets really suspicious even when I'm having lunch with a girlfriend. I leave him to it. If he presses, I walk away from him.

For me, it's over and done after that. It's his issue tobdeal with. Of course I forgive him. But it doesn't go on for long and then we're back to normal, until the next time. It's quite infuriating but I know it's his deal. He has to figure it out on his own, or not. I just won't entertain it.
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I'm not dating this Leo we are just really close so recently I've been jealous because from Wednesday -Sunday he was on a church camp trip with lots of friends and I thought that that's fine but he came back yesterday and didn't even answer my text don't you think he'd be happy to talk to me Agian ? And then I thought it's because he must've gotten closer with his friends and met new better people and they all got really close closer than us and kind of replaced me or at least soon will because really ? We haven't talked in days and when he comes back he doenst text back and I told him exactly what I just said and said I was jealous and that I'm sorry it's just he's my Bestfriend and a whole paragraph or more do you think he's gonna stop talking to me because of my jealously we have talked about it before and he's always you don't have to be jealous over anything I feel the most connected to you and I love you the most I promise that . Your the best your perfect the perfect Bestfriend I love you babyGirl and stuff like that but then I get jealous i barely do but it's happened more than twice do you think he's gonna stop talking to me ? He hasn't answered yet
What's your zodiac sign? Sorry. Apologize. Saw the top line as Leo (it's the subject of topic). 🤗 Cyber hug!

Love,

Eva

I am an Aquarius he's a Leo

I understand what your saying 100% I just can't help but think that's gonna change over time that he does replace even when he says he won't . But I apologized and he hasn't answered neither to my jealous he's probably studying for regents that's what he said before but I'm really scared I messed everything bc I sent follow up messages to the jealous one then I said sorry and why I'm wrong . would you have forgiven me if you were him
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Yes, Leos are forgiving, but only when THEY feel THEY did something wrong. My sister is a Leo. She did my mom SOOOO wrong, regretted, and spoke to my mom. I accept this since we are "family". Leos, when they are going thru trials and tribulations, will come back to their family/BFF. Yes. He will come back. Give it time. He's sulking (upset). Stand by for you are a lady and have the "man" pursue you first.

Keep us posted. Love, 🤗

Eva

PS: Thanks for posting your zodiac sign (Aquarius).
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I hate jealousy. A little possessiveness is OK, even taken kindly, but if you keep pushing the issue when we've said there's nothing to worry about, you're going to start pissing me off.

We may be hard to deal with sometimes, but we're honest. If you can't believe when I tell you there's nothing to worry about, I have no patience for you. It's your job to figure your shit out, not mine to keep reassuring you.
What if you are doing something incredibly odd and displaying very erratic behavior and disappearing almost days at a time with no explanation?
That's a red flag with any guy. Would that call for being jealous, or getting to the bottom of the behavior (or not) and making a decision to stay or go?
I attempted to get to the bottom of the behavior and mr leo turned it around on me quick, blamed me for everything and it all ended there and then.
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Well there you go. Your gut instincts were probably right, and you're probably better off without him, although I know it hurts. If we're with someone we love, we're WITH you. And if something should happen that weakens the bond, we're usually honest about it. Sounds like he may have not been invested as much as you but that his fixed nature made him not want to leave.
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I hate jealousy. A little possessiveness is OK, even taken kindly, but if you keep pushing the issue when we've said there's nothing to worry about, you're going to start pissing me off.

We may be hard to deal with sometimes, but we're honest. If you can't believe when I tell you there's nothing to worry about, I have no patience for you. It's your job to figure your shit out, not mine to keep reassuring you.
What if you are doing something incredibly odd and displaying very erratic behavior and disappearing almost days at a time with no explanation?
That's a red flag with any guy. Would that call for being jealous, or getting to the bottom of the behavior (or not) and making a decision to stay or go?
I attempted to get to the bottom of the behavior and mr leo turned it around on me quick, blamed me for everything and it all ended there and then.
Well there you go. Your gut instincts were probably right, and you're probably better off without him, although I know it hurts. If we're with someone we love, we're WITH you. And if something should happen that weakens the bond, we're usually honest about it. Sounds like he may have not been invested as much as you but that his fixed nature made him not want to leave.
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I am trying my best to move on. But sometimes wonder if he will ever come back or try and patch things up. This was two weeks ago though, I don't even know if he will ever try and fix things between us at this point, was a little more hopeful in the beginning.
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I'm not dating this Leo we are just really close so recently I've been jealous because from Wednesday -Sunday he was on a church camp trip with lots of friends and I thought that that's fine but he came back yesterday and didn't even answer my text don't you think he'd be happy to talk to me Agian ? And then I thought it's because he must've gotten closer with his friends and met new better people and they all got really close closer than us and kind of replaced me or at least soon will because really ? We haven't talked in days and when he comes back he doenst text back and I told him exactly what I just said and said I was jealous and that I'm sorry it's just he's my Bestfriend and a whole paragraph or more do you think he's gonna stop talking to me because of my jealously we have talked about it before and he's always you don't have to be jealous over anything I feel the most connected to you and I love you the most I promise that . Your the best your perfect the perfect Bestfriend I love you babyGirl and stuff like that but then I get jealous i barely do but it's happened more than twice do you think he's gonna stop talking to me ? He hasn't answered yet
What's your zodiac sign? Sorry. Apologize. Saw the top line as Leo (it's the subject of topic). 🤗 Cyber hug!

Love,

Eva

I am an Aquarius he's a Leo

I understand what your saying 100% I just can't help but think that's gonna change over time that he does replace even when he says he won't . But I apologized and he hasn't answered neither to my jealous he's probably studying for regents that's what he said before but I'm really scared I messed everything bc I sent follow up messages to the jealous one then I said sorry and why I'm wrong . would you have forgiven me if you were him
Yes, Leos are forgiving, but only when THEY feel THEY did something wrong. My sister is a Leo. She did my mom SOOOO wrong, regretted, and spoke to my mom. I accept this since we are "family". Leos, when they are going thru trials and tribulations, will come back to their family/BFF. Yes. He will come back. Give it time. He's sulking (upset). Stand by for you are a lady and have the "man" pursue you first.

Keep us posted. Love, 🤗

Eva

PS: Thanks for posting your zodiac sign (Aquarius).
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Thankyou for the help 😢
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I hate jealousy. A little possessiveness is OK, even taken kindly, but if you keep pushing the issue when we've said there's nothing to worry about, you're going to start pissing me off.

We may be hard to deal with sometimes, but we're honest. If you can't believe when I tell you there's nothing to worry about, I have no patience for you. It's your job to figure your shit out, not mine to keep reassuring you.
What if you are doing something incredibly odd and displaying very erratic behavior and disappearing almost days at a time with no explanation?
That's a red flag with any guy. Would that call for being jealous, or getting to the bottom of the behavior (or not) and making a decision to stay or go?
I attempted to get to the bottom of the behavior and mr leo turned it around on me quick, blamed me for everything and it all ended there and then.
Well there you go. Your gut instincts were probably right, and you're probably better off without him, although I know it hurts. If we're with someone we love, we're WITH you. And if something should happen that weakens the bond, we're usually honest about it. Sounds like he may have not been invested as much as you but that his fixed nature made him not want to leave.
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Thankyou for the help 😢 I really messed up but I apologized like I was supposed to and I hope he sees that and forgives I'm not sure tho
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The men may be different in that respect than us women. I am too forgiving sometimes. The gu2may be wild and fre, and more used to using women.

@LibWman @stars, if he loves you, he'll be back. It takes us a while to get to a place of being OK. Be patient and live your lives

LibWman, it doesn't sound like you instigated the breakup, he just sounds like an ass who's sowing his oats. Unless you didn't tell the whole story (don't need to know).

But we rarely walk away for good if we think there's any way to repair the damage and have a good relationship.
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Don't take this Leo serious unless HE lays the cards on the table NOT you. If you do, The game will be over for you and jus started for him. Ignore him, mirror all his bad behavior and see what he does. Remember these men have the opposite sex falling all over them without trying. They chase after women who are independent, emotionally strong, and feisty. Subtly show him you want him as your guy. Drop hints and pull away. Most of all do YOU! Cat and mouse game, here we goooo.
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Well there's an update he replied he said he's sorry he just got a charger and his phone was taken and so he wasn't able to get back or be on and said that I'm his bestest Bestfriend he's just has friends there and that he loves me so much and then he explained what happened on the trip and said if I could forgive him and I said it's mostly my fault because of my jealously I hope the way you think of me hasn't changed and he said nothing's changed I will continue loving you forever and ever and then he had to go because he has to get up early Tommorow . Are things okay now ? I feel really bad but I'm worried things won't be the same with us even tho he said nothing's changed
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Well there's an update he replied he said he's sorry he just got a charger and his phone was taken and so he wasn't able to get back or be on and said that I'm his bestest Bestfriend he's just has friends there and that he loves me so much and then he explained what happened on the trip and said if I could forgive him and I said it's mostly my fault because of my jealously I hope the way you think of me hasn't changed and he said nothing's changed I will continue loving you forever and ever and then he had to go because he has to get up early Tommorow . Are things okay now ? I feel really bad but I'm worried things won't be the same with us even tho he said nothing's changed
Told ya 😄

Love,

Eva
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Well there's an update he replied he said he's sorry he just got a charger and his phone was taken and so he wasn't able to get back or be on and said that I'm his bestest Bestfriend he's just has friends there and that he loves me so much and then he explained what happened on the trip and said if I could forgive him and I said it's mostly my fault because of my jealously I hope the way you think of me hasn't changed and he said nothing's changed I will continue loving you forever and ever and then he had to go because he has to get up early Tommorow . Are things okay now ? I feel really bad but I'm worried things won't be the same with us even tho he said nothing's changed
Told ya 😄

Love,

Eva
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"He will get back to you whenever

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Truly, the LEO psyche you have mastered!

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Well there's an update he replied he said he's sorry he just got a charger and his phone was taken and so he wasn't able to get back or be on and said that I'm his bestest Bestfriend he's just has friends there and that he loves me so much and then he explained what happened on the trip and said if I could forgive him and I said it's mostly my fault because of my jealously I hope the way you think of me hasn't changed and he said nothing's changed I will continue loving you forever and ever and then he had to go because he has to get up early Tommorow . Are things okay now ? I feel really bad but I'm worried things won't be the same with us even tho he said nothing's changed
Told ya 😄

Love,

Eva
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Thankyou Eva well there's another update and it worries me so what happened was I tweeted him saying I'm sorry about yesterday cause he had tweeted me and then this girl that likes him and Hates me tweeted him hating on me say what did Ashley the little mess up dnow hahah I knew she was a mess up come to me but he has never talked to her before she just likes him bc he has some fans . And she kept tweeting him hating on me and I tweeted back saying I know I'm a mess up just stop . And then I messaged him this paragraph saying I'm so sorry I'm the worst Bestfriend ever why am I such a mess up first you have to deal with my jealously from yesterday and now I attracted more drama I'm so sorry I feel so bad I'm the worst your wasting time on me and saying I'm so this and that and when he answers I'm scared he's gonna leave me because really why does this happen these are the only two things that are major that ever happened to us and he got drama that I attracted un-intentionally for 2 days straight can leos take that ?
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Well there's an update he replied he said he's sorry he just got a charger and his phone was taken and so he wasn't able to get back or be on and said that I'm his bestest Bestfriend he's just has friends there and that he loves me so much and then he explained what happened on the trip and said if I could forgive him and I said it's mostly my fault because of my jealously I hope the way you think of me hasn't changed and he said nothing's changed I will continue loving you forever and ever and then he had to go because he has to get up early Tommorow . Are things okay now ? I feel really bad but I'm worried things won't be the same with us even tho he said nothing's changed
Told ya 😄

Love,

Eva

Thankyou Eva well there's another update and it worries me so what happened was I tweeted him saying I'm sorry about yesterday cause he had tweeted me and then this girl that likes him and Hates me tweeted him hating on me say what did Ashley the little mess up dnow hahah I knew she was a mess up come to me but he has never talked to her before she just likes him bc he has some fans . And she kept tweeting him hating on me and I tweeted back saying I know I'm a mess up just stop . And then I messaged him this paragraph saying I'm so sorry I'm the worst Bestfriend ever why am I such a mess up first you have to deal with my jealously from yesterday and now I attracted more drama I'm so sorry I feel so bad I'm the worst your wasting time on me and saying I'm so this and that and when he answers I'm scared he's gonna leave me because really why does this happen these are the only two things that are major that ever happened to us and he got drama that I attracted un-intentionally for 2 days straight can leos take that ?
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Okay, "Little one". Now you're seeing that the girl is the one that is jealous of you. Women want to be the only one talking (tweeting) him. She's the one that is jealous. YOU show the world, her, and your friend that you're the lady! The others are just "groupies". 🤗

And I see and sense YOU'RE the one that keeps apologizing...remember what OPs have responded to you all this week (and the week end on Saturday). Please adhere to what we are telling you. And don't start "next week" with a "similar" post like this one. Keep us posted means, "Let us know if HE contacted you". "Let us know what HE talks to you about", etc., etc., etc.

Love,
Eva
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Well there's an update he replied he said he's sorry he just got a charger and his phone was taken and so he wasn't able to get back or be on and said that I'm his bestest Bestfriend he's just has friends there and that he loves me so much and then he explained what happened on the trip and said if I could forgive him and I said it's mostly my fault because of my jealously I hope the way you think of me hasn't changed and he said nothing's changed I will continue loving you forever and ever and then he had to go because he has to get up early Tommorow . Are things okay now ? I feel really bad but I'm worried things won't be the same with us even tho he said nothing's changed
Told ya 😄

Love,

Eva


"He will get back to you whenever

he tree trunk decides..."



Truly, the LEO psyche you have mastered!

😄

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Love,

Eva