Jealousy fights with my Leo man

I need help!

I have been with my Leo boyfriend for 1 year and 6 months. We often fight because he looks at every girl who passes him and very indiscreetly, like he can look out of my window in the car to take a look ( not staring anymore )

I've tried to talk to him about it but he doesn't want to talk about it or get angry right away.

He denies it, but it's so clear. I have always had great self-confidence and because of this my self-confidence has been low.

So now I get jealous of little things that I don't really care about like when he is listening to music on Youtube and the video he is watching is lots of half naked girls shaking their ass and sometimes he tries to hide the video if I pass by as if he is not watching but I caught him several times and I hate when he tries to make me feel like Im dumb when I just caught him looking or watching the video. I have told him that Im reacting to dumb stuff like this because he has a low sexdrive and he does not give me the attention I need and he keeps looking at other woman and it makes me feel like he is not attracted to me but he says Im the most beautiful girl in the world and the sexdrive has nothing to do with me. he says this is who I am and I say no its a bad habit you dont want to change. He sits by his computer for 13 hours and I feel neglected.

I've never been jealous before so this is new to me.

So on Wednesday we started fighting again after I been annoyed for a couple of days and he stormed out an took almost all his stuff and moved home to his parents. First he said it is over but then he said we be in touch in 2 weeks and see what we want to do with the relationship. He also talked to my sister's husband and then he said that he took only a few of his things and will sleep at his parents house for a few days.

He has not called and I haven't heard from him. He has not changed the profile picture of the two of us or the status on social media. I can't get that he just left when he knows I hate it (he has threatened to leave before but never did) What should I do now? He also said in the heat of the moment if he want to be with another girl during this time he can and I can too but I said i didn't want to and ask if he did and he said: No but if i want to I will. Do you think he can sleep with someone else while apart now?

I want him to come back but I also want him to understand that what he is doing is hurting me. He never wants to talk about anything so how do I get through to him. I haven't contacted from him either because I feel what he did is wrong but I take full responsibility for behaving badly during the fight

WHAT TO DO LEOS?

His Natal Chart below

Zodiac : Tropical

Sun Leo 21°50'

Moon Virgo 12°23'

Mercury Virgo 3°08'

Venus Cancer 6°21'

Mars Aries 10°28'

Jupiter Gemini 3°28'

Saturn Sagittarius 26°08' R

Uranus Sagittarius 27°14' R

Neptune Capricorn 7°45' R

Pluto Scorpio 9°57'

Lilith Virgo 10°14'

N Node Pisces 14°0

Do you ever try to look sexy for him? Maybe you need to try harder to turn him on.

Personally I think you’re overreacting. Everyone looks. It’s not cheating.

I looks at other women too right in front of my own woman and she looks at other men in front of me too and we make no issues about it. My woman even (I wanna say) lust over WWE wrestler the undertaker everytime she sees him on TV and read his articles and stares real hard at all his pictures on line. I tend to think this a man's thing in general but like pinkbird said it's not cheating.

The issue here isn’t that he has eyes and looks at others. The issue is you feel ignored and want more of his attention.



“He sits by his computer for 13hrs and I feel neglected”

Unless he's cheated on you before or proposed a free pass thing where you're both allowed to fuck other people, you're causing problems where there are none. Looking is natural and everybody does it, as long as he doesn't act upon it.

I don't blame him for running a mile.



BAAAAAD Taurus!

You aren't happy with him.

I'll say it again....you are not happy with him.

One more time in case you don't get it....YOU ARE NOT HAPPY WITH HIM.

Everyone looks ....it's human nature but it's also disrespectful for him to keep doing it in front of you like that after discussing how it makes you feel. Take this break and reevaluate if this relationship is really what you want.

Sounds like a dickhead and as A said, boring

😬😕🌝

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Do you ever try to look sexy for him? Maybe you need to try harder to turn him on.

Personally I think you’re overreacting. Everyone looks. It’s not cheating.

lmao gross

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Indeed😬

Maybe he needs to have a personality transplant....

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Do you ever try to look sexy for him? Maybe you need to try harder to turn him on.

Personally I think you’re overreacting. Everyone looks. It’s not cheating.

lmao gross

Indeed😬

Maybe he needs to have a personality transplant....

or OP needs to find someone more suitable for her needs 🙃

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Your option seems more practical 😀

Like everyone looks at other people but to be with someone that ogles other women/men all the time and then spends 13 hours in front of a screen .... is he for real lol?

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Do you ever try to look sexy for him? Maybe you need to try harder to turn him on.

Personally I think you’re overreacting. Everyone looks. It’s not cheating.

lmao gross

Indeed😬

Maybe he needs to have a personality transplant....

or OP needs to find someone more suitable for her needs 🙃

Your option seems more practical 😀

Like everyone looks at other people but to be with someone that ogles other women/men all the time and then spends 13 hours in front of a screen .... is he for real lol?

ya he sounds like a major bump on a log.

tbh, i kinda hate men w/ virgo/leo combo. insecure w/ a need for constant ego stroke.

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Is this me—?



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Do you ever try to look sexy for him? Maybe you need to try harder to turn him on.

Personally I think you’re overreacting. Everyone looks. It’s not cheating.

lmao gross

Indeed😬

Maybe he needs to have a personality transplant....

or OP needs to find someone more suitable for her needs 🙃

Your option seems more practical 😀

Like everyone looks at other people but to be with someone that ogles other women/men all the time and then spends 13 hours in front of a screen .... is he for real lol?

ya he sounds like a major bump on a log.

tbh, i kinda hate men w/ virgo/leo combo. insecure w/ a need for constant ego stroke.

Is this me—?



Omg

Lmaoooooooooo



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baby you aint a man!

virgo women are da best. we all know 💋

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Don't mind me

Just got finished arguing with my boyfriend lol

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Do you ever try to look sexy for him? Maybe you need to try harder to turn him on.

Personally I think you’re overreacting. Everyone looks. It’s not cheating.

lmao gross

Indeed😬

Maybe he needs to have a personality transplant....

or OP needs to find someone more suitable for her needs 🙃

Your option seems more practical 😀

Like everyone looks at other people but to be with someone that ogles other women/men all the time and then spends 13 hours in front of a screen .... is he for real lol?

ya he sounds like a major bump on a log.

tbh, i kinda hate men w/ virgo/leo combo. insecure w/ a need for constant ego stroke.

Is this me—?



Omg

Lmaoooooooooo



😭😫😭😭😭😭

baby you aint a man!

virgo women are da best. we all know 💋

Don't mind me

Just got finished arguing with my boyfriend lol

😁🤣



😭😭😭😭😖

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What’s up miss?

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Posted by pinkbird03

Do you ever try to look sexy for him? Maybe you need to try harder to turn him on.

Personally I think you’re overreacting. Everyone looks. It’s not cheating.

lmao gross

Indeed😬

Maybe he needs to have a personality transplant....

or OP needs to find someone more suitable for her needs 🙃

Your option seems more practical 😀

Like everyone looks at other people but to be with someone that ogles other women/men all the time and then spends 13 hours in front of a screen .... is he for real lol?

ya he sounds like a major bump on a log.

tbh, i kinda hate men w/ virgo/leo combo. insecure w/ a need for constant ego stroke.

Is this me—?



Omg

Lmaoooooooooo



😭😫😭😭😭😭

baby you aint a man!

virgo women are da best. we all know 💋

Don't mind me

Just got finished arguing with my boyfriend lol

😁🤣



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Thank you

Cheers

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Posted by pinkbird03

Do you ever try to look sexy for him? Maybe you need to try harder to turn him on.

Personally I think you’re overreacting. Everyone looks. It’s not cheating.

lmao gross

Indeed😬

Maybe he needs to have a personality transplant....

or OP needs to find someone more suitable for her needs 🙃

Your option seems more practical 😀

Like everyone looks at other people but to be with someone that ogles other women/men all the time and then spends 13 hours in front of a screen .... is he for real lol?

ya he sounds like a major bump on a log.

tbh, i kinda hate men w/ virgo/leo combo. insecure w/ a need for constant ego stroke.

Is this me—?



Omg

Lmaoooooooooo



😭😫😭😭😭😭

baby you aint a man!

virgo women are da best. we all know 💋

Don't mind me

Just got finished arguing with my boyfriend lol

😁🤣



😭😭😭😭😖

What’s up miss?

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Foot in the mouth again starshine 😔

I have met my match when comes to words and not caring about feelings afterwards

It's my karma and a lesson

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Posted by pinkbird03

Do you ever try to look sexy for him? Maybe you need to try harder to turn him on.

Personally I think you’re overreacting. Everyone looks. It’s not cheating.

lmao gross

Indeed😬

Maybe he needs to have a personality transplant....

or OP needs to find someone more suitable for her needs 🙃

Your option seems more practical 😀

Like everyone looks at other people but to be with someone that ogles other women/men all the time and then spends 13 hours in front of a screen .... is he for real lol?

ya he sounds like a major bump on a log.

tbh, i kinda hate men w/ virgo/leo combo. insecure w/ a need for constant ego stroke.

Is this me—?



Omg

Lmaoooooooooo



😭😫😭😭😭😭

baby you aint a man!

virgo women are da best. we all know 💋

Don't mind me

Just got finished arguing with my boyfriend lol

😁🤣



😭😭😭😭😖

What’s up miss?

Foot in the mouth again starshine 😔

I have met my match when comes to words and not caring about feelings afterwards

It's my karma and a lesson

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You had foot in mouth or he?

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I've noticed leo men are the absolute WORST at this. Yes, we all look at other attractive people, duh. It's disrespectful to the person you're with to sit there with your jaw dropped following someone. Have a look but get a fkn grip.

It's gross and pathetic....like a teenage boy who can't control himself 😬

Some men never grow up or learn how to behave....

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Do you ever try to look sexy for him? Maybe you need to try harder to turn him on.

Personally I think you’re overreacting. Everyone looks. It’s not cheating.

lmao gross

Indeed😬

Maybe he needs to have a personality transplant....

or OP needs to find someone more suitable for her needs 🙃

Your option seems more practical 😀

Like everyone looks at other people but to be with someone that ogles other women/men all the time and then spends 13 hours in front of a screen .... is he for real lol?

ya he sounds like a major bump on a log.

tbh, i kinda hate men w/ virgo/leo combo. insecure w/ a need for constant ego stroke.

Is this me—?



Omg

Lmaoooooooooo



😭😫😭😭😭😭

baby you aint a man!

virgo women are da best. we all know 💋

Don't mind me

Just got finished arguing with my boyfriend lol

😁🤣



😭😭😭😭😖

What’s up miss?

Foot in the mouth again starshine 😔

I have met my match when comes to words and not caring about feelings afterwards

It's my karma and a lesson

You had foot in mouth or he?

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Both

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Posted by pinkbird03

Do you ever try to look sexy for him? Maybe you need to try harder to turn him on.

Personally I think you’re overreacting. Everyone looks. It’s not cheating.

lmao gross

Indeed😬

Maybe he needs to have a personality transplant....

or OP needs to find someone more suitable for her needs 🙃

Your option seems more practical 😀

Like everyone looks at other people but to be with someone that ogles other women/men all the time and then spends 13 hours in front of a screen .... is he for real lol?

ya he sounds like a major bump on a log.

tbh, i kinda hate men w/ virgo/leo combo. insecure w/ a need for constant ego stroke.

Is this me—?



Omg

Lmaoooooooooo



😭😫😭😭😭😭

baby you aint a man!

virgo women are da best. we all know 💋

Don't mind me

Just got finished arguing with my boyfriend lol

😁🤣



😭😭😭😭😖

What’s up miss?

Foot in the mouth again starshine 😔

I have met my match when comes to words and not caring about feelings afterwards

It's my karma and a lesson

You had foot in mouth or he?

Both

😔

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What are his placements?

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The issue here isn’t that he has eyes and looks at others. The issue is you feel ignored and want more of his attention.



“He sits by his computer for 13hrs and I feel neglected”

This and the fact that he's dishonest and makes you feel like you're crazy

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Two sides to every story of course...

But he also told her while the split is temporary he will fuck someone else if he wants.

Not cool.

He has a low sex drive but looks at other girls all day long and says he might have sex with someone else while you two are on a break?

GTFOH.

You should’ve told him to let you watch, since he isn’t fucking you.

Just throw the whole man away!

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Do you ever try to look sexy for him? Maybe you need to try harder to turn him on.

Personally I think you’re overreacting. Everyone looks. It’s not cheating.

lmao gross

Indeed😬

Maybe he needs to have a personality transplant....

or OP needs to find someone more suitable for her needs 🙃

Your option seems more practical 😀

Like everyone looks at other people but to be with someone that ogles other women/men all the time and then spends 13 hours in front of a screen .... is he for real lol?

ya he sounds like a major bump on a log.

tbh, i kinda hate men w/ virgo/leo combo. insecure w/ a need for constant ego stroke.

Is this me—?



Omg

Lmaoooooooooo



😭😫😭😭😭😭

baby you aint a man!

virgo women are da best. we all know 💋

Don't mind me

Just got finished arguing with my boyfriend lol

😁🤣



😭😭😭😭😖

What’s up miss?

Foot in the mouth again starshine 😔

I have met my match when comes to words and not caring about feelings afterwards

It's my karma and a lesson

You had foot in mouth or he?

Both

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What are his placements?

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Taurus sun

Sag moon

Aries mars

Taurus mercury

Gemini venus

Me

Virgo sun

Aqua moon

Gem mars

Virgo mercury

Leo venus

What you think?

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Do you ever try to look sexy for him? Maybe you need to try harder to turn him on.

Personally I think you’re overreacting. Everyone looks. It’s not cheating.

lmao gross

Indeed😬

Maybe he needs to have a personality transplant....

or OP needs to find someone more suitable for her needs 🙃

Your option seems more practical 😀

Like everyone looks at other people but to be with someone that ogles other women/men all the time and then spends 13 hours in front of a screen .... is he for real lol?

ya he sounds like a major bump on a log.

tbh, i kinda hate men w/ virgo/leo combo. insecure w/ a need for constant ego stroke.

Is this me—?



Omg

Lmaoooooooooo



😭😫😭😭😭😭

baby you aint a man!

virgo women are da best. we all know 💋

Don't mind me

Just got finished arguing with my boyfriend lol

😁🤣



😭😭😭😭😖

What’s up miss?

Foot in the mouth again starshine 😔

I have met my match when comes to words and not caring about feelings afterwards

It's my karma and a lesson

You had foot in mouth or he?

Both

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What are his placements?

Taurus sun

Sag moon

Aries mars

Taurus mercury

Gemini venus

Me

Virgo sun

Aqua moon

Gem mars

Virgo mercury

Leo venus

What you think?

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Compatible suns and Mercury so that's good...moons not great, but could be worse. Venus and Mars look good. Need to see houses for more insight. What are both your dominants?

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Do you ever try to look sexy for him? Maybe you need to try harder to turn him on.

Personally I think you’re overreacting. Everyone looks. It’s not cheating.

lmao gross

Indeed😬

Maybe he needs to have a personality transplant....

or OP needs to find someone more suitable for her needs 🙃

Your option seems more practical 😀

Like everyone looks at other people but to be with someone that ogles other women/men all the time and then spends 13 hours in front of a screen .... is he for real lol?

ya he sounds like a major bump on a log.

tbh, i kinda hate men w/ virgo/leo combo. insecure w/ a need for constant ego stroke.

Is this me—?



Omg

Lmaoooooooooo



😭😫😭😭😭😭

baby you aint a man!

virgo women are da best. we all know 💋

Don't mind me

Just got finished arguing with my boyfriend lol

😁🤣



😭😭😭😭😖

What’s up miss?

Foot in the mouth again starshine 😔

I have met my match when comes to words and not caring about feelings afterwards

It's my karma and a lesson

You had foot in mouth or he?

Both

😔

What are his placements?

Taurus sun

Sag moon

Aries mars

Taurus mercury

Gemini venus

Me

Virgo sun

Aqua moon

Gem mars

Virgo mercury

Leo venus

What you think?

Compatible suns and Mercury so that's good...moons not great, but could be worse. Venus and Mars look good. Need to see houses for more insight. What are both your dominants?

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Ugh

I wish I knew

You guys need couples therapy

A man will go as far as a woman let’s him

The relationship sounds as there’s disrespect

And pettiness

Allow him to have the space he needs take this time to focus on you and get to the point where you don’t need him but you want him, to the point where you are in a happy place with yourself

Fuck his chart 🤷

Fuck struggle "love" 😒

Fuck jealousy 🤦

You've found yourself a real asshole who DOESN'T add value or happiness to your life. In fact, he's breaking you down for the next man who may ACTUALLY be a *compatible* match for you.

We, as woman, TEACH men how to treat us. You've dropped the ball as he was likely doing this WHEN you met. Bite the bullet and shut up about it, or, hold yourself accountable for the error of your ways, by dumping this undisciplined eye wanderer and start anew. Period.

This has nothing to do w his chart and you missy, are NO victim.

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I need help!

I have been with my Leo boyfriend for 1 year and 6 months. We often fight because he looks at every girl who passes him and very indiscreetly, like he can look out of my window in the car to take a look ( not staring anymore )

I've tried to talk to him about it but he doesn't want to talk about it or get angry right away....

Let's look at the facts, you two do not work well together. It sounds like you're in the relationship because of the longevity, but is it really worth having someone who treats you this way? It is as if you have been driving in the wrong direction for hours, but staying on that path because you think turning around would be a waste of "progress". The truth is, the more time you let this continue, the more time you waste.

If a Leo man is into you, he acts opposite of how this guys operates. While I will not say that your relationship is done, it does not seem as if it is going anywhere productive. If he is willing to call all of the shots and leave, that is unfair to you. You need to put him on the spot and call his bluff. If he wants to walk out and potentially sleep with other women, put him out entirely. You said that you had high confidence before this, but is that actually true? No confident woman would allow herself to be put in second place like this. Also you always need to look at a person's actions. It it one thing for him to look at other women, it is another thing to look at other women while your needs are not being met. If he had a low sex drive, he probably would not be staring at other women. While it is possible he is trying to overcompensate for a deficit, but it is also possible that he is no longer into you.

Regardless, you desperately need to start standing up for yourself. Bickering at a Leo man will only make him MORE stubborn. You need to start setting some real boundaries by saying "If you want this to work, this is what I need. If you're not able to do that, I need to find someone who will."

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You guys need couples therapy

A man will go as far as a woman let’s him

The relationship sounds as there’s disrespect

And pettiness

Allow him to have the space he needs take this time to focus on you and get to the point where you don’t need him but you want him, to the point where you are in a happy place with yourself

Do you really think he’d go lol? If he did, he’d probably be ogling the therapist 🙃

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Posted by Tenpxd

You guys need couples therapy

A man will go as far as a woman let’s him

The relationship sounds as there’s disrespect

And pettiness

Allow him to have the space he needs take this time to focus on you and get to the point where you don’t need him but you want him, to the point where you are in a happy place with yourself

Do you really think he’d go lol? If he did, he’d probably be ogling the therapist 🙃

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If he truly loves her yes he will go.

The therapist would control him and guide them

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You guys need couples therapy

A man will go as far as a woman let’s him

The relationship sounds as there’s disrespect

And pettiness

Allow him to have the space he needs take this time to focus on you and get to the point where you don’t need him but you want him, to the point where you are in a happy place with yourself

Do you really think he’d go lol? If he did, he’d probably be ogling the therapist 🙃

If he truly loves her yes he will go.

The therapist would control him and guide them

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I’ll bet he won’t go. Could be mistaken though.

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Do you ever try to look sexy for him? Maybe you need to try harder to turn him on.

Personally I think you’re overreacting. Everyone looks. It’s not cheating.

lmao gross

Indeed😬

Maybe he needs to have a personality transplant....

or OP needs to find someone more suitable for her needs 🙃

Your option seems more practical 😀

Like everyone looks at other people but to be with someone that ogles other women/men all the time and then spends 13 hours in front of a screen .... is he for real lol?

ya he sounds like a major bump on a log.

tbh, i kinda hate men w/ virgo/leo combo. insecure w/ a need for constant ego stroke.

Thanks for calling my ass out...

lol girl you arent a man either!

only the men are like this. backpocketing potential romances.

the women are sweet angels who would never do anything wrong ever 😇

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I couldn’t resist with your user name! 😝

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I hate it when people say that everyone checks out other people when they're in a relationship. One, because it's a fallacy to say that everybody does one thing that's not a necessity of life and two, because I feel like those people are denying my existence. It's honestly discriminatory.

if it redresses the balance, just think somewhere out there in the world in my next relationship, i will wear an ankle GPS tracker.

i’m already training the habit by wearing my smartband #TeamSanch

I allow leeway. I'm perfectly aware most people aren't the same as me or share my mental capabilities for instance. Your efforts in trying to please me with an ankle GPS tracker alone would be enough. 🤣 I sound like a total knob in text.

it won’t even really be to please my partner. it’d be for me lol

i just picture the idea of being tracked as hot. i learnt in my last relationship that i have an obsessive side so wandering eye isn’t a problem. i only insist on mental freedom because i’ve seen how sex life can take a nosedive when you’re literally afraid of your partner’s reactions to just being real about fantasies.

if it were an offer to placate a partner that would come across as pity, or like i’m looking for a minder which is not me.

to be honest i’m just worried my heatmap will bore her to death. it’s not like i go out much, other than the park (even before quarantine). after a month she’s gonna say “all right can you spice it up? jesus”

Damn and you don’t even have mental freedom here with all your disappearing or deleted posts.

You’re a prisoner of your own reality.

But I guess that better then deleting and never coming back.

Nah that's just to avoid introverts.

So you’re avoiding me now!!—? I SEE!!! 😤😡🤬

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Yes of course lol your last post before paints it perfectly.

All you get with a long post history is introverts trying to be detective, coming up with stuff that has nothing to do with me, instead of just getting to know each other in the moment.

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Oh I can see that. Lol I hope I look crazy as hell to anyone following my bullshit. 😂😂😂😂 I feel sorry for anyone trying to dig into my post history.

Half of the stuff I say is in the moment. Sometimes I go back and reread old post and think “Wow, I said that?”



But then I think

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I hate it when people say that everyone checks out other people when they're in a relationship. One, because it's a fallacy to say that everybody does one thing that's not a necessity of life and two, because I feel like those people are denying my existence. It's honestly discriminatory.

if it redresses the balance, just think somewhere out there in the world in my next relationship, i will wear an ankle GPS tracker.

i’m already training the habit by wearing my smartband #TeamSanch

I allow leeway. I'm perfectly aware most people aren't the same as me or share my mental capabilities for instance. Your efforts in trying to please me with an ankle GPS tracker alone would be enough. 🤣 I sound like a total knob in text.

it won’t even really be to please my partner. it’d be for me lol

i just picture the idea of being tracked as hot. i learnt in my last relationship that i have an obsessive side so wandering eye isn’t a problem. i only insist on mental freedom because i’ve seen how sex life can take a nosedive when you’re literally afraid of your partner’s reactions to just being real about fantasies.

if it were an offer to placate a partner that would come across as pity, or like i’m looking for a minder which is not me.

to be honest i’m just worried my heatmap will bore her to death. it’s not like i go out much, other than the park (even before quarantine). after a month she’s gonna say “all right can you spice it up? jesus”

Damn and you don’t even have mental freedom here with all your disappearing or deleted posts.

You’re a prisoner of your own reality.

But I guess that better then deleting and never coming back.

Nah that's just to avoid introverts.

So you’re avoiding me now!!—? I SEE!!! 😤😡🤬

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🤩😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😝😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🥺😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😏😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😬

Yes of course lol your last post before paints it perfectly.

All you get with a long post history is introverts trying to be detective, coming up with stuff that has nothing to do with me, instead of just getting to know each other in the moment.

Oh I can see that. Lol I hope I look crazy as hell to anyone following my bullshit. 😂😂😂😂 I feel sorry for anyone trying to dig into my post history.

Half of the stuff I say is in the moment. Sometimes I go back and reread old post and think “Wow, I said that?”



But then I think

Exactly.

Or you wake up one week and you just feel differently now.

Some introvert trying to crack the case: "But you can't change your mind, I put two years into this!"

I was told I attract people who find it difficult to open up with people in general, but they open up with me. Then they expect that leads to an unspoken agreement. And if they see me freely sharing my day with others, they feel betrayed.

It's only happened a few times but it's enough times to just avoid feeding into it now.

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You attract insecure people who just want you to themselves. That’s not a bad thing 😝. #TeachMe

Look at how long we’ve known each other and I’ve never had problems.

Sometimes people build up what they’ve read and perceive it how they want. Which is always self serving.

Gosh I wish someone would come at me like that!!!

I’d go search for even worse shit that I’ve said and send it to them to ask their opinion on that too! 😂😂😂 My pettiness takes no prisoners when someone tries to control my personality or what I do.

There’s a saying “If you go looking for something, you will find it.“ So let’s both take a look! Shall we! 😂😂😂

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I hate it when people say that everyone checks out other people when they're in a relationship. One, because it's a fallacy to say that everybody does one thing that's not a necessity of life and two, because I feel like those people are denying my existence. It's honestly discriminatory.

if it redresses the balance, just think somewhere out there in the world in my next relationship, i will wear an ankle GPS tracker.

i’m already training the habit by wearing my smartband #TeamSanch

I allow leeway. I'm perfectly aware most people aren't the same as me or share my mental capabilities for instance. Your efforts in trying to please me with an ankle GPS tracker alone would be enough. 🤣 I sound like a total knob in text.

it won’t even really be to please my partner. it’d be for me lol

i just picture the idea of being tracked as hot. i learnt in my last relationship that i have an obsessive side so wandering eye isn’t a problem. i only insist on mental freedom because i’ve seen how sex life can take a nosedive when you’re literally afraid of your partner’s reactions to just being real about fantasies.

if it were an offer to placate a partner that would come across as pity, or like i’m looking for a minder which is not me.

to be honest i’m just worried my heatmap will bore her to death. it’s not like i go out much, other than the park (even before quarantine). after a month she’s gonna say “all right can you spice it up? jesus”

Damn and you don’t even have mental freedom here with all your disappearing or deleted posts.

You’re a prisoner of your own reality.

But I guess that better then deleting and never coming back.

Nah that's just to avoid introverts.

So you’re avoiding me now!!—? I SEE!!! 😤😡🤬

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🤩😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😝😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🥺😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😏😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😬

Yes of course lol your last post before paints it perfectly.

All you get with a long post history is introverts trying to be detective, coming up with stuff that has nothing to do with me, instead of just getting to know each other in the moment.

Oh I can see that. Lol I hope I look crazy as hell to anyone following my bullshit. 😂😂😂😂 I feel sorry for anyone trying to dig into my post history.

Half of the stuff I say is in the moment. Sometimes I go back and reread old post and think “Wow, I said that?”



But then I think

Exactly.

Or you wake up one week and you just feel differently now.

Some introvert trying to crack the case: "But you can't change your mind, I put two years into this!"

I was told I attract people who find it difficult to open up with people in general, but they open up with me. Then they expect that leads to an unspoken agreement. And if they see me freely sharing my day with others, they feel betrayed.

It's only happened a few times but it's enough times to just avoid feeding into it now.

You attract insecure people who just want you to themselves. That’s not a bad thing 😝. #TeachMe

Look at how long we’ve known each other and I’ve never had problems.

Sometimes people build up what they’ve read and perceive it how they want. Which is always self serving.

Gosh I wish someone would come at me like that!!!

I’d go search for even worse shit that I’ve said and send it to them to ask their opinion on that too! 😂😂😂 My pettiness takes no prisoners when someone tries to control my personality or what I do.

There’s a saying “If you go looking for something, you will find it.“ So let’s both take a look! Shall we! 😂😂😂

lmao

Yeah I've done similar.

And yeah people work off stories in their head all the time just to make sense of things. I do it, too.

Even now I am ridigly obsessed with how this one woman makes me reminisce about my childhood, a specific part of my childhood. I know that it's not anything she's done personally so it's not her responsibility. I just draw her and get it out that way and that's my boundary. I'm not the type to be like "I've been thinking about you so now you owe me" but some people really are like that and it's legit for them so there's no point tempting fate.

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Quit trying to lure me in to your harem!

Oh! Was I reading too much into something there? 😂😂😂😂😂

Anyways send me the pics you draw of me and I will give you what is owed! 🤓

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I hate it when people say that everyone checks out other people when they're in a relationship. One, because it's a fallacy to say that everybody does one thing that's not a necessity of life and two, because I feel like those people are denying my existence. It's honestly discriminatory.

if it redresses the balance, just think somewhere out there in the world in my next relationship, i will wear an ankle GPS tracker.

i’m already training the habit by wearing my smartband #TeamSanch

I allow leeway. I'm perfectly aware most people aren't the same as me or share my mental capabilities for instance. Your efforts in trying to please me with an ankle GPS tracker alone would be enough. 🤣 I sound like a total knob in text.

it won’t even really be to please my partner. it’d be for me lol

i just picture the idea of being tracked as hot. i learnt in my last relationship that i have an obsessive side so wandering eye isn’t a problem. i only insist on mental freedom because i’ve seen how sex life can take a nosedive when you’re literally afraid of your partner’s reactions to just being real about fantasies.

if it were an offer to placate a partner that would come across as pity, or like i’m looking for a minder which is not me.

to be honest i’m just worried my heatmap will bore her to death. it’s not like i go out much, other than the park (even before quarantine). after a month she’s gonna say “all right can you spice it up? jesus”

Damn and you don’t even have mental freedom here with all your disappearing or deleted posts.

You’re a prisoner of your own reality.

But I guess that better then deleting and never coming back.

Nah that's just to avoid introverts.

So you’re avoiding me now!!—? I SEE!!! 😤😡🤬

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🤩😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😝😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🥺😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😏😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😬

Yes of course lol your last post before paints it perfectly.

All you get with a long post history is introverts trying to be detective, coming up with stuff that has nothing to do with me, instead of just getting to know each other in the moment.

Oh I can see that. Lol I hope I look crazy as hell to anyone following my bullshit. 😂😂😂😂 I feel sorry for anyone trying to dig into my post history.

Half of the stuff I say is in the moment. Sometimes I go back and reread old post and think “Wow, I said that?”



But then I think

Exactly.

Or you wake up one week and you just feel differently now.

Some introvert trying to crack the case: "But you can't change your mind, I put two years into this!"

I was told I attract people who find it difficult to open up with people in general, but they open up with me. Then they expect that leads to an unspoken agreement. And if they see me freely sharing my day with others, they feel betrayed.

It's only happened a few times but it's enough times to just avoid feeding into it now.

You attract insecure people who just want you to themselves. That’s not a bad thing 😝. #TeachMe

Look at how long we’ve known each other and I’ve never had problems.

Sometimes people build up what they’ve read and perceive it how they want. Which is always self serving.

Gosh I wish someone would come at me like that!!!

I’d go search for even worse shit that I’ve said and send it to them to ask their opinion on that too! 😂😂😂 My pettiness takes no prisoners when someone tries to control my personality or what I do.

There’s a saying “If you go looking for something, you will find it.“ So let’s both take a look! Shall we! 😂😂😂

"I’d go search for even worse shit that I’ve said and send it to them to ask their opinion on that too!"

I'm still laughing out loud @ this

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This is like a free pass to hurt someone’s feelings based on nothing factual. If they want to go there. We will. ALL THE WAY UP!!! 😂😂😂😂

Leo’s.

😂

From and Aries, do exactly the same . It will deflate his ego. Trust me.

Aries are the only ones that can match their game.

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I hate it when people say that everyone checks out other people when they're in a relationship. One, because it's a fallacy to say that everybody does one thing that's not a necessity of life and two, because I feel like those people are denying my existence. It's honestly discriminatory.

if it redresses the balance, just think somewhere out there in the world in my next relationship, i will wear an ankle GPS tracker.

i’m already training the habit by wearing my smartband #TeamSanch

I allow leeway. I'm perfectly aware most people aren't the same as me or share my mental capabilities for instance. Your efforts in trying to please me with an ankle GPS tracker alone would be enough. 🤣 I sound like a total knob in text.

it won’t even really be to please my partner. it’d be for me lol

i just picture the idea of being tracked as hot. i learnt in my last relationship that i have an obsessive side so wandering eye isn’t a problem. i only insist on mental freedom because i’ve seen how sex life can take a nosedive when you’re literally afraid of your partner’s reactions to just being real about fantasies.

if it were an offer to placate a partner that would come across as pity, or like i’m looking for a minder which is not me.

to be honest i’m just worried my heatmap will bore her to death. it’s not like i go out much, other than the park (even before quarantine). after a month she’s gonna say “all right can you spice it up? jesus”

Damn and you don’t even have mental freedom here with all your disappearing or deleted posts.

You’re a prisoner of your own reality.

But I guess that better then deleting and never coming back.

Nah that's just to avoid introverts.

So you’re avoiding me now!!—? I SEE!!! 😤😡🤬

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🤩😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😝😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🥺😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😏😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😬

Yes of course lol your last post before paints it perfectly.

All you get with a long post history is introverts trying to be detective, coming up with stuff that has nothing to do with me, instead of just getting to know each other in the moment.

Oh I can see that. Lol I hope I look crazy as hell to anyone following my bullshit. 😂😂😂😂 I feel sorry for anyone trying to dig into my post history.

Half of the stuff I say is in the moment. Sometimes I go back and reread old post and think “Wow, I said that?”



But then I think

Exactly.

Or you wake up one week and you just feel differently now.

Some introvert trying to crack the case: "But you can't change your mind, I put two years into this!"

I was told I attract people who find it difficult to open up with people in general, but they open up with me. Then they expect that leads to an unspoken agreement. And if they see me freely sharing my day with others, they feel betrayed.

It's only happened a few times but it's enough times to just avoid feeding into it now.

You attract insecure people who just want you to themselves. That’s not a bad thing 😝. #TeachMe

Look at how long we’ve known each other and I’ve never had problems.

Sometimes people build up what they’ve read and perceive it how they want. Which is always self serving.

Gosh I wish someone would come at me like that!!!

I’d go search for even worse shit that I’ve said and send it to them to ask their opinion on that too! 😂😂😂 My pettiness takes no prisoners when someone tries to control my personality or what I do.

There’s a saying “If you go looking for something, you will find it.“ So let’s both take a look! Shall we! 😂😂😂

"I’d go search for even worse shit that I’ve said and send it to them to ask their opinion on that too!"

I'm still laughing out loud @ this

This is like a free pass to hurt someone’s feelings based on nothing factual. If they want to go there. We will. ALL THE WAY UP!!! 😂😂😂😂

That's the thing, in all seriousness, I don't want to have anything to do with hurting people's feelings gratuitiously anymore. Most times it's happened, it's happened with people who are actually good people at core. How they feel is legit. My ass belongs with extroverts.

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Sometimes people use the manipulation of hurt feelings to get what they want. You love a good “save me story” though. 😂😂😂 Most men do, that’s probably why you feel so bad.

It also depends on how deeply they felt connected to you, as well, which is an attachment issue that goes along with insecure people.

I wish I wasn’t so independent and was more of a girl who needed some White knighting. Seems like it could be fun. I’d pretend to faint on a daily basis, to get saved! 😂😂😂 But we cant have it all!!

Could you imagine if you were in with the extroverts— You would be wild! You’re already so good at your craft!

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I hate it when people say that everyone checks out other people when they're in a relationship. One, because it's a fallacy to say that everybody does one thing that's not a necessity of life and two, because I feel like those people are denying my existence. It's honestly discriminatory.

if it redresses the balance, just think somewhere out there in the world in my next relationship, i will wear an ankle GPS tracker.

i’m already training the habit by wearing my smartband #TeamSanch

I allow leeway. I'm perfectly aware most people aren't the same as me or share my mental capabilities for instance. Your efforts in trying to please me with an ankle GPS tracker alone would be enough. 🤣 I sound like a total knob in text.

it won’t even really be to please my partner. it’d be for me lol

i just picture the idea of being tracked as hot. i learnt in my last relationship that i have an obsessive side so wandering eye isn’t a problem. i only insist on mental freedom because i’ve seen how sex life can take a nosedive when you’re literally afraid of your partner’s reactions to just being real about fantasies.

if it were an offer to placate a partner that would come across as pity, or like i’m looking for a minder which is not me.

to be honest i’m just worried my heatmap will bore her to death. it’s not like i go out much, other than the park (even before quarantine). after a month she’s gonna say “all right can you spice it up? jesus”

Damn and you don’t even have mental freedom here with all your disappearing or deleted posts.

You’re a prisoner of your own reality.

But I guess that better then deleting and never coming back.

Nah that's just to avoid introverts.

So you’re avoiding me now!!—? I SEE!!! 😤😡🤬

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🤩😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😝😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🥺😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😏😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😬

Yes of course lol your last post before paints it perfectly.

All you get with a long post history is introverts trying to be detective, coming up with stuff that has nothing to do with me, instead of just getting to know each other in the moment.

Oh I can see that. Lol I hope I look crazy as hell to anyone following my bullshit. 😂😂😂😂 I feel sorry for anyone trying to dig into my post history.

Half of the stuff I say is in the moment. Sometimes I go back and reread old post and think “Wow, I said that?”



But then I think

Exactly.

Or you wake up one week and you just feel differently now.

Some introvert trying to crack the case: "But you can't change your mind, I put two years into this!"

I was told I attract people who find it difficult to open up with people in general, but they open up with me. Then they expect that leads to an unspoken agreement. And if they see me freely sharing my day with others, they feel betrayed.

It's only happened a few times but it's enough times to just avoid feeding into it now.

You attract insecure people who just want you to themselves. That’s not a bad thing 😝. #TeachMe

Look at how long we’ve known each other and I’ve never had problems.

Sometimes people build up what they’ve read and perceive it how they want. Which is always self serving.

Gosh I wish someone would come at me like that!!!

I’d go search for even worse shit that I’ve said and send it to them to ask their opinion on that too! 😂😂😂 My pettiness takes no prisoners when someone tries to control my personality or what I do.

There’s a saying “If you go looking for something, you will find it.“ So let’s both take a look! Shall we! 😂😂😂

"I’d go search for even worse shit that I’ve said and send it to them to ask their opinion on that too!"

I'm still laughing out loud @ this

This is like a free pass to hurt someone’s feelings based on nothing factual. If they want to go there. We will. ALL THE WAY UP!!! 😂😂😂😂

That's the thing, in all seriousness, I don't want to have anything to do with hurting people's feelings gratuitiously anymore. Most times it's happened, it's happened with people who are actually good people at core. How they feel is legit. My ass belongs with extroverts.

Sometimes people use the manipulation of hurt feelings to get what they want. You love a good “save me story” though. 😂😂😂 Most men do, that’s probably why you feel so bad.

It also depends on how deeply they felt connected to you, as well, which is an attachment issue that goes along with insecure people.

I wish I wasn’t so independent and was more of a girl who needed some White knighting. Seems like it could be fun. I’d pretend to faint on a daily basis, to get saved! 😂😂😂 But we cant have it all!!

Could you imagine if you were in with the extroverts— You would be wild! You’re already so good at your craft!

well you can be proud of my hanging up the cape because i saw that coming earlier this year.

i don’t feed into that either anymore. it used to be fun years ago, but now it’s a waste of time when women feel like they have to dumb themselves down around you just to try and get their way. you’re totally right about that.

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I’ve always been proud and accepted you the way that you were, but glad you are hanging it up -if it’s caused you more grief then happiness!

I’ll hide all these posts when you do! I don’t mind. 🙂

It’s been fun chatting though. It’s been a while.

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I hate it when people say that everyone checks out other people when they're in a relationship. One, because it's a fallacy to say that everybody does one thing that's not a necessity of life and two, because I feel like those people are denying my existence. It's honestly discriminatory.

if it redresses the balance, just think somewhere out there in the world in my next relationship, i will wear an ankle GPS tracker.

i’m already training the habit by wearing my smartband #TeamSanch

I allow leeway. I'm perfectly aware most people aren't the same as me or share my mental capabilities for instance. Your efforts in trying to please me with an ankle GPS tracker alone would be enough. 🤣 I sound like a total knob in text.

it won’t even really be to please my partner. it’d be for me lol

i just picture the idea of being tracked as hot. i learnt in my last relationship that i have an obsessive side so wandering eye isn’t a problem. i only insist on mental freedom because i’ve seen how sex life can take a nosedive when you’re literally afraid of your partner’s reactions to just being real about fantasies.

if it were an offer to placate a partner that would come across as pity, or like i’m looking for a minder which is not me.

to be honest i’m just worried my heatmap will bore her to death. it’s not like i go out much, other than the park (even before quarantine). after a month she’s gonna say “all right can you spice it up? jesus”

Damn and you don’t even have mental freedom here with all your disappearing or deleted posts.

You’re a prisoner of your own reality.

But I guess that better then deleting and never coming back.

Nah that's just to avoid introverts.

So you’re avoiding me now!!—? I SEE!!! 😤😡🤬

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Yes of course lol your last post before paints it perfectly.

All you get with a long post history is introverts trying to be detective, coming up with stuff that has nothing to do with me, instead of just getting to know each other in the moment.

Oh I can see that. Lol I hope I look crazy as hell to anyone following my bullshit. 😂😂😂😂 I feel sorry for anyone trying to dig into my post history.

Half of the stuff I say is in the moment. Sometimes I go back and reread old post and think “Wow, I said that?”



But then I think

Exactly.

Or you wake up one week and you just feel differently now.

Some introvert trying to crack the case: "But you can't change your mind, I put two years into this!"

I was told I attract people who find it difficult to open up with people in general, but they open up with me. Then they expect that leads to an unspoken agreement. And if they see me freely sharing my day with others, they feel betrayed.

It's only happened a few times but it's enough times to just avoid feeding into it now.

You attract insecure people who just want you to themselves. That’s not a bad thing 😝. #TeachMe

Look at how long we’ve known each other and I’ve never had problems.

Sometimes people build up what they’ve read and perceive it how they want. Which is always self serving.

Gosh I wish someone would come at me like that!!!

I’d go search for even worse shit that I’ve said and send it to them to ask their opinion on that too! 😂😂😂 My pettiness takes no prisoners when someone tries to control my personality or what I do.

There’s a saying “If you go looking for something, you will find it.“ So let’s both take a look! Shall we! 😂😂😂

"I’d go search for even worse shit that I’ve said and send it to them to ask their opinion on that too!"

I'm still laughing out loud @ this

This is like a free pass to hurt someone’s feelings based on nothing factual. If they want to go there. We will. ALL THE WAY UP!!! 😂😂😂😂

That's the thing, in all seriousness, I don't want to have anything to do with hurting people's feelings gratuitiously anymore. Most times it's happened, it's happened with people who are actually good people at core. How they feel is legit. My ass belongs with extroverts.

Sometimes people use the manipulation of hurt feelings to get what they want. You love a good “save me story” though. 😂😂😂 Most men do, that’s probably why you feel so bad.

It also depends on how deeply they felt connected to you, as well, which is an attachment issue that goes along with insecure people.

I wish I wasn’t so independent and was more of a girl who needed some White knighting. Seems like it could be fun. I’d pretend to faint on a daily basis, to get saved! 😂😂😂 But we cant have it all!!

Could you imagine if you were in with the extroverts— You would be wild! You’re already so good at your craft!

well you can be proud of my hanging up the cape because i saw that coming earlier this year.

i don’t feed into that either anymore. it used to be fun years ago, but now it’s a waste of time when women feel like they have to dumb themselves down around you just to try and get their way. you’re totally right about that.

I’ve always been proud and accepted you the way that you were, but glad you are hanging it up -if it’s caused you more grief then happiness!

I’ll hide all these posts when you do! I don’t mind. 🙂

It’s been fun chatting though. It’s been a while.

same here 🙂 i really don’t mind posts being up. i only ever posted on the internet what im good with anyone reading. i just like my profile clear by the morning lol

i’ll hit you up at a beach with those pools you love so much.

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Bring my drawings! 😋😋😋😋😝😜

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-sits by his computer for 13 hours

-does the very thing that he knows irritates you

-tells you he'll be with another girl while y'all are on a break if he wants to be which is... cringe as fuck

Why are you bothering with him? Clearly he doesn't care to be attentive to your needs especially when you express your frustrations regarding things he does. You tell him how his actions (or lack of) make you feel and he decides that your feelings don't matter. There's a lack of respect. If you have enough self-respect, you'd know to leave.

"Clearly"! It really is that clear. SMH

"There's a lack of respect." Exactly. That right there is the CORE of the problem(s).