Just Friends—

Do you have a friend that you would consider being more intimate with...anyone...anyone?

No, I don't. But that's how I met my bf in the first place. We were best friends. I even used to fix him up with other girls. OMG, I would SO never do that now ; )

Yo pfect, did you set your current boyfriend up knowing at the time that you liked him that much? Was it something that you did "setting him up with other girls" an act on your part too see how he would react or feel about you?

I had alot of male friends at that age. I actually had no feelings about setting him up. I used to "fix" everyone up. I liked trying to determine who would work well with who. Kinda like cupid : ). So, I did it soley for the purpose of seeing other people happy. Except one day, I fixed him up with someone and became insanely jealous. I couldn't figure out why. I realized I was in love. I stopped hooking him up.

Judah? Do you have a friend you are interested in?

Very much Pfect but not sure if it's the right road too travel. So you became insanely jealous? Was it because you thought you saw that you were losing your friend too someone else? I mean was it you were losing someone that was close too you.. Someone else you felt shouldn't be as close as you were too him?

Yes, I felt like I was losing my friend to someone else. I had fixed him up before though and had never felt anything. And then BOOM. He and I shared alot together, like I said he was my best friend. People assumed we were together but we really weren't. The last time I fixed him up the jealous feelings were unexpected. I've now known him for 15 years. We are still close. Judah, I am going to have to say follow your heart. People are different. Depends on how close you are. Sometimes you have to do something crazy to find out. If you have feelings for a friend, then I don't consider her just your friend anymore and maybe it's time to go for broke.

Yes I doooooooo 🙂 One's a cancer (darn him to heck!!! already), there's a virgo, a taurus, and lastly a pisces. They are all my friends but I have thought about possible love relationships. However, I would never mix the two ... "the whole friends with benefits" BS. LOL no way, I'm too honest for that. You are either my friend or something more ... there's NO GRAY AREA.