Leo and Cancer??

i know two happy couples who are Leo and Cancer.

i kind of understand why it works esp leo men and cancer women.

Leo needs encouraging love , support and loyalty , and nurturing at all times and i see cancer giving them that..alot...

which makes me wonder what Leo deepest desire is in a mate.

do they ever see their mate as an equal ?

Leo do spoil the cancer and their mate but i think they expect that much or more back in return.



thoughts ?

A Leo can not truly love a partner if we do not see them as an equal. A Leo's lover must be able to stand up to that Leo if/when it's necessary. And yes Leos expect to have our feelings and actions reciprocated, since the partnership is equal.

So it's possible for a Leo to see a Cancer as an equal.

Posted by oneday
I am in this situation right now with a Cancer male.

We get along really well... our sense of humors match, I trust him, he is very caring and a good listener. He shows me a lot of affection and attention in person. I spoil him, I have always been told I get taken advantage of in relationships but he does not make me feel this way I feel he appreciates me. I am the independent one, while he is more dependent. I give him attention but nothing overbearing. Sometimes he can be clingy (which I normally am not a fan of) but I like how he is. There are times when I have gotten frustrated because of his indirect nature but I have learned his "language" ...

My only concern is the fact he is not good at verbally expressing himself def more of an action speaks louder than words type of guy but he is slowly opening up with this and I am understanding. BUT... we are long distance so hoping this does not become an issue because when you're not with one another communication is all you have

Sounds like you're doing a good job figuring him out.

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Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by oneday
I am in this situation right now with a Cancer male.

We get along really well... our sense of humors match, I trust him, he is very caring and a good listener. He shows me a lot of affection and attention in person. I spoil him, I have always been told I get taken advantage of in relationships but he does not make me feel this way I feel he appreciates me. I am the independent one, while he is more dependent. I give him attention but nothing overbearing. Sometimes he can be clingy (which I normally am not a fan of) but I like how he is. There are times when I have gotten frustrated because of his indirect nature but I have learned his "language" ...

My only concern is the fact he is not good at verbally expressing himself def more of an action speaks louder than words type of guy but he is slowly opening up with this and I am understanding. BUT... we are long distance so hoping this does not become an issue because when you're not with one another communication is all you have

Sounds like you're doing a good job figuring him out.

Yes it has taken a lot of patience and understanding from my end, years actually (he has Virgo moon and Taurus mars). Dealing with a damaged crab is one heck of a chess game lol

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Well dealing with with a damaged person in general will take a lot of patience. However with those placements, he'll need an inordinate amount of verbal/emotional consistency from you to feel secure in the relationship.

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Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by oneday
I am in this situation right now with a Cancer male.

We get along really well... our sense of humors match, I trust him, he is very caring and a good listener. He shows me a lot of affection and attention in person. I spoil him, I have always been told I get taken advantage of in relationships but he does not make me feel this way I feel he appreciates me. I am the independent one, while he is more dependent. I give him attention but nothing overbearing. Sometimes he can be clingy (which I normally am not a fan of) but I like how he is. There are times when I have gotten frustrated because of his indirect nature but I have learned his "language" ...

My only concern is the fact he is not good at verbally expressing himself def more of an action speaks louder than words type of guy but he is slowly opening up with this and I am understanding. BUT... we are long distance so hoping this does not become an issue because when you're not with one another communication is all you have

Sounds like you're doing a good job figuring him out.

Yes it has taken a lot of patience and understanding from my end, years actually (he has Virgo moon and Taurus mars). Dealing with a damaged crab is one heck of a chess game lol

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So Leo is a patience sign? Me n the Leo talked about this he said he’s very very patience except when it comes to his work. He gets annoyed with people don’t do things quick or his way lol.... I’m just curious normally fire r not known to be patience ?

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Im engaged to a leo right now. First leo i ever met. Leo is the best thing to ever happen to me.

Honestly i am not at all a mushy lovey dovey affectionate taking care of men type. But i literally act that way with him all the time.

And he treats me like a complete princess.

What does he do for me mentally and emotionally?

- he make me see the good in everything. Always.

- he makes me feel unafraid of people, life, places, changem

- he makes me feel like i can take over the world if i wanted to

- he makes me laugh ALL the time. I mean alllll the time. I could be so stressed and he will make me laugh.

- he sits there and listens to me. No matter how many times i want to say it.

- he takes care of me without being overbearing, or overstepping. Im extremely independant and he knows when to step back and when to step in.



I was with a pisces before him and that was a nightmare in hell. He did the opposite of all those things above.

Have you seen leo and cancer together? I have never even heard or seen that match before now, and im truly shocked at the level of compatibility.

what happened with your wedding—

my thing with a leo went down but i still think leo cancer is a good match.

We are engaged. We didnt get married yet. We bought a house in NYC and are moving in together in 3 weeks.

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Awww congrats it’s a beautiful story I can also see this working out really well. I’m very happy for you. See, it’s just that I’m dating a Leo and it makes me curious of which side of me will enrich those Leo ego the most. I guess the Taurus nature side not the detached Aqua moon side. I’m adapting to this relation. Coz he got all upset n cold the last few days. I think he felt unloved so I’m slowly learning his language too. Dating a aqua air sign for so long, it’s very diffent with fire fixed. So I’m just trying tonundestand how much love n attention Leo actually need ... n from what I am seeing it is a lot. The cancer Leo couples in talking about r pretty addicted to each other. I don’t think there’s such thing as space lol ... so I think Leo needsssssss so much lov n attention ... and I see cancer mate donate their world to them.

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Posted by Chuckcem

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Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by oneday
I am in this situation right now with a Cancer male.

We get along really well... our sense of humors match, I trust him, he is very caring and a good listener. He shows me a lot of affection and attention in person. I spoil him, I have always been told I get taken advantage of in relationships but he does not make me feel this way I feel he appreciates me. I am the independent one, while he is more dependent. I give him attention but nothing overbearing. Sometimes he can be clingy (which I normally am not a fan of) but I like how he is. There are times when I have gotten frustrated because of his indirect nature but I have learned his "language" ...

My only concern is the fact he is not good at verbally expressing himself def more of an action speaks louder than words type of guy but he is slowly opening up with this and I am understanding. BUT... we are long distance so hoping this does not become an issue because when you're not with one another communication is all you have

Sounds like you're doing a good job figuring him out.

Yes it has taken a lot of patience and understanding from my end, years actually (he has Virgo moon and Taurus mars). Dealing with a damaged crab is one heck of a chess game lol

Well dealing with with a damaged person in general will take a lot of patience. However with those placements, he'll need an inordinate amount of verbal/emotional consistency from you to feel secure in the relationship.

It has been 2-3 years of me consistently being there and we just recently moved forward into “seeing” one another. Definitely slow moving but, i feel that the best things in life take a lot of work. But it’s if your willing to work for it

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Fair, just know that you don't need to martyr yourself either. Hopefully it all works out for the two of you.

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Posted by Juliiette

Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
Im engaged to a leo right now. First leo i ever met. Leo is the best thing to ever happen to me.

Honestly i am not at all a mushy lovey dovey affectionate taking care of men type. But i literally act that way with him all the time.

And he treats me like a complete princess.

What does he do for me mentally and emotionally?

- he make me see the good in everything. Always.

- he makes me feel unafraid of people, life, places, changem

- he makes me feel like i can take over the world if i wanted to

- he makes me laugh ALL the time. I mean alllll the time. I could be so stressed and he will make me laugh.

- he sits there and listens to me. No matter how many times i want to say it.

- he takes care of me without being overbearing, or overstepping. Im extremely independant and he knows when to step back and when to step in.



I was with a pisces before him and that was a nightmare in hell. He did the opposite of all those things above.

Have you seen leo and cancer together? I have never even heard or seen that match before now, and im truly shocked at the level of compatibility.

what happened with your wedding—

my thing with a leo went down but i still think leo cancer is a good match.

We are engaged. We didnt get married yet. We bought a house in NYC and are moving in together in 3 weeks.

Awww congrats it’s a beautiful story I can also see this working out really well. I’m very happy for you. See, it’s just that I’m dating a Leo and it makes me curious of which side of me will enrich those Leo ego the most. I guess the Taurus nature side not the detached Aqua moon side. I’m adapting to this relation. Coz he got all upset n cold the last few days. I think he felt unloved so I’m slowly learning his language too. Dating a aqua air sign for so long, it’s very diffent with fire fixed. So I’m just trying tonundestand how much love n attention Leo actually need ... n from what I am seeing it is a lot. The cancer Leo couples in talking about r pretty addicted to each other. I don’t think there’s such thing as space lol ... so I think Leo needsssssss so much lov n attention ... and I see cancer mate donate their world to them.

Aw thanks! I hope it works out for you and me!

After i met my leo i axed a whole lot of advice on here cause i never met a leo in my life.

What i got from people is that there are two kinds of leos. The evolved leo who is not an asshole and is mature and has learned from life mistakes. And the unevolved leo who is a player egotistical shithead lol.

So you need to decide which one you have!

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I think I have the evolved one . I hope so anyway lol

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Posted by saweetz1988

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Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by oneday
I am in this situation right now with a Cancer male.

We get along really well... our sense of humors match, I trust him, he is very caring and a good listener. He shows me a lot of affection and attention in person. I spoil him, I have always been told I get taken advantage of in relationships but he does not make me feel this way I feel he appreciates me. I am the independent one, while he is more dependent. I give him attention but nothing overbearing. Sometimes he can be clingy (which I normally am not a fan of) but I like how he is. There are times when I have gotten frustrated because of his indirect nature but I have learned his "language" ...

My only concern is the fact he is not good at verbally expressing himself def more of an action speaks louder than words type of guy but he is slowly opening up with this and I am understanding. BUT... we are long distance so hoping this does not become an issue because when you're not with one another communication is all you have

Sounds like you're doing a good job figuring him out.

Yes it has taken a lot of patience and understanding from my end, years actually (he has Virgo moon and Taurus mars). Dealing with a damaged crab is one heck of a chess game lol

So Leo is a patience sign? Me n the Leo talked about this he said he’s very very patience except when it comes to his work. He gets annoyed with people don’t do things quick or his way lol.... I’m just curious normally fire r not known to be patience ?

Leo are more patient compared to the other fire signs. They are a fixed sign which normally comes with consistency and patience. I am patient as long as I know it is going somewhere, I just need a little something to know I am heading in the right direction

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WHAt is that little something and are you all in or all out person?

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Posted by saweetz1988

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Posted by saweetz1988

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Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by oneday
I am in this situation right now with a Cancer male.

We get along really well... our sense of humors match, I trust him, he is very caring and a good listener. He shows me a lot of affection and attention in person. I spoil him, I have always been told I get taken advantage of in relationships but he does not make me feel this way I feel he appreciates me. I am the independent one, while he is more dependent. I give him attention but nothing overbearing. Sometimes he can be clingy (which I normally am not a fan of) but I like how he is. There are times when I have gotten frustrated because of his indirect nature but I have learned his "language" ...

My only concern is the fact he is not good at verbally expressing himself def more of an action speaks louder than words type of guy but he is slowly opening up with this and I am understanding. BUT... we are long distance so hoping this does not become an issue because when you're not with one another communication is all you have

Sounds like you're doing a good job figuring him out.

Yes it has taken a lot of patience and understanding from my end, years actually (he has Virgo moon and Taurus mars). Dealing with a damaged crab is one heck of a chess game lol

So Leo is a patience sign? Me n the Leo talked about this he said he’s very very patience except when it comes to his work. He gets annoyed with people don’t do things quick or his way lol.... I’m just curious normally fire r not known to be patience ?

Leo are more patient compared to the other fire signs. They are a fixed sign which normally comes with consistency and patience. I am patient as long as I know it is going somewhere, I just need a little something to know I am heading in the right direction

WHAt is that little something and are you all in or all out person?

Such as positive reinforcement? Just let me know I am not wasting time. And I am a all in person for sure, it takes a lot for me to make up my mind but when I do im 100%

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I feel you on this one!