Leo man broke my heart and i think its all my fault.

On a previous post, I broke up with my leo man because he was too busy and didnt spare some time anyone. As a leo myself of course i tried to understand him and tried my best to adjust to him. but i also wanted him to give me a little time.

forward to last night. I was drinking alone at my house. and i messaged him, i was having one of my depressive episodes. He was very cold to me. but i wanted to talk to him and talk things out and then he ignored me. I know it was stupid and i feel so ashamed now, but i drunk called him like a crazy person i left a lot of missed calls and hurt messages to him. and then this morning he said he really wants to break up for good and that how i acted scared him.

he wont respond to me anymore and i dont know what to do. i want him back with all my heart. but he clearly told me that he wont respond to me anymore.

i feel so hurt and but i still really love him, we were together for a short period of time. I felt he was sincere to me before and i believed everything he said. but now im so confused and i dont know how to move pass this, please is there anyone out there who can help me?

i need some advice and someone to talk to, this is the first time in my 31 years that ive experience a hit like this. i fell really hard and now im left with nothing.

If you are a Leo man's girl and he's not spending time with you it's because he's spending it with someone else. That is why he broke up with you. Leo men do not let grass grow under their feet. It's spring and a lot of men are breaking up to find new.

Posted by leolovestau

I’d take his word for it

As a Leo i never say what I don’t mean in my sober rational mind.

Depend on how often you’ve been disrespectful like this to him , he may never come back.

Repeated blows to a Leo’s ego is a sure fire way to kill interest . Nothing worst than disrespect from where I’m standing.

If it’s the first time you’ve done shit like this he might forgive but if it’s not then it’s your last. IMO

he said he loves me but our relationship felt toxic to him (because i always say that). now the table has turned. i regret it so much. he was the love of my life. and the connection i had with him was so intense for me.

Posted by DonnaLibra

If you are a Leo man's girl and he's not spending time with you it's because he's spending it with someone else. That is why he broke up with you. Leo men do not let grass grow under their feet. It's spring and a lot of men are breaking up to find new.

i will share to you my previous post



o here's the deal. I met this amazing leo man a couple of months ago, we immediately started dating but during that time i was still in an open relationship with my then boyfriend (meaning i am allowed to see other people and my then boyfriend knows that im seeing this leo man). I was honest with this leo man and at first he was okay with it. Until one day he wanted to be exclusive because according to him i cant handle the fact that im seeing both of them, so i had to break up with my then boyfriend.

The connection between me and this leo man is undeniable, like nothing I've ever felt before. In so many ways we are so much a like. I gradually started to fall in love with this leo man, he was a bit of the jealous type and i totally understand this.

Before we started this relationship, he already told me that he was always busy running the family business. Which I understand that time, he promised me that he will still make time for me no matter what. At first i was trying to adjust myself to the fact that he was so busy and we only have time at night after he close the shop (its a coffee shop they close shop around 10pm and he is really hands on in regards with handling the business, he bakes all the pastries by himself and sometimes do some barista stuff for the coffee and other drinks)

Some days i try to wait for him until he close shop before he can see me or we can meet. On a rare occasion, he tries his best to ask his parents to watch the shop for him the whole day so he can spend time with me (i feel guilty about this) but at the same time i really appreciate the effort he has been putting.

Again, i try my best to understand as much as i can, he always tells me that for now he doesn't have another choice but to be a good son for this parents (meaning to handle the family business) - again i really get it.

I did my best to adjust myself to the schedule he has, until there was a time that we dont get to talk often or see each other anymore because of the schedule, i work in a 24/7 industry so i have to change my working shifts every week.

Some days im sleeping in the morning and he is working and when im awake at night he needs to sleep because he has to get up early the next day so he can purchase the things the shop needs for the day.

Until one day i feel really exhausted about this set up, we dont get to spend time with each other anymore, we dont see each other anymore. When we text, i usually have to wait for him to free his hands until he can reply (i get it).

It makes me so sad to be in this kind of relationship, just last week i was going through something and of course i wanted him to be by my side or at least comfort me but because he was so busy, he was just able to reply to me so late.

I told him about this and since then we are getting arguments, one day i was so upset and told him i wanted to break up already, he said he didnt want to but he knows im having a hard time because i was feeling so sad and he wasnt able to do his part to comfort me. He said he knows i dont deserve it and if i really wanted to leave him and move on he would understand it, he also said that he feels sorry and sad that we had to end our relationship.

I dont know if i was being selfish, i probably am. But to me if he said he is willing to make time for us, he would at least try to. Sometimes i dont know if he thinks im too available for him and i will just always wait for him thats why he thinks our set up is okay.

Anyway, we broke up a few days now, and he send me messages like, take care always, i love you. - things like that. But i try my best to ignore him because i want to at least try to move on or prove that i can stand alone without him (im still going through this rough time)

for now i really really miss him and im hoping we can still work it out.

I just wanted him to give me a portion of his time and attention (okay yeah of course i need attention from him).

do you guys think i should just really move on? or what should i do to get him back?

I dunno, once someone starts getting super clingy with me like. Calling and leaving a bunch of messages like that I run for the hills.

Posted by blackphvse

You were together only for a short while, so how much chance did you give him before breaking up with him?

Looking at the time span you were together, the fact that you were the one to break up with him, then drunk called him a bunch and left voice mails, your chances with him are likely done. You'll just have to try your best to hold you head high and move on. I know it's not easy, but you lions are tough!

We were together for about 2 months. I said the relationship was toxic because i always end up waiting for him to spare me some time. I did my best to understand the situation he is in. He runs their family business and i did try my best to be supportive to him. But lately ive been feeling like he was just giving me time to talk or text me when its convenient for him. I get it. He works super hard. And i love him for that. But my point was. I needed him to give me some time too. Maybe this my come off as clingy to some people.



Before we started our relationship he promised me that he will try his best to spend some time with me. I saw that he tried. But when i have those days when i really needed him. He wasnt there for me. This makes me more depressed and upset.

Maybe some will also say that this wasnt the right relationship. But as i said. In my 31 years of exsistence this is the first time i fell so hard like this. Its like i met my match. And its hard for me to just let him go. I know i will regret this for the rest of my life. He was the first person i felt so connected too. Iike he was the missing part of me. (Yeah i know its sounds dramatic. But thats exactly how i felt) i know he felt connected to me too. I just cant tell now on how much level.

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Posted by blackphvse

You were together only for a short while, so how much chance did you give him before breaking up with him?

Looking at the time span you were together, the fact that you were the one to break up with him, then drunk called him a bunch and left voice mails, your chances with him are likely done. You'll just have to try your best to hold you head high and move on. I know it's not easy, but you lions are tough!

We were together for about 2 months. I said the relationship was toxic because i always end up waiting for him to spare me some time. I did my best to understand the situation he is in. He runs their family business and i did try my best to be supportive to him. But lately ive been feeling like he was just giving me time to talk or text me when its convenient for him. I get it. He works super hard. And i love him for that. But my point was. I needed him to give me some time too. Maybe this my come off as clingy to some people.



Before we started our relationship he promised me that he will try his best to spend some time with me. I saw that he tried. But when i have those days when i really needed him. He wasnt there for me. This makes me more depressed and upset.

Maybe some will also say that this wasnt the right relationship. But as i said. In my 31 years of exsistence this is the first time i fell so hard like this. Its like i met my match. And its hard for me to just let him go. I know i will regret this for the rest of my life. He was the first person i felt so connected too. Iike he was the missing part of me. (Yeah i know its sounds dramatic. But thats exactly how i felt) i know he felt connected to me too. I just cant tell now on how much level.

Not trying to be mean.. but do you know what a toxic relationship is? The fact that he didn't give you as much attention as you required does not make the relationship toxic. 2 months is not a very long period at all and you said that you did see him trying to give you time, it just wasn't enough for you. To be honest I'm surprised that you were the one to break up with him and not the other way around. You knew before you got together that he was busy with work, and you admit that he did try to give you his time.. what more did you want from him? Maybe try to find someone who has more free time to spend with you because it sounds like that is what is most important to you in a relationship.

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I broke it off and then 2 days later i tried to contact him but offically broke it off with me today.

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Posted by blackphvse

You were together only for a short while, so how much chance did you give him before breaking up with him?

Looking at the time span you were together, the fact that you were the one to break up with him, then drunk called him a bunch and left voice mails, your chances with him are likely done. You'll just have to try your best to hold you head high and move on. I know it's not easy, but you lions are tough!

We were together for about 2 months. I said the relationship was toxic because i always end up waiting for him to spare me some time. I did my best to understand the situation he is in. He runs their family business and i did try my best to be supportive to him. But lately ive been feeling like he was just giving me time to talk or text me when its convenient for him. I get it. He works super hard. And i love him for that. But my point was. I needed him to give me some time too. Maybe this my come off as clingy to some people.



Before we started our relationship he promised me that he will try his best to spend some time with me. I saw that he tried. But when i have those days when i really needed him. He wasnt there for me. This makes me more depressed and upset.

Maybe some will also say that this wasnt the right relationship. But as i said. In my 31 years of exsistence this is the first time i fell so hard like this. Its like i met my match. And its hard for me to just let him go. I know i will regret this for the rest of my life. He was the first person i felt so connected too. Iike he was the missing part of me. (Yeah i know its sounds dramatic. But thats exactly how i felt) i know he felt connected to me too. I just cant tell now on how much level.

Not trying to be mean.. but do you know what a toxic relationship is? The fact that he didn't give you as much attention as you required does not make the relationship toxic. 2 months is not a very long period at all and you said that you did see him trying to give you time, it just wasn't enough for you. To be honest I'm surprised that you were the one to break up with him and not the other way around. You knew before you got together that he was busy with work, and you admit that he did try to give you his time.. what more did you want from him? Maybe try to find someone who has more free time to spend with you because it sounds like that is what is most important to you in a relationship.

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I got it. Its really my fault. I appreciate that he works hard. I really do. I just wanted a normal relationship with him. He also said that he is not the one for me. Because i need to change a lot for him and as he said i cant do it. He said he needs a submissive woman. Which is also not me.

Some good advice here:

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Posted by blackphvse

You were together only for a short while, so how much chance did you give him before breaking up with him?

Looking at the time span you were together, the fact that you were the one to break up with him, then drunk called him a bunch and left voice mails, your chances with him are likely done. You'll just have to try your best to hold you head high and move on. I know it's not easy, but you lions are tough!

We were together for about 2 months. I said the relationship was toxic because i always end up waiting for him to spare me some time. I did my best to understand the situation he is in. He runs their family business and i did try my best to be supportive to him. But lately ive been feeling like he was just giving me time to talk or text me when its convenient for him. I get it. He works super hard. And i love him for that. But my point was. I needed him to give me some time too. Maybe this my come off as clingy to some people.



Before we started our relationship he promised me that he will try his best to spend some time with me. I saw that he tried. But when i have those days when i really needed him. He wasnt there for me. This makes me more depressed and upset.

Maybe some will also say that this wasnt the right relationship. But as i said. In my 31 years of exsistence this is the first time i fell so hard like this. Its like i met my match. And its hard for me to just let him go. I know i will regret this for the rest of my life. He was the first person i felt so connected too. Iike he was the missing part of me. (Yeah i know its sounds dramatic. But thats exactly how i felt) i know he felt connected to me too. I just cant tell now on how much level.

Not trying to be mean.. but do you know what a toxic relationship is? The fact that he didn't give you as much attention as you required does not make the relationship toxic. 2 months is not a very long period at all and you said that you did see him trying to give you time, it just wasn't enough for you. To be honest I'm surprised that you were the one to break up with him and not the other way around. You knew before you got together that he was busy with work, and you admit that he did try to give you his time.. what more did you want from him? Maybe try to find someone who has more free time to spend with you because it sounds like that is what is most important to you in a relationship.

I got it. Its really my fault. I appreciate that he works hard. I really do. I just wanted a normal relationship with him. He also said that he is not the one for me. Because i need to change a lot for him and as he said i cant do it. He said he needs a submissive woman. Which is also not me.

I definitely understand. I am also the type of person who likes to spend a lot of time with my significant other, but in knowing that I am like that, I don't invest much energy in people that I know can't give me as much of their time as I'd like. Once you know what is important to you in a relationship, it's a lot easier to select someone whose life is more in line with yours. That's why I tend not to go for guys who travel a lot for work, or are workaholics, it doesn't fit with what I need from my partner.

Also, you shouldn't have to change for anyone (as he suggested), compromises definitely help to make relationships work smoother, but you should never have to change who you are to suit someone else. It just sounds like you guys aren't overly compatible in the long run. Better to have found out sooner rather than later after investing even more time and emotion on this connection. Just keep in mind what you need from a relationship and select your next partner wisely.

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This is one of the best one i read. Thank you for reminding me that i dont need to change for anyone. I know im a good person with a good heart. I just fell inlove with a wrong person. Or probably it was the wrong time. What he said made me really doubt myself. But you reminded me that i deserve what i think is best for me. What you said made me feel so much better. Yeah i made a dumb mistake. People inlove act crazy sometimes. This was it for me and i hope i wont do anything like that again.

It still pains me to know that i had to let him go. I know what i felt was real. I know he knows it too. But it probably isnt meant to be for us. I will do my best to move forward and accept that its over and there is no turning back. I learned a lot from this.

Posted by geminiflyby

Some good advice here:

Thank you for introducing me to her. Shes amazing. It made me realize a lot of things. You are a blessing to someone like me struggling.

Glad it helped lionfire. One of the best videos I've seen - and sometimes it just takes someone talking sense to get you out of your own head. You're a LEO - don't forget!

Posted by ElectroLeo

We have nothing that’s why.

What do you mean?

Posted by lionfire

On a previous post, I broke up with my leo man because he was too busy and didnt spare some time anyone. As a leo myself of course i tried to understand him and tried my best to adjust to him. but i also wanted him to give me a little time.

forward to last night. I was drinking alone at my house. and i messaged him, i was having one of my depressive episodes. He was very cold to me. but i wanted to talk to him and talk things out and then he ignored me. I know it was stupid and i feel so ashamed now, but i drunk called him like a crazy person i left a lot of missed calls and hurt messages to him. and then this morning he said he really wants to break up for good and that how i acted scared him.

he wont respond to me anymore and i dont know what to do. i want him back with all my heart. but he clearly told me that he wont respond to me anymore.

i feel so hurt and but i still really love him, we were together for a short period of time. I felt he was sincere to me before and i believed everything he said. but now im so confused and i dont know how to move pass this, please is there anyone out there who can help me?

i need some advice and someone to talk to, this is the first time in my 31 years that ive experience a hit like this. i fell really hard and now im left with nothing.

I hate to say this but the way something starts is usually the way it ends. He was willing to be in a fwb situation with you because you had an open relationship, but with an ego as big as a lions, what makes you think that he didn't see the overall picture?? DO you think he would believe that you would be faithful to him complaining about time, fully aware of where he was and what he was doing— Do you think he didn't noticed you never stopped by his job knowing where he would be at if you wanted to see him— You were selfish. Period... And for as kind and generous as Leos are, they do like receiving back the attention that they give... I could give you advice, but I doubt you're willing to make the necessary efforts to correct it. You can start by stop thinking about your own feelings and take some time to imagine his feelings. Step outside of your ego and imagine how it felt to be him for a day or two. I'll go into slight detail so you can imagine it better...

He was initially willing to settle for anything necessary to be with you knowing that you were with another man. He hung around and fought for you two to be exclusive swallowing his pride, knowing he was sharing you. Then he was completely open about his available time and kept the same schedule. Your schedule changed. Not his. Then you break up with him... He has to swallow his pride again to satisfy your ego because at that point he didn't want you to be unhappy with him or to taint the relationship you shared in any way. From that point forward, he probably believed in his mind that you were seeing someone else because he didn't have enough time available to give you the attention you deserve. He left his door wide open continuing to express to you that he loves you and wish you the best. It didn't matter that he was hurt. It didn't matter that you broke up with him. He still continued to freely give to you in spite of you leaving him.

Then you drunk call him... Like he did something to hurt you. Like he left you. Like you heard the whisper of another chick come from his mouth. Like he was out there in the clubs with his friends instead of hustling with his family to help his family succeed. He even let you call the relationship toxic when he was doing the best he could and was completely transparent with you.

That's who you been to this Leo guy and that's how he sees you now. You painted a clear picture for him who you are...