Leo man confuses me :(

So I met this Leo man… We are classmates in the business school and since one month – flatmates too. Needless to say, I like him a lot. He is a very wise, smart, and mature guy (32yo); although he likes to fool around and crack some stupid jokes that I sincerely adore. He always makes me laugh… and that’s how he made me feel attracted to him.

We don’t know each other well, but I feel I have known him for a long time and feel extremely connected. I think he also likes me, or at least is interested; however, I cannot figure out his signals (if there are any). He always smiles at me, and makes compliments how I look. He hugs me every morning when we cross each other in the kitchen and kisses on the cheek when he sees me on public. He is always there for me if I need his help or advice. Sometimes he can put his arm around my waste when we walk next to each other, or on my knee when we are in the taxi. When we recently took a flight together, I fell asleep on his shoulder: he moved closer to make sure it was comfortable for me, and then put his head on top of mine. In general, he tends to sit or stand next to me in the crowd. He even adjusts his plans in line with mine (i.e. if someone invites him to eat out, and I say that I will be eating at home, he would go home). I also noticed that If I mention anything to him in a form of a feedback, he will act on it. (His close friend even told me what I am doing to the guy that he behaves this way).

It all sounds so idealistic and sweet, yet that’s pretty much it. For the rest I am confused…

He doesn’t make any steps further. When my friend recently asked me if we are together (in front of him), he walked away. Last time we took a group picture, I consciously stood very close to him – he asked me after not to do it next time, as otherwise people will think that we are together. He never dances with me or spends his time with me when we are out; yet, he does it a lot with other girls. He throws lots of borderline jokes (vulgar / sexual) on me, that I find offensive (but he apologizes after if he sees me being hurt - once he mentioned, that "we always make fun of those we like"). He often hints/jokes that he wants to have sex with me. Yet when we are left alone at home, nothing happens🙂 We just go to our rooms. He recently planned a trip with his friend, but didn’t even tell me that he was going, neither invited me. (He texted me the next day though to ask how I was doing… but then he never replied back. His texts anyways are always very short / lame🙂).

He used to say that he has a girlfriend; yet, last time, he told my friend that he is single. I know he was in the 8 years-long relationship, got engaged, but broke up before the wedding last summer. Not sure if he moved on though, as he never talks about it. In general, he is difficult to talk to, as he is very closed and is always glued to his mobile.

I am relatively close with his best friends, but not sure if I should ask anything. One of his best friends is actually our 3rd flat-mate, so he is always with us.

We will graduate in one month and will eventually end up in different cities…. Not sure what it all will bring, but I feel sincerely connected to him and wouldn’t want to lose this link…

I'm sorry I can't be more help, but my instincts are saying 'be wary'...

Hopefully some of our Leo lads will be along to offer perspective for you

~Good luck~