Leo playing games

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I have been seeing a Leo man (moon in either libra or Scorpio, Venus gem, Mars Cancer) for a a few months. Wasn't sure if I was feeling him initially but I eventually started to like him. We had sex once and he would contact me everyday but he has also made a routine of asking for what I was doing later and arranging plans to go out but not coming through. I told him if he has a change of mind then he just needs to say that but don't play games with me. He swore he wasn't playing games and that he was just tired. We went out another time that week. We didn't talk over Christmas. The next day we talked and I sent him a pic we took the week before and he told me to post to my social media account. I chuckled and said so everyone can be in my business, he said yeah. I didn't post it.

We went out to eat the next day. He asked why I didn't wish him a merry Christmas, I asked him the same thing, he wouldn't leave it alone. I spent the night but we didn't do anything.

We hadn't talked since then. Yesterday he face timed me asking who I was with, who I spent NYE with, was I having sex with another guy. He also brought up us going out later, and said he would call later...he didn't.

I don't understand it. Sometimes I feel like he wants me to be all over him or something...
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selenetar
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Posted by aquarius_beauty
Leos want you to be all over him because it's his stupid ego.

This is an excerpt on the Leo 'King'... hopefully this will give you some insight.

"Despite his noble intention of attracting a quinsetessential queen, Leo's habit of putting prospective mates through the mill can make him a royal pain in the ass: He will purposefully run hot and cold, testing a woman's emotional stamina. For instance, he may expect her to be janey-on-the-spot, while he slacks off himself. Or he may toy with her affections, even when he's decidedly disinterested and has no intention of investing emotionally himself. It's in just such a case that Leo's sadistic streak can really surface, as he gets a sick thrill out of stringing girls along, especially those he'll label bimbettes, sometimes going as far as to let a woman know that she's not the only one vying for him. Call it a game of cat and mouse. In this way, he'll kick back and watch various female jockey for his affections as if taking in his favorite pastime. Leo in a more malicious mode will invite flirtation, or even mere interest, expressly for the opportunity to rebuff it, getting off on telegraphing his ennui via dull stares and a barely audible mm-hmmm......Leo man looks for a woman who deserves him; and who beter than one demanding to be deserved by him? Thus, he thinks: I have finally found my rightful mate."

^^^ Very accurate when it comes to the Leo in my life. Don't allow him to string you along. Put your foot down or walk away.


Thank you! I guess I'll ignore him for now on.
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Posted by aquarius_beauty
Leos want you to be all over him because it's his stupid ego.

This is an excerpt on the Leo 'King'... hopefully this will give you some insight.

"Despite his noble intention of attracting a quinsetessential queen, Leo's habit of putting prospective mates through the mill can make him a royal pain in the ass: He will purposefully run hot and cold, testing a woman's emotional stamina. For instance, he may expect her to be janey-on-the-spot, while he slacks off himself. Or he may toy with her affections, even when he's decidedly disinterested and has no intention of investing emotionally himself. It's in just such a case that Leo's sadistic streak can really surface, as he gets a sick thrill out of stringing girls along, especially those he'll label bimbettes, sometimes going as far as to let a woman know that she's not the only one vying for him. Call it a game of cat and mouse. In this way, he'll kick back and watch various female jockey for his affections as if taking in his favorite pastime. Leo in a more malicious mode will invite flirtation, or even mere interest, expressly for the opportunity to rebuff it, getting off on telegraphing his ennui via dull stares and a barely audible mm-hmmm......Leo man looks for a woman who deserves him; and who beter than one demanding to be deserved by him? Thus, he thinks: I have finally found my rightful mate."

^^^ Very accurate when it comes to the Leo in my life. Don't allow him to string you along. Put your foot down or walk away.

Well damn. I mean which sign guy isn't like that at some point tbh
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Yep... He is playing... Take it from a Sagittarian woman that has a Leo dad, and dated countless Leos, and is currently engaged to one.. For one they like to disappear around birthdays, and holidays, so that they do not have to buy you a gift.. I dated a Leo like that before... My fiance is different however, because he does not ever go MIA on me, and we are in constant communication... Also we spend all holidays together... If you are getting anything less than this, you are most definitely being played...
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Posted by Freetobe007
Avoid game-playing Leos; they do it for sport. They can make you feel like the win is you when really the win is their own boastful satisfaction. They just want to engulf you in the experience then greedily feast on your romantic reactions. I call these low-functioning Leos because they have not evolved and the very best they have to offer sucks.

When a Leo wants someone or something, they go after it immediately. We do not risk the chance of losing it or letting it become someone else's experience to enjoy. We make it a point to be in your presence, spend time with you, and make you feel special regularly. This Leo sounds like a player.
This. Exactly.

If a leo is playing a game w you, we don't want you. It's true.
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selenetar
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Posted by leowww
Nobody can play you without your permission.

If you feel played, cut him loose?

To me sounds like he's testing the waters, he wants to know what/who else you have going on? How important is he to you?

Don't we all want attention from the people we're interested in? Don't you want his?

As for the greedy bit and how we avoid holidays... Lmao... Pure comedy.



We were talking the other day and I mentioned wanting to see him. He said how I've never said anything like that to him before and asked how is he supposed to know this stuff when I never say it.

He went into his new thing of asking who's been at my place and so on. He also brought up him not trusting me. I asked him why. He said that I never responded to his text message over the weekend and how he texted the the night before and I didn't respond until the next afternoon.