Leo with Cancer guy ?!!? HELP

I'm a Leo and I seem to attract Cancers.. NOTHING BUT CANCERS !! All my guy friends are either Water or Earth signs but they never go further than a friendship.. except with CANCERS ! My dad, mom, and grandpa are all Cancers and maybe that's why everywhere I go I stumble upon a Cancer.

See, I don't know if this is me asking for help or if it's just a rant but either way thank you for clicking this post and reading what I have to say. Usually I tend to flow easily with Cancer guys, things are always smooth and romantic and I tend to be in the talking stage with Cancers a lot and I've only dated two. BUT THIS CANCER, HE'S CONFUSING ASF !

Soooo, my plug is a Cancer. Not going to lie, I thought he was an asshole. We have the same group of friends and he's always trying to be in charge, he doesn't like people bossing him around, likes to talk shit but gets super sensitive when someone talks back to him. Even our mutual friends say that sometimes they don't like being around him because he's moody and bossy. Obviously we kept things minimal because, well he's just my plug and nothing more but within the last month he's been driving me crazy ! David initiated an outside conversation first, immediately I liked him because I thought he was super cool and actually really chill. So all of the sudden he texted me and not to buy some from him but if I wanted to hang out. I didn't see why not. We went out to eat Raising Canes and we goofed off a lot, then we went to the park and smoked and talked about a lot of different things, I was really surprised to see that side of him because of the way he usually acts. He seemed like an interesting person, really soft, he laughed at silliest things, he made cringy jokes but I liked that.

After that he kinda turned cold on me, like it was strictly business 24/7. He only talked to me when the guys weren't around and really I didn't mind because beats me what he does. Then he started texting me in a flirty manner, I actually found it cute. We talked for a bit and started hanging out a bit more after school and I felt like we were pretty cool. Then one day he asked me if I could buy him lunch, I said sure. I bought him lunch and he was very kind and told me thank you. Then he asked me to give him a ride, I gave him a ride. He asked me to buy him a whole pack of rillos and I did. He showed me some clothes he liked and later I surprised him by buying him a few shirts and hoodies. Little by little, the more favors he asked the less nice he got. I don't know if that makes sense. I know he's using me. I know it deep down that he KNOWS he can get his way with me. I just don't know how to stop.. I like pleasing him and I'm not sure if it's a Leo thing but all of the sudden the more him and I have gotten closer the more I want to make him happy. I have this weird need to want to cater to him and I think he's taking advantage of it.

I've tried to stop because all we do is bicker now. He wants something and I tell him no and he acts like a baby and starts to get bossy and controlling. At first I would apologize and just let him have his way because I can't stand him being angry at me. Now I stand my ground and tell him that he can't push me around like that. He gets mad, he even told me he doesn't like it when I treat him the way he treats me. He literally said, "Andrea, quit your shit. Stop doing me like I do you. Wtf that shit's not cool" and I told him "Well stop trying to boss me around like you own me" and he replied with "I'm trying really hard to be nice to you Andrea. Stop acting like that" and I didn't reply to his messages after that. I've tried ignoring him but he gets upset when I do that, he acts like the victim and tells me that it's like I dont care anymore.. He doesn't like me buying my other friends stuff, for instance my friend Kieth wanted ice cream and I gave him a dollar and I could literally feel David staring at me. Few minutes later he texted me saying, "So you buying shit for other niggas now?". I was like WTF !

Every time I try to distance myself he gets upset but it's like now everything I do upsets him. Today I've been exceptionally moody because he's been driving me crazy. I have no idea what he wants. Does he want me, does he want my money, does he want to use me? Why does he ask me out to go on dates but then acts all hard ? UGH !! Today we were in lunch and him and friend Kieth were playing around and saying that theyre macho mans and dominate women and my friend Natalia and I laughed. Next thing you know he pushes me against the wall (I'm not trying to exaggerate but my friends witnessed it and they were even like "Chill out David") .I get triggered and then we are bickering in the cafeteria, he's telling me to stop bitching at him and to shut the fuck up and I'm telling him to not push me like that and to stop being disrespectful towards me. I FELT LIKE A MARRIED COUPLE ! I HATED IT SO MUCH !!!

I don't even know what the heck we are. I just needed to rant and maybe ya'll could help me. WTF do I do about this damn Cancer. Maybe he's just being a high school kid (we're seniors) or maybe he's living up to the bad aspects of his sign.

Me: August 6th

Him: June 30th