You aren't being respectful of this woman in anyway. Look at how you are speaking of her. Look at how you are treating her wishes. She doesn't want to have sex with you again. You keep pushing and pushing. Where's the respect? There is none.
I don't know many leos who put up with people who aren't respectful of them for long.
You aren't being respectful of this woman in anyway. Look at how you are speaking of her. Look at how you are treating her wishes. She doesn't want to have sex with you again. You keep pushing and pushing. Where's the respect? There is none.
I don't know many leos who put up with people who aren't respectful of them for long.
How do i keep pushing and pushing? like i said u need to read when i asked we were at dinner and having playfull convo and she kept hinting she wanted to have sex yet when i asked her she said we cant. I never disrespect her , well except the 4am call but i was drunk ass hell i made it up to her anyway.
Leo's and respect haahhahhahah now your guys are the fucking worst i know 2 many leos that stay in bad relationships. you guys love so hard it ridiculouse i mean damm a leo will stay knowing someone is cheating on them (i dare anyone to argue). You guys will forgive the love of your lives for just about anything short of murder.
please tell me that virgo28 is not expressing her yearning for leos that staay in bad relationships.....like virgos dont do the same thing?,hahahhahahahahahah, please ms perfectionist....... how is the lioness? is is she purring or you—?? hahahhhhahhahha u cannot even keep up with her...~~~~smooches~~~~~~..
VIRGOS ARENT AS BAS AS LEOS WHEN IN COMES TO TROUBLE IN PARADISE. IM SORRY CHOCOLATE I KNOW 2 MANY LEOS THAT STAY IN BAD SITUATIONS IT'S LIKE U GUYS CANT LOOK PAST LOVE. I DONT KNOW HOW THE LIONESS IS DOING, I HAVENT CALLED HER. SHE'S NOT WORRIED ABOUT ME AND I'M CHILLING NOT WORRYING ABOUT HER. HOW CANT I KEEP UP WITH HER?
did u keep her scent on you? i think so.....catnip wont even bring her back..
U REALLY THINK I CANT GET HER IF I WANT HER WOW. REMEMBER HOW I TOLD U I COULD HAVE F**KED HER 2 YEARS AGO AND I DIDNT, OR WHEN I TOLD U EVERYTIME I SAW HER I TOLD HER I WAS GONNA CALL HER SO WE CAN CHILL I DIDNT. IF U ASK ME I THINK THE LEO IS JUST PLAYING GAMES AFTER SHE GOT WHAT SHE WANTED. NO ONE REALLY TURNS HER DOWN AND THE FACT THAT I NEVER GAVE A F**K MADE HER PU**Y WET.
D...............A....................R................E...................bring it baby? and it better be hot or your words wont meant butter, so i will step back and see what you bring to the table as a fresh youngster that got her pu**y snapped/cracked&popped up by a lioness...
snack packs!!!
MY PUSSY HAS NEVER BEEN POP NO CRACKED BUT SHE DID RIDE THE SHYT OUT MY DICK. SHE BROUGHT SOMETHING DIFF TO THE TABLE SO I WAS SLIGHTLY INTREGED. WHY DO I NEED TO BRING IT CHOCOLATE WE DONT ARGUE SWEETIE, U OFFER GOOD ADVICE AND I TRY TO FOLLOW.
virgo, those are the leos that you know so dont assume ALL leos stay in bad relationships,because personally for me as soon as i smell that something isnt right i investigate...gather up my info and hit the dusty trails. Me a firm believer in not wasting my time on worthless people..... i could have used that energy for something of more substance and value.
OK I RETRACT SOME LEOS
No, i know you cannot get her....unless she wantts you to have her.....i keep telling you its about when she's ready....some leos like to control moreso than others and she is a full blown control freak.
YEP SHE IS
So now you agree that she is playing with your mind.....she's a selfish person that got her rock off...explored you and has moved on. No one turns her down>>>see she is used to getting her way and you also fell into her trap....it's hard to escape from the web that she has you in? YEA IT TOOK 2 YEARS FOR HER TO GET HER WAY DOE
And the fact that i never gave a treetrunk made her kitty wet....How do u figure you never gave a butter, remember your on the leo board seeking info on how to get back close again. And how does this make her wett...*scratches balls* im confused
NO I WAS TALKING ABOUT FOR 2 YEARS I DIDNT LET HER GET HER WAY
Well then your Golden Dick has been......snapped/cracked&popped...excuse me for saying kitty..
IT WAS GOOD BUT NOT WORTH OUR FRIENDSHIP THE MORE I REFLECT ON IT THE MORE I WISHED I NEVER SLEPT WITH HER. I WISHED I NEVER TOLD HER IT WAS GOOD I SHOULD HAVE DONE LIEK THE LAST GIRL HIT AND MOVED IT. YOU REALLY CANT BE FRIENDS WITH SOMEONE YOU HAD SEX WITH SHYT GETS 2 WERID. WE SHOULDNT HAVE NEVER CROSSED THAT LINE NOW EVERYTHING IS F*CKED UP.
ANd thank you for not contacting her....
IM HOLDING BACK BUT I MAY CONTACT HER IN A WEEK OR SO TO SEE HOW SHE'S DOING. IF SHE DOESNT ANSWER OR CALL BACK WELL I GUESS OUR FRIENDSHIP IS OVER. I MUST ACT LIKE A VIRGO AND PRETEND SHE NEVER EXISTED (SORRY GOTTA BE A BYTCH NOW).
in my life bull dykes have allways clashed with me,i get along fine with the nice kind that have been with a woman here and there before,but the tough guy ones allways just hated me,and they bother the butter out of me too,there atitudes seem to suck,and there somethig about them thats just wiered,its some kind of fake tough guy thing,like this cheap macho thing,it's just not real to me.and they often have the worst style and just hopelessly treetrunked in the head.there stupid ball caps and treetrunked up hair the flannel shirts the chain wallets.
WRONG PERSON SWEETHEART I DONT WEAR SHYT LIKE THAT, IM A SEXY CHOCOLATE DOMINATE FEMALE LESBIAN WITH DREADS AND AN EXCELLENT SENSE OF style . IF IM NOT IN PRADA, GUCCI THEN I ROCK MY JACK PURCELLS,PUMAS ADIDAS, COLE HANN, SUPAS, CREATIVES RECS AND MORE.
I DONT TRY TO BE MACHO BUT YOU CAME AT ME WRONG SO I GAVE U WHAT U GAVE ME. DID U EVER THINK THAT MAYBE IF U SHUT YOUR MOUTH OR LEARN HOW TO TALK TO PEOPLE YOU MIGHT GET ALONG BETTER WITH CERTAIN GROUPS.
i see one now in my head got a mullet and every thing,,,trying to scratch her nuts but theres none there,that would piss me of too.
WHERE ARE U FROM?
i geuse it realy is just there penis envy that makes them hard to get along with,well that and i am sort of a marker too,but most people are in one way or another,,,,,must be the penis envy,,
I HAVE THE BEST OF BOTH WORLDS WHY WOULD I ENVY PENIS WHEN I COULD BUY IT!
and i am enviuos of them to,with there chick partys nothing butt titts and puzzy everywhere,they all get wasted and naked and have group sex and butter and just going at it treetrunking and sucking each other,freaking vibrators every where like 3 chicks going to town on one girl ,AAAAAAAAAAAAAAaaaaaaaaaaa god i think i want to be a bull dyke too.naa i'd rather stand to take a piss,and periods have to suck,HA HA
THIS IS ONLY IN YOUR HEAD STOP WATCHING CINEMAX ON THE LATE NIGHT.
BECAUSE YOUR LAME AND U REALIZE YOUR NOT GETTING ANYWHERE WITH ME.
cold snapple
lol we cut our partners a lot of slack when we are in love but nce they cheat they are as important as dirt to me , i can cut it off like that.
WELL THE ONES I KNOW ARE CRAZY THEY ARE SO DEEP IN LOVE THAT THEY CONTINUE TO LET THE PERSON HOLD SO MUCH POWER OVER THEM. THIS IS INCLUDING THE PERSON I SLEPT WITH HER EX CHEATED 3 TIMES. TILL THIS SAY SHE CONTINUES TO SAY IF SHE GETS HER ACT TOGEATHER THEY COULD POSSIBLY GET BACK WITH EACH OTHER.
Yeh, so what were you thinking when u slept with her, that you were going to be different than the other girls? It's not u virgo, its her. She just wants to have fun and move around...no ties. Is she afraid of commitment? I know you guys are young. Does she mess around with alot of women?
I WASNT THINKING ABOUT SHYT BEFORE WE SLEPT TOGEATHER BECAUSE IT HAPPEN OUT OF NOWHERE. SHE'S NO AFRAID OF COMMITMENT I TOLD U THAT SHE IS HURT RIGHT NOW BECAUSE OF HER LAST RELATIONSHIP AND SHE'S GETTING EMOTIONAL SUPPORT FROM THE GIRL SHE'S TALKING TO NOW. WHO KNOWS WHAT'S RUNNING THROUGH HER MIND.
SHE DOESNT MESS AROUND WITH ALOT OF FEMALES
Rather you would have told her it was good or not she would have still knew that her kitty is on fire, she know what she is capable of and she knows how to play the game..her EGO is hug, because this is what she is used to getting her way all the time.
YEP U MAYBE RIGHT
Virgo....DO NOT CONTACT HER...im telling you....DO NOT give in. DONT allow for her to have so much control over you, because you are hurting more than her. Can you do it...hahahhaa!, please tell me that you can. STEP AWAY from her because she's is TOXIC!
YEA IM DONE STRESSING I'LL JUST TAKE THE L AND LEARN MY LESSON NOT TO SLEEP WITH A FRIEND AGAIN.
You rocky dreads virgo?...same here baby girl, luv them to death>>nothing like natural hair....mmmmmm good and healthy
HELL YEAH I BEEN GROWING MINE FOR 2 YEARS NOW BUT I MISS MY SHORT CUT, GIRLS USE TO GO CRAZY FOR THE WAVES. HOW LONG U BEEN GROWING YOURS?
now the other thing i wonder where i would want to go with you?
like if somehow i could get you to change your ways and get you to like me and get you on my dick.if that were the case i geuse i have been going at it all wrong from the start by isulting you,so thats over.damn
WACK
or maybe i had it all wrong about you,and you are realy a great persom,and i am back tracking now to some how redeem myself,hoping that we can be buddys on this forum at least.no thats not it eather,and this post of mine is sort of shaping up to be a smug reply anyway so i'm treetrunking up those chanaces even more.
GREAT SARCASM
PEOPLE THAT USE ALL OF THESE DAMN CAPS ARE KIND OF A PAIN IN THE ASS ANYWAY SO, I'M SURE IM NOT ROLLING OVER FOR YOU.
if u were smart you would realize everytime i type in caps it's to differentiat a users comment from my responds (see how im not using caps now it's to let anyone who reads this know that this is me and not uuuuuuuuuuuu).
I don't know what it is,i think i was just not having any more fun battling someone with no humor or wit.and it was draging on.i'm kind of sucked into these forums now like everyone else,and i just like to get my 2 cents in here and there.
I HAVE A GREAT SENSE OF HUMOR BUT LIKE I SAID BEFORE U CAME AT ME WRONG YOU DONT START JUDGING AND EXPECT ME TO THINK THAT WAS ALL FUN AND GAMES COME ON NOW BE REAL.
So no it's not about you,
NO IT ABOUT ANYONE IN THE PAST, PRESENT OR FURTURE WHO MAYBE HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM AS ME HENCH THE TITLE OF THE THREAD LEOS AND ONE NIGHT STANDS. THIS THREAD MAY HELP SOMEONE OUT LATER JUST LIKE PAST THREADS HAVE HELPED ME OUT.
i was wrong about a few things,but one thing is a fact,, your in the same boat the rest of us are when your not treetrunkig who you want to treetrunk,try to remeber that sometimes there is more to being likeable than the size of your rubber dick.
NOW THAT'S FUNNY YOU SHOULD HAVE STARTED OUT WITH THAT SENSE OF HUMOR I KNEW U WERENT ALL BAD.
Yes but she isn't in love with you at all and it doesn't sound like she really wants much to do with you. She said your friendship was fine, you pushed and well now it isn't. I think a little reflection on YOUR situation would do you a world of good.
* chocolate i have other people im talking to but she just really fucked me up because we were friends i guess everything is over so hey what can i do.
If this is true, I wouldn't worry about it at all. Be like the cat who fell of the fence and pretended no one saw. Just be normal. Eventually, things will go back to normal.
AND
* * i was wrong about a few things,but one thing is a fact,, your in the same boat the rest of us are when your not fuckig who you want to fuck,try to remeber that sometimes there is more to being likeable than the size of your rubber dick.
Because that is what you are talking about. You are going on about how Leos behave in love. It is irrelevant because that isn't the situation you are in.
Seriously, I think if you just give it a couple of months and act normal, your relationship/friendship will repair itself. Most people know sex sometimes happens. It doesn't have to be a big deal. Just breathe and let time do the fixin'.
chocolate i have other people im talking to but she just really treetrunked me up because we were friends i guess everything is over so hey what can i do.
THIS SITUATION F**KED ME UP BECAUSE I'VE SHARED SOME THINGS WITH HER NO ONE ELSE KNOWS ABOUT. IF U KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT VIRGOS ONCE WE BOND WITH SOMEONE IT HARD NOT TO KEEP ANALYZING WHERE THING WENT WRONG.
If this is true, I wouldn't worry about it at all. Be like the cat who fell of the fence and pretended no one saw. Just be normal. Eventually, things will go back to normal.
I HOPE SO
AND
* * i was wrong about a few things,but one thing is a fact,, your in the same boat the rest of us are when your not treetrunkig who you want to treetrunk,try to remeber that sometimes there is more to being likeable than the size of your rubber dick.
Seriously, if she was someone you could trust THAT much, that you shared your inner stuff with, why wouldn't she be that trust worthy now? I doubt very much that she hates you or even dislikes you. She is probably wanting a cooling off period.
You were a bit freaked out. You said you weren't but you were so she is just giving you time to unfreak yourself out. Not a biggie.
She'll reappear eventually and don't ever bring it up again. Just act normal and everything will work itself out.
Virgo...if it helps at all: little sparrow is right. I ended up fooling around with a very good fiend (of 20 years)...extremely awkward after and I was sad it may have affected our freindship.
I let things simmer for a bit, did not talk as much..needed space. Distanced myself and now things are back to normal and we actually laugh about it now.
I think you are pushing her too hard right now. She may feel awkward and you are not helping the situation and she has no time to come to terms with it.
PS...that was about 10 years ago and took 6 months of backing away to give you an idea of time frame...friendship back to normal...it can get back to normal if you let it.
IN YOUR MIND RIGHT? SORRY I DONT TAKE DISRESPECT BUT IF THAT WHAT U LIKE HEY I CANT FAULT YOU FOR THAT.
Seriously, if she was someone you could trust THAT much, that you shared your inner stuff with, why wouldn't she be that trust worthy now? I doubt very much that she hates you or even dislikes you. She is probably wanting a cooling off period.
WE HAVE A BOND LIKE THAT WE CAN TALK TO EACH OTHER ABOUT ANYTHING, THIS IS SOMETHING I WILL DEFEND CAUSE EVEN SHE WOULD TELL U THAT. I KNOW SOME SHYT ABOUT HER ALSO THAT NO MANY IF ANY AT ALL KNOWS.
PS...that was about 10 years ago and took 6 months of backing away to give you an idea of time frame...friendship back to normal...it can get back to normal if you let it.
I just think you want way more.
DAMM THAT'S CRAZY BUT WHEN I DONT HAVE CONTROL IT REALLY DO SOMETHING TO MY MIND. IM A VIRGO SO IM USE TO PEOPLE REACTING A CERTAIN WAY AND WHEN SHYT DOESNT GO THE WAY ITS SUPPOSE TO IT KINDA THROWS ME OFF. EVERYTIME I'VE HAD A 1 NIGHT STAND IT TURNS INTO MORE EITHER MORE SEX OR SOME KINDA RELATIONSHIP. THE FACT THAT THEIR IS NOTHING AFTER IT JUST F**KED MY HEAD UP SERIOUSLY.
EVEN DOE I WAS LISTENING TO THE ADVICE ON THE BOARD FOR THE MOST PART I WAS STILL THINKING MAYBE SHE LIKED ME AND REALIZE THAT IF SHE HUNG AROUND ME 2 MUCH SHYT MIGHT START GETTING HEAVY AND SHE ISNT IN THE MOOD FOR THAT.
IM NOT THAT FOOLISH ANYMORE, I CANT SAY I DONT CARE ANYMORE EITHER CAUSE THAT WOULD BE A LIE. I GUESS TIME WILL HEAL ALL.
I didn't think it was disrespectful at all. If anything, he was a little self-defacing and poking fun at himself and everyone else. We post on an astrology board. That in and of itself is absurd. *shrug*
As for the rest, I actually think the opposite is true. I think she was more worried that you would get more attached and want more than she was willing to give.
But if you have that sort of friendship, seriously, it will all come out in the wash. You may not have a heart romantic love connection but you DO have a good friendship. Just will take a few months for things to simmer down again.
Virgo28, I understand how you are feeling, it was one way or the other in your head witht his girl (more sex or a relationship)...now your at a crossroads and your head is spinning (because you like her and she is not giving you the 2 options you are use to.
You are not a man, you cannot seperate love and sex. You became intimately involved one night with a close friend, (I don't consider that a ONS..normally done w/ those you really don't know, I consider that an oooopsie)..you were already attracted to her as you shared some details over the years. Sex made that bond tighter yet SHE does not feel that way right now.
She is wierded out...leave her be FOR NOW. You will end up PUSHING her further until there is no way to rebound on the friendship level. Do you want that? Your ego is hurt, it happens to all of us. LET HER BE FOR NOW, let her think.
Go on with your bad azz self...you obviously have techniques that are valuable and others would appreciate (LMAO!). Perhaps you can teach a coarse to men about how to "satisfy your woman told by the other side" :-)
* You will end up PUSHING her further until there is no way to rebound on the friendship level. Do you want that? Your ego is hurt, it happens to all of us. LET HER BE FOR NOW, let her think
Yeah. It is like a knot. The more you try to fix it, the worse the knot gets. I've been there. Just stop trying to fix it. It will fix itself. 🙂
Hey chiquita LS! Miss ya! Ya..he popped back in after a year via email on Friday so was checking my old Leo post to remember what happened..ha! kizzzzz
Virgo28, I understand how you are feeling, it was one way or the other in your head witht his girl (more sex or a relationship)...now your at a crossroads and your head is spinning (because you like her and she is not giving you the 2 options you are use to.
EXACTLY
You are not a man, you cannot seperate love and sex. You became intimately involved one night with a close friend, (I don't consider that a ONS..normally done w/ those you really don't know, I consider that an oooopsie)..you were already attracted to her as you shared some details over the years. Sex made that bond tighter yet SHE does not feel that way right now.
PROBABLY NEVER WILL
She is wierded out...leave her be FOR NOW. You will end up PUSHING her further until there is no way to rebound on the friendship level. Do you want that? Your ego is hurt, it happens to all of us. LET HER BE FOR NOW, let her think.
MY EGO IS PISSED OFF NOT HURT I FEEL LIKE I WASTED MY TIME.
Go on with your bad azz self...you obviously have techniques that are valuable and others would appreciate (LMAO!). Perhaps you can teach a coarse to men about how to "satisfy your woman told by the other side" :-)
LMAO
LS * You will end up PUSHING her further until there is no way to rebound on the friendship level. Do you want that? Your ego is hurt, it happens to all of us. LET HER BE FOR NOW, let her think
Yeah. It is like a knot. The more you try to fix it, the worse the knot gets. I've been there. Just stop trying to fix it. It will fix itself
YOUR RIGHT SHYT IS FUCKING ME UP FOR REAL I HATE WHEN I DONT HAVE A DIRECT ANSWER IT FUCKS WITH MY MIND.
Waste your time? You had no intentions of having sex with her in the first place!!!...it just "happend" So what do you mean wasted your time? With the friendship? C'mon!
OK...you are PISSED. ALL GOOD, your allowed. Because she has not reciprocated. But you put it UPON yourself. That third road has yet to be determined since "sex or relationship" did not happen...but there are many roads you have not looked into as you are sooooo wound up with blinders on~ Virgo trait?!
STOP IT....Calm down. You will make it MUCH WORSE than it has to be.
I never pay attention to day to day horoscope but this was mine today.
Virgo: you have GOT to let things go today, you cant always control the situation and that fine. really!
damm even the universe is telling me to chill out lmao.
i havent made any moves and i not going to either it's be a min since i contacted her well since we went out i never called. I was suppose to call the following monday so she can come over but i never called because i've been working overtime. oh wellllllllllllll
CANCERBUDDY, selfish men (and women) can be found all over the zodiac.
i've never had an issue with a leo man. doesn't mean there aren't self-serving ones out there, but no point in painting them all with the same brush. it's unfair to the decent ones.
well it's been almost a month and this girl still hasnt spoken to me. I take it as the friendship is over and basically everything is over. i havent called and neither has she, i took the boards advice and stayed away it got me nowhere but im also not looking foolish either so i guess it's a win loose situation.
I don't know many leos who put up with people who aren't respectful of them for long.