Lioness Responds to Note - Am I Forgiven?

Ok, I'll admit I've been going bonkers in the last 2-3 days!! When I didn't hear from lioness last night or this morning, I felt that was that, but she texted today!!!
convo:
her: hey
me: hey!
her: got your note
me: yeah? good!
her: thx for apologizing
me: I meant it. EVERY word.
(few minutes past of nothing)
me: sooo, what's on your mind
her: somebody's BD is coming up!
me: who?
her: silly man
her: got plans?
me: nope
(few minutes of nothing)
her: your favorite comedian is in town
me: yeah, who?
her: (names comedian)
me: wow, for real? where?
her: (names location)
me: til when?
her: end of wknd
me: I gotta get me some ticks!
her: can't. sold out
me: damn!
(few minutes of nothing)
her: I got 2 though, wanna come with?
me: you gotta ask? Hell yeah!!
her: 🙂
(nothing for a few mins)
me: how u want 2 meet up
her: tickets are for sat - last show
me: awesome BD present!!
her: 😄
(nothing for a few mins)
me: soooo...how u want 2 meet up??
(nothing for a few mins)
me: we can meet there or whatever
her: I gotta go in first - deadline
me: traffic & parking gonna be bad as hell - game day too!
her: yeah, I know
(nothing for a few mins)
me: want me 2 pick u up?
(nothing for a few mins)
me: - or we can try 2 meet up- whatever u want
her: probably better if we go together since I'll be at work with traffic and all
Me: np. what time
Her: not sure yet, latest 5ish
Me: ok let me know if earlier
Her: ok. gotta go. ttyl

Is this just a birthday thing or has she forgiven me??
What should I definitely NOT do to keep this communication open with her?
Is she expecting more apologies or what??

Ssupes & MoonshineLeo - apparently your advice was on target! Any thoughts?

If you want to catch up on the shit I did or just give me more shit about it, read:
(https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/cancer/help-get-leo-female-to-see-cancer-male-5568998/)

I'm not either of them, but in my Leo girl opinion I think she's forgiven you. Beware though; you're on probation, so make sure you treat her right, and don't overdo it.

You sound so happy. That's endearing.

Posted by sultrykitty
I'm not either of them, but in my Leo girl opinion I think she's forgiven you. Beware though; you're on probation, so make sure you treat her right, and don't overdo it.

You sound so happy. That's endearing.

Thx for responding!!! Felt like I wasn't going to get any input from you Leos - no how protective yall are of your own. I'll do right by her - swear. She made the decision to contact, I just want to give her what she needs - that's all.

I think she's forgiven me too, but she's was different this time around, so not sure what's going on in that pretty little head of hers. She just seem hesitant in the texts - unsure - like she's still deciding or something - atleast that's what I felt.

She didn't text any more yesterday. Never thought I would get another chance. She had to buy those ticks a while back I found out - cause that show been sold out for weeks. Not sure if she bought them initially with me in mind or not. Yall just don't know what a big deal this is! Just feel like I got ONE shot at this - ONE. Scared of fucking it up!

Should I text her today - or let her initiate any contact? Don't want to push her, but don't want to let her down if she's expecting something from me.

Like I said, you're on probation, she's hesitant because she's been hurt by you and once bitten, twice shy. My suggestion would be to be your best self. Don't be fake, she'll know in a heartbeat if you're trying too hard. Just be you.

If you want to contact her, do. But don't apologize, just say hello or tell her you're thinking about her and then let her respond. She will let you know where her heart is once she trusts that it's safe to do so.

Posted by sultrykitty
Like I said, you're on probation, she's hesitant because she's been hurt by you and once bitten, twice shy. My suggestion would be to be your best self. Don't be fake, she'll know in a heartbeat if you're trying too hard. Just be you.

If you want to contact her, do. But don't apologize, just say hello or tell her you're thinking about her and then let her respond. She will let you know where her heart is once she trusts that it's safe to do so.

Gotcha!

Posted by Ssupes
We forgive pretty easy. What's it been? Only a few days now? Just chill and keep it fun. In a month, she won't think back on it at all. Peaches and cream

Trying man - 2 more days before I get to see her! I know I came across psycho at first, but really I'm cool. It had been a yr at that point - then hearing about scorpio sent me a little wacko. Glad I found this site - else I might be in jail right about now! LOL!

Such a happily infectious thread.

🙂

Posted by sultrykitty
...You sound so happy...

What gave it away? The big grin on my face or the fact that I'm bouncing off the walls inside 😄

Lioness seemed so undecided in her texts yesterday - so didn't bother her today - I feel like she still needs some space to work out her own feelings and thoughts.

For those interested...
Words can't describe how I felt when I first laid eyes on her! Absolutely Breathtaking! A slow-motion moment! Couldn't take my eyes off of her! Almost tapped a car or two sneaking peeks! HAHA

Lioness was looking fierce and sexy as hell so you know I got out of that car to meet her and reached for that hand and she let me 😄 No, I didn't let it go the whole damn night either! Wanted to do more than that, don't know how I managed not to!

Keeping this short because there's something more important I'll put in a new post. Anything more would only describe how I felt at various times through the night. Not important right now. I'll just say that it was the best bd of my life so far and I owe it ALL to my lioness! The show was rocking and WE had a great time! The drive back was all laughs as we re-lived the funniest parts of the show!

I know doubters and haters are probably thinking...'it won't last and she will regret taking him back. Once a cheater always a cheater' blah blah blah. To that I say, time tells all.

Thx to anyone who gave input - positive or otherwise.
Peace out.

yayyy!!! i tried to log back on but it was down glad u had a good time

So glad to hear! We're not that intimidating, are we? Treat us sweetly and you'll get it and more back. :-)

Please link us to your new post.

And not all people who cheat are "cheaters". Every case is different.

@MoonshineLeo, np, just posted today, so you didn't miss anything🙂
@sultrykitty, not sure how to link you all to the new post. I'm posting it to the leo group. Is that what you mean? Since I'm a cancer, am I suppose to post to the cancer group instead/also? Sorry still new and figuring out the rules.

Just copy/paste the thread here, or not, now that you told us where it is. 😉

@sultrykitty - ok here's the link: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/what-have-i-done-to-my-lioness-long-sorry-5576010/

hopes it works.

Well, I tried- - it's not working. Don't know what I did wrong.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/what-have-i-done-to-my-lioness-long-sorry-5576010/

figured it out, but by now you've already found it. Damn computers!

Very sweet. I hope that the two of you are able to work through this and become closer. You clearly love her.

Posted by sultrykitty
Very sweet. I hope that the two of you are able to work through this and become closer. You clearly love her.

I was nervous afterwards because I knew I pushed her emotionally very hard. Usually after something like that, she pulls back for a day or two, so I didn't expect to hear from her today. But she texted me early morning and thanked me and said she loves how I understand her. She said she hates it when I pull things out of her but liked that I knew how. I told her I didn't want her to feel like I didn't trust her or I was accusing her of anything. She said she did feel that way at first, but our talks at the end made her feel differently . I told her I was glad it was out of the way and she said *me too*. I don't know, I feel we will be ok now.