Need some insight about Leo male.

I’m a Pisces in a relationship with a Leo male. We have known each other for about 8 years now. He moved away and came back into my life as a partner. We have been seeing each other for 7 months now and moved in together.

Since we have been friends I know all the relationships he has been in. And he was hurt by his previous relationships. He moved to Cali to be with me.

When our relationship is good, it’s so good. But when it’s bad, it’s really damaging.

He gets frustrated a lot and has some anger issues. But he has been working on it.

We recently had a huge fight and decided that we both needed space. We both agreed that he and I needed to work on ourselves. We still talk/text daily. He said he isn’t motivated and I feel that he has been depressed for a while even before we started our relationship.

He wants to be loved but doesn’t know how to accept love. And this is very confusing for me. He says one thing but does another. Usually when he is upset he just pushes me away or would yell and just say the nastiest things. But after cooling off he will applogize.

Is it best just to let this go? And go out seperate ways? Or will there be a point where we can meet in the middle?

Just really need some insight. Thank you for looking at this post.

It sounds like he still wants to make it work. He probably just needs some time and space to gather himself and figure out his next move. If you both are willing to make it work then i wouldn’t suggest moving on or giving up.

Sounds like he's not emotionally ready for this relationship. Yes you've known each other for 8 years, but that's not the same as knowing each other romantically for 8 years. Moving in together after having only dating for 7 months was a bit too soon.

Likewise, did he only move to California to be with you or did he have other goals in mind? Men, especially Leo men, need to have our own purpose in life outside of our relationships. If we're not happy with our lives, our relationships will suffer as a result. This is because our libido and sense of self is very much tied into our purpose.

So when the Leo says that he's not motivated, that's no small thing. It's more than likely the source of his depression. Additionally if the Leo's last breakup was right before your relationship, he may have not had enough time to properly get over his ex. So moving in together only exasperated his emotional issues.

The Leo needs to figure out what motivates him first and foremost. The relationship alone will not be enough to hold things together. You may need to give each other space so that the Leo can make decisions without feeling tied down by the relationship.