Older Aries Male/Younger Leo Female

Any feedback for this combo would greatly be appreciated.
I am 36 and she is 21.
Aloha & Mahalo,
Mauicountry

aloha & mahalo for your feedback. Sounds possitive as I felt from the beginning.
just needed some reassurance and confirmation in order to continue my path.
any advice on attracting her. I feel I have been on the right path by being elusive and letting her make the first move. I heard Leos do not like when men are aggressive. I figure I would trigger her curiosity by being elusive.
I am a filmmaker and wish to include her in my projects and am beginning to feel a bit impatient but I also realize that patience & persistence is key.

Maui (I love your name btw)

I happen to like aggressive men. I tend to have more respect for someone who knows what he wants and will go after it. The appearance of "sitting on the fence" to me, would give the impression that you are not interested. Do you flirt with her? You can usually tell by the response you get from just flirting, with anyone.

aloha purrrrrrrr,

mahalo for the feedback.
I agree. I always get what I am sure I want or need.
It's just that women can be so beautiful and sometimes too young.
As in this case, I feel that women are just learning the power they have at 21
when they seem to meet more of a "man" than just boys.
It's just that most men are boys. Whatever.

The only thing that made me wait a bit was her age and that's all I need is
reassurance that the age difference is OK.
Me-36
Her-21

Well. enough talk anyways. Too much of it is not good.

Aloha & Mahalo for your support.
This site rocks.
As does my screenname and home.
Mauicountry

Age difference? Nevermind that! It's a matter of preference -- I know some ladies my age would not be interested in an older male... But others may be looking for someone they can learn from. & Someone who they can really respect and trust. I'm 20. I once had a real serious interest in a 38 year old but it wasn't going to work out as we met 2 weeks before he moved across the country. I also questioned the age thing - but we were quite compatible on all levels. I think age is irrelevant. Chances are at the age of 21 she's looking for a more serious partner but who knows? I guess you won't until you dig in, hmm?? Do you talk with her about film? Have you suggested going out for dinner/coffee .. maybe a visit to an art museum, the cinema, or live production? If she's interested she'll bite, unless of course she's very shy/reserved, or involved with another person.

Well good luck! : )

Aloha Frokenvin,

Mahalo for your feedback. I decided to take action.
It was a business angle because my projects lie closer to my heart than someone I don't even know. I figure with the time that entails in completing projects, we will be able to get to know each other and become friends first. What do you guys think? I figure friendship is always better at the beginning, even though I am dying to express myself. Anyways. We met for lunch to start the meetings/relationship. She is amazing and is exactly what I've been looking for both professionally and personally. Although, its only the first time we have met, we seem to have a lot in common. Fire Signs, ya. She is a Rat & I am a Dog as far as chinese asrtology goes. I have always had this tricky possition mixing business with pleasure but I think its been difficult to decide at what point in our relationship I should let her know my true feelings. I guess if the opportunity arises I will know and will have to seize the moment. I 've never been with another fire sign, she seems to be as intense and passionate as I am, which is a bit rare. Anyways....Any feedback that anybody can give is greatly appreciated.

Aloha & Mahalo,

Mauicountry

Maui,

Friends first is always the best idea. Especially if you want more out of someone than just sex. I've never been with a man that much older than me, or an aries for that matter so I can't advise there. I started dating my boyfriend ( that word doesn't do him justice🙂 ) after being best friends with him for about a year. I agree with your plan to move slowly. Keep us updated.

Aloha Purrr,

Mahalo for the support....hmm.
She is really interested in my projects. She will be my cover girl.
Sounds crazy but true. I've been looking endlessly for the right person to
be there through it all the fun. But business always screws things up.
We have yet to even speak of money. we are so connected that money is no concern.
Regardless, I want to let it go slow because she has a big crew and I don't want to step on any toes but....what aries wants, aries gets....hmhmhm hehehe.
Now, how do I not wait too long......that's the question.
When should I tell her how I feel, at the beginning (NOW) or wait and let friendship take precedence. Hmmmmmmmm........
Will keep you posted.
Might need lioness advice.
Please do not let me wait too long.

Aloha & Mahalo,
mauicountry

Hi Maui,

I went back an re-read all your posts. You mentioned only having lunch with her in connection with your work. Any attempt at maybe having dinner/drinks outside of work? Get to know her better and make sure your feelings are what they are. That might be best before telling her you have feelings for her. In my experience, when someone I haven't known very long expresses feelings, I question the sincerity.

Take the initiative and ask her out aside from work. Yes, let the friendship take precedence. Unless of course she gets you drunk and ravishes you, well then, you can't say no to that can you?? lol (joking)

....We're usually not ones to wait for the man to make the move if we want him badly.....

I am no stranger to this either. Maybe all you have to do is wait and let her come to you . . .

aloha & mahalo for all the feedback.
I really do appreciate the support and advice.
It seems we are all on the same page. I figure if its meant to be then all I really have to do is be my amazing real self and she will let me know.
Plain & simple as all aries and leos are.

She is amazing. not to mention the most beautiful woman I have ever seen.
And I am not just saying that. She stops people in their tracks.

But she seems to be very sincere and so right on about everything I am all about.

Will just play by ear and let it all out when the time is obvious.

No. Haven't asked her out on a friendly. too soon. Will do when feels right.

Right now, I am letting her come to her own decisions as far as personal relationship.

We connect on deeper levels than most of her people. I know if she is worth it then she will notice the difference and appreciate me for the real man that I am.

Will keep you guys posted.

Aloha & Mahalo,

Mauicountry

Aloha....
well. I think its going well. We have begun a relationship meaning she really likes my projects and wants to be involved. she will be basically, my poster girl. But I hit a snag. When I interview talent, I have them fill out a questionaire. The most important question, she answered "single". In my past industry experiences, boyfriends just get in the way. Meaning, they never are quite comfortable that I spend a lot of time with their girlfriend. My intentions are honorable and I will utilize her for the projects no matter which way it goes but it turns out she has a fledgling relationship with a mutual friend. He is already showing signs of insecurity with his negative responses.
I am not worried cuz she will make the final decision. and if she is who I think she is, she will decide appropriately.

I went through this once before, with my only other serious relationship. At the time, she also had a boyfriend and later chose wisely. Me.

Hopefully, by keeping it honorable. You can't loose....right?

anyways, just needed to vent to you guys.

aloha & mahalo for any feedback.

mauicountry

Maui,

Are you a little jealous too? If not, ignore his insecurities, they are her problem. Something any man will have to deal with when dating someone in the "filming" industry, I figure.

What is it exactly are you filming? (nosy question you don't have to answer but would be cool if you did)

aloha purrrr,

mahalo for the feedback.
No, I am not jealous just anxious. If its meant to be, its meant to be...right.
I am leaving for an adventure for the entire month of may.
Should I let her know what I really feel just before I leave so she has a month to dwell or should I wait and see?
I ran into her mom and she filled me in on some stuff about how the other guy is feeling a bit negative about the whole thing. The mom is very possitive about it all and encouraging her daughter to stick to it.
My life would be so grand if I got together with her. The inspiration that I already recieve from her is incredible that if we were to get together, I can't imagine the inspiration I would feel then.

Mahalo for letting vent my thoughts. it means so much to me.

Aloha & Mahalo,

mauicountry

Hey Mauicountry,

Do you realize that her b-friend has every right to be jealous and negative...I mean, you really are trying to steal his g-friend :-)

...Should I let her know what I really feel just before I leave so she has a month to dwell or should I wait and see?....

If she has a boyfriend and you haven't taken her out on a personal level (drinks, dinner) Telling her how you feel is a bad idea, I think so anyway. But an aries is gonna do what an aries is gonna do, lol . .

Also, if you really care about her, you would let her make her own decisions without your influence. You telling her how you feel is only manipulation to get her to on the same page as you.

aloha purrr,

ummm...not jealous just anxious. I can feel that this right in more ways than one.
I just have to be patient and let it play out. I will be taking off on an adventure of a lifetime. and will be gone for most of May. I will leave her to her thoughts. She does show great enthusiasm, which is great and is looking forward to my return. Which is good. Will keep you posted when I get back.

aloha & mahalo for your support.

mauicountry

Aloha Everyone,

I am back from my trip. It was amazing.
I am so ready to get back to business at hand including my Lioness.

Well, turns out that when I got back, my Lioness has already gotten rid of the boyfriend. I am not surprised. I have not made contact with her yet but will this week.
She is a tough one to keep down by most guys that have tried. I understand cuz she is a
true force to be recond with. Just the way I like them. She's only had boys try to tie her down. No men have tried.....yet.

Leos are very ambitious people with strong focus on their future. Their confidence almost outweighs that of an Aries. They seem to get bored with life as quick as an Aries as well. I only wonder if Leos are able to keep up with an Aries. I hope so cuz I have yet to find someone that can. Especially me. I am always on the go and to very unique and exciting experiences.

If anybody should have any new advice for me, please do not hesitate to comment.

I would greatly appreciate it.

Will be in touch with updates.

aloHA

maui good to see you.

She's single. You know what you have to do, right? You better hurry up and take her out before her status changes again maui. I think you have put this off for far too long already. You seem to have the typical aries/leo compatibilty going on with her so I wouldn't be surprised if she could keep up far more than you imagine. She already seems like a busy girl herself.



....She's only had boys try to tie her down....

They tied her down? Or SHE tied THEM down... 😉

aloha,

mahalo for the words of encouragement.

Remember, the key word is "try". They tried to tie her down but were unsuccessful.

Will not rush it, but am ready for the opportunity.

aloha,

mauicountry

Hi mauicountry,
I was so intrigued by your message that I decided to sign on. I have a crush on a co-worker of mine that is an Aries. From the first day we meet I could feel there was a charge, similar to a lightening bolt, which was clearly obvious to the both of us. We like each other very much. I'm a female Leo, so I picked up on his signals quickly. He's given every bit of encouragement he can and still be professionally about it. But he hasn't asked me out. I believe he's a little self-conscience about his age. I'm 29, and he's 37.

How can I ask this Aries man out on a date?