@EvatheDiva
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Oh and why did he ask me to stay the night? We watched TV...? And then fell asleep...Wouldn't some other guy that just wanted sex let me go?
Shit I suck in bed!!! That's the answer. Ugh
Posted by cvurko
π’ probably it was for fun. Move on π it was nothing you did though, dont blame yourself.I don't have Casual sex but it felt good so yeah I'm kinda really bummed
Girl (Eva hangs head),
She meant to say it was fun for HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He got his "itch" scratched and is adding another "notch" on his d*ick (saying meant before "notch on his headboard").
π€ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Yeah I get it....You know it's been a long long time since I had sex or anything romantic going on with my life so I was desperately hoping and I said fuck it
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Well, think about this. When you mentally said, "treetrunk it" you got what you "wished for/wanted". You got played. Next time you say this, just imagine the guy NOT respnding to you after weeks of viewing you on social medias, they guy telling you he/you move to NY, the guy telling you he will, "Throw a lasso around the moon for you if that's what you want", etc. THEN you can say, "Treetrunk it!" and enjoy it just as much as HE wants to. "What's good for the goose is good for the gander." π
π€ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by cvurko
π’ probably it was for fun. Move on π it was nothing you did though, dont blame yourself.I don't have Casual sex but it felt good so yeah I'm kinda really bummed
Girl (Eva hangs head),
She meant to say it was fun for HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He got his "itch" scratched and is adding another "notch" on his d*ick (saying meant before "notch on his headboard").
π€ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Yeah I get it....You know it's been a long long time since I had sex or anything romantic going on with my life so I was desperately hoping and I said fuck it
Well, think about this. When you mentally said, "treetrunk it" you got what you "wished for/wanted". You got played. Next time you say this, just imagine the guy NOT respnding to you after weeks of viewing you on social medias, they guy telling you he/you move to NY, the guy telling you he will, "Throw a lasso around the moon for you if that's what you want", etc. THEN you can say, "Treetrunk it!" and enjoy it just as much as HE wants to. "What's good for the goose is good for the gander." π
π€ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
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OK but can you answer one last thing? Why did he ask me to stay? We watched TV...We talked....Then fell asleep..Wouldn't some other guy just order me a Uber?
Posted by Gemini25
Oh and why did he ask me to stay the night? We watched TV...? And then fell asleep...Wouldn't some other guy that just wanted sex let me go?
Nope!
Not necessarily, some of my male friends have told me, that they like to play the game and make it a nice time for you both and then go ghost on the girl after a few msg's. Mainly because they don't want the drama or confrontation.
Posted by Gemini25
Oh and why did he ask me to stay the night? We watched TV...? And then fell asleep...Wouldn't some other guy that just wanted sex let me go?Nope!
Not necessarily, some of my male friends have told me, that they like to play the game and make it a nice time for you both and then go ghost on the girl after a few msg's. Mainly because they don't want the drama or confrontation.
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That doesn't make sense...Makes it worse
Posted by Gemini25
Oh and why did he ask me to stay the night? We watched TV...? And then fell asleep...Wouldn't some other guy that just wanted sex let me go?Nope!
Not necessarily, some of my male friends have told me, that they like to play the game and make it a nice time for you both and then go ghost on the girl after a few msg's. Mainly because they don't want the drama or confrontation.
That doesn't make sense...Makes it worse
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Posted by Gemini25
Oh and why did he ask me to stay the night? We watched TV...? And then fell asleep...Wouldn't some other guy that just wanted sex let me go?Nope!
Not necessarily, some of my male friends have told me, that they like to play the game and make it a nice time for you both and then go ghost on the girl after a few msg's. Mainly because they don't want the drama or confrontation.
That doesn't make sense...Makes it worse
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It's very weak and cowardly....who wants to be with a boy that hasn't a clue about being a man?
Posted by cvurko
π’ probably it was for fun. Move on π it was nothing you did though, dont blame yourself.I don't have Casual sex but it felt good so yeah I'm kinda really bummed
Girl (Eva hangs head),
She meant to say it was fun for HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He got his "itch" scratched and is adding another "notch" on his d*ick (saying meant before "notch on his headboard").
π€ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Yeah I get it....You know it's been a long long time since I had sex or anything romantic going on with my life so I was desperately hoping and I said fuck it
Well, think about this. When you mentally said, "treetrunk it" you got what you "wished for/wanted". You got played. Next time you say this, just imagine the guy NOT respnding to you after weeks of viewing you on social medias, they guy telling you he/you move to NY, the guy telling you he will, "Throw a lasso around the moon for you if that's what you want", etc. THEN you can say, "Treetrunk it!" and enjoy it just as much as HE wants to. "What's good for the goose is good for the gander." π
π€ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
OK but can you answer one last thing? Why did he ask me to stay? We watched TV...We talked....Then fell asleep..Wouldn't some other guy just order me a Uber?
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Nope. Men don't necessarily "kick you out of bed". Many, many, many (many) moons ago a guy ACTUALLY made me breakfast afterwards. We both agreed we "had a good time" and I left. No questions, no puzzlement, no "whys", no "What did I do wrong", etc. I got what he wanted and he got what HE wanted; period (.) So he enjoyed your "company" a little longer; and when it's over, it's over. Thus the reason why he "blocked you" You're not listening to an answer from one of the DXPNET member(s) that told you, "He's Leo. He's moving on to another one". Read up on Leos. It will tell you that Leo men have Plan A, B, C, D. You were plan "B". He's moving on to plan "C", etc.
π€ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by cvurko
π’ probably it was for fun. Move on π it was nothing you did though, dont blame yourself.I don't have Casual sex but it felt good so yeah I'm kinda really bummed
Girl (Eva hangs head),
She meant to say it was fun for HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He got his "itch" scratched and is adding another "notch" on his d*ick (saying meant before "notch on his headboard").
π€ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Yeah I get it....You know it's been a long long time since I had sex or anything romantic going on with my life so I was desperately hoping and I said fuck it
Well, think about this. When you mentally said, "treetrunk it" you got what you "wished for/wanted". You got played. Next time you say this, just imagine the guy NOT respnding to you after weeks of viewing you on social medias, they guy telling you he/you move to NY, the guy telling you he will, "Throw a lasso around the moon for you if that's what you want", etc. THEN you can say, "Treetrunk it!" and enjoy it just as much as HE wants to. "What's good for the goose is good for the gander." π
π€ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
OK but can you answer one last thing? Why did he ask me to stay? We watched TV...We talked....Then fell asleep..Wouldn't some other guy just order me a Uber?
Nope. Men don't necessarily "kick you out of bed". Many, many, many (many) moons ago a guy ACTUALLY made me breakfast afterwards. We both agreed we "had a good time" and I left. No questions, no puzzlement, no "whys", no "What did I do wrong", etc. I got what he wanted and he got what HE wanted; period (.) So he enjoyed your "company" a little longer; and when it's over, it's over. Thus the reason why he "blocked you" You're not listening to an answer from one of the DXPNET member(s) that told you, "He's Leo. He's moving on to another one". Read up on Leos. It will tell you that Leo men have Plan A, B, C, D. You were plan "B". He's moving on to plan "C", etc.
π€ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
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OK thank you but he didn't block me just unfollowed
Posted by cvurko
π’ probably it was for fun. Move on π it was nothing you did though, dont blame yourself.I don't have Casual sex but it felt good so yeah I'm kinda really bummed
Girl (Eva hangs head),
She meant to say it was fun for HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He got his "itch" scratched and is adding another "notch" on his d*ick (saying meant before "notch on his headboard").
π€ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Yeah I get it....You know it's been a long long time since I had sex or anything romantic going on with my life so I was desperately hoping and I said fuck it
Well, think about this. When you mentally said, "treetrunk it" you got what you "wished for/wanted". You got played. Next time you say this, just imagine the guy NOT respnding to you after weeks of viewing you on social medias, they guy telling you he/you move to NY, the guy telling you he will, "Throw a lasso around the moon for you if that's what you want", etc. THEN you can say, "Treetrunk it!" and enjoy it just as much as HE wants to. "What's good for the goose is good for the gander." π
π€ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
OK but can you answer one last thing? Why did he ask me to stay? We watched TV...We talked....Then fell asleep..Wouldn't some other guy just order me a Uber?
Nope. Men don't necessarily "kick you out of bed". Many, many, many (many) moons ago a guy ACTUALLY made me breakfast afterwards. We both agreed we "had a good time" and I left. No questions, no puzzlement, no "whys", no "What did I do wrong", etc. I got what he wanted and he got what HE wanted; period (.) So he enjoyed your "company" a little longer; and when it's over, it's over. Thus the reason why he "blocked you" You're not listening to an answer from one of the DXPNET member(s) that told you, "He's Leo. He's moving on to another one". Read up on Leos. It will tell you that Leo men have Plan A, B, C, D. You were plan "B". He's moving on to plan "C", etc.
π€ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
OK thank you but he didn't block me just unfollowed
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Yes, we all know that here at DXPNET; that you keep "correcting" us instead of reading in between the lines and to our advice. Eva hangs head. You're STILL justifying (defending) for him. Sad. π’
π€ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by Gemini25
Oh and why did he ask me to stay the night? We watched TV...? And then fell asleep...Wouldn't some other guy that just wanted sex let me go?Nope!
Not necessarily, some of my male friends have told me, that they like to play the game and make it a nice time for you both and then go ghost on the girl after a few msg's. Mainly because they don't want the drama or confrontation.
That doesn't make sense...Makes it worse
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Yes, for the women.
Not for them, as they avoid the drama.
Posted by Gemini25
Shit I suck in bed!!! That's the answer. UghYou might have sucked in bed but no one can really blame you...you met the man twice. You don't know what he was into etc.
I had known my bf for over a year before we had sex and it sucked the first time. We had both not had sex in a long time. If I hadn't had an emotional connection to him I probably never would have called him again. It would have been too awkward.
Good sex may spark something that isn't there but bad sex is gonna kill anything before it even starts.
But bad sex doesn't mean you're bad at sex. Sometimes people just have to practice at it together before they get it right. It's not always mind blowing on the first try.
But nevertheless, he's gone and good riddance.
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Thank you!
Posted by cvurko
π’ probably it was for fun. Move on π it was nothing you did though, dont blame yourself.I don't have Casual sex but it felt good so yeah I'm kinda really bummed
Girl (Eva hangs head),
She meant to say it was fun for HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He got his "itch" scratched and is adding another "notch" on his d*ick (saying meant before "notch on his headboard").
π€ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Yeah I get it....You know it's been a long long time since I had sex or anything romantic going on with my life so I was desperately hoping and I said fuck it
Well, think about this. When you mentally said, "treetrunk it" you got what you "wished for/wanted". You got played. Next time you say this, just imagine the guy NOT respnding to you after weeks of viewing you on social medias, they guy telling you he/you move to NY, the guy telling you he will, "Throw a lasso around the moon for you if that's what you want", etc. THEN you can say, "Treetrunk it!" and enjoy it just as much as HE wants to. "What's good for the goose is good for the gander." π
π€ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
OK but can you answer one last thing? Why did he ask me to stay? We watched TV...We talked....Then fell asleep..Wouldn't some other guy just order me a Uber?
Nope. Men don't necessarily "kick you out of bed". Many, many, many (many) moons ago a guy ACTUALLY made me breakfast afterwards. We both agreed we "had a good time" and I left. No questions, no puzzlement, no "whys", no "What did I do wrong", etc. I got what he wanted and he got what HE wanted; period (.) So he enjoyed your "company" a little longer; and when it's over, it's over. Thus the reason why he "blocked you" You're not listening to an answer from one of the DXPNET member(s) that told you, "He's Leo. He's moving on to another one". Read up on Leos. It will tell you that Leo men have Plan A, B, C, D. You were plan "B". He's moving on to plan "C", etc.
π€ cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
OK thank you but he didn't block me just unfollowed
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Same difference....still a kick in the teeth....a rejection
Anyone can answer why in those 3 weeks he was actively looking at my videos and still kept following me? I just don't get it
Posted by Gemini25
Anyone can answer why in those 3 weeks he was actively looking at my videos and still kept following me? I just don't get itMaybe he was trying to decide if he wanted to keep in touch. Who knows? It's hard to say. Thing is a Leo guy will be there if he wants to be. You don't have to do anything. I have one that pops up cuz he can't forget me. it might be a couple of days, or a week, a month, or 18 years. Still comes back. This is how you can tell they want more than sex. They come back. If not, they're a jerk & don't deserve you.
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Yes that's what I was thinking too....He was debating to keep me and he chose not to that's why it hurts me, not because I want to be his hook up woman but because I thought he did truly want something more.
Posted by SalamanderCandy
He wanted physical.and you wanted physical but also emotional.
And this right here is what no man wants or handles currently 2017, 2016, and past. So most mentions just want to be friends or not looking for anything serious. Boom this happens irl. And i used to like this guy and he even said to me. That he would prefer fwb because of Emotions.
I can separate my feelings and emotions really well. So maybe you have meant your match cause i get to make the decision yes or no. And can leave at any time. Thanks to cardinal energies.
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I know girl, you want answers and we cannot answer for your Leo; only he can do that but POOF! He's gone. On to the next!!! My philosophy is this, "Men are like buses; wait five minutes and another one will come thru." π
Cyber hugs! π€
Love,
Eva