Gemini25
@Gemini25
8 Years
Comments: 0 · Posts: 361 · Topics: 37

Posted by Gemini25
@notsoinstant
That's what I think...Maybe he was waiting for me to text him but I didn't because I think the Man is supposed to....But true he could of texted me or not delete me..
Should I send a message just to see if he will reply? Or let it be

Posted by Gemini25Leave this situation alone and save yourself the heartache and keep your dignity. He sent you a clear message by not contacting you and unfollowing you. There is nothing here to salvage. To some people sex is just a quick high then on to the next.
Bottom line how many of you say I should just message him casually pretending i don't know he unfollowed me and how many of you say no

Posted by EveryOunceIt is up to the woman to let the guy know she isn't just an easy layPosted by Gemini25Leave this situation alone and save yourself the heartache and keep your dignity. He sent you a clear message by not contacting you and unfollowing you. There is nothing here to salvage. To some people sex is just a quick high then on to the next.
Bottom line how many of you say I should just message him casually pretending i don't know he unfollowed me and how many of you say noclick to expand

Posted by MyStarsShineMen don't care about that. If he wants sex only nothing she says or does would make a difference. You can't make anyone ready for something they're not.Posted by EveryOunceIt is up to the woman to let the guy know she isn't just an easy layPosted by Gemini25Leave this situation alone and save yourself the heartache and keep your dignity. He sent you a clear message by not contacting you and unfollowing you. There is nothing here to salvage. To some people sex is just a quick high then on to the next.
Bottom line how many of you say I should just message him casually pretending i don't know he unfollowed me and how many of you say noclick to expand

Posted by EveryOunceI know thatPosted by MyStarsShineMen don't care about that. If he wants sex only nothing she says or does would make a difference. You can't make anyone ready for something they're not.Posted by EveryOunceIt is up to the woman to let the guy know she isn't just an easy layPosted by Gemini25Leave this situation alone and save yourself the heartache and keep your dignity. He sent you a clear message by not contacting you and unfollowing you. There is nothing here to salvage. To some people sex is just a quick high then on to the next.
Bottom line how many of you say I should just message him casually pretending i don't know he unfollowed me and how many of you say noclick to expand

Posted by MyStarsShineTrue she could hold out longer but sometimes the attraction is really strong and you can't help it. It is good to develop a strong mental connection first but some people don't give a crap about that they can know you for months and still only want the conquest and send you back out into the world as just another notch on their belt.Posted by EveryOunceI know thatPosted by MyStarsShineMen don't care about that. If he wants sex only nothing she says or does would make a difference. You can't make anyone ready for something they're not.Posted by EveryOunceIt is up to the woman to let the guy know she isn't just an easy layPosted by Gemini25Leave this situation alone and save yourself the heartache and keep your dignity. He sent you a clear message by not contacting you and unfollowing you. There is nothing here to salvage. To some people sex is just a quick high then on to the next.
Bottom line how many of you say I should just message him casually pretending i don't know he unfollowed me and how many of you say no
She doesn't have to do it so early on though....that could be seen as just wanting sex
click to expand

Posted by Gemini25Did you verify that he is single?
Why the fuq this keeps happening to me? I keep meeting these Men who only want sex

Posted by EveryOunceIf a woman says to a man that she isn't into a quick sexual fix and would like to get to know the guy first and form a connection and the bloke says no, then she knows he aint right for her. Much better to go without for a while and find the right one 🙂. Throw away sex has become so acceptablePosted by MyStarsShineTrue she could hold out longer but sometimes the attraction is really strong and you can't help it. It is good to develop a strong mental connection first but some people don't give a crap about that they can know you for months and still only want the conquest and send you back out into the world as just another notch on their belt.Posted by EveryOunceI know thatPosted by MyStarsShineMen don't care about that. If he wants sex only nothing she says or does would make a difference. You can't make anyone ready for something they're not.Posted by EveryOunceIt is up to the woman to let the guy know she isn't just an easy layPosted by Gemini25Leave this situation alone and save yourself the heartache and keep your dignity. He sent you a clear message by not contacting you and unfollowing you. There is nothing here to salvage. To some people sex is just a quick high then on to the next.
Bottom line how many of you say I should just message him casually pretending i don't know he unfollowed me and how many of you say no
She doesn't have to do it so early on though....that could be seen as just wanting sex
click to expand

Posted by Gemini25Ok. Reading this thread I was getting the vibe that he might have been on a break from a relationship and after sleeping with you and returning home he got back together with her.
@ladyneptune
Yes he's single, no kids and never married...We talked a long time before we met

Posted by Gemini25Its all about the challenge with all people. Its okay to have casual sex, we need some every now and then, now you got to move on and keep finding the one that makes you happy.
@notsoinstant he came to visit my town, took me out..Wanted to sleep with me on the first meeting and I said no. He asked me out again. The next day and then we did have sex.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Sometimes i feel that will never happen...I keep getting disappointedPosted by Gemini25Its all about the challenge with all people. Its okay to have casual sex, we need some every now and then, now you got to move on and keep finding the one that makes you happy.
@notsoinstant he came to visit my town, took me out..Wanted to sleep with me on the first meeting and I said no. He asked me out again. The next day and then we did have sex.click to expand

Posted by Gemini25What does that matter if he isn't treating you well?
Plus our synastry chart was amazing but in composite a lot of planets in 12 house

Posted by EveryOunceBut he wanted to make plans with me to see him...Kept me for 3 weeks until he unfollowed me after sex....i just don't get itPosted by Gemini25Leave this situation alone and save yourself the heartache and keep your dignity. He sent you a clear message by not contacting you and unfollowing you. There is nothing here to salvage. To some people sex is just a quick high then on to the next.
Bottom line how many of you say I should just message him casually pretending i don't know he unfollowed me and how many of you say noclick to expand

Posted by Gemini25Posted by EveryOunceBut he wanted to make plans with me to see him...Kept me for 3 weeks until he unfollowed me after sex....i just don't get itPosted by Gemini25Leave this situation alone and save yourself the heartache and keep your dignity. He sent you a clear message by not contacting you and unfollowing you. There is nothing here to salvage. To some people sex is just a quick high then on to the next.
Bottom line how many of you say I should just message him casually pretending i don't know he unfollowed me and how many of you say no
click to expand

Posted by Gemini25Maybe next time don't believe anything a guy said before sex?Posted by EveryOunceBut he wanted to make plans with me to see him...Kept me for 3 weeks until he unfollowed me after sex....i just don't get itPosted by Gemini25Leave this situation alone and save yourself the heartache and keep your dignity. He sent you a clear message by not contacting you and unfollowing you. There is nothing here to salvage. To some people sex is just a quick high then on to the next.
Bottom line how many of you say I should just message him casually pretending i don't know he unfollowed me and how many of you say no
click to expand

Posted by whatisthisallaboutThe chances are, he wontPosted by Gemini25Maybe next time don't believe anything a guy said before sex?Posted by EveryOunceBut he wanted to make plans with me to see him...Kept me for 3 weeks until he unfollowed me after sex....i just don't get itPosted by Gemini25Leave this situation alone and save yourself the heartache and keep your dignity. He sent you a clear message by not contacting you and unfollowing you. There is nothing here to salvage. To some people sex is just a quick high then on to the next.
Bottom line how many of you say I should just message him casually pretending i don't know he unfollowed me and how many of you say no
I think what they say or do after sex is more telling.
My guy friends said that sometimes they were just not sure how they truly felt about a woman until they had sex. If they did not feel any attachment, then they knew it was just lust.
If you really want to know the anwer, send him a text saying, "hey, haven't heard from you for a while. Is eveything ok? I began to worry about you." If he's a somewhat decent human being and just happend to lose interest, he should at least text back and let you know he is still alive.click to expand

Posted by whatisthisallaboutNope....i send out a hope everything is well on your end.
did you hear back?

Posted by SalamanderCandyYeah...Really sucks....Plus no reply to my text
He wanted physical.
and you wanted physical but also emotional.

Posted by Gemini25I guess it is clear that he's just a coward/liar now.Posted by whatisthisallaboutNope....i send out a hope everything is well on your end.
did you hear back?click to expand

Posted by SofiaV87☝?This!
Next!

Posted by Gemini25Not surprisedPosted by whatisthisallaboutNope....i send out a hope everything is well on your end.
did you hear back?click to expand

Posted by Gemini25There are a lot of men like this though, so maybe next time you will be more careful?Posted by SalamanderCandyYeah...Really sucks....Plus no reply to my text
He wanted physical.
and you wanted physical but also emotional.click to expand

Posted by DivaCanLeoYou want a one night stand with him CC?
Am I the only person thinking that's all I want from the Leo. Lucky bytch.
I don't even know how to get this guy to the sexual
It's all fantasies in my head
Posted by MyStarsShine2 days agoPosted by Gemini25Not surprisedPosted by whatisthisallaboutNope....i send out a hope everything is well on your end.
did you hear back?
How long ago did you text him?click to expand
Posted by DivaCanLeoYou want sex with a Leo? Let me tell you he's the one who took the lead
Am I the only person thinking that's all I want from the Leo. Lucky bytch.
I don't even know how to get this guy to the sexual
It's all fantasies in my head

Posted by Gemini25Do you feel better for contacting him...has it given you some closure, Gemini?Posted by MyStarsShine2 days agoPosted by Gemini25Not surprisedPosted by whatisthisallaboutNope....i send out a hope everything is well on your end.
did you hear back?
How long ago did you text him?click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Gemini25Do you feel better for contacting him...has it given you some closure, Gemini?Posted by MyStarsShine2 days agoPosted by Gemini25Not surprisedPosted by whatisthisallaboutNope....i send out a hope everything is well on your end.
did you hear back?
How long ago did you text him?
click to expand

Posted by Gemini25🙂Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Gemini25Do you feel better for contacting him...has it given you some closure, Gemini?Posted by MyStarsShine2 days agoPosted by Gemini25Not surprisedPosted by whatisthisallaboutNope....i send out a hope everything is well on your end.
did you hear back?
How long ago did you text him?
Yes I do feel better but also it got me thinking and even thou it's a bummer he didn't want to see if anything will come out of it at least I had a really great time in those 2 days..I forgive him. I don't regret it because sleeping with him or not if it was meant to be he would stick around. I believe that ..click to expand

Posted by NotSoInstantDoesn't matter of the "ethnicity/culture, etc". She's right. I slept with a Marine many moons ago and he sent me roses the next day. Asked me what I wanted for Christmas and he gave it to me (he's Piscean); I am wearing the watch as we speak 😏.Posted by Gemini25See, idk because I haven't had casual sex. I'm from a different cultural background.But wouldn't you think if he was crazy about you or the connection, he would have contacted you or send you a good morning text? Men are kinda territorial...
@notsoinstant that bad? :-/click to expand

Posted by Gemini25Girl (Eva hangs head),Posted by cvurkoI don't have Casual sex but it felt good so yeah I'm kinda really bummed
😢 probably it was for fun. Move on 🙂 it was nothing you did though, dont blame yourself.click to expand


Posted by Gemini25Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr! Girl, I (I'm Pisces) met an Aries at the club (NONE of my girlfriends were there), we went out on one (UNO) date. He asked me if I wanted a rose (flower girl stopped by) I said, "No" (a girl wants a guy to hand her a rose NOT ask her!). He drove me back home and we kissed. I held his hand and walked him to the door. "What are you doing?" He asked. "Walking you out" I said. I asked him to call me when he got home (2:15 am); he said, "Okay". He texted me instead. Next week; nada (nothing; ZILCH). I initiated by leaving him a voice mail; he returned my call. We talked, hung up. Last Saturday (21 Jan 17) I saw him at the club. I smiled, he smiled, and he proceeded to dance w/my gf (she met him first at the same club). I blocked his # on my cell on Sunday after I woke up. I do NOT come in 2nd place! I keep thinking of the movie, "He's not that into you" AND the Adriana Grande song, "I've got one less problem without you". You need to mentally erase him from your mind. 🤗 cyber hugs!Posted by EveryOunceBut he wanted to make plans with me to see him...Kept me for 3 weeks until he unfollowed me after sex....i just don't get itPosted by Gemini25Leave this situation alone and save yourself the heartache and keep your dignity. He sent you a clear message by not contacting you and unfollowing you. There is nothing here to salvage. To some people sex is just a quick high then on to the next.
Bottom line how many of you say I should just message him casually pretending i don't know he unfollowed me and how many of you say no
click to expand
Posted by EvatheDivaPosted by NotSoInstantDoesn't matter of the "ethnicity/culture, etc". She's right. I slept with a Marine many moons ago and he sent me roses the next day. Asked me what I wanted for Christmas and he gave it to me (he's Piscean); I am wearing the watch as we speak 😏.Posted by Gemini25See, idk because I haven't had casual sex. I'm from a different cultural background.But wouldn't you think if he was crazy about you or the connection, he would have contacted you or send you a good morning text? Men are kinda territorial...
@notsoinstant that bad? :-/
Since he unfollowed you that tells you it was just a "One night stand", "Wham, bam, thank you Ma'am", "Netflix and chill", etc. Sorry. 😢
Cyber hugs! 🤗
Love,
Evaclick to expand
Posted by EvatheDivaYeah I get it....You know it's been a long long time since I had sex or anything romantic going on with my life so I was desperately hoping and I said fuck itPosted by Gemini25Girl (Eva hangs head),Posted by cvurkoI don't have Casual sex but it felt good so yeah I'm kinda really bummed
😢 probably it was for fun. Move on 🙂 it was nothing you did though, dont blame yourself.
She meant to say it was fun for HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He got his "itch" scratched and is adding another "notch" on his d*ick (saying meant before "notch on his headboard").
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
click to expand

Posted by Gemini25I know girl, you want answers and we cannot answer for your Leo; only he can do that but POOF! He's gone. On to the next!!! My philosophy is this, "Men are like buses; wait five minutes and another one will come thru." 😄Posted by EvatheDivaPosted by NotSoInstantDoesn't matter of the "ethnicity/culture, etc". She's right. I slept with a Marine many moons ago and he sent me roses the next day. Asked me what I wanted for Christmas and he gave it to me (he's Piscean); I am wearing the watch as we speak 😏.Posted by Gemini25See, idk because I haven't had casual sex. I'm from a different cultural background.But wouldn't you think if he was crazy about you or the connection, he would have contacted you or send you a good morning text? Men are kinda territorial...
@notsoinstant that bad? :-/
Since he unfollowed you that tells you it was just a "One night stand", "Wham, bam, thank you Ma'am", "Netflix and chill", etc. Sorry. 😢
Cyber hugs! 🤗
Love,
Eva
Hi Eva!!
Thank you for sharing. You see! I knew sometimes it works out. I know I shouldn't go by that but the thing is I don't sleep with men that quickly...I was surprised I actually done it. I fucking believed everything he said the second time because I though if he wasn't into me why ask me out again...I denied Sex the first time you know....Ughh....But why after 3 weeks he just decided to unfollow me? He even viewd my videos— That's what bothers meclick to expand
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account →
Ugh sucks