@Gemini25
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Bottom line how many of you say I should just message him casually pretending i don't know he unfollowed me and how many of you say no
Posted by Gemini25
@notsoinstantThat's what I think...Maybe he was waiting for me to text him but I didn't because I think the Man is supposed to....But true he could of texted me or not delete me..
Should I send a message just to see if he will reply? Or let it be
I don't think guys are that sensitive about who texts first, so he would have contacted if he wanted to. You had a chance to ask if he reached home without sounding clingy since that was an excuse to write then. But don't beat yourself over that, because even if you had, he probably still would have acted the way he did. He wanted to have some fun and maybe is now pursuing someone else. Not your fault, he was not the decent kind.
Posted by Gemini25
Bottom line how many of you say I should just message him casually pretending i don't know he unfollowed me and how many of you say no
Leave this situation alone and save yourself the heartache and keep your dignity. He sent you a clear message by not contacting you and unfollowing you. There is nothing here to salvage. To some people sex is just a quick high then on to the next.
Posted by Gemini25
Bottom line how many of you say I should just message him casually pretending i don't know he unfollowed me and how many of you say noLeave this situation alone and save yourself the heartache and keep your dignity. He sent you a clear message by not contacting you and unfollowing you. There is nothing here to salvage. To some people sex is just a quick high then on to the next.
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It is up to the woman to let the guy know she isn't just an easy lay
Posted by Gemini25
Bottom line how many of you say I should just message him casually pretending i don't know he unfollowed me and how many of you say noLeave this situation alone and save yourself the heartache and keep your dignity. He sent you a clear message by not contacting you and unfollowing you. There is nothing here to salvage. To some people sex is just a quick high then on to the next.
It is up to the woman to let the guy know she isn't just an easy lay
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Men don't care about that. If he wants sex only nothing she says or does would make a difference. You can't make anyone ready for something they're not.
Posted by Gemini25
Bottom line how many of you say I should just message him casually pretending i don't know he unfollowed me and how many of you say noLeave this situation alone and save yourself the heartache and keep your dignity. He sent you a clear message by not contacting you and unfollowing you. There is nothing here to salvage. To some people sex is just a quick high then on to the next.
It is up to the woman to let the guy know she isn't just an easy lay
Men don't care about that. If he wants sex only nothing she says or does would make a difference. You can't make anyone ready for something they're not.
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I know that
She doesn't have to do it so early on though....that could be seen as just wanting sex
Posted by Gemini25
Bottom line how many of you say I should just message him casually pretending i don't know he unfollowed me and how many of you say noLeave this situation alone and save yourself the heartache and keep your dignity. He sent you a clear message by not contacting you and unfollowing you. There is nothing here to salvage. To some people sex is just a quick high then on to the next.
It is up to the woman to let the guy know she isn't just an easy lay
Men don't care about that. If he wants sex only nothing she says or does would make a difference. You can't make anyone ready for something they're not.
I know that
She doesn't have to do it so early on though....that could be seen as just wanting sex
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True she could hold out longer but sometimes the attraction is really strong and you can't help it. It is good to develop a strong mental connection first but some people don't give a crap about that they can know you for months and still only want the conquest and send you back out into the world as just another notch on their belt.
Posted by Gemini25
Why the fuq this keeps happening to me? I keep meeting these Men who only want sex
Did you verify that he is single?
Posted by Gemini25
Bottom line how many of you say I should just message him casually pretending i don't know he unfollowed me and how many of you say noLeave this situation alone and save yourself the heartache and keep your dignity. He sent you a clear message by not contacting you and unfollowing you. There is nothing here to salvage. To some people sex is just a quick high then on to the next.
It is up to the woman to let the guy know she isn't just an easy lay
Men don't care about that. If he wants sex only nothing she says or does would make a difference. You can't make anyone ready for something they're not.
I know that
She doesn't have to do it so early on though....that could be seen as just wanting sex
True she could hold out longer but sometimes the attraction is really strong and you can't help it. It is good to develop a strong mental connection first but some people don't give a crap about that they can know you for months and still only want the conquest and send you back out into the world as just another notch on their belt.
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If a woman says to a man that she isn't into a quick sexual fix and would like to get to know the guy first and form a connection and the bloke says no, then she knows he aint right for her. Much better to go without for a while and find the right one 🙂. Throw away sex has become so acceptable
Yes he's single, no kids and never married...We talked a long time before we met
Posted by Gemini25
@ladyneptuneYes he's single, no kids and never married...We talked a long time before we met
Ok. Reading this thread I was getting the vibe that he might have been on a break from a relationship and after sleeping with you and returning home he got back together with her.
Leo men are charmers that's for sure
@mizleo
Yeah he wasn't....He was saying so many things to me...Like we got to get you to NYC, let me make a plan..Was so curious about me... Gentleman but was kinda touchy feely but not in a bulgur way.. even held my hand when we were walking so I thought this guy really likes me...
Yes but I told him im not having sex with him the first night we hanged out after dinner...He was saying oh I don't want to fuck this up I really like you, I don't want just a one night stand with you...Let's go out to dinner tomorrow too...So I thought he was talking bs but the next day he actually did ask me out again.
So having sex hurt me in the long run? Why he didn't immediately delete me from his social media thou?
Plus our synastry chart was amazing but in composite a lot of planets in 12 house
Posted by Gemini25
@notsoinstant he came to visit my town, took me out..Wanted to sleep with me on the first meeting and I said no. He asked me out again. The next day and then we did have sex.
Its all about the challenge with all people. Its okay to have casual sex, we need some every now and then, now you got to move on and keep finding the one that makes you happy.
And respects you.
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Posted by Gemini25
@notsoinstant he came to visit my town, took me out..Wanted to sleep with me on the first meeting and I said no. He asked me out again. The next day and then we did have sex.Its all about the challenge with all people. Its okay to have casual sex, we need some every now and then, now you got to move on and keep finding the one that makes you happy.
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Sometimes i feel that will never happen...I keep getting disappointed
Posted by Gemini25
Plus our synastry chart was amazing but in composite a lot of planets in 12 house
What does that matter if he isn't treating you well?
Next!
Double sigh
Posted by Gemini25
Bottom line how many of you say I should just message him casually pretending i don't know he unfollowed me and how many of you say noLeave this situation alone and save yourself the heartache and keep your dignity. He sent you a clear message by not contacting you and unfollowing you. There is nothing here to salvage. To some people sex is just a quick high then on to the next.
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But he wanted to make plans with me to see him...Kept me for 3 weeks until he unfollowed me after sex....i just don't get it
Posted by Gemini25
Bottom line how many of you say I should just message him casually pretending i don't know he unfollowed me and how many of you say noLeave this situation alone and save yourself the heartache and keep your dignity. He sent you a clear message by not contacting you and unfollowing you. There is nothing here to salvage. To some people sex is just a quick high then on to the next.
But he wanted to make plans with me to see him...Kept me for 3 weeks until he unfollowed me after sex....i just don't get it
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*Unfolllowed me after sex*
Try and understand love, some men will say anything and do anything to get sex. I know it's crass, but sadly it's true. Those types of boys...their brains are in their pants
Its annoying and boring, but true
Posted by Gemini25
Bottom line how many of you say I should just message him casually pretending i don't know he unfollowed me and how many of you say noLeave this situation alone and save yourself the heartache and keep your dignity. He sent you a clear message by not contacting you and unfollowing you. There is nothing here to salvage. To some people sex is just a quick high then on to the next.
But he wanted to make plans with me to see him...Kept me for 3 weeks until he unfollowed me after sex....i just don't get it
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Maybe next time don't believe anything a guy said before sex?
I think what they say or do after sex is more telling.
My guy friends said that sometimes they were just not sure how they truly felt about a woman until they had sex. If they did not feel any attachment, then they knew it was just lust.
If you really want to know the anwer, send him a text saying, "hey, haven't heard from you for a while. Is eveything ok? I began to worry about you." If he's a somewhat decent human being and just happend to lose interest, he should at least text back and let you know he is still alive.
Yeah
Posted by Gemini25
Bottom line how many of you say I should just message him casually pretending i don't know he unfollowed me and how many of you say noLeave this situation alone and save yourself the heartache and keep your dignity. He sent you a clear message by not contacting you and unfollowing you. There is nothing here to salvage. To some people sex is just a quick high then on to the next.
But he wanted to make plans with me to see him...Kept me for 3 weeks until he unfollowed me after sex....i just don't get it
Maybe next time don't believe anything a guy said before sex?
I think what they say or do after sex is more telling.
My guy friends said that sometimes they were just not sure how they truly felt about a woman until they had sex. If they did not feel any attachment, then they knew it was just lust.
If you really want to know the anwer, send him a text saying, "hey, haven't heard from you for a while. Is eveything ok? I began to worry about you." If he's a somewhat decent human being and just happend to lose interest, he should at least text back and let you know he is still alive.
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The chances are, he wont
I really wouldn't lower myself to this type of guy
OK I'm going to text him
did you hear back?
Posted by whatisthisallabout
did you hear back?
Nope....i send out a hope everything is well on your end.
He wanted physical.
and you wanted physical but also emotional.
Posted by SalamanderCandy
He wanted physical.and you wanted physical but also emotional.
Yeah...Really sucks....Plus no reply to my text
Posted by whatisthisallabout
did you hear back?Nope....i send out a hope everything is well on your end.
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I guess it is clear that he's just a coward/liar now.
You just dodged a bullet.
Posted by SofiaV87
Next!
☝?This!
Posted by whatisthisallabout
did you hear back?Nope....i send out a hope everything is well on your end.
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Not surprised
How long ago did you text him?
Posted by SalamanderCandy
He wanted physical.and you wanted physical but also emotional.
Yeah...Really sucks....Plus no reply to my text
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There are a lot of men like this though, so maybe next time you will be more careful?
x
Posted by DivaCanLeo
Am I the only person thinking that's all I want from the Leo. Lucky bytch.I don't even know how to get this guy to the sexual
It's all fantasies in my head
You want a one night stand with him CC?
Posted by whatisthisallabout
did you hear back?Nope....i send out a hope everything is well on your end.
Not surprised
How long ago did you text him?
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2 days ago
Posted by DivaCanLeo
Am I the only person thinking that's all I want from the Leo. Lucky bytch.I don't even know how to get this guy to the sexual
It's all fantasies in my head
You want sex with a Leo? Let me tell you he's the one who took the lead
Posted by whatisthisallabout
did you hear back?Nope....i send out a hope everything is well on your end.
Not surprised
How long ago did you text him?
2 days ago
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Do you feel better for contacting him...has it given you some closure, Gemini?
Posted by whatisthisallabout
did you hear back?Nope....i send out a hope everything is well on your end.
Not surprised
How long ago did you text him?
2 days ago
Do you feel better for contacting him...has it given you some closure, Gemini?
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Yes I do feel better but also it got me thinking and even thou it's a bummer he didn't want to see if anything will come out of it at least I had a really great time in those 2 days..I forgive him. I don't regret it because sleeping with him or not if it was meant to be he would stick around. I believe that ..
Posted by whatisthisallabout
did you hear back?Nope....i send out a hope everything is well on your end.
Not surprised
How long ago did you text him?
2 days ago
Do you feel better for contacting him...has it given you some closure, Gemini?
Yes I do feel better but also it got me thinking and even thou it's a bummer he didn't want to see if anything will come out of it at least I had a really great time in those 2 days..I forgive him. I don't regret it because sleeping with him or not if it was meant to be he would stick around. I believe that ..
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🙂
It is good that you have made peace with it....maybe next time you will be a little wiser
Posted by Gemini25
@notsoinstant that bad? :-/See, idk because I haven't had casual sex. I'm from a different cultural background.But wouldn't you think if he was crazy about you or the connection, he would have contacted you or send you a good morning text? Men are kinda territorial...
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Doesn't matter of the "ethnicity/culture, etc". She's right. I slept with a Marine many moons ago and he sent me roses the next day. Asked me what I wanted for Christmas and he gave it to me (he's Piscean); I am wearing the watch as we speak 😏.
Since he unfollowed you that tells you it was just a "One night stand", "Wham, bam, thank you Ma'am", "Netflix and chill", etc. Sorry. 😢
Cyber hugs! 🤗
Love,
Eva
Posted by cvurko
😢 probably it was for fun. Move on 🙂 it was nothing you did though, dont blame yourself.I don't have Casual sex but it felt good so yeah I'm kinda really bummed
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Girl (Eva hangs head),
She meant to say it was fun for HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He got his "itch" scratched and is adding another "notch" on his d*ick (saying meant before "notch on his headboard").
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
My sister and i were raised to respect our bodies by a very old fashioned mother. We used to laugh about her and her *morals*. In retrospect, she was dead right . I have never been cheated on or had a man disappear after sex. She used to say *it is up to the woman to say no*
Lol...i think that woman was very wise
Posted by Gemini25
Bottom line how many of you say I should just message him casually pretending i don't know he unfollowed me and how many of you say noLeave this situation alone and save yourself the heartache and keep your dignity. He sent you a clear message by not contacting you and unfollowing you. There is nothing here to salvage. To some people sex is just a quick high then on to the next.
But he wanted to make plans with me to see him...Kept me for 3 weeks until he unfollowed me after sex....i just don't get it
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Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr! Girl, I (I'm Pisces) met an Aries at the club (NONE of my girlfriends were there), we went out on one (UNO) date. He asked me if I wanted a rose (flower girl stopped by) I said, "No" (a girl wants a guy to hand her a rose NOT ask her!). He drove me back home and we kissed. I held his hand and walked him to the door. "What are you doing?" He asked. "Walking you out" I said. I asked him to call me when he got home (2:15 am); he said, "Okay". He texted me instead. Next week; nada (nothing; ZILCH). I initiated by leaving him a voice mail; he returned my call. We talked, hung up. Last Saturday (21 Jan 17) I saw him at the club. I smiled, he smiled, and he proceeded to dance w/my gf (she met him first at the same club). I blocked his # on my cell on Sunday after I woke up. I do NOT come in 2nd place! I keep thinking of the movie, "He's not that into you" AND the Adriana Grande song, "I've got one less problem without you". You need to mentally erase him from your mind. 🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: I am OLDER than you are, been there, done that. CHANGE! Don't sleep w/the guy right away (yeah, I know, easier said than done. But when you break this "pattern" of sleeping w/a guy so fast, your karma/spell, whatever you call it, will be broken and you will find love!) Cyber hugs #2 🤗
Posted by Gemini25
@notsoinstant that bad? :-/See, idk because I haven't had casual sex. I'm from a different cultural background.But wouldn't you think if he was crazy about you or the connection, he would have contacted you or send you a good morning text? Men are kinda territorial...
Doesn't matter of the "ethnicity/culture, etc". She's right. I slept with a Marine many moons ago and he sent me roses the next day. Asked me what I wanted for Christmas and he gave it to me (he's Piscean); I am wearing the watch as we speak 😏.
Since he unfollowed you that tells you it was just a "One night stand", "Wham, bam, thank you Ma'am", "Netflix and chill", etc. Sorry. 😢
Cyber hugs! 🤗
Love,
Eva
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Hi Eva!!
Thank you for sharing. You see! I knew sometimes it works out. I know I shouldn't go by that but the thing is I don't sleep with men that quickly...I was surprised I actually done it. I fucking believed everything he said the second time because I though if he wasn't into me why ask me out again...I denied Sex the first time you know....Ughh....But why after 3 weeks he just decided to unfollow me? He even viewd my videos— That's what bothers me
Posted by cvurko
😢 probably it was for fun. Move on 🙂 it was nothing you did though, dont blame yourself.I don't have Casual sex but it felt good so yeah I'm kinda really bummed
Girl (Eva hangs head),
She meant to say it was fun for HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He got his "itch" scratched and is adding another "notch" on his d*ick (saying meant before "notch on his headboard").
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
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Yeah I get it....You know it's been a long long time since I had sex or anything romantic going on with my life so I was desperately hoping and I said fuck it
Posted by Gemini25
@notsoinstant that bad? :-/See, idk because I haven't had casual sex. I'm from a different cultural background.But wouldn't you think if he was crazy about you or the connection, he would have contacted you or send you a good morning text? Men are kinda territorial...
Doesn't matter of the "ethnicity/culture, etc". She's right. I slept with a Marine many moons ago and he sent me roses the next day. Asked me what I wanted for Christmas and he gave it to me (he's Piscean); I am wearing the watch as we speak 😏.
Since he unfollowed you that tells you it was just a "One night stand", "Wham, bam, thank you Ma'am", "Netflix and chill", etc. Sorry. 😢
Cyber hugs! 🤗
Love,
Eva
Hi Eva!!
Thank you for sharing. You see! I knew sometimes it works out. I know I shouldn't go by that but the thing is I don't sleep with men that quickly...I was surprised I actually done it. I fucking believed everything he said the second time because I though if he wasn't into me why ask me out again...I denied Sex the first time you know....Ughh....But why after 3 weeks he just decided to unfollow me? He even viewd my videos— That's what bothers me
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I know girl, you want answers and we cannot answer for your Leo; only he can do that but POOF! He's gone. On to the next!!! My philosophy is this, "Men are like buses; wait five minutes and another one will come thru." 😄
Cyber hugs! 🤗
Love,
Eva
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Ugh sucks