
saweetz1988
@saweetz1988
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Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowoh dear lord....
I would suggest something little, like a trinket he can carry with him all day, as a token of however you feel about him. And for the grand finale, arrange something that he will definitely enjoy, an event tailored to what he enjoys most. This will show that you're willing to make an effort on his behalf. Make him feel appreciated beyond doubt.
I spent several days scanning photos & making a tribute vid for my Lion. He ended up being too emotional to do anything other than hold onto me like a bear for the entire night. But that was just phase 1 of my plan.

Posted by saweetz1988Eh mine is different. Leo cusper with Leo Mercury/Venus & Scorp Mars, he's an attention/affection sponge. The more I dish out, the more he absorbs and squirms for more. Hard to say how long we've officially been together because our best-friendship line blurred quite a while ago. But we got physical the first time on my birthday last year, so.....11 months. Best friends for 4 years beforehand.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowoh dear lord....
I would suggest something little, like a trinket he can carry with him all day, as a token of however you feel about him. And for the grand finale, arrange something that he will definitely enjoy, an event tailored to what he enjoys most. This will show that you're willing to make an effort on his behalf. Make him feel appreciated beyond doubt.
I spent several days scanning photos & making a tribute vid for my Lion. He ended up being too emotional to do anything other than hold onto me like a bear for the entire night. But that was just phase 1 of my plan.
that is intense lol
my moon in aqua n mars r running away lol
T_T
How long have u been together?
i only seen him for a couple of months though and we def haven't told each other how we feel
he's also a more guarded one. he's more the action type.
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Posted by Leo188881YIKE thank u for ur insights.
I'm weird with gifts. I LOVE giving them. Especially to children because i like watching their faces light up but I suck at receiving them. I appreciate the gesture and love that someone would get me something but I'm not used to it so i don't know how to show I appreciate it properly. It's kind of an overwhelmed/going into shock kind of feeling.

Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowi do lavish him...it just takes me a while to get there ( i been BURNT a lot over the last 5 years) we are a slow process. but once I'm completely in, i can really give them the world. and that has been taken advantage of a lot in the past.Posted by saweetz1988Eh mine is different. Leo cusper with Leo Mercury/Venus & Scorp Mars, he's an attention/affection sponge. The more I dish out, the more he absorbs and squirms for more. Hard to say how long we've officially been together because our best-friendship line blurred quite a while ago. But we got physical the first time on my birthday last year, so.....11 months. Best friends for 4 years beforehand.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowoh dear lord....
I would suggest something little, like a trinket he can carry with him all day, as a token of however you feel about him. And for the grand finale, arrange something that he will definitely enjoy, an event tailored to what he enjoys most. This will show that you're willing to make an effort on his behalf. Make him feel appreciated beyond doubt.
I spent several days scanning photos & making a tribute vid for my Lion. He ended up being too emotional to do anything other than hold onto me like a bear for the entire night. But that was just phase 1 of my plan.
that is intense lol
my moon in aqua n mars r running away lol
T_T
How long have u been together?
i only seen him for a couple of months though and we def haven't told each other how we feel
he's also a more guarded one. he's more the action type.
More guarded means he's not sure of you yet. Aqua mooner with a Leo? Yikes. Don't mean to be a downer but that's like one of the worst possible scenarios for a Leo. If you can't lavish a Lion, then it's almost certainly all for naught. I hope I'm proven wrong.click to expand


Posted by Leo188881Posted by saweetz1988Posted by Leo188881YIKE thank u for ur insights.
I'm weird with gifts. I LOVE giving them. Especially to children because i like watching their faces light up but I suck at receiving them. I appreciate the gesture and love that someone would get me something but I'm not used to it so i don't know how to show I appreciate it properly. It's kind of an overwhelmed/going into shock kind of feeling.
i notice my leo is very introverted and even struggle sometimes to express his true feelings or anything with words...not very good with compliments either. we r in the processs of making that better and its getting there .i just don't want him too pressured. but i know he will get upset if i don't do anything special or prepare anything for him.
..what do u appreciate as gifts?
thank u
I'm like that too with compliments. i want them and need them but when i get them i change the subject or say no I'm not š
š¤ something little as a gift. I like the "I saw this and thought of you" type. I don't think much of valentines day so it's not important because it's forced. It's only been 2 months so if he has a good sense of humour i think something cute and funny would be nice.
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Posted by Leo188881Oh dear hahaha. Ok eggplants. What kind of gift involve eggplants though lollll but yeah thank u for ur thoughts! I like it. To b honest Iām not so much into a romantic stuff too much. Esp not in the beginning. I let a man do that first then I wil follow. How r u n the Aqua? What will U get him? Aqua is easy I think. Books is pretty good for these people lolPosted by saweetz1988Posted by Leo188881Posted by saweetz1988Posted by Leo188881YIKE thank u for ur insights.
I'm weird with gifts. I LOVE giving them. Especially to children because i like watching their faces light up but I suck at receiving them. I appreciate the gesture and love that someone would get me something but I'm not used to it so i don't know how to show I appreciate it properly. It's kind of an overwhelmed/going into shock kind of feeling.
i notice my leo is very introverted and even struggle sometimes to express his true feelings or anything with words...not very good with compliments either. we r in the processs of making that better and its getting there .i just don't want him too pressured. but i know he will get upset if i don't do anything special or prepare anything for him.
..what do u appreciate as gifts?
thank u
I'm like that too with compliments. i want them and need them but when i get them i change the subject or say no I'm not š
š¤ something little as a gift. I like the "I saw this and thought of you" type. I don't think much of valentines day so it's not important because it's forced. It's only been 2 months so if he has a good sense of humour i think something cute and funny would be nice.
thank you so much!
hahaha so u r not good with compliments either? omg I'm like a compliment giver machine! i give everyone compliments and him. we had a discussion about it and he's like. if u give it a lot how do u noe its sincere lol..anyway, he's working on it. i need to receive compliments sometimes u noe..lol
i have to ask like * so do i look niceā * and he's like * yes *... hahaha...
i have to ask him questions to get what i want sometimes lol .
its ok though, he shows he cares in a different way.
OMG something cute and funny! u r so on point. we crack each other up ALL the time. annoy each other but its cute.. shud i give him an eggplant necklace coz i call him eggplants? lol .. joking š
help help š
Yes!!! Eggplant something is perfect š he will love it. Funny stuff is good. It breaks the ice. Too serious a gift, is sometimes really awkward if it's not someone you've been with for a long time.
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Posted by Leo188881I had read Leoās LOVE compliments so I was shocked when I constantly have my Leo compliments and he was like no or youāre crazy or the famous āwhateverāPosted by saweetz1988Posted by Leo188881YIKE thank u for ur insights.
I'm weird with gifts. I LOVE giving them. Especially to children because i like watching their faces light up but I suck at receiving them. I appreciate the gesture and love that someone would get me something but I'm not used to it so i don't know how to show I appreciate it properly. It's kind of an overwhelmed/going into shock kind of feeling.
i notice my leo is very introverted and even struggle sometimes to express his true feelings or anything with words...not very good with compliments either. we r in the processs of making that better and its getting there .i just don't want him too pressured. but i know he will get upset if i don't do anything special or prepare anything for him.
..what do u appreciate as gifts?
thank u
I'm like that too with compliments. i want them and need them but when i get them i change the subject or say no I'm not š
š¤ something little as a gift. I like the "I saw this and thought of you" type. I don't think much of valentines day so it's not important because it's forced. It's only been 2 months so if he has a good sense of humour i think something cute and funny would be nice.
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Posted by Leo188881I have a question, so I gave him a massage on my birthday and he was like you donāt have to baby and I told him If he thought I wasnāt going to after 3 weeks he was crazy. Then I made him a huge dinner and dessert, he loved the food and we had a great night. I want to do it cuz he had worked all week after being sick and then had drill all weekend. Well the next morning he started acting kinda weird. I dunno if it was me or his weekend has just sucked but he acts like heās getting distant. Am I being too caring or something? I donāt understandPosted by BrittniePosted by Leo188881I had read Leoās LOVE compliments so I was shocked when I constantly have my Leo compliments and he was like no or youāre crazy or the famous āwhateverāPosted by saweetz1988Posted by Leo188881YIKE thank u for ur insights.
I'm weird with gifts. I LOVE giving them. Especially to children because i like watching their faces light up but I suck at receiving them. I appreciate the gesture and love that someone would get me something but I'm not used to it so i don't know how to show I appreciate it properly. It's kind of an overwhelmed/going into shock kind of feeling.
i notice my leo is very introverted and even struggle sometimes to express his true feelings or anything with words...not very good with compliments either. we r in the processs of making that better and its getting there .i just don't want him too pressured. but i know he will get upset if i don't do anything special or prepare anything for him.
..what do u appreciate as gifts?
thank u
I'm like that too with compliments. i want them and need them but when i get them i change the subject or say no I'm not š
š¤ something little as a gift. I like the "I saw this and thought of you" type. I don't think much of valentines day so it's not important because it's forced. It's only been 2 months so if he has a good sense of humour i think something cute and funny would be nice.
We love compliments and want them but we suck at receiving them. They make us happy because we like that you like stuff about us. We just suck at knowing what to do when we get them. We become really humble and reject them instead of just saying thank you like normal people. But they sink in and we appreciate them after we go away and think about the little things you say or do for us. We usually remember every act of kindness towards us forever.
Eg. My Aqua serviced my car in 2012. I didn't like him or think anything of him and i went back and told him a light came on a few minths later and he fixed some fuel pump sensor or something and didn't charge me. Fast forward 5 years later when our paths crossed again and I mentioned it to him. He didn't remember but i told him i remember everything nice someone does for me.
We're used to giving not taking so getting compliments or help or anything that we aren't expecting is a really big deal but we don't show it on the outside because it takes time to process what just happened.click to expand

Posted by Leo188881Thank you! It was on Saturday. And he just started after I left. His messages were dry and short. He called after I sent that to you š he was sweet but also kinda rude. He always calls me petnames too and he was just like. Good morning period like no feeling in anything he has said. One word answers. When he called it was nice to hear ābabyā again after he told me my show was boring. How long have you been with your Aqua? We are having so much trouble but my love for him is unreal. Heās a lot slower to open up than I amPosted by BrittniePosted by Leo188881I have a question, so I gave him a massage on my birthday and he was like you donāt have to baby and I told him If he thought I wasnāt going to after 3 weeks he was crazy. Then I made him a huge dinner and dessert, he loved the food and we had a great night. I want to do it cuz he had worked all week after being sick and then had drill all weekend. Well the next morning he started acting kinda weird. I dunno if it was me or his weekend has just sucked but he acts like heās getting distant. Am I being too caring or something? I donāt understandPosted by BrittniePosted by Leo188881I had read Leoās LOVE compliments so I was shocked when I constantly have my Leo compliments and he was like no or youāre crazy or the famous āwhateverāPosted by saweetz1988Posted by Leo188881YIKE thank u for ur insights.
I'm weird with gifts. I LOVE giving them. Especially to children because i like watching their faces light up but I suck at receiving them. I appreciate the gesture and love that someone would get me something but I'm not used to it so i don't know how to show I appreciate it properly. It's kind of an overwhelmed/going into shock kind of feeling.
i notice my leo is very introverted and even struggle sometimes to express his true feelings or anything with words...not very good with compliments either. we r in the processs of making that better and its getting there .i just don't want him too pressured. but i know he will get upset if i don't do anything special or prepare anything for him.
..what do u appreciate as gifts?
thank u
I'm like that too with compliments. i want them and need them but when i get them i change the subject or say no I'm not š
š¤ something little as a gift. I like the "I saw this and thought of you" type. I don't think much of valentines day so it's not important because it's forced. It's only been 2 months so if he has a good sense of humour i think something cute and funny would be nice.
We love compliments and want them but we suck at receiving them. They make us happy because we like that you like stuff about us. We just suck at knowing what to do when we get them. We become really humble and reject them instead of just saying thank you like normal people. But they sink in and we appreciate them after we go away and think about the little things you say or do for us. We usually remember every act of kindness towards us forever.
Eg. My Aqua serviced my car in 2012. I didn't like him or think anything of him and i went back and told him a light came on a few minths later and he fixed some fuel pump sensor or something and didn't charge me. Fast forward 5 years later when our paths crossed again and I mentioned it to him. He didn't remember but i told him i remember everything nice someone does for me.
We're used to giving not taking so getting compliments or help or anything that we aren't expecting is a really big deal but we don't show it on the outside because it takes time to process what just happened.
Happy birthday.
Was it the weekend that just passed or has this been going on for a while?
Im surprised you don't do what my Aqua does and pretend everything is normal and you didn't even notice š
He might have felt stupid for not doing enough for you on your birthday and there is imbalance in giving. We like always giving more but don't mention that.
I got no idea with the aqua leo stuff. Your guess is as good as mine. When i think he wants space, he thinks i want space. When he thibks I'm upset, i think he's upset. We think the other person is thinking the opposite so maybe it isn't even anything...
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Posted by Leo1888815 months on yesterday. I open up occasionally and heās just silent. He doesnāt say anything lol well not completely true anymore. Heāll through in an aww or something like thatās sweet but I donāt get more of a response than thatPosted by BrittnieI think we pick up on changes and you pick up on our changes and then we both think something as happened but nothing has. It's just in our heads.Posted by Leo188881Thank you! It was on Saturday. And he just started after I left. His messages were dry and short. He called after I sent that to you š he was sweet but also kinda rude. He always calls me petnames too and he was just like. Good morning period like no feeling in anything he has said. One word answers. When he called it was nice to hear ābabyā again after he told me my show was boring. How long have you been with your Aqua? We are having so much trouble but my love for him is unreal. Heās a lot slower to open up than I amPosted by BrittniePosted by Leo188881I have a question, so I gave him a massage on my birthday and he was like you donāt have to baby and I told him If he thought I wasnāt going to after 3 weeks he was crazy. Then I made him a huge dinner and dessert, he loved the food and we had a great night. I want to do it cuz he had worked all week after being sick and then had drill all weekend. Well the next morning he started acting kinda weird. I dunno if it was me or his weekend has just sucked but he acts like heās getting distant. Am I being too caring or something? I donāt understandPosted by BrittniePosted by Leo188881I had read Leoās LOVE compliments so I was shocked when I constantly have my Leo compliments and he was like no or youāre crazy or the famous āwhateverāPosted by saweetz1988Posted by Leo188881YIKE thank u for ur insights.
I'm weird with gifts. I LOVE giving them. Especially to children because i like watching their faces light up but I suck at receiving them. I appreciate the gesture and love that someone would get me something but I'm not used to it so i don't know how to show I appreciate it properly. It's kind of an overwhelmed/going into shock kind of feeling.
i notice my leo is very introverted and even struggle sometimes to express his true feelings or anything with words...not very good with compliments either. we r in the processs of making that better and its getting there .i just don't want him too pressured. but i know he will get upset if i don't do anything special or prepare anything for him.
..what do u appreciate as gifts?
thank u
I'm like that too with compliments. i want them and need them but when i get them i change the subject or say no I'm not š
š¤ something little as a gift. I like the "I saw this and thought of you" type. I don't think much of valentines day so it's not important because it's forced. It's only been 2 months so if he has a good sense of humour i think something cute and funny would be nice.
We love compliments and want them but we suck at receiving them. They make us happy because we like that you like stuff about us. We just suck at knowing what to do when we get them. We become really humble and reject them instead of just saying thank you like normal people. But they sink in and we appreciate them after we go away and think about the little things you say or do for us. We usually remember every act of kindness towards us forever.
Eg. My Aqua serviced my car in 2012. I didn't like him or think anything of him and i went back and told him a light came on a few minths later and he fixed some fuel pump sensor or something and didn't charge me. Fast forward 5 years later when our paths crossed again and I mentioned it to him. He didn't remember but i told him i remember everything nice someone does for me.
We're used to giving not taking so getting compliments or help or anything that we aren't expecting is a really big deal but we don't show it on the outside because it takes time to process what just happened.
Happy birthday.
Was it the weekend that just passed or has this been going on for a while?
Im surprised you don't do what my Aqua does and pretend everything is normal and you didn't even notice š
He might have felt stupid for not doing enough for you on your birthday and there is imbalance in giving. We like always giving more but don't mention that.
I got no idea with the aqua leo stuff. Your guess is as good as mine. When i think he wants space, he thinks i want space. When he thibks I'm upset, i think he's upset. We think the other person is thinking the opposite so maybe it isn't even anything...
4 months ago we started talking and then the week after we were together. I want to open up more and be vulnerable but i don't feel i can because he wont open up and be vulnerable..
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Posted by AerialViewhahaaha i like it š
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Posted by Brittniehahaha yeah,Posted by Leo188881I had read Leoās LOVE compliments so I was shocked when I constantly have my Leo compliments and he was like no or youāre crazy or the famous āwhateverāPosted by saweetz1988Posted by Leo188881YIKE thank u for ur insights.
I'm weird with gifts. I LOVE giving them. Especially to children because i like watching their faces light up but I suck at receiving them. I appreciate the gesture and love that someone would get me something but I'm not used to it so i don't know how to show I appreciate it properly. It's kind of an overwhelmed/going into shock kind of feeling.
i notice my leo is very introverted and even struggle sometimes to express his true feelings or anything with words...not very good with compliments either. we r in the processs of making that better and its getting there .i just don't want him too pressured. but i know he will get upset if i don't do anything special or prepare anything for him.
..what do u appreciate as gifts?
thank u
I'm like that too with compliments. i want them and need them but when i get them i change the subject or say no I'm not š
š¤ something little as a gift. I like the "I saw this and thought of you" type. I don't think much of valentines day so it's not important because it's forced. It's only been 2 months so if he has a good sense of humour i think something cute and funny would be nice.
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Posted by Leo188881so when u do something for ur lover ..like expensive gifts or spoil them, do u expect the same amount in return?Posted by BrittniePosted by Leo188881I had read Leoās LOVE compliments so I was shocked when I constantly have my Leo compliments and he was like no or youāre crazy or the famous āwhateverāPosted by saweetz1988Posted by Leo188881YIKE thank u for ur insights.
I'm weird with gifts. I LOVE giving them. Especially to children because i like watching their faces light up but I suck at receiving them. I appreciate the gesture and love that someone would get me something but I'm not used to it so i don't know how to show I appreciate it properly. It's kind of an overwhelmed/going into shock kind of feeling.
i notice my leo is very introverted and even struggle sometimes to express his true feelings or anything with words...not very good with compliments either. we r in the processs of making that better and its getting there .i just don't want him too pressured. but i know he will get upset if i don't do anything special or prepare anything for him.
..what do u appreciate as gifts?
thank u
I'm like that too with compliments. i want them and need them but when i get them i change the subject or say no I'm not š
š¤ something little as a gift. I like the "I saw this and thought of you" type. I don't think much of valentines day so it's not important because it's forced. It's only been 2 months so if he has a good sense of humour i think something cute and funny would be nice.
We love compliments and want them but we suck at receiving them. They make us happy because we like that you like stuff about us. We just suck at knowing what to do when we get them. We become really humble and reject them instead of just saying thank you like normal people. But they sink in and we appreciate them after we go away and think about the little things you say or do for us. We usually remember every act of kindness towards us forever.
Eg. My Aqua serviced my car in 2012. I didn't like him or think anything of him and i went back and told him a light came on a few minths later and he fixed some fuel pump sensor or something and didn't charge me. Fast forward 5 years later when our paths crossed again and I mentioned it to him. He didn't remember but i told him i remember everything nice someone does for me.
We're used to giving not taking so getting compliments or help or anything that we aren't expecting is a really big deal but we don't show it on the outside because it takes time to process what just happened.click to expand

Posted by Brittniewhats ur sun?Posted by Leo188881I have a question, so I gave him a massage on my birthday and he was like you donāt have to baby and I told him If he thought I wasnāt going to after 3 weeks he was crazy. Then I made him a huge dinner and dessert, he loved the food and we had a great night. I want to do it cuz he had worked all week after being sick and then had drill all weekend. Well the next morning he started acting kinda weird. I dunno if it was me or his weekend has just sucked but he acts like heās getting distant. Am I being too caring or something? I donāt understandPosted by BrittniePosted by Leo188881I had read Leoās LOVE compliments so I was shocked when I constantly have my Leo compliments and he was like no or youāre crazy or the famous āwhateverāPosted by saweetz1988Posted by Leo188881YIKE thank u for ur insights.
I'm weird with gifts. I LOVE giving them. Especially to children because i like watching their faces light up but I suck at receiving them. I appreciate the gesture and love that someone would get me something but I'm not used to it so i don't know how to show I appreciate it properly. It's kind of an overwhelmed/going into shock kind of feeling.
i notice my leo is very introverted and even struggle sometimes to express his true feelings or anything with words...not very good with compliments either. we r in the processs of making that better and its getting there .i just don't want him too pressured. but i know he will get upset if i don't do anything special or prepare anything for him.
..what do u appreciate as gifts?
thank u
I'm like that too with compliments. i want them and need them but when i get them i change the subject or say no I'm not š
š¤ something little as a gift. I like the "I saw this and thought of you" type. I don't think much of valentines day so it's not important because it's forced. It's only been 2 months so if he has a good sense of humour i think something cute and funny would be nice.
We love compliments and want them but we suck at receiving them. They make us happy because we like that you like stuff about us. We just suck at knowing what to do when we get them. We become really humble and reject them instead of just saying thank you like normal people. But they sink in and we appreciate them after we go away and think about the little things you say or do for us. We usually remember every act of kindness towards us forever.
Eg. My Aqua serviced my car in 2012. I didn't like him or think anything of him and i went back and told him a light came on a few minths later and he fixed some fuel pump sensor or something and didn't charge me. Fast forward 5 years later when our paths crossed again and I mentioned it to him. He didn't remember but i told him i remember everything nice someone does for me.
We're used to giving not taking so getting compliments or help or anything that we aren't expecting is a really big deal but we don't show it on the outside because it takes time to process what just happened.
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Posted by Brittniebut it was UR birthday? I'm not giving anybody a massage on my birthday lol...Posted by Leo188881I have a question, so I gave him a massage on my birthday and he was like you donāt have to baby and I told him If he thought I wasnāt going to after 3 weeks he was crazy. Then I made him a huge dinner and dessert, he loved the food and we had a great night. I want to do it cuz he had worked all week after being sick and then had drill all weekend. Well the next morning he started acting kinda weird. I dunno if it was me or his weekend has just sucked but he acts like heās getting distant. Am I being too caring or something? I donāt understandPosted by BrittniePosted by Leo188881I had read Leoās LOVE compliments so I was shocked when I constantly have my Leo compliments and he was like no or youāre crazy or the famous āwhateverāPosted by saweetz1988Posted by Leo188881YIKE thank u for ur insights.
I'm weird with gifts. I LOVE giving them. Especially to children because i like watching their faces light up but I suck at receiving them. I appreciate the gesture and love that someone would get me something but I'm not used to it so i don't know how to show I appreciate it properly. It's kind of an overwhelmed/going into shock kind of feeling.
i notice my leo is very introverted and even struggle sometimes to express his true feelings or anything with words...not very good with compliments either. we r in the processs of making that better and its getting there .i just don't want him too pressured. but i know he will get upset if i don't do anything special or prepare anything for him.
..what do u appreciate as gifts?
thank u
I'm like that too with compliments. i want them and need them but when i get them i change the subject or say no I'm not š
š¤ something little as a gift. I like the "I saw this and thought of you" type. I don't think much of valentines day so it's not important because it's forced. It's only been 2 months so if he has a good sense of humour i think something cute and funny would be nice.
We love compliments and want them but we suck at receiving them. They make us happy because we like that you like stuff about us. We just suck at knowing what to do when we get them. We become really humble and reject them instead of just saying thank you like normal people. But they sink in and we appreciate them after we go away and think about the little things you say or do for us. We usually remember every act of kindness towards us forever.
Eg. My Aqua serviced my car in 2012. I didn't like him or think anything of him and i went back and told him a light came on a few minths later and he fixed some fuel pump sensor or something and didn't charge me. Fast forward 5 years later when our paths crossed again and I mentioned it to him. He didn't remember but i told him i remember everything nice someone does for me.
We're used to giving not taking so getting compliments or help or anything that we aren't expecting is a really big deal but we don't show it on the outside because it takes time to process what just happened.
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Posted by saweetz1988He brought me a bottle of wine, thatās itPosted by Brittniebut it was UR birthday? I'm not giving anybody a massage on my birthday lol...Posted by Leo188881I have a question, so I gave him a massage on my birthday and he was like you donāt have to baby and I told him If he thought I wasnāt going to after 3 weeks he was crazy. Then I made him a huge dinner and dessert, he loved the food and we had a great night. I want to do it cuz he had worked all week after being sick and then had drill all weekend. Well the next morning he started acting kinda weird. I dunno if it was me or his weekend has just sucked but he acts like heās getting distant. Am I being too caring or something? I donāt understandPosted by BrittniePosted by Leo188881I had read Leoās LOVE compliments so I was shocked when I constantly have my Leo compliments and he was like no or youāre crazy or the famous āwhateverāPosted by saweetz1988Posted by Leo188881YIKE thank u for ur insights.
I'm weird with gifts. I LOVE giving them. Especially to children because i like watching their faces light up but I suck at receiving them. I appreciate the gesture and love that someone would get me something but I'm not used to it so i don't know how to show I appreciate it properly. It's kind of an overwhelmed/going into shock kind of feeling.
i notice my leo is very introverted and even struggle sometimes to express his true feelings or anything with words...not very good with compliments either. we r in the processs of making that better and its getting there .i just don't want him too pressured. but i know he will get upset if i don't do anything special or prepare anything for him.
..what do u appreciate as gifts?
thank u
I'm like that too with compliments. i want them and need them but when i get them i change the subject or say no I'm not š
š¤ something little as a gift. I like the "I saw this and thought of you" type. I don't think much of valentines day so it's not important because it's forced. It's only been 2 months so if he has a good sense of humour i think something cute and funny would be nice.
We love compliments and want them but we suck at receiving them. They make us happy because we like that you like stuff about us. We just suck at knowing what to do when we get them. We become really humble and reject them instead of just saying thank you like normal people. But they sink in and we appreciate them after we go away and think about the little things you say or do for us. We usually remember every act of kindness towards us forever.
Eg. My Aqua serviced my car in 2012. I didn't like him or think anything of him and i went back and told him a light came on a few minths later and he fixed some fuel pump sensor or something and didn't charge me. Fast forward 5 years later when our paths crossed again and I mentioned it to him. He didn't remember but i told him i remember everything nice someone does for me.
We're used to giving not taking so getting compliments or help or anything that we aren't expecting is a really big deal but we don't show it on the outside because it takes time to process what just happened.
n i will not touch the kitchen.
u need to let ur lion spoil u on ur birthday šclick to expand

Posted by BrittnieThat I CANT EVEN OPEN!!!!Posted by saweetz1988He brought me a bottle of wine, thatās itPosted by Brittniebut it was UR birthday? I'm not giving anybody a massage on my birthday lol...Posted by Leo188881I have a question, so I gave him a massage on my birthday and he was like you donāt have to baby and I told him If he thought I wasnāt going to after 3 weeks he was crazy. Then I made him a huge dinner and dessert, he loved the food and we had a great night. I want to do it cuz he had worked all week after being sick and then had drill all weekend. Well the next morning he started acting kinda weird. I dunno if it was me or his weekend has just sucked but he acts like heās getting distant. Am I being too caring or something? I donāt understandPosted by BrittniePosted by Leo188881I had read Leoās LOVE compliments so I was shocked when I constantly have my Leo compliments and he was like no or youāre crazy or the famous āwhateverāPosted by saweetz1988Posted by Leo188881YIKE thank u for ur insights.
I'm weird with gifts. I LOVE giving them. Especially to children because i like watching their faces light up but I suck at receiving them. I appreciate the gesture and love that someone would get me something but I'm not used to it so i don't know how to show I appreciate it properly. It's kind of an overwhelmed/going into shock kind of feeling.
i notice my leo is very introverted and even struggle sometimes to express his true feelings or anything with words...not very good with compliments either. we r in the processs of making that better and its getting there .i just don't want him too pressured. but i know he will get upset if i don't do anything special or prepare anything for him.
..what do u appreciate as gifts?
thank u
I'm like that too with compliments. i want them and need them but when i get them i change the subject or say no I'm not š
š¤ something little as a gift. I like the "I saw this and thought of you" type. I don't think much of valentines day so it's not important because it's forced. It's only been 2 months so if he has a good sense of humour i think something cute and funny would be nice.
We love compliments and want them but we suck at receiving them. They make us happy because we like that you like stuff about us. We just suck at knowing what to do when we get them. We become really humble and reject them instead of just saying thank you like normal people. But they sink in and we appreciate them after we go away and think about the little things you say or do for us. We usually remember every act of kindness towards us forever.
Eg. My Aqua serviced my car in 2012. I didn't like him or think anything of him and i went back and told him a light came on a few minths later and he fixed some fuel pump sensor or something and didn't charge me. Fast forward 5 years later when our paths crossed again and I mentioned it to him. He didn't remember but i told him i remember everything nice someone does for me.
We're used to giving not taking so getting compliments or help or anything that we aren't expecting is a really big deal but we don't show it on the outside because it takes time to process what just happened.
n i will not touch the kitchen.
u need to let ur lion spoil u on ur birthday šclick to expand

Posted by Leo188881My man also has a Aries moon šPosted by BrittniePosted by Leo1888815 months on yesterday. I open up occasionally and heās just silent. He doesnāt say anything lol well not completely true anymore. Heāll through in an aww or something like thatās sweet but I donāt get more of a response than thatPosted by BrittnieI think we pick up on changes and you pick up on our changes and then we both think something as happened but nothing has. It's just in our heads.Posted by Leo188881Thank you! It was on Saturday. And he just started after I left. His messages were dry and short. He called after I sent that to you š he was sweet but also kinda rude. He always calls me petnames too and he was just like. Good morning period like no feeling in anything he has said. One word answers. When he called it was nice to hear ābabyā again after he told me my show was boring. How long have you been with your Aqua? We are having so much trouble but my love for him is unreal. Heās a lot slower to open up than I amPosted by BrittniePosted by Leo188881I have a question, so I gave him a massage on my birthday and he was like you donāt have to baby and I told him If he thought I wasnāt going to after 3 weeks he was crazy. Then I made him a huge dinner and dessert, he loved the food and we had a great night. I want to do it cuz he had worked all week after being sick and then had drill all weekend. Well the next morning he started acting kinda weird. I dunno if it was me or his weekend has just sucked but he acts like heās getting distant. Am I being too caring or something? I donāt understandPosted by BrittniePosted by Leo188881I had read Leoās LOVE compliments so I was shocked when I constantly have my Leo compliments and he was like no or youāre crazy or the famous āwhateverāPosted by saweetz1988Posted by Leo188881YIKE thank u for ur insights.
I'm weird with gifts. I LOVE giving them. Especially to children because i like watching their faces light up but I suck at receiving them. I appreciate the gesture and love that someone would get me something but I'm not used to it so i don't know how to show I appreciate it properly. It's kind of an overwhelmed/going into shock kind of feeling.
i notice my leo is very introverted and even struggle sometimes to express his true feelings or anything with words...not very good with compliments either. we r in the processs of making that better and its getting there .i just don't want him too pressured. but i know he will get upset if i don't do anything special or prepare anything for him.
..what do u appreciate as gifts?
thank u
I'm like that too with compliments. i want them and need them but when i get them i change the subject or say no I'm not š
š¤ something little as a gift. I like the "I saw this and thought of you" type. I don't think much of valentines day so it's not important because it's forced. It's only been 2 months so if he has a good sense of humour i think something cute and funny would be nice.
We love compliments and want them but we suck at receiving them. They make us happy because we like that you like stuff about us. We just suck at knowing what to do when we get them. We become really humble and reject them instead of just saying thank you like normal people. But they sink in and we appreciate them after we go away and think about the little things you say or do for us. We usually remember every act of kindness towards us forever.
Eg. My Aqua serviced my car in 2012. I didn't like him or think anything of him and i went back and told him a light came on a few minths later and he fixed some fuel pump sensor or something and didn't charge me. Fast forward 5 years later when our paths crossed again and I mentioned it to him. He didn't remember but i told him i remember everything nice someone does for me.
We're used to giving not taking so getting compliments or help or anything that we aren't expecting is a really big deal but we don't show it on the outside because it takes time to process what just happened.
Happy birthday.
Was it the weekend that just passed or has this been going on for a while?
Im surprised you don't do what my Aqua does and pretend everything is normal and you didn't even notice š
He might have felt stupid for not doing enough for you on your birthday and there is imbalance in giving. We like always giving more but don't mention that.
I got no idea with the aqua leo stuff. Your guess is as good as mine. When i think he wants space, he thinks i want space. When he thibks I'm upset, i think he's upset. We think the other person is thinking the opposite so maybe it isn't even anything...
4 months ago we started talking and then the week after we were together. I want to open up more and be vulnerable but i don't feel i can because he wont open up and be vulnerable..
How long have you had yours?
He sounds like my Aqua and you sound like
me š
Do you think maybe we interpret what we do as what they do, and don't realise we're seeing us in them instead of seeing what they do and what we do and we just think we do what we think we do but we don't...
Identity crisis of opposites. š¤click to expand

Posted by Leo188881My thoughts exactlyPosted by BrittniePosted by BrittnieThat I CANT EVEN OPEN!!!!Posted by saweetz1988He brought me a bottle of wine, thatās itPosted by Brittniebut it was UR birthday? I'm not giving anybody a massage on my birthday lol...Posted by Leo188881I have a question, so I gave him a massage on my birthday and he was like you donāt have to baby and I told him If he thought I wasnāt going to after 3 weeks he was crazy. Then I made him a huge dinner and dessert, he loved the food and we had a great night. I want to do it cuz he had worked all week after being sick and then had drill all weekend. Well the next morning he started acting kinda weird. I dunno if it was me or his weekend has just sucked but he acts like heās getting distant. Am I being too caring or something? I donāt understandPosted by BrittniePosted by Leo188881I had read Leoās LOVE compliments so I was shocked when I constantly have my Leo compliments and he was like no or youāre crazy or the famous āwhateverāPosted by saweetz1988Posted by Leo188881YIKE thank u for ur insights.
I'm weird with gifts. I LOVE giving them. Especially to children because i like watching their faces light up but I suck at receiving them. I appreciate the gesture and love that someone would get me something but I'm not used to it so i don't know how to show I appreciate it properly. It's kind of an overwhelmed/going into shock kind of feeling.
i notice my leo is very introverted and even struggle sometimes to express his true feelings or anything with words...not very good with compliments either. we r in the processs of making that better and its getting there .i just don't want him too pressured. but i know he will get upset if i don't do anything special or prepare anything for him.
..what do u appreciate as gifts?
thank u
I'm like that too with compliments. i want them and need them but when i get them i change the subject or say no I'm not š
š¤ something little as a gift. I like the "I saw this and thought of you" type. I don't think much of valentines day so it's not important because it's forced. It's only been 2 months so if he has a good sense of humour i think something cute and funny would be nice.
We love compliments and want them but we suck at receiving them. They make us happy because we like that you like stuff about us. We just suck at knowing what to do when we get them. We become really humble and reject them instead of just saying thank you like normal people. But they sink in and we appreciate them after we go away and think about the little things you say or do for us. We usually remember every act of kindness towards us forever.
Eg. My Aqua serviced my car in 2012. I didn't like him or think anything of him and i went back and told him a light came on a few minths later and he fixed some fuel pump sensor or something and didn't charge me. Fast forward 5 years later when our paths crossed again and I mentioned it to him. He didn't remember but i told him i remember everything nice someone does for me.
We're used to giving not taking so getting compliments or help or anything that we aren't expecting is a really big deal but we don't show it on the outside because it takes time to process what just happened.
n i will not touch the kitchen.
u need to let ur lion spoil u on ur birthday š
A bottle of wine wtf?
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Posted by saweetz1988I hear you. It was even worse for me because falling in love again after 8 years was NOT on my to-do list. Caught me completely by surprise, especially after the trauma I experienced because of my ex that almost killed me. Both previous times I'd been in love lasted for about a year each. But this time I was in love with him for 3 full years before I finally spilled the beans to him about.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowi do lavish him...it just takes me a while to get there ( i been BURNT a lot over the last 5 years) we are a slow process. but once I'm completely in, i can really give them the world. and that has been taken advantage of a lot in the past.Posted by saweetz1988Eh mine is different. Leo cusper with Leo Mercury/Venus & Scorp Mars, he's an attention/affection sponge. The more I dish out, the more he absorbs and squirms for more. Hard to say how long we've officially been together because our best-friendship line blurred quite a while ago. But we got physical the first time on my birthday last year, so.....11 months. Best friends for 4 years beforehand.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowoh dear lord....
I would suggest something little, like a trinket he can carry with him all day, as a token of however you feel about him. And for the grand finale, arrange something that he will definitely enjoy, an event tailored to what he enjoys most. This will show that you're willing to make an effort on his behalf. Make him feel appreciated beyond doubt.
I spent several days scanning photos & making a tribute vid for my Lion. He ended up being too emotional to do anything other than hold onto me like a bear for the entire night. But that was just phase 1 of my plan.
that is intense lol
my moon in aqua n mars r running away lol
T_T
How long have u been together?
i only seen him for a couple of months though and we def haven't told each other how we feel
he's also a more guarded one. he's more the action type.
More guarded means he's not sure of you yet. Aqua mooner with a Leo? Yikes. Don't mean to be a downer but that's like one of the worst possible scenarios for a Leo. If you can't lavish a Lion, then it's almost certainly all for naught. I hope I'm proven wrong.
my taurus sun comes into play a lot when it comes to giving love and affection etc. also i have scorpio sun house. so i can be intense too.
i'm going to make him a cheesecake tomorrow. š
but its ok, i understand everyone has their own opinion. i know i can be maybe a little bit too insensitive for him but i am working on it.
got to try and give it everything while we r at it right š
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Posted by saweetz1988šPosted by AerialViewhahaaha i like it š
Buy yourself one of these.![]()
but I'm trying to leave the bedroom presents aside lol
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Posted by Brittnieomg!! why not ??Posted by BrittnieThat I CANT EVEN OPEN!!!!Posted by saweetz1988He brought me a bottle of wine, thatās itPosted by Brittniebut it was UR birthday? I'm not giving anybody a massage on my birthday lol...Posted by Leo188881I have a question, so I gave him a massage on my birthday and he was like you donāt have to baby and I told him If he thought I wasnāt going to after 3 weeks he was crazy. Then I made him a huge dinner and dessert, he loved the food and we had a great night. I want to do it cuz he had worked all week after being sick and then had drill all weekend. Well the next morning he started acting kinda weird. I dunno if it was me or his weekend has just sucked but he acts like heās getting distant. Am I being too caring or something? I donāt understandPosted by BrittniePosted by Leo188881I had read Leoās LOVE compliments so I was shocked when I constantly have my Leo compliments and he was like no or youāre crazy or the famous āwhateverāPosted by saweetz1988Posted by Leo188881YIKE thank u for ur insights.
I'm weird with gifts. I LOVE giving them. Especially to children because i like watching their faces light up but I suck at receiving them. I appreciate the gesture and love that someone would get me something but I'm not used to it so i don't know how to show I appreciate it properly. It's kind of an overwhelmed/going into shock kind of feeling.
i notice my leo is very introverted and even struggle sometimes to express his true feelings or anything with words...not very good with compliments either. we r in the processs of making that better and its getting there .i just don't want him too pressured. but i know he will get upset if i don't do anything special or prepare anything for him.
..what do u appreciate as gifts?
thank u
I'm like that too with compliments. i want them and need them but when i get them i change the subject or say no I'm not š
š¤ something little as a gift. I like the "I saw this and thought of you" type. I don't think much of valentines day so it's not important because it's forced. It's only been 2 months so if he has a good sense of humour i think something cute and funny would be nice.
We love compliments and want them but we suck at receiving them. They make us happy because we like that you like stuff about us. We just suck at knowing what to do when we get them. We become really humble and reject them instead of just saying thank you like normal people. But they sink in and we appreciate them after we go away and think about the little things you say or do for us. We usually remember every act of kindness towards us forever.
Eg. My Aqua serviced my car in 2012. I didn't like him or think anything of him and i went back and told him a light came on a few minths later and he fixed some fuel pump sensor or something and didn't charge me. Fast forward 5 years later when our paths crossed again and I mentioned it to him. He didn't remember but i told him i remember everything nice someone does for me.
We're used to giving not taking so getting compliments or help or anything that we aren't expecting is a really big deal but we don't show it on the outside because it takes time to process what just happened.
n i will not touch the kitchen.
u need to let ur lion spoil u on ur birthday šclick to expand

Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by saweetz1988I hear you. It was even worse for me because falling in love again after 8 years was NOT on my to-do list. Caught me completely by surprise, especially after the trauma I experienced because of my ex that almost killed me. Both previous times I'd been in love lasted for about a year each. But this time I was in love with him for 3 full years before I finally spilled the beans to him about.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowi do lavish him...it just takes me a while to get there ( i been BURNT a lot over the last 5 years) we are a slow process. but once I'm completely in, i can really give them the world. and that has been taken advantage of a lot in the past.Posted by saweetz1988Eh mine is different. Leo cusper with Leo Mercury/Venus & Scorp Mars, he's an attention/affection sponge. The more I dish out, the more he absorbs and squirms for more. Hard to say how long we've officially been together because our best-friendship line blurred quite a while ago. But we got physical the first time on my birthday last year, so.....11 months. Best friends for 4 years beforehand.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowoh dear lord....
I would suggest something little, like a trinket he can carry with him all day, as a token of however you feel about him. And for the grand finale, arrange something that he will definitely enjoy, an event tailored to what he enjoys most. This will show that you're willing to make an effort on his behalf. Make him feel appreciated beyond doubt.
I spent several days scanning photos & making a tribute vid for my Lion. He ended up being too emotional to do anything other than hold onto me like a bear for the entire night. But that was just phase 1 of my plan.
that is intense lol
my moon in aqua n mars r running away lol
T_T
How long have u been together?
i only seen him for a couple of months though and we def haven't told each other how we feel
he's also a more guarded one. he's more the action type.
More guarded means he's not sure of you yet. Aqua mooner with a Leo? Yikes. Don't mean to be a downer but that's like one of the worst possible scenarios for a Leo. If you can't lavish a Lion, then it's almost certainly all for naught. I hope I'm proven wrong.
my taurus sun comes into play a lot when it comes to giving love and affection etc. also i have scorpio sun house. so i can be intense too.
i'm going to make him a cheesecake tomorrow. š
but its ok, i understand everyone has their own opinion. i know i can be maybe a little bit too insensitive for him but i am working on it.
got to try and give it everything while we r at it right š
It's the most intense love I've ever experienced and the one that feels the most right to me. I knew he was different & better than any other guy I've dated or loved from the first day I met him, but when an at-the-time fully straight guy offered to sleep with me so he could keep me in his life - that just clinched it for me. I knew this was an once-in-a-lifetime thing and I refused to waste any more time holding back. Everything just snowballed from there.
I hope your guy is mature enough to understand your need for guardiness. The sun is the ego and Leos have big egos. Don't mention your Scorp boss looking at your boobies either lol. Many people can't handle the Lions because they're considered to be too much work. But my Leo-dominant baby makes me feel more alive than anyone ever before. He gave me a reason to live again. Before he came into my life I was ready to call it all quits.
I'm rooting for you big time and I hope you guys go the distance. Since this is gonna be both yours and ours first Valentine's Day, I wanna dedicate this song to you two.
This is the song I used in my baby's tribute vid too. "This is the start of something beautiful" - truer lyrics have never been sung before.
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Posted by AerialViewwhere do i buy thatā lolPosted by saweetz1988šPosted by AerialViewhahaaha i like it š
Buy yourself one of these.![]()
but I'm trying to leave the bedroom presents aside lol
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Posted by Brittniei'm sorry to hear that š¢Posted by Leo188881My thoughts exactlyPosted by BrittniePosted by BrittnieThat I CANT EVEN OPEN!!!!Posted by saweetz1988He brought me a bottle of wine, thatās itPosted by Brittniebut it was UR birthday? I'm not giving anybody a massage on my birthday lol...Posted by Leo188881I have a question, so I gave him a massage on my birthday and he was like you donāt have to baby and I told him If he thought I wasnāt going to after 3 weeks he was crazy. Then I made him a huge dinner and dessert, he loved the food and we had a great night. I want to do it cuz he had worked all week after being sick and then had drill all weekend. Well the next morning he started acting kinda weird. I dunno if it was me or his weekend has just sucked but he acts like heās getting distant. Am I being too caring or something? I donāt understandPosted by BrittniePosted by Leo188881I had read Leoās LOVE compliments so I was shocked when I constantly have my Leo compliments and he was like no or youāre crazy or the famous āwhateverāPosted by saweetz1988Posted by Leo188881YIKE thank u for ur insights.
I'm weird with gifts. I LOVE giving them. Especially to children because i like watching their faces light up but I suck at receiving them. I appreciate the gesture and love that someone would get me something but I'm not used to it so i don't know how to show I appreciate it properly. It's kind of an overwhelmed/going into shock kind of feeling.
i notice my leo is very introverted and even struggle sometimes to express his true feelings or anything with words...not very good with compliments either. we r in the processs of making that better and its getting there .i just don't want him too pressured. but i know he will get upset if i don't do anything special or prepare anything for him.
..what do u appreciate as gifts?
thank u
I'm like that too with compliments. i want them and need them but when i get them i change the subject or say no I'm not š
š¤ something little as a gift. I like the "I saw this and thought of you" type. I don't think much of valentines day so it's not important because it's forced. It's only been 2 months so if he has a good sense of humour i think something cute and funny would be nice.
We love compliments and want them but we suck at receiving them. They make us happy because we like that you like stuff about us. We just suck at knowing what to do when we get them. We become really humble and reject them instead of just saying thank you like normal people. But they sink in and we appreciate them after we go away and think about the little things you say or do for us. We usually remember every act of kindness towards us forever.
Eg. My Aqua serviced my car in 2012. I didn't like him or think anything of him and i went back and told him a light came on a few minths later and he fixed some fuel pump sensor or something and didn't charge me. Fast forward 5 years later when our paths crossed again and I mentioned it to him. He didn't remember but i told him i remember everything nice someone does for me.
We're used to giving not taking so getting compliments or help or anything that we aren't expecting is a really big deal but we don't show it on the outside because it takes time to process what just happened.
n i will not touch the kitchen.
u need to let ur lion spoil u on ur birthday š
A bottle of wine wtf?
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Posted by saweetz1988Pisces and Aries, He spoils me with kisses and hugs. He had literally just came back from his trip but I dunno. I think I spoil him more than he does me. Iām not the affectionate type like he is so I try to make up for it by cooking and stuffsPosted by Brittniei'm sorry to hear that š¢Posted by Leo188881My thoughts exactlyPosted by BrittniePosted by BrittnieThat I CANT EVEN OPEN!!!!Posted by saweetz1988He brought me a bottle of wine, thatās itPosted by Brittniebut it was UR birthday? I'm not giving anybody a massage on my birthday lol...Posted by Leo188881I have a question, so I gave him a massage on my birthday and he was like you donāt have to baby and I told him If he thought I wasnāt going to after 3 weeks he was crazy. Then I made him a huge dinner and dessert, he loved the food and we had a great night. I want to do it cuz he had worked all week after being sick and then had drill all weekend. Well the next morning he started acting kinda weird. I dunno if it was me or his weekend has just sucked but he acts like heās getting distant. Am I being too caring or something? I donāt understandPosted by BrittniePosted by Leo188881I had read Leoās LOVE compliments so I was shocked when I constantly have my Leo compliments and he was like no or youāre crazy or the famous āwhateverāPosted by saweetz1988Posted by Leo188881YIKE thank u for ur insights.
I'm weird with gifts. I LOVE giving them. Especially to children because i like watching their faces light up but I suck at receiving them. I appreciate the gesture and love that someone would get me something but I'm not used to it so i don't know how to show I appreciate it properly. It's kind of an overwhelmed/going into shock kind of feeling.
i notice my leo is very introverted and even struggle sometimes to express his true feelings or anything with words...not very good with compliments either. we r in the processs of making that better and its getting there .i just don't want him too pressured. but i know he will get upset if i don't do anything special or prepare anything for him.
..what do u appreciate as gifts?
thank u
I'm like that too with compliments. i want them and need them but when i get them i change the subject or say no I'm not š
š¤ something little as a gift. I like the "I saw this and thought of you" type. I don't think much of valentines day so it's not important because it's forced. It's only been 2 months so if he has a good sense of humour i think something cute and funny would be nice.
We love compliments and want them but we suck at receiving them. They make us happy because we like that you like stuff about us. We just suck at knowing what to do when we get them. We become really humble and reject them instead of just saying thank you like normal people. But they sink in and we appreciate them after we go away and think about the little things you say or do for us. We usually remember every act of kindness towards us forever.
Eg. My Aqua serviced my car in 2012. I didn't like him or think anything of him and i went back and told him a light came on a few minths later and he fixed some fuel pump sensor or something and didn't charge me. Fast forward 5 years later when our paths crossed again and I mentioned it to him. He didn't remember but i told him i remember everything nice someone does for me.
We're used to giving not taking so getting compliments or help or anything that we aren't expecting is a really big deal but we don't show it on the outside because it takes time to process what just happened.
n i will not touch the kitchen.
u need to let ur lion spoil u on ur birthday š
A bottle of wine wtf?
i thought leo is the spoil type?
whats ur venus n moon ?click to expand

Posted by Leo188881I think it was the actual present. He brought it with him and then I made dinner the next night. I think he was like, this is all I have so itās what she gets lolPosted by BrittniePosted by Leo188881My thoughts exactlyPosted by BrittniePosted by BrittnieThat I CANT EVEN OPEN!!!!Posted by saweetz1988He brought me a bottle of wine, thatās itPosted by Brittniebut it was UR birthday? I'm not giving anybody a massage on my birthday lol...Posted by Leo188881I have a question, so I gave him a massage on my birthday and he was like you donāt have to baby and I told him If he thought I wasnāt going to after 3 weeks he was crazy. Then I made him a huge dinner and dessert, he loved the food and we had a great night. I want to do it cuz he had worked all week after being sick and then had drill all weekend. Well the next morning he started acting kinda weird. I dunno if it was me or his weekend has just sucked but he acts like heās getting distant. Am I being too caring or something? I donāt understandPosted by BrittniePosted by Leo188881I had read Leoās LOVE compliments so I was shocked when I constantly have my Leo compliments and he was like no or youāre crazy or the famous āwhateverāPosted by saweetz1988Posted by Leo188881YIKE thank u for ur insights.
I'm weird with gifts. I LOVE giving them. Especially to children because i like watching their faces light up but I suck at receiving them. I appreciate the gesture and love that someone would get me something but I'm not used to it so i don't know how to show I appreciate it properly. It's kind of an overwhelmed/going into shock kind of feeling.
i notice my leo is very introverted and even struggle sometimes to express his true feelings or anything with words...not very good with compliments either. we r in the processs of making that better and its getting there .i just don't want him too pressured. but i know he will get upset if i don't do anything special or prepare anything for him.
..what do u appreciate as gifts?
thank u
I'm like that too with compliments. i want them and need them but when i get them i change the subject or say no I'm not š
š¤ something little as a gift. I like the "I saw this and thought of you" type. I don't think much of valentines day so it's not important because it's forced. It's only been 2 months so if he has a good sense of humour i think something cute and funny would be nice.
We love compliments and want them but we suck at receiving them. They make us happy because we like that you like stuff about us. We just suck at knowing what to do when we get them. We become really humble and reject them instead of just saying thank you like normal people. But they sink in and we appreciate them after we go away and think about the little things you say or do for us. We usually remember every act of kindness towards us forever.
Eg. My Aqua serviced my car in 2012. I didn't like him or think anything of him and i went back and told him a light came on a few minths later and he fixed some fuel pump sensor or something and didn't charge me. Fast forward 5 years later when our paths crossed again and I mentioned it to him. He didn't remember but i told him i remember everything nice someone does for me.
We're used to giving not taking so getting compliments or help or anything that we aren't expecting is a really big deal but we don't show it on the outside because it takes time to process what just happened.
n i will not touch the kitchen.
u need to let ur lion spoil u on ur birthday š
A bottle of wine wtf?
Was it fancy? And was that an actual present or did he just come with a bottle of wine in his hand because you made dinner
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Posted by Leo188881Youāre not completely wrong. The fear of rejection is too great. But only because I have tried to open up a few times and get so little in return.Posted by BrittnieWhat is up with you aquas. We have to initiate everything! š„Posted by Leo188881My man also has a Aries moon šPosted by BrittniePosted by Leo1888815 months on yesterday. I open up occasionally and heās just silent. He doesnāt say anything lol well not completely true anymore. Heāll through in an aww or something like thatās sweet but I donāt get more of a response than thatPosted by BrittnieI think we pick up on changes and you pick up on our changes and then we both think something as happened but nothing has. It's just in our heads.Posted by Leo188881Thank you! It was on Saturday. And he just started after I left. His messages were dry and short. He called after I sent that to you š he was sweet but also kinda rude. He always calls me petnames too and he was just like. Good morning period like no feeling in anything he has said. One word answers. When he called it was nice to hear ābabyā again after he told me my show was boring. How long have you been with your Aqua? We are having so much trouble but my love for him is unreal. Heās a lot slower to open up than I amPosted by BrittniePosted by Leo188881I have a question, so I gave him a massage on my birthday and he was like you donāt have to baby and I told him If he thought I wasnāt going to after 3 weeks he was crazy. Then I made him a huge dinner and dessert, he loved the food and we had a great night. I want to do it cuz he had worked all week after being sick and then had drill all weekend. Well the next morning he started acting kinda weird. I dunno if it was me or his weekend has just sucked but he acts like heās getting distant. Am I being too caring or something? I donāt understandPosted by BrittniePosted by Leo188881I had read Leoās LOVE compliments so I was shocked when I constantly have my Leo compliments and he was like no or youāre crazy or the famous āwhateverāPosted by saweetz1988Posted by Leo188881YIKE thank u for ur insights.
I'm weird with gifts. I LOVE giving them. Especially to children because i like watching their faces light up but I suck at receiving them. I appreciate the gesture and love that someone would get me something but I'm not used to it so i don't know how to show I appreciate it properly. It's kind of an overwhelmed/going into shock kind of feeling.
i notice my leo is very introverted and even struggle sometimes to express his true feelings or anything with words...not very good with compliments either. we r in the processs of making that better and its getting there .i just don't want him too pressured. but i know he will get upset if i don't do anything special or prepare anything for him.
..what do u appreciate as gifts?
thank u
I'm like that too with compliments. i want them and need them but when i get them i change the subject or say no I'm not š
š¤ something little as a gift. I like the "I saw this and thought of you" type. I don't think much of valentines day so it's not important because it's forced. It's only been 2 months so if he has a good sense of humour i think something cute and funny would be nice.
We love compliments and want them but we suck at receiving them. They make us happy because we like that you like stuff about us. We just suck at knowing what to do when we get them. We become really humble and reject them instead of just saying thank you like normal people. But they sink in and we appreciate them after we go away and think about the little things you say or do for us. We usually remember every act of kindness towards us forever.
Eg. My Aqua serviced my car in 2012. I didn't like him or think anything of him and i went back and told him a light came on a few minths later and he fixed some fuel pump sensor or something and didn't charge me. Fast forward 5 years later when our paths crossed again and I mentioned it to him. He didn't remember but i told him i remember everything nice someone does for me.
We're used to giving not taking so getting compliments or help or anything that we aren't expecting is a really big deal but we don't show it on the outside because it takes time to process what just happened.
Happy birthday.
Was it the weekend that just passed or has this been going on for a while?
Im surprised you don't do what my Aqua does and pretend everything is normal and you didn't even notice š
He might have felt stupid for not doing enough for you on your birthday and there is imbalance in giving. We like always giving more but don't mention that.
I got no idea with the aqua leo stuff. Your guess is as good as mine. When i think he wants space, he thinks i want space. When he thibks I'm upset, i think he's upset. We think the other person is thinking the opposite so maybe it isn't even anything...
4 months ago we started talking and then the week after we were together. I want to open up more and be vulnerable but i don't feel i can because he wont open up and be vulnerable..
How long have you had yours?
He sounds like my Aqua and you sound like
me š
Do you think maybe we interpret what we do as what they do, and don't realise we're seeing us in them instead of seeing what they do and what we do and we just think we do what we think we do but we don't...
Identity crisis of opposites. š¤
Thatās crazy you say that cuz I thought about it earlier!!!! I know we go about things so differently and Iām constantly reminding myself but it would be nice if we TALKED ABOUT IT! But not me though š him first š
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Posted by saweetz1988AmazonPosted by AerialViewwhere do i buy thatā lolPosted by saweetz1988šPosted by AerialViewhahaaha i like it š
Buy yourself one of these.![]()
but I'm trying to leave the bedroom presents aside lol
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Posted by saweetz1988Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowIn my experience, Leos/Leo-dominants like to be surprised. They might coyly say they don't feel like doing anything for a special occasion but that's just them giving you the opportunity to blow them away. Which is why I say "always have a plan B". If he doesn't have anything planned, then you do.
aww you are so sweet
thank you so much š
i'm not so sure if we are even doing anything special but i secretly hope he has something small planned for me š
i'm sorry about your past. we have all experienced not so nice .....encounters...but its about today and tomorrow isn't it ?
when we are open to love again, i'm sure we are a lot braver than most people who's afraid to love again.
has ur leo talked about valentines yet?
mine hasn't said a word.. LOL...click to expand
In our case, as it turns out we both have something planned. Thankfully mine wasn't doable on Wednesday (14th) and it has to happen on the Monday, 2 days earlier.. The funnier thing is I got the idea for that in a dream last week. I saw that in my dream he was a lead actor in a tv show and just oozed confidence & showmanship. It literally made my heart race like crazy in both the dream and real life lol, I woke up with it thumping like a piston.
So I booked an acting class because Jed is one theatrical mofo lol. I had the option of arranging a private acting lesson with a different provider, but when he gets going he really wants an audience so I went for the group option instead. I hired two costumes. Mine of the Terminator, his of a Resistance soldier. I actually had to tell him about Monday so that he doesn't have anything else planned for that evening. But what he doesn't know is that his family will be there to see him. I've sworn them to secrecy and threatened them with termination lol.![]()
I showed him the costumes, he put his on..........the helmet made him look like a complete tool LMFAO but I lied & said he looked sensational. Well the rest of him did, except for the head. He started calling me terminator recently because he found out about some stuff I used to get upto many years ago, during a stage in my life where my multiple Aries placements came to the fore out of necessity. I kinda was like a terminator indeed lol. Now it's stuck, hence the avatar change here.
For me, he arranged a photo session for just the two of us. He said it saddened him to find out that I don't have any photos of my family or of myself growing up. The reason for that is I simply don't want to remember either my family or my utter shit childhood they were responsible for. The oldest pic of mine I have is from 8 years ago, a few headshots I had done for a possible modelling gig.
I know what you should get yours! A little golden pendant/locket with both your photos in it. It's small and he can wear it all day.

Posted by SupesWow ok thank u...!! That is very interesting. I personally like to give those kind of presents too. Well thought out... i feel relieved now... hahaPosted by saweetz1988Thatāll pretty much do it!
..so we been dating for nearly a couple of months
i know its short but he's the giver type...def a giver type...things. spending, etc etc
so now its valentines day coming up. we have not talked about it at all.
what should i do for him?
we are exclusive and not seeing other people.
what would a leo appreciate and feel loved?
so far ,,its me serving up a luxury meal , good massage ( leo is better in that department lol), n ofcoz sexy lingeries lol
I'm thinking of getting a small gift prepared ( not sure what yet!!!)
...and maybe a nice card...i don't wanna go over board and seem too...eager...
any ideas? Leo is very high class..esp this one i'm with...so I'm a bit lost .. ....
thank you .
We like to give big things, not get them so much.
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Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by saweetz1988Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowAwww thank u i. Enjoy listening to ur stories. Whatās ur sun sign? Omg I donāt noe thatās intense!! Some people r telling me to get something funny n cute . Some says sexy. Some says meaningful. lol... itās only 2 months .. I donāt wanna seeem so..... u noe.. I just prefer if he shows me how much heās into this kind of thing first.. but wait so u think thereās a chance heās waiting for me to do a big surpriseā?In my experience, Leos/Leo-dominants like to be surprised. They might coyly say they don't feel like doing anything for a special occasion but that's just them giving you the opportunity to blow them away. Which is why I say "always have a plan B". If he doesn't have anything planned, then you do.
aww you are so sweet
thank you so much š
i'm not so sure if we are even doing anything special but i secretly hope he has something small planned for me š
i'm sorry about your past. we have all experienced not so nice .....encounters...but its about today and tomorrow isn't it ?
when we are open to love again, i'm sure we are a lot braver than most people who's afraid to love again.
has ur leo talked about valentines yet?
mine hasn't said a word.. LOL...
In our case, as it turns out we both have something planned. Thankfully mine wasn't doable on Wednesday (14th) and it has to happen on the Monday, 2 days earlier.. The funnier thing is I got the idea for that in a dream last week. I saw that in my dream he was a lead actor in a tv show and just oozed confidence & showmanship. It literally made my heart race like crazy in both the dream and real life lol, I woke up with it thumping like a piston.
So I booked an acting class because Jed is one theatrical mofo lol. I had the option of arranging a private acting lesson with a different provider, but when he gets going he really wants an audience so I went for the group option instead. I hired two costumes. Mine of the Terminator, his of a Resistance soldier. I actually had to tell him about Monday so that he doesn't have anything else planned for that evening. But what he doesn't know is that his family will be there to see him. I've sworn them to secrecy and threatened them with termination lol.![]()
I showed him the costumes, he put his on..........the helmet made him look like a complete tool LMFAO but I lied & said he looked sensational. Well the rest of him did, except for the head. He started calling me terminator recently because he found out about some stuff I used to get upto many years ago, during a stage in my life where my multiple Aries placements came to the fore out of necessity. I kinda was like a terminator indeed lol. Now it's stuck, hence the avatar change here.
For me, he arranged a photo session for just the two of us. He said it saddened him to find out that I don't have any photos of my family or of myself growing up. The reason for that is I simply don't want to remember either my family or my utter shit childhood they were responsible for. The oldest pic of mine I have is from 8 years ago, a few headshots I had done for a possible modelling gig.
I know what you should get yours! A little golden pendant/locket with both your photos in it. It's small and he can wear it all day.click to expand

Posted by saweetz1988Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by saweetz1988Assuming you're both in your 20s/30s, there's no such thing as a laid-back Leo sun/dominant when it comes to special occasions. They live for the attention and the effort. They want to feel special, the more extravagant/intense the better.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowAwww thank u i. Enjoy listening to ur stories. Whatās ur sun sign? Omg I donāt noe thatās intense!! Some people r telling me to get something funny n cute . Some says sexy. Some says meaningful. lol... itās only 2 months .. I donāt wanna seeem so..... u noe.. I just prefer if he shows me how much heās into this kind of thing first.. but wait so u think thereās a chance heās waiting for me to do a big surpriseā?In my experience, Leos/Leo-dominants like to be surprised. They might coyly say they don't feel like doing anything for a special occasion but that's just them giving you the opportunity to blow them away. Which is why I say "always have a plan B". If he doesn't have anything planned, then you do.
aww you are so sweet
thank you so much š
i'm not so sure if we are even doing anything special but i secretly hope he has something small planned for me š
i'm sorry about your past. we have all experienced not so nice .....encounters...but its about today and tomorrow isn't it ?
when we are open to love again, i'm sure we are a lot braver than most people who's afraid to love again.
has ur leo talked about valentines yet?
mine hasn't said a word.. LOL...
In our case, as it turns out we both have something planned. Thankfully mine wasn't doable on Wednesday (14th) and it has to happen on the Monday, 2 days earlier.. The funnier thing is I got the idea for that in a dream last week. I saw that in my dream he was a lead actor in a tv show and just oozed confidence & showmanship. It literally made my heart race like crazy in both the dream and real life lol, I woke up with it thumping like a piston.
So I booked an acting class because Jed is one theatrical mofo lol. I had the option of arranging a private acting lesson with a different provider, but when he gets going he really wants an audience so I went for the group option instead. I hired two costumes. Mine of the Terminator, his of a Resistance soldier. I actually had to tell him about Monday so that he doesn't have anything else planned for that evening. But what he doesn't know is that his family will be there to see him. I've sworn them to secrecy and threatened them with termination lol.![]()
I showed him the costumes, he put his on..........the helmet made him look like a complete tool LMFAO but I lied & said he looked sensational. Well the rest of him did, except for the head. He started calling me terminator recently because he found out about some stuff I used to get upto many years ago, during a stage in my life where my multiple Aries placements came to the fore out of necessity. I kinda was like a terminator indeed lol. Now it's stuck, hence the avatar change here.
For me, he arranged a photo session for just the two of us. He said it saddened him to find out that I don't have any photos of my family or of myself growing up. The reason for that is I simply don't want to remember either my family or my utter shit childhood they were responsible for. The oldest pic of mine I have is from 8 years ago, a few headshots I had done for a possible modelling gig.
I know what you should get yours! A little golden pendant/locket with both your photos in it. It's small and he can wear it all day.click to expand
The sexy thing can be saved for the bedroom, like a nice little number that will spice up foreplay. But the last thing they want to feel is "not really worth the effort". 2 months or 2 years makes no real difference to their ego.
Many people find that exhausting, but my Pisces sun is naturally giving and combined with my fiery Venus it's a solid match for my Lion-dominant.

Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by saweetz1988Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowOmggggg now I feel the pressure !!!! Really like... wats if heās not even planning to spend it with me. He was over earlier for his home made cheesecake but .. none of us mentioned anything at all lol... so u donāt think 2 months or 2 years make a differenceā?Posted by saweetz1988Assuming you're both in your 20s/30s, there's no such thing as a laid-back Leo sun/dominant when it comes to special occasions. They live for the attention and the effort. They want to feel special, the more extravagant/intense the better.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowAwww thank u i. Enjoy listening to ur stories. Whatās ur sun sign? Omg I donāt noe thatās intense!! Some people r telling me to get something funny n cute . Some says sexy. Some says meaningful. lol... itās only 2 months .. I donāt wanna seeem so..... u noe.. I just prefer if he shows me how much heās into this kind of thing first.. but wait so u think thereās a chance heās waiting for me to do a big surpriseā?In my experience, Leos/Leo-dominants like to be surprised. They might coyly say they don't feel like doing anything for a special occasion but that's just them giving you the opportunity to blow them away. Which is why I say "always have a plan B". If he doesn't have anything planned, then you do.
aww you are so sweet
thank you so much š
i'm not so sure if we are even doing anything special but i secretly hope he has something small planned for me š
i'm sorry about your past. we have all experienced not so nice .....encounters...but its about today and tomorrow isn't it ?
when we are open to love again, i'm sure we are a lot braver than most people who's afraid to love again.
has ur leo talked about valentines yet?
mine hasn't said a word.. LOL...
In our case, as it turns out we both have something planned. Thankfully mine wasn't doable on Wednesday (14th) and it has to happen on the Monday, 2 days earlier.. The funnier thing is I got the idea for that in a dream last week. I saw that in my dream he was a lead actor in a tv show and just oozed confidence & showmanship. It literally made my heart race like crazy in both the dream and real life lol, I woke up with it thumping like a piston.
So I booked an acting class because Jed is one theatrical mofo lol. I had the option of arranging a private acting lesson with a different provider, but when he gets going he really wants an audience so I went for the group option instead. I hired two costumes. Mine of the Terminator, his of a Resistance soldier. I actually had to tell him about Monday so that he doesn't have anything else planned for that evening. But what he doesn't know is that his family will be there to see him. I've sworn them to secrecy and threatened them with termination lol.![]()
I showed him the costumes, he put his on..........the helmet made him look like a complete tool LMFAO but I lied & said he looked sensational. Well the rest of him did, except for the head. He started calling me terminator recently because he found out about some stuff I used to get upto many years ago, during a stage in my life where my multiple Aries placements came to the fore out of necessity. I kinda was like a terminator indeed lol. Now it's stuck, hence the avatar change here.
For me, he arranged a photo session for just the two of us. He said it saddened him to find out that I don't have any photos of my family or of myself growing up. The reason for that is I simply don't want to remember either my family or my utter shit childhood they were responsible for. The oldest pic of mine I have is from 8 years ago, a few headshots I had done for a possible modelling gig.
I know what you should get yours! A little golden pendant/locket with both your photos in it. It's small and he can wear it all day.
The sexy thing can be saved for the bedroom, like a nice little number that will spice up foreplay. But the last thing they want to feel is "not really worth the effort". 2 months or 2 years makes no real difference to their ego.
Many people find that exhausting, but my Pisces sun is naturally giving and combined with my fiery Venus it's a solid match for my Lion-dominant.click to expand







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i know its short but he's the giver type...def a giver type...things. spending, etc etc
so now its valentines day coming up. we have not talked about it at all.
what should i do for him?
we are exclusive and not seeing other people.
what would a leo appreciate and feel loved?
so far ,,its me serving up a luxury meal , good massage ( leo is better in that department lol), n ofcoz sexy lingeries lol
I'm thinking of getting a small gift prepared ( not sure what yet!!!)
...and maybe a nice card...i don't wanna go over board and seem too...eager...
any ideas? Leo is very high class..esp this one i'm with...so I'm a bit lost .. ....
thank you .