Why leo needs to get in touch w/me after 2 mos—

Could someone please explain to me why a male leo, who blew me off 2mos ago, is now emailing to see how I'm doing and that he is thinking about me....we went out for 6 mos and all was good, then I broke up, then he convinced me to get back together, then he blew me off, and now this. At the time he blew me off I never once tried to contact him. What is up w/this?? I had just started to forget about him.

Sounds like he's just playing games. If you initially broke up with him and then he convinced you to get back together then proceeded to blow you off and is now contacting you again, he is probably just trying to prove a point, more to himself than anything. Sounds more like a guy thing, than a leo thing in particular. Or maybe he's just a control freak that likes the illusion that he is the one running the show.

Balsley- thanks so much for your insight- appreciate it.

No problem. Good luck. I'll bet you can do better 🙂

I have heard it takes men 8 weeks to process a loss. At first they are relieved, then uncomfortable, then the loss hits them.

I think it is more like 8 months but if a man loves a woman, he will reappear at some point.

Or maybe he had someone else on the line and when she dumped him he didn't have anywhere else to go

Yah- I too thought he probably met someone else and believe me with his antics it probably only lasted a month or two. This is a person who needs constant attention and ego stroking too. Did I mention in his email he attached 2 pics of himself!

Oh brother. How old is this guy? Sounds like he needs to grow up a little. Again, you can do better cassy.

he's 25 going on 18 :-0

Ah well, that explains some of it. My mom always said men don't really beging to mature until they're 30 and they don't become "men" until they're 40. I think she is right, at least in most cases.

How about a LEO Ex husband re-appearing after 15 years....HA!

I do believe Little Sparrow is right....when men love, they will re-appear at some point, regardless of sign.

Wow- 15 years is a lot of time. I still think though that this Leo, if he really wanted to be with me, wouldn't give up after one try of re-connecting w/me. Would you agree? Or is it too much Leo pride getting in the way?

It is not about Leo pride, it is about Leo dignity.

Leos care and love so much; We are always in love, we just wont admit it until we believe you feel the same way. Know that for the time you were with him, he loved you more than anyone ever will, and that is just an everyday thing for us Leos. We love ourselves, but we love everyone else too, even our enemies.

Un Leon is right....not pride but dignity.
Leo's need ove int heir life but the htought of rejection is overwhelming.
He will try to re-connect again...trust me....

Any Cassy...yes, 15 years , after a bitter divorce...we are now dating again. Although we now live in seperate states. It was as if we never left each other...

sorry I'm typing too fast for spellcheck to catch up!!!

Un le?n de Dios thank you for your message. And believe me, I did love him and he knew it all that time. After he and I got back together the 2nd time he called me one night and I said let's get together later, he said I'll call you back in a few hours and I never heard from him again until 2 months later via his email. So that obviuosly hurt me BIG time and I decided it wasn't worth a third time trying to get back in touch w/him. It's been very hard for me to try and forget him and move on.

We are not vengeful, so don't think he is trying to do this to hurt you. If anything, it is one of our tests. Remember, you guys not talking to each other for 2 months while still loving each other is both of your faults, because neither one of you was willing to stick their neck out for the sake of a relationship with the other. If he ever does that again, call him, show him you care and you want to see him. If someone calls me, tells me they want to see me, then doesn't call me for 2 months, it is because they were waiting for me to make the next move.

I still think about him alot. If he tried to contact me again, I would respond. I really would be suprised though if he tries to contact me again after I did not reponsd to his email last month. That's just my gut feeling.

*** it is because they were waiting for me to make the next move.

and what is wrong with that? They left it in your hands and either you make the move or you don't. If you choose not too, wouldn't the person just assume you aren't interested?

I would.

"and what is wrong with that? They left it in your hands and either you make the move or you don't. If you choose not too, wouldn't the person just assume you aren't interested?"


Exactly, thats why you need to make the next move.

Wait. All these Yous are getting me confused. lol!

Let's say I say, "Un ... I would really love to see you again. Let me know when you want to get together again."

You are saying it is up to YOU to contact me again, right?

To clarify- he called me all the time and always would make the planse to get togheter. So he called me that night. We both said let's get together later. He had some things to take care of first and said I will call you in a few hours and then never called me again- ever. I think that kind of sucked and even more so he never tried to call me the next day to say, hey something came up and I couldn't call you back last night.

Exactly, thats why you need to make the next move

lol!

Too many yous. Me you or You you?

Cassy

It almost sounds like he met someone else that night and when she dumped him, he recycled your number.

LS,

That is what I figured as well, and even noted in my earlier post here. In the end, I told myself it was time to move on.

(((Cassy)))

That sucks. 😢

She needs to make the next move, or else to him she might seem uninterested.

ahhh because she didn't respond to his email.

gotchooo

Un leo'n de Dios....what if you have had no contact from Leo and you contact Leo asking questions that you would like answered(about relationship), asking for opinions, etc. and Leo doesn't respond? Do you assume Leo is not interested or is Leo still waiting for you to make the next move?